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Na wa ooo, this country is turning to something else. It is well ooo, which kain wahala is this one now. Landlord sef has entered gbege Na wa. |
salt1:It's eye service, she sef will collect, it's just a matter of time. |
pocohantas:I have not cooked beans asepo in 2 years and the agoin stew can so chop palm oil na me find trouble. I am not even a beans person it's the men in the house that can't do without beans. Me I kuku cook the agoin stew in bulk and put in the freezer but then my palm oil reduces significantly from the keg anytime I do that. |
pocohantas:Thanks will try this, my only fear is if my family eat this one now as everybody is saying it delicious they might protest against normal stew and rice, this one it doesn't last long in fridge. Since the day I tried ewa agaoin, they all decided not to eat normal asepo beans again ![]() Please post more recipes on other sauces, Thank you. |
Happy birthday to the boy, Tonto may have her own craze but at least she was right with the rosy meurer accusation, everybody go sha collect laslas. |
naija4life247:Abeg don't yab we Ijebu people ![]() It's just being prudent at least he's managing the company's finances well, he's now a charted accountant again, powerful combo. My own collegue has said the only problem she has with me is money issue and this is because I don't spend my money anyhow, I don't borrow, I don't do pass my self and the only problem me I have with her is money issue because she feels so entitled to other people's money and she can so buy things beyond her salary ehn, someone I senior in rank, would be buying things I would have to think well to buy, you now go broke easily, then I become the bad person when I refuse to spend my own anyhow. I don't even mind the Iya Ijebu talk anymore Na you Sabi. |
As I was reading my advice was just leave him jare, take yourself out, some are u romantic like that.that you don't have problem But you see that last part of counting meat and dishing food part - you have bigger problems at hand madam, I know their type, not a good thing at all ooo. This is the real problem not even the taking out part. |
PeachtreeReside:Not necessarily, I don't think it's all the units in the hospital, it's very common with pharmacies only. And it's not a new thing if you check well it's written at the entrance of the door to that particular place 'private pharmacy' I used to wonder what it means as I saw it once in the Gen hospital we used, then theres the general ones too govt people are the staff there. ( these ones always have drugs) the queue is always too much and there's also non fee paying pharmacy (these ones hardly have all the drugs) Just stating my experience from the general hospital I had my babies, we end up buying all our prescription drugs drips and all from outside because of queues as big competent pharmacies are also always around general hospitals and its generally the same pricing so for me it's not a big deal. Most of the reasons why this happens is always to cut corruption, even billing and payment in these hospitals and everything is computerized now, I am even suspecting itl might be a private coynow handling it. Just don't understand the chasing some people out part. |
I know some general hospitals have private pharmacies, some have fee paying pharmacy and there used to be a non fee paying pharmacy for some age group back then. Maybe it's some sort of public private partnership with a private pharmacy so there can always be endless supply of drugs. They manage their pharmacy them selves, maybe they now pay rent/premium to govt I don't know. What I don't get is the chasing away of the govt staffs from the new BUILDING that seems wrong. The govt staffs should also offices in the new building. |
Pocohantas how much did you the get the dark and light soy sauce? Been wanting to try this chicken curry stuff an alternative e for white rice Looks nice. |
Typical, family members are the ones who betray the most |
Lool at Jide aye e o ni da ofo lo ma shey. Me sef shock The woman just switch to curses straight |
Sexsex and sex that's all. People have done first degree, MSc, did job hunting and still got married as virgin some years later so what's the big deal. |
15 years coming back by 11pm From where if I may ask? Them never born some of us that time to try the rubbish some children are trying nowadays. |
revolt:Chai, the statements I read on NL sha. Nawa. The issue is not complicated at all, if you believe over educated women make bad wives, stay away from the overeducated. Shikena. |
donbachi:I dunno why this comment got me rolling with laughter. |
Loool I remember my dad's burial, my step siblings ask where I want my canopy to be, me wey be say I know people that will show up for me and mumsie no go reach 10 what's my own. Anyway na them kuku pay for the whole party shishi they didn't ask from myself and hubby as they are far older than me and my husband and I just had a baby they didn't want to be sharing expense with us. They kept on saying we don't want to stress you you guys just had a baby they took care of everydamn thing. Ope oooo and our own was just to sew ashoebi and transport ourself to the hometown and get a guesthouse to stay (expenses reduced by 90percent) . As they ask me I said that corner and they set up canopy for us there. Father inlaw and a friend came, sister inlaw came, 2 church members traveled with us from Lagos and about four of our relatives from mum's side from our hometown in which the burial took place, my self and hubby didn't invite anyone specially mumsie cooked very small food just incase last last general food was still surplus lastlast. Some people were looking that my canopy was scanty, we no send oo, no be by no of people, it the quality of what is happening the few people around 10 that came had a blast and 10 people don set table naah. Next thing my step sis came and said notopile you will soon go on stage to dance oo, typical yoruba party settings, I say dance ke noo, they said all the children must dance on stage individually arrh I am not the dancing type and I no get plenty people even dance with me or spray me money oo, na my hubsband and step siblings still dance with me and spray money last last. ![]() So the OP could have made the most of it, instead of being sad that people didn't come to his canopy. I personally enjoy events I host when there are fewer people and I didnt stress my self because we had very few people in our canopy. You really don't need to be intimidated when there are other canopies with more people, |
Whatever you do, do not borrow money to travel and definitely not that huge amount. |
Kenturkey048: ![]() |
That girl needs some brain resetting before wahlaha set in. Before you know now she will start sleeping with him abeg oo. |
Kenturkey048:If you had said you would be loyal to a submissive woman, I wouldn't even have quoted you because that is you and there are still some sensible guys out there, but saying that about men in general is fallacy, even your fellow gender know its not true. Like I said I am never against submission BUT Nothing can keep a man that doesn't want to be kept, not even submission, you might not know this but Men know this. |
pocohantas:@ 1st bolded honestly its a cycle. @2nd bolded some women have been hurt so bad that they don't even care any more, in this case let the favorite of the family that 'born boy' take care of him nah. |
pocohantas:Only few men would tell themselves the truth, some have said the truth on this thread. @bolded is one of the reasons why sometimes I don't empathize when I hear some stories, some women hardly forgive, they will keep quiet because they know the odds will always be against them and strike later on, some will even bear till all the children get married they will prefer the husband taking care of the children financial responsibility while they live in sadness with the consolation that it's only for a while ( that while can be 25 years),once the children are okay they move on physically, meanwhile they had moved on emotionally 20years back. Some will even still be with the man and move from one childs house to the other zero form of association with the man. Whether this vengeance is right or wrong I honestly cant say. Lots of boys on NL don't realize that 90percent of the time the way your wife would treat you when you are old is a reflection of the way you treated her when you were both younger. |
Well seems the consensus here is its very normal for the guy to walk out of his home without any explanations and the woman should suck it all in and even beg him for it. It's good everyone is reminded that the odds are not always in the favor of the woman in our society, if you misbehave you get blamed, if your husband misbehaves you also get blamed. . |
placeofallure:Exactly. |
Kenturkey048:You really must be joking @ bolded. If you like be submissive from here till the end, if he's not going to be loyal, he won't be loyal shikena. Nothing can ever make a man loyal except he decides to be loyal. Loyalty and faithfulness on the side of men are always personal decisions, irrespective of the submissive status of their wives. I am not against submission but it's good to know that a man's loyalty doesn't depend on your submission. Know this and have peace |
Op I would advise you just ignore him, don't even ask him any explanations, don't say anything about the divorce threat, just ignore his tactics, he knows you have gotten him in a corner and he's trying to use divorce to blackmail you. we all know there's a 95percent chance he's sleeping with the church minister and he knows you know, he might still come back to his senses with time,, he will definitely get served, as for the church minister that is trying to work for free for a married man, she too will collect. Just put all of them on ignore mode and continue your self development, if he likes he comes back home if he likes he doesn't and you should never have called that girl, you don't dignify such people. Work for free indeed. |
mercy87: ![]() |
NGpatriot:Yeah, the guy has prospects. |
Congrats to her, I have always admired this lady right from her MNet studio 53 days with her low-cut back then, great presenter. Romance section boys calling the oscar guy low quality, una quality reach am? |
Vyvyanvyvy:I remember your other thread ma'am about your elder boy, I still salute your tenacity. Now to this since he now wants to see the kids, you have nothing to lose by seeing him, hear what he has to say, let him know what taking care of his kids alone has cost you. Just do it for the kids and moving forward you should get him to commit to an allowance for the children,very important. He should be responsible for his kids. |
Latapet opposite FGC Ijanikin Lagos. Fuel was of good quality as at 6pm today. Bought small in keg first to check .Seems no queues in the filling stations in this part of Lagos. |
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