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Since he has a small job he should at least do something, even if it's buying pure water for the house.

I understand your Concerns sir.

For ikoyi that akara is big Na and thick I didn't even expect to see 50 naira akara.

Even in some interior parts of Lagos, akara is now 50 naira per piece you hardly see 20 naira own.

Vegetable oil is now expensive

3 liters laziz vegetable oil is about 4500-4700.

There's this fulfillment in seeing the animals you trained grow and then give birth.

Dannyyoung26:
Thanks to you all, the car is found ooo.
And for who posted it... God bless you because the owner is actually my Boss at work.

Gist us naa

Happy for you and your oga.

AmALeo we are waiting ooo

This was the topic we were discussing at home this morning, watched the video on IG.

I can't imagine the height of wickedness, locking a baby into a box, the child would have been suffocating Na. The mother of the boy would have practically run mad looking for her child.

Lucky child,

One thing now is this is not the time to mind your business anymore, if anything looks strange, sounds strange, if you just feel something is not right, someone walking illegally on your steet raise an alarm.

Thank God those on the street were observant enough to hear the cries from the box and they acted on their instincts.

Happy for the parents and child, I just like the way they were whozing him slaps which explanation does he even have sef.

But it was a women's day program, so it made sense for the ladies to dress that way and the guys wear their uniform.

Or is there something else I am missing.

If your parents insist it should be done in their church kindly oblige them.

My church will tell you during marriage counseling if your parents insist do the solemnization there, several cases of couples having their marriage counseling in my church and then travel down to the parents church for solemnization in the parents church e. G Baptist, Anglican etc, lots of our parents attend the orthodox churches.

These things are not that hard.

1a2bb:
@shantti @chatinent @Enskynelson @Equal2DeTask @lifenajeje


Pls they're trying to capture me, after which I will have to go pay for the card for me to see the doctor. I thought they were supposed to give me the Prep drugs straight up or would that be after seeing the doctor?

PS: The way people are looking at us here eh, chai, Nigerians and their hypocritical attitude.

The bolded sounds like the normal process, they can't just give you drugs straight. You must see the doctor first which you need a card to do.

Angelfrost:
Sigh.... I am just happy the innocent kids survived.

Men who philander never learn the rules of the jungle... You don't just toy with people's emotions and lives, then feel you are far above repercussions.

Even the age long adage states that "Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned"!

Some women Never forgive.

Truvelisback:
Answer my question then i shall answer urs.

I have modified, answer the questions.

Truvelisback:
It doesn't mean. I wanna ask, if u were broke and dying of hunger, and u have asked for help from friends, family members, and the people u know, and none of them could help u but ur ex who is already married decided to help u with 20k, would u reject it?

If your wife gave her ex 20k for feeding like in this situation no other strings attachedand you got to know about it what would be running through your mind?

If your wife collected 20k from her ex like this situation no strings attached what would also be running through your mind

Would you be okay with both scenerios?



For me I believe anyone can help any body at any point in time but some guys on this thread are hypocritical with their responses, they wouldn't even accept such help neither would they allow their wives render such help.

teezzybee:
Notice!!!

This one is addressed to the ladies.

If a full grown man that have had sex countless number of times can still go to this extent for sex, how much more a young inexperience young man that has been turned down time and time again for the same stale reasons: he is shy, he is not confident, he is not romantic, he is broke. By doing this, you're unconsiously breeding a potential woman hater which might not be a very good thing for your kind Atleast ones in a while, show mercy to that awkward guy, that left out poor soul, even if not by sex or relationship at least, simple aknowledgement of his effort intead of being downright dismissive or rude. Remember, it's not easy and nature cannot be cheated, yet someone must have to answer.


This is my 2 cent for guys in this category. I've been there and I feel your pain. My advise to you is that there are other things in life worth more than what a woman give and a woman never gives something for nothing. Know that and know peace. The beautify of a man lies not in his pocket, but in his strenght of character. Money is secondary, though women don't think so.

The fuhrer speaks.

What in the world are you saying

So a lady cannot turn a man down in peace again.

nonxo007:
But come to think of it, she had evidence to attest to the fact that she was raped by this man in a BRT bus if she had made public these claims with evidence it would have gotten him arrested and the lady who lost her life might still be alive today. I'm just saying

Most of the people saying she should have presented evidence then would be the same people that would have doubted her story, they would have even called her a prostitute and that the 3k was payment for olosho services.

They would even say it was consensual.

It's like you don't know how much people make excuses for rapist in Naija, even on NL.

If they want to get the truth they can, if they check his account statement and list all the random 2k, 3k sent to women, they trace the women up and ask them questions but police will not do that.

Oluwa ooo

It has to be a skit, this can't be real

What??

Have things turned this bad?
This is terrible.

The one that said she would graduate with a PhD from 100 level kuku off me.

One can't deny she's a beautiful lady.

It's as if lots of Nairalanders don't know these competitions take place in prison, this particular one is making news because chidinma won shikena.


I have visited a prison once during NYSC. It's a mini community on its own.

