₦airaland Forum

Flipmac:
I'm also considering Ijaniki and Agbara. But I don't know much about those areas and I'm based in Port-harcourt.

Onyipk:
The problem is that we all never really learn. Please let us learn to be quiet about our success story until it becomes a full blown testimony which you cannot hide.
From the bible, we see Joseph the 11th son of Jacob dreamt and told his brothers. They all understood the dream and thus took actuon to thwart the dreams. But Joseph was lucky because his destiny was meant to surely rule over Egypt.
Not everyone is as lucky as Joseph! Your success stories are your dreams please keep it secret at least let you stories mature because this world we live in is cruel, wicked and dark.

Please be guided

joyd200:
Not only friend, [b]competitive and evil siblings and family members are worse and more dangerous. [/b]Unfortunately, we don't really know, even when people and sometimes dreams try to given us pointers, until we fall victims. Three things can happen afterward:

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OVB123:
This is one reason, i hate lagos. How can herders killed somebody and the community youths, couldn't come out to retaliate? This is not good for the centre of exellence.

Acidosis:
Sinach released one of her best songs ever after her wedding. She also had her largest stage performance (at Joel Osteen's church) while still married.

With or without marriage, Simi's name won't be everywhere forever. People's tastes and expectations in music change overtime. It appears she's losing it but she's not. You all have only just decided to move on to new trends and artistes like Tems and Ayra Starr. When was the last time you listened to a Yemi Alade's song? Shey na single-hood affect that one too?

Competition is the issue not Adekunle Gold. The same competitive forces working against a married Simi is also affecting the single ones like Teni, Yemi Alade, Niniola, and Tiwa.

Meanwhile, Mercy Chinwo is like the only gospel artiste in Nigeria that is still single. 99.9% are married and thriving. Most of the artistes under her label (EeZee concepts) are all married, from Minister GUC to Judikay, Chris Morgan, etc..

Gerrard59:
The standard of living differs. You cannot compare a family in Lekki to that living in Creek Town. The Roman lady on the first page was correct. His standard of living has to be assessed (remember he does not want his children to suffer), then the income level and consumption rate of everyone in the house. So, because some families can sustain themselves on 130K monthly does not mean all families can, and should. Also, the cost of living in his location also matters.

This is simple economics for crying loud!

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NOETHNICITY: The best bet is to create a budget factoring in the inflation rate in Nigeria. Plan ahead and prepare for emergency expenditures. Another alternative which I like is to increase and/or diversify your income rather than cutting costs. However, know that expenses generally rise as incomes do. At this point, you have to be contented and spend below your means so as to break-even.

Ultimately, to prevent another massive expense, undergo a vasectomy so that a child or children does not appear from anywhere.

redseason:
Nothing can ever rationalize the woman’s actions. Firsts, your husband has no steady job(cab is subject to breakdown and accidents with no savings), if you go cooking cow leg and isiewu from 60k, you have failed at home economics He said “I PAY ALL THE BILLS”. All the bills range from rent, sch fees, electricity, transportation, medical, etc. Most of these bills don’t fall on a monthly category, but when you factor it on a monthly basis, he is spending well over 100k on his family. The NL billionaires claiming its small should tell us how much minimum wage is(30k)? How many of them even take home 100k? How are the civil servants coping when even most state governments are paying percentage salary? Abi no be same Nigeria that NDIC gave a stat that 99.4% of bank accounts hold below 500k? Yet everyone is a billionaire online. He is not even asking for a contribution, but against making extra demands when you contribute nothing from your en d. 60k(food only) monthly for 2 adults, 2 kids is definitely not luxury in this economy, but is very much more than enough!

thorpido:
You had better leave your parents with their Union bank accounts.

NOETHNICITY:
Thank you bro. My very line of thinking actually.
However, I intend to inform her later today that beggining next month, I'll personally be buying everything we are going to be needing at home. I'll only ask her to prepare a weekly shopping list for me.

YeyeBoyfriend:
Before them rope me join, una bye o

seborrhic:
Inasmuch as the police have done a marvelous job arresting the corrupt police officers,I find the lady's story to be emblemished to possibly justify why she patted with ₦320k.
That Nigerian policemen,as corrupt as they are,would intimidate and extort a Nigerian LADY with a mere accusation of possession of weed,I find extremely difficult to believe and don't believe.
Nigerian policemen are quite circumspect of even extorting ladies with proven,serious criminal acts,talkless of mere accusation of weed.
Even a man found in possession of weed,not even mere accusation or planted,would hardly part with that huge sum
There is more to this story the lady is not saying,I can bet anything.

temi4fash:
Boss,

See me o..

Thank God i have been vindicated....

ImOptional:
I understand the pain and trauma, am just sorry, I have no other words to use, I needed to get to my destination before I could say anything here, that’s why it took this long, I am out of words to apologize, please And please, people should please try to understand and not curse me even though I know I deserve it, I’m very very sorry to everyone

SimpleGuy001:
Forget family sir, they won’t be able to do much. I know what i know what I’m saying. She only has me and my sisters.

For now, I don’t know if I can report to any domestic violence agency as this is the north I’m talking about.

As for him, I won’t go into a face off with him. No strength for that, he is too dangerous. But if care is not taken, I will so isolate him. I know his weakness, I just feel helpless cause he is my father but he needs to be tamed and I will do just that.

For now, let me get her well.

Klass99:
I don't mean to laugh, but this part of your narrative made me laugh. You need to change strategy, the whole scenario & love making session you described is enough to exhaust any sane person. I felt exhausted just reading

I don't know any woman who likes being taken for as long as you described, there's the risk of becoming dry and bruised the longer a session takes

Richy4:

I honestly understand you.. OP said that they had a family planning done..yet, she still got pregnant .. that was why I am kind of feeling bad.. The kid wants to come, so he/ she should be given a chance to survive...

I am even feeling uncomfortable talking about if a life should be spared or be eradicated...
Body dey do me one kind now.. I guess I wouldn't say anything on this thread again because it's way out of my comfort zone

Richy4:
Yes everyone beats thousands of spermatozoa but many were not blocked from swimming..

If you think everyone is a miracle, then this type is an extra ordinary because there are hindrances..

It's just my opinion though.. not scientifically proven though..

abfelicity91:
I know it would lead to this.
because the husband was present, she had to reject the request which I believe the opposite would have happened if the husband wasn't there.
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And Burna Boy on the other hand be like, the whole me na him woman the reject, she know who I be??
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The useless ego of his don cause wahala.. Justice should be done