₦airaland Forum

qtguru:
Lol I heard those LAPO guys are not to be played with, what method do they use ?

Lapo is very brutal oo, they are the kings when it comes to recovering loans. Those market women that use lapo a lot don't mess with them.

But Lapo has all your data, their people can come knocking at your house. The level of embarrassment in your compound ehn. Your guarantor sef has entered gbege.

They fit Nigerians a lot.

Good thing is they have helped a lot of market women and most times those women don't default, they even have weekly meeting sef for lapo matter, I know because they hold such meeting at my former house fellowship leaders house she is a trader they hold each other accountable to the loans collected

I like their style, they have been in the business for long they know the terrain and have adapted fully to the terrain. You do anyhow you see anyhow.

They will now be opening thread up and down on NL on how this loan app did this and that, they should pay up simple.

I don't even know who gave those people that sort of business idea.

juman:
She might have mental illness.

Now that you mentioned it, I have to think towards that direction too. It's possible.

Romanoff:
Ah. Just like that?

Where una dey see these kind women marry?

Loool them plenty, I used to believe people like these didn't exist until my experience with a lady, a sister in church for that matter. This lady ehn never met someone like her at all. When my youth president said she was the one, I said hian, this was around 2017, meanwhile she has insulted me my own back then. I was always worried for bro C.

Last year October we started going back to my branch asked him how far about marriage nau, I asked if it was still sister T, he said no oo, that he just couldn't cope that she had issues with himself, everybody, youth having problem with choir, women, usher, every damn group in a big church, even the pastor sef. Very domineering, insultive etc etc. This same character issue. I was so happy for him at least he didn't make that mistake. Mature lady oo. He also told me that but she can pray ooo but that character ehn. I was looling.

He got married to another lady this August.

she had issues with practically everybody, some people are naturally troublesome or (and) wicked its your responsibility not to fall into that trap.

First time I am hearing this one oo.

Beechamm is not a contraceptive now.

Well maybe one of its side effects is aborting early pregnancy but then there are lots of drugs, drinks, even some kinds of food are contraindicated during pregnancy does that now mean you begin to pop pills pregnant women are not supposed to take. We sha like abusing drugs

I have heared lots of strange stuff people say they use to prevent pregnancy first time I am hearing of Beechamm.

frozen70:
When their husband's provides enough money their wives will prepare different dishes every weekend

But when he ignores family responsibilities and sgy away from school fees and the rest

How do you expect her to meet up

Loool you have said it all.

Its only the husband's enjoyment of her food they are seeing not even 1 of them has acknowledged the husband's provision to enjoy such.

Shey its the one that comes to Nairaland to complain about how his wife can't manage 20k monthly for family of 5 they will grill tilapia for?

Richy4:

Do not dwell only on negatives u are not Al Jazeera The idea of gender war write ups most of you create on forums like this is not really necessary..

Nawa @ bolded

Ulunne777:
Bring her back oo.My neighbor sent her daughter away like this to her boyfriend only for the guy to give her another pregnancy barely 2 months after birth of the first pregnancy which now resulted in twins.

2 16 yr old children totally dependent on their parents.Now the boys mother sent the girl away with the babies ,say she like prick too much and after ppl begging the girl's parents,they now accepted 3 babies . .

Manage one now before the poor man will turn her to a baby factory

Nawa oo

16yearolds? Nawa.

pocohantas:
Even collecting ID is not worth the stress for me. Debt recovery is a stressful process and not what I want to do every other day given how Nigerians are predisposed to scamming.

The best is pickup yourself or use escrow.

Anyway, thankfully it is gazuz. I believe he doesn’t need anyone to find him details of the barrista. I went through that guy’s threads yesterday and they were too silly - you know those typical Romance section trolling threads. For a second I wondered why a barrista would be creating such threads. But then it is not my business and I wasn’t ready to asslick. I am still hoping this is one big joke.

You get the drift, I would never release my ID to anyone because I want to sell neither will I ask from anyone I want to buy from but that's me.

You have the ID? What next? stress upon stress the amount of time and stress involved in all these things can bore someone out.

Even that escrow sef I no dey do am again seen an escrow deal that went very bad in business section, you know they use escrow a lot there for their currency stuff transactions.


People should learn to let go of some deals simple.

I don't like anything that will stress me out abegii.

theenchanter:
what one thing, pls tell us. I detest scam and scammers with every element in me.

Simple don't pay for goods you have not personally inspected and its in your korokoro eyes like this , it should be cash and carry.