The MD of the Randle General hospital has said he came to steal, he passed in through the window to the nurses station to pick phones and the like, he wore a nurse uniform to disguise him self as he was trying to sneak out as a nurse but unfortunately for him no male nurse was on duty in that ward that day, they caught him.

Either way good thing he was caught, if he got away with this next time he might try to steal a baby because it happed at a Maternal and child center.

I don't even know what he was thinking, didn't he know all the nurses know each other, even the security knows the nurses, did he think a strange face in nurse uniform will just walk away like that.

Phew what a thread

The man would feel the same way if she collected money from her ex to feed the house.

Karleb:
Are you minding some confused people here.

I'm all for loving and caring for kids but I'm also a firm believer of proper value and respect.

Even oyinbo kids from proper homes dare not say that to their parents, especially the father.
They know them go chop beating!

If I'm angry at my kids, do you expect me to whisper?

Dem scold 7 year pikin, he dey form mood. Con tell the mama say she dey shout for am. E fit follow the papa abi teacher for school yarn that nonsense?

Not at all @ bolded.

Parenting is a big job these days and children are more outspoken than during our own time, he definitely won't tell his teacher not to shout at him, you need to correct that he is 7 years old not 3 or 4.

As a parent you instruct, correct, scold and you need to know the right time to do either of the three depending on their age.

It's very important you let him know he should never be influenced by what others have, what you have is what you have, this particular one should have been in his memory before now.

One should pray never to have anything to do with the Nigerian police oo.

They should let him say what he is saying and not preempt anything na.

Shuu collect his statement shikena.

Na wa ooo.

Besides this heading is wrong.

This is bad, the white teen was even on top of the black when they got there and they were pinning the boy on the floor in cuffs.

Besides they are just teenagers fighting, all they should have done is separate them.

It's very upsetting

Like the mother said if he was not treated differently because of his color then what other reason could it be.

I didn't see any reason to be that aggressive.

Acidosis:
Raise alarm at gun point? Some of you ehn!

Loool some people mata just dey taya me.

If this guy is saying the truth then all what will be on his mind at that point is survival.

Persin point gun on your head you want to shout, what if he pulls the trigger.

Okonandmary:
Well the mob will crucify him like always.

Any nigerian in a hostage situation will care about his or her life first before others.

This bolded just the point.

An average Nigerian will run and not report to the police or Lagos bus services because the police will compound the issue.

I listened to all the voice notes and the only major thing the lady said that might incriminate the driver was that he put off the lights that's all, her instinct that something bad will happen was right.

She even mentioned when the three people came in to her friend, it was after they came in things went bad.

For now the driver may or may not have a hand in this.

He might not even be lying.

I hope he's saying the truth but even if he is, the mob will still crucify him.

If this is the truth then the mistake he made was he should have at least told the management.

Lovely couple, the guy has plenty swag.
The lady just doesn't like dancing, smiling here and there, the most portant thing is they seem to understand each other and that's the most important part.

Na wa oo. I listened to all the VN she sent to her friend, she just knew something was wrong, her instinct was right.

May she RIP oo.

Good they caught the driver.

Acidosis:
There's nothing to blame about the system/economy. Motherhood is not for everyone.

Loool expantiate further,you blame the mother for working? You blame the father for not providing enough to let the woman not work for at least 6 months? since you don't blame the system for not providing at least 6 months paid mat leave.
Who do you blame? I really want to know.

Hope you do know no mother would want to drop her 3month old baby anywhere if they could help it.

I hope people do know what to look out for in a creche they want to put their babies, not everywhere called creche is creche, some do hideous things to baby.


This baby may have died from SIDS

Only God can console the mother.

Acidosis:
Imagine. It's only a matter of time women will begin to enrol their fetuses and baby bump in school. What kind of work will make you dump a 3 month old baby in school? If your career did not stop you from having sex, then your career should give room for you to take care of your child.

You are supposed to know better and it's not school technically, it's meant to be a baby care center.

Blame the system/economy and possibly the creche, not necessarily the mother.

showafrica:
No, assuming what the guy wanted was just children without responsibility... Lol. I think the lazy men dont like the burden that comes with it hence they want a working class woman who will give birth and still take care of the child and family. I blame the women for marrying such gold diggers. Like someone said, any work that won't give you 6 months maternity leave is slavery.

Yeah right the first bolded are plenty on NL.

Point is its only Govt work that gives 6 months fully paid mat leave, at least to the best of my knowledge. I know a bank that gives 5 monthsfully paid.

Most organizations give 3 months max, this is where majority fall under hence the problem. Some even give lesser and some with no pay if you exceed 6 weeks, people are suffering in this country sha.

Hypocrites on NL.

They are blaming the woman for dropping a baby at the creche when everybody knows majority of companies don't give more than 3 months leave.

The same set of people will be asking what she brings to the table. ' I cannot marry a liability', I cannot marry a woman not working '' we have to share bills' yenyenyen

Make enough money then your wife can take care of the child for at least 6 months or put the baby in a very good daycare with more qualified care givers.

twinskenny:
Anyone has idea where I can get this chair in bulk?

Thanks

Olojo drive Alaba international.