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Family › Re: Please Help! A New Tenant Has Just Kidnapped 3 Children by NoToPile: 3:27am On Feb 19, 2022
Na wa ooo, this country is turning to something else. It is well ooo, which kain wahala is this one now.

Landlord sef has entered gbege Na wa.
Celebrities › Re: Rosy Meurer Prays For Tonto Dikeh's Son, Andre On His Birthday by NoToPile: 1:11pm On Feb 18, 2022
salt1:
Lip service! Not a Tonto fan, but she should just leave the mother and son alone. Must she pray for him in public before God will answer?
It's eye service, she sef will collect, it's just a matter of time.
Food › Re: How To Prepare Chicken Currry Sauce (Ingredient, Pictures) by NoToPile: 10:39am On Feb 18, 2022
pocohantas:
Hahahaha. They will learn to eat it when they see it. It doesn’t last long in the freezer at all.

So they expect you to be cooking ewa agoyin every other day? Na you find trouble o. I will do just that. cheesy grin
I have not cooked beans asepo in 2 years and the agoin stew can so chop palm oil angry
na me find trouble. I am not even a beans person it's the men in the house that can't do without beans.

Me I kuku cook the agoin stew in bulk and put in the freezer but then my palm oil reduces significantly from the keg anytime I do that.
Food › Re: How To Prepare Chicken Currry Sauce (Ingredient, Pictures) by NoToPile: 10:28am On Feb 18, 2022
pocohantas:
Ermmm. I really can’t remember, but I am sure it isn’t more than N1200 each. You can use the soy sauce for your pasta and noodles too. Preferably when you stir-fry. There is also oyster sauce and chilli sauce, all good for pasta.
Thanks will try this, my only fear is if my family eat this one now as everybody is saying it delicious they might protest against normal stew and rice, this one it doesn't last long in fridge.
Since the day I tried ewa agaoin, they all decided not to eat normal asepo beans again sad

Please post more recipes on other sauces, Thank you.
Celebrities › Re: Olakunle Churchill Celebrates His Son, Andre On His 6th Birthday by NoToPile: 7:06am On Feb 18, 2022
Happy birthday to the boy, Tonto may have her own craze but at least she was right with the rosy meurer accusation, everybody go sha collect laslas.
Family › Re: My Husband Refuses To Take Me Out by NoToPile: 6:48am On Feb 18, 2022
naija4life247:
.my current Financial Controller is an Ijebu man and a chartered accountant. Even the owner of the company is not allowed to spend his own money. Everybody don tire for the man. Even to eat, the man no dey eat.
Abeg don't yab we Ijebu people angry grin

It's just being prudent at least he's managing the company's finances well, he's now a charted accountant again, powerful combo.

My own collegue has said the only problem she has with me is money issue and this is because I don't spend my money anyhow,
I don't borrow, I don't do pass my self and the only problem me I have with her is money issue because she feels so entitled to other people's money and she can so buy things beyond her salary ehn, someone I senior in rank, would be buying things I would have to think well to buy, you now go broke easily, then I become the bad person when I refuse to spend my own anyhow. I don't even mind the Iya Ijebu talk anymore Na you Sabi.
Family › Re: My Husband Refuses To Take Me Out by NoToPile: 6:39am On Feb 18, 2022
As I was reading my advice was just leave him jare, take yourself out, some are u romantic like that.that you don't have problem

But you see that last part of counting meat and dishing food part - you have bigger problems at hand madam, I know their type, not a good thing at all ooo. This is the real problem not even the taking out part.
Health › Re: Amuwo Odofin LGA Reportedly Replace Medical Staff At PHC With Private Companies by NoToPile:
PeachtreeReside:
Then they should have made it known to all that it is a PP program.
Not necessarily, I don't think it's all the units in the hospital, it's very common with pharmacies only.