As the goods is leaving the sellers hand to buyers hand cash should should enter the sellers hand/ account. As seller You don't see alert you don't release the goods.

Reason why I don't do deals outside Lagos and then weighbill brouhaha.

Reason why I don't like deals of pay now available to pick xyz date.

I even don't fancy Pay on delivery for some type of items here , this is not jumia or konga nau.



The best is I get or pay someone to inspect for me he certifies it okay and the seller is paid, my item gets to me. I did this once on this thread.


But these are my own rules for dealing on the thread and it has worked for me from page 1 and yeah I have got so many good deals from here.

I can't spend my money and be doing chochocho on the matter again, I would rather let the item go, another will always come.

lilachiever:
Wow! You were right after all.

I apologize on behalf of those who thought you were asking for too much.

Lesson learnt.

Are you really serious with the bolded.

Too much drama here.



All these scam stories have one thing in common, just one thing once that is removed we will have less scam stories.

FreeStuffsNG:
Hahaha......Far worse pessimism was shown towards the Mowe-Magboro axis and even relegated below Sango ota but just with fixing the Lagos- Ibadan expressway, Magboro has overtaken Sango. That place will shoot as it is already ticking the boxes that pull folks towards real estate.

Lots of people having properties in recent times between okoko and Agbara are buying up houses, you hardly see land, except the one that has been fenced up for years which is scarce.

Olayetan:
Real estate can never boom in that area regardless of the road constructions there

loool, you are so wrong, do you guys even live in that axis or have people who live there.

Thanksful:
The video is a lie. The job hasn't gotten to 10% of that video

Do you live on that axis? Because I just passed by the bridge how is it a lie?

If you say construction is still ongoing, yeah, even in the video you can see that.

owagbeba:
My dear... when you get there, it’s not as beautiful as it appears. Aboki don use shit scatter the roads infront of LASU (badagary road side), across to Franklass road it’s as terrible as it gets. On the side heading the Volks is complete filth and mad agberos. The Iyana Iba market right next to the bridge is just horrid.

I wonder why the state let infrastructures go to ruin. Just look at how they have destroyed the newly built bus stops along the road to Ikeja Along.

-The fences have been pulled
-Facade of the bus stop have been taken off
-Roofing sheets stolen

What’s left is just the carcass of the structure.

It's Nigerians that damage the infrastructure not the govt. What else should the state do, pay security 24/7 to prevent people from stealing roofing sheet?

You are right about all you said about aboki shit in Lasu and all, but Nigerians only understand force, if maximum force is applied it is still fellow Nigerians that will cry fowl. Look at the vehicle impounding matter for example. We are simply lawless when in Nigeria.

Anyway I still believe once they finish the construction they will chase all those aboki at the median, it's an eyesore.

Oyingbo and Ladipo market was shut very recently by lawma, by the time Lawma closes that iyanaiba market it is we the citizens that will still cry fowl.

Loool, I had to go read this topic again to see if it was talking about flogging or spanking, then in toddlers not older children.

Because the way some people are talking about this one would think the OP didn't specify the age range she meant.

fxexperts:
You can't instruct 3year old on what to do. i doubt if you have a child yet, because I do. and I know everything about their behavior going forward . I have a lot of decorations in my house, broke able ceramic artifacts in my living room. when I got married newly every guest and family who visited when my wife was pregnant admired our decorations and they all made similar comment that when our baby start crawling at least we should pack up all the decorations and hide them all away that they will definitely break every single one of them. i believed but trust me my first child is over 6 now and not a single of those decoration was destroyed by any of them, how did we do it. by correction a little spanking each time they try to reach out to destroy anything, we didn't move any of those decorations and they learned from it. Yes i flog my 3 year old child but lightly and with love. I and my wife have an agreement never ever to flog any of them when we are just angry and emotional and we should always let them know the reason for the flogging i.e what they did wrong. Flogging is important for every child. but not heavy flogging. Or are you talking about my second child who if i spank her one she who give you two in return, or my first when he was about 2 years old and you give that angry first he will be the first rush you and start hitting you shouting and crying loud at the same time, i guess you will not correct those behaviors. as for me i corrected them and now no child of mine will dare act stubborn when i try to correct you.

@ bolded really

Anyway your opinion on this issue is duly noted.

What I don't understand is why you made it a tribal thing, let's hope it doesn't get to FP, the ethnic warriors will so derail your thread ehn.


As for the topic, I don't support flogging under 3 year olds, correcting yeah,discipline when they misbehave yeah but not flogging with cane or any other thing.

Thats the time you instruct, do this, don't don't don't do that.

Kobojunkiee:
Paul opinion expressed in 1 Corinthians 11 vs 13 - 16 is just that, man's doctrine, a lie, since it contradicts Jesus Christ who instead said that those who are His followers are EQUALS - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10, meaning there is no such thing as a husband being head of his wife or vice versa. The only Head, and authority, in the Kingdom of God, is Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone.

Now, by instituting even more laws on top of this which is already conflicting doctrine, to begin with, this man succeeded in further shackling his followers by causing them to believe that modest dressing, another idea of men, includes coverage of the head for women. So, what do you think? Can you not see how this problem is of church doctrine and not of God, to begin with?

Your opinion is duly noted.

Kobojunkiee:
When a church's doctrinal image of a woman who is modestly dressed indicates her wearing a head cover, and she is expected to dress modestly every time, what do you think that means?

The ushers are simply enforcing what has always been church doctrine. Make we stop to dey produce these lies abeg!

So you are saying deeper life has said in the past that members are to tie scarf always? Like every time, I am not even talking about going to church here. I have members as friends and they are not on hairscarf everytime.

Yes it is biblical to cover your hair in church, nothing wrong if the ushers try to enforce. If they say it should not be enforced on new members we'll that's the directive they received from their pastor.

But It is biblical to cover your hair to church, except you have another opinion on that.

I don't get what the hullabo on this thread is about, did he say sisters should stop covering their head to church?

It is scriptural to cover your hair when praying, also when going to church.

If anybody decides to tie scarf 24 hours a day, that's their own personal issue not necessarily a church doctrine, there's nothing even wrong with it biblically.
There are women who don't open their hair outside they are not Muslims neither are they deeper life members.

And if you decide not to cover your hair when praying or going to church that's your own palava.

Sensational heading as usual.

16 years old lemme nor tok before they say I am old school.

ibechris:
Your mother is increasing the number of irresponsible children in Nigeria.

That phone is about #839,500 in the world market.

She should pray she does not amount to bigger problem that can't be tamed when she grows up.

Chai lots of parents have failed, which work is she doing?

Me I don't see anything wrong in flogging 16 yrs old oo if she needs brain resetting, but her problem has started from way back, it can't be corrected now.

ALABACONNECT:
Screen is gone

Thank you.

I hope your pastor is matured enough to handle that info, if not even if your wife leaves you are still in for a very long ride, your children sef will hear the story.

Church gossip is not it at all.

Abeg my people the picture below - is it the screen that is spoilt abi what. No visible crack on the screen

Cartoon was in progress and a strong small ball was thrown by my toddler just this evening.

Chai. TV don cost o.

The color also changes from red to others.

Please what is the problem can it be fixed, or is it screen that spoilt, so we should prepare to get another.

sisisioge:
Like what could have been in this guy's mind bikoEspecially with the past few days events...hian!

What is always on an average lagosians mind which is - Nothing will happen jare

Some way people confidently drive vehicles without drivers license and vehicle papers, no fear at all.

This guy's case is special, he dared to drive one way on 3rd mainland, no fear for his life at all.

Do people take one way on 3rd mainland

Some people just like risking lives unnecessarily.

3rd mainland? Nawa oo

It's that unilag own that pains me pass, there is no way in the world a visitor to Lagos wouldn't drive down to unilag gate from that junction.

Dopemu bridge from 3pm error, those yeye people are waiting by the end.

Yaba, surulere, Island, if you don't know road you are on your own oo

Cloud007:
do you know the reasons developed nations are cordinated? Their are consequences for every law you break. I want to believe they could be worse than Nigerians without consequences. But we need to start from somewhere. You will see that people that drives one-way and potential hit and run scenerios will drastically reduce.

Nigerians never want consequences.



Everything is just sentiments, Nawa.

Whatever you do don't join yahoo.

The teacher was wrong to say such, if you feel the child is not dressed to standard, you address the parents let them know she won't be allowed in next time and the next time the child comes with that send her back from the gate simple.

Teachers are fond of doing this, they take out their aggression on the child, they are to face the parent not the child

Its even the HM that did this a supposed educator.


And for the issue of wearing body hug under uniform to prevent cold instead of buying school sweater, that is not supposed to be an issue, the body hug is under the uniform as long as it is not showing its not supposed to be a problem, once it shows a rule is broken and you act accordingly.
What if they can't afford to buy school sweater, what if they struggled to pay fees and they improvised by having her wear a thicker inner wear to prevent cold is that supposed to be a problem? of course it shouldn't be. As long as she doesn't wear it on the uniform no ish.