₦airaland Forum

Ybaby:
That is the behaviour that is giving your bro a hardoon lowo lowo bayii

What you can do is to mind your business and face your life. If your brother wants to see you - he will come and visit and you can visit too but tolerate her behaviour if you will visit.

Your bro loves DOM women and he is a SUB passive man.



Go and live your life!

Hard on loool.
AFI lowo lowo bayii Na.

Una no go kill person with laugh for this thread

pocohantas:
Leave Maria. Na Voltron, action lady and defender of her brother. E go shock am.




Better one o. Everybody’s fck up was inside, even my papa own.

Loool, it's the husband that will even start defending the wife you are fighting.

Luvly Dad
Sweet sis
Big Mum are the guarantors, hope it's not that these people just randomly choose from the contacts and name them guarantors, because these names look like contacts saved.

Thats how one called me that I am a guarantor to somebody that I don't even know.

Applelips:
According to you, you are not a swallow person, and decided to make noodles. And you are angry she asked why you didn't eat the swallow Do you know that you were meant to inform her before going to prepare noodles Its her house, her kitchen, her rules. In as much as you have a choice to make, u cant just do whatever you like because it seats well with you.

The semo you refused to eat, who is going to eat it? Semo is one meal I do not do leftovers. If you didn't want to eat, what stops you from informing them beforehand?


It is people like you that cause issues in marriages. Has your brother complained about not being happy? Your tone, choice of words and actions shows you do not like the woman, and may have even recruited other people to join you. That one is not enough. You now want your brother to see her the way you see her. Get a life sis.

The bolded is what a lot of people are ignoring, it's common courtesy but the mentality is 'its my brother's house'I can behave how I want and different women would react differently.

I don't think I can even do that in my sisters house, I would have told them I don't eat swallow and will prefer noodles simple.

The madam is saying you do anyhow you see anyhow

The woman might have her own issues but OP sef get for body.

Mariangeles:
I like to mind my business, and I respect boundaries, but if my brother's wife were stoop so low as to insult my brother in my presence, telling him to Go and marry the maid na, I'll tell her to her face not to disrespect him like that again, at least, not in my presence.
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OK.

Seriously @ bolded

You Wan chook mouth for husband and wife mata? You go collect small.

sisisioge:


You went to cook indomie because you dont eat swallow like that

Just like that
Loool that one kuku off me.

I personally wouldn't do that in my brother's or sister house without hinting her about it and I would have told her before they prepared the swallow.

But then that is just me, different people different behaviors..

Bloggers ehn with their sensational headline.

This woman has been married for some years now to this pastor and they are living their lives but chocho Cho people will not rest.

Not everybody is freaked with abroad matter.

She simply is not interested besides she has told you she values her family more than any pursuit that alone is a good reason.

The problem the OP has is just money, more money will solve this issue.

Everybody (sane people) knows the money is not and can never be enough for them.

The money is not just enough, the economy is terrible, I pray God opens way for you OP.



3 toddlers? Chai.

Jman06:
What the hell do you mean by "non of them will ever wish their sisters at home"? I have sisters who are married and they are very productive and supportive to their husbands! Sometimes I begin to wonder why I would marry a liability when other men are getting the best of my sisters

Op's wife is just a lazy assz, simple! She needs to get a job ASAP

She's not a lazy assz, you- yes you just try to take care of triplets alone and find out how it is, you can't cope so don't call someone doing it a lazy ass.


The ultimate question is Who takes care of the children while she works

Daycare? where's the money

Mama? - I can't even recommend them leaving the triplets with mama because she might not be able to keep up with the kids energy, she's elderly, babysitting 3 toddlers at the same time is almost like a war like situation.

Acidosis:
Don't ever suggest to your wife to get a job at this stage without anyone to help with the kids. Only a ma.d man will tell a young mother of triplets to get a job. Attending to those toddlers daily is harder than driving a truck from Lagos to Kano every day. So kill that idea and don't ever bring it up.

Brother and sister

It is well oo

Prayer warrior that can pray for 4 hours cohabiting with fiance.

Mtcheww. You both should continue deceiving yourselves.

You people make of joke of Christianity.

Well he has not broken into your apartment yet, it's just a threat to get you to pay, he won't break into the apartment, just plead with him.


That said, if you are owing, you are a tenant at will and are actually entitled to 7 days only from the day your rent expired to be ejected oo, a court can enforce this.

Nawa oo, not even up to 6 weeks

Quite refreshing to read something different here.

Ita not outdated, lots of people are still keeping to the No sex before marriage NSBM rule its just that the percentage of singles having sex seem to be higher than before and the damages are enormous very scary

Personally I am an advocate of NSBM, also an advocate of if he says without sex he won't marry let him leave, another will come.

One Trick some use is ' after all you are not a virgin you have done it before so what's the big deal' anybody can decide not to have sex before marriage.

arthurwillia:
Who is this one? Allow am reach 6months, someone has been owing since august and decided not pay, but I should allow him stay, i won’t be surprised if you are someone like that too

Since he's owing and a tenant at will hes only entitled to 7 days eviction notice and he still has to pay youfor the number of months used , just take the issue to magistrate court, he will be evicted and he will pay for the months used.

Even the 6 months notice for a tenant not owing is not free

Zubi10:
Me that my own friend almost rape my woman ,I didn't kill him n I never stops the friendship..But we have a boundary now