And it's not a new thing if you check well it's written at the entrance of the door to that particular place 'private pharmacy' I used to wonder what it means as I saw it once in the Gen hospital we used, then theres the general ones too govt people are the staff there. ( these ones always have drugs) the queue is always too much and there's also non fee paying pharmacy (these ones hardly have all the drugs)

Just stating my experience from the general hospital I had my babies, we end up buying all our prescription drugs drips and all from outside because of queues as big competent pharmacies are also always around general hospitals and its generally the same pricing so for me it's not a big deal.

Most of the reasons why this happens is always to cut corruption, even billing and payment in these hospitals and everything is computerized now, I am even suspecting itl might be a private coynow handling it.

Just don't understand the chasing some people out part.
Health › Re: Amuwo Odofin LGA Reportedly Replace Medical Staff At PHC With Private Companies by NoToPile: 6:15am On Feb 18, 2022
I know some general hospitals have private pharmacies, some have fee paying pharmacy and there used to be a non fee paying pharmacy for some age group back then.

Maybe it's some sort of public private partnership with a private pharmacy so there can always be endless supply of drugs. They manage their pharmacy them selves, maybe they now pay rent/premium to govt I don't know.

What I don't get is the chasing away of the govt staffs from the new BUILDING that seems wrong. The govt staffs should also offices in the new building.
Food › Re: How To Prepare Chicken Currry Sauce (Ingredient, Pictures) by NoToPile: 6:06am On Feb 18, 2022
Pocohantas how much did you the get the dark and light soy sauce? Been wanting to try this chicken curry stuff an alternative e for white rice

Looks nice.
Family › Re: Strange But True by NoToPile: 3:51pm On Feb 17, 2022
Typical, family members are the ones who betray the most
Romance › Re: Married Man Exposed On Instagram Live After Trying To Ask A Lady Out (video) by NoToPile: 1:50pm On Feb 17, 2022
Lool at Jide aye e o ni da ofo lo ma shey. Me sef shock shocked

The woman just switch to curses straight
Education › Re: Has Anyone Ever Left The University A Virgin? by NoToPile: 9:08am On Feb 17, 2022
Sexsex and sex that's all.

People have done first degree, MSc, did job hunting and still got married as virgin some years later so what's the big deal.
Family › Re: 15-Year-Old Tore Her Aunt's Level 16 Promotion Letter Because She Was Scolded by NoToPile: 7:42pm On Feb 16, 2022
15 years coming back by 11pm

From where if I may ask?

Them never born some of us that time to try the rubbish some children are trying nowadays.
Family › Re: OverEducated Women Make Bad Wives by NoToPile: 9:42pm On Feb 15, 2022
revolt:
Well we can't argue with statistics. The probability of being a terrible wife increases significantly as she acquires more degrees. Statistically proven.
Chai, the statements I read on NL sha.

Nawa.

The issue is not complicated at all, if you believe over educated women make bad wives, stay away from the overeducated. Shikena.
Crime › Re: Abba Kyari For Extradition To U.S After NDLEA Probe by NoToPile: 8:31am On Feb 15, 2022
donbachi:
Many instagram accounts no dey active again since yesterday.the ones wey still dey active done delete many videos and pics.
I dunno why this comment got me rolling with laughter.
Events › Re: My Experience At A Church Member Mom's Burial Ceremony by NoToPile: 9:57pm On Feb 12, 2022
Loool

I remember my dad's burial, my step siblings ask where I want my canopy to be, me wey be say I know people that will show up for me and mumsie no go reach 10 what's my own.

Anyway na them kuku pay for the whole party shishi they didn't ask from myself and hubby as they are far older than me and my husband and I just had a baby they didn't want to be sharing expense with us.

They kept on saying we don't want to stress you you guys just had a baby they took care of everydamn thing. Ope oooo and our own was just to sew ashoebi and transport ourself to the hometown and get a guesthouse to stay cheesy (expenses reduced by 90percent) . As they ask me I said that corner and they set up canopy for us there.

Father inlaw and a friend came, sister inlaw came, 2 church members traveled with us from Lagos and about four of our relatives from mum's side from our hometown in which the burial took place, my self and hubby didn't invite anyone specially mumsie cooked very small food just incase last last general food was still surplus lastlast.

Some people were looking that my canopy was scanty, we no send oo, no be by no of people, it the quality of what is happening the few people around 10 that came had a blast and 10 people don set table naah.

Next thing my step sis came and said notopile you will soon go on stage to dance oo, typical yoruba party settings, I say dance ke noo, they said all the children must dance on stage individually arrh I am not the dancing type and I no get plenty people even dance with me or spray me money oo, na my hubsband and step siblings still dance with me and spray money last last. grin

So the OP could have made the most of it, instead of being sad that people didn't come to his canopy.

I personally enjoy events I host when there are fewer people and I didnt stress my self because we had very few people in our canopy.

You really don't need to be intimidated when there are other canopies with more people,
Travel › Re: Does It Make Sense To Remain In Nigeria by NoToPile: 9:28pm On Feb 11, 2022
Whatever you do, do not borrow money to travel and definitely not that huge amount.
Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 3:15pm On Feb 11, 2022
Kenturkey048:
Make we sha rest...
wink
Family › Re: My Little Sister Is Misbehaving by NoToPile: 1:51pm On Feb 11, 2022
That girl needs some brain resetting before wahlaha set in.

Before you know now she will start sleeping with him abeg oo.
Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 1:43pm On Feb 11, 2022
Kenturkey048:
My concern is the people liking what you wrote...It's funny how women think they know more about men than men themselves.

Well. You people can keep giving yourselves whatever orientations you want... #Peace.

Imagine me arguing about women with a woman..that's funny...
If you had said you would be loyal to a submissive woman, I wouldn't even have quoted you because that is you and there are still some sensible guys out there, but saying that about men in general is fallacy, even your fellow gender know its not true.

Like I said I am never against submission

BUT

Nothing can keep a man that doesn't want to be kept, not even submission, you might not know this but Men know this.
Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 10:26am On Feb 11, 2022
pocohantas:
Well said. A woman who enjoyed her husband in his youth would find it very had to stay away from him when they are old. Rather we have elderly women that move from one son’s house to the other. Dragging love with the wife cheesy

I know a man that is currently sick, my mum was just gisting me of him. She said his wife went to keep him at his family house. That shey when he was young and agile, they said she won’t have peace or enjoy her marriage. They encouraged their brother to do anyhow because she no born boy. Now another woman gave birth to a boy for him, dumped the boy with them and eloped. So they should take care of their brother, change his diapers or better still, call the other woman to help. My mum mouth open. She was like “some women get mind o”. I asked her, the man sef no get mind? Abi na because e dey sick now, come humble?
Lol
@ 1st bolded honestly its a cycle.

@2nd bolded some women have been hurt so bad that they don't even care any more, in this case let the favorite of the family that 'born boy' take care of him nah.
Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 10:09am On Feb 11, 2022
pocohantas:
As in, no effort to be better or call themselves to order. They just thrive in the fact that the woman would always get blamed when things go south. Why someone would be comfortable inflicting emotional and maybe physical pain on the woman that keeps his home and fixes his meals, all because he knows she is stuck, is something very close to wizardry.

By the time they are old, they will start playing victim. Naija women sha get their own for body too. They know when to strike back.
Only few men would tell themselves the truth, some have said the truth on this thread.

@bolded is one of the reasons why sometimes I don't empathize when I hear some stories, some women hardly forgive, they will keep quiet because they know the odds will always be against them and strike later on, some will even bear till all the children get married they will prefer the husband taking care of the children financial responsibility while they live in sadness with the consolation that it's only for a while ( that while can be 25 years),once the children are okay they move on physically, meanwhile they had moved on emotionally 20years back.

Some will even still be with the man and move from one childs house to the other zero form of association with the man.

Whether this vengeance is right or wrong I honestly cant say.

Lots of boys on NL don't realize that 90percent of the time the way your wife would treat you when you are old is a reflection of the way you treated her when you were both younger.
Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 6:12am On Feb 11, 2022
Well seems the consensus here is its very normal for the guy to walk out of his home without any explanations and the woman should suck it all in and even beg him for it.

It's good everyone is reminded that the odds are not always in the favor of the woman in our society, if you misbehave you get blamed, if your husband misbehaves you also get blamed.

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Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 6:03am On Feb 11, 2022
placeofallure:
@ OP Amazingbaby, Your home can still be salvaged. Don't be hard on yourself, it's good you're looking after yourself now, take care of your kids too. Give them a good life, after all widows excelled at raising kids alone. Pretend he's dead so you can focus. He'd be back. They come back, only they may never return as complete as they left. God be with you.
Exactly.
Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 5:56am On Feb 11, 2022
Kenturkey048:
You don label the man all these from one side story...

What if she is refusing him sex?
Men are always loyal to submissive wives...Wait to hear from the man's side before you judge...
You really must be joking @ bolded. If you like be submissive from here till the end, if he's not going to be loyal, he won't be loyal shikena.

Nothing can ever make a man loyal except he decides to be loyal. Loyalty and faithfulness on the side of men are always personal decisions, irrespective of the submissive status of their wives.

I am not against submission but it's good to know that a man's loyalty doesn't depend on your submission.

Know this and have peace
Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 10:01pm On Feb 10, 2022
Op I would advise you just ignore him, don't even ask him any explanations, don't say anything about the divorce threat, just ignore his tactics, he knows you have gotten him in a corner and he's trying to use divorce to blackmail you. we all know there's a 95percent chance he's sleeping with the church minister and he knows you know, he might still come back to his senses with time,, he will definitely get served, as for the church minister that is trying to work for free for a married man, she too will collect.

Just put all of them on ignore mode and continue your self development, if he likes he comes back home if he likes he doesn't and you should never have called that girl, you don't dignify such people. angry

Work for free indeed.
Family › Re: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by NoToPile: 9:50pm On Feb 10, 2022
mercy87:
What a nigerian man means by peace is a woman that will take his evils, misbehaviour, rubbish and nonsense calmly without a word. Once you ask questions, or demand for accountability then you dont give him peace.
grin grin grin
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Commissions Oluremi Tinubu Primary Health Centre (Pictures) by NoToPile: 9:33am On Feb 10, 2022
NGpatriot:
Many thanks to this young man, the Executive Chairman: Oluwaseyi Valentine Buraimoh...

Young people can enter government and politics and do good for their people and constituencies..

With a dedicated and productive young man like this chairman, the future is really very bright in Lagos..
Yeah, the guy has prospects.
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Adetiba Announces Engagement To Oscar Heman-Ackah by NoToPile: 9:28am On Feb 10, 2022
Congrats to her, I have always admired this lady right from her MNet studio 53 days with her low-cut back then, great presenter.


Romance section boys calling the oscar guy low quality, una quality reach am?
Family › Re: Am I Right Or Wrong by NoToPile: 9:48am On Feb 09, 2022
Vyvyanvyvy:
Thank you for the advice. I know the story because he called me after a year in abroad , he told me doesn't have any money to bring us with him and I should move on because he had move on too.
I remember your other thread ma'am about your elder boy, I still salute your tenacity.

Now to this since he now wants to see the kids, you have nothing to lose by seeing him, hear what he has to say, let him know what taking care of his kids alone has cost you.

Just do it for the kids and moving forward you should get him to commit to an allowance for the children,very important.

He should be responsible for his kids.
Car Talk › Re: Which Filling Station Sells Good Petrol In Your Area? by NoToPile: 10:33pm On Feb 08, 2022
Latapet opposite FGC Ijanikin Lagos. Fuel was of good quality as at 6pm today. Bought small in keg first to check grin.

Seems no queues in the filling stations in this part of Lagos.

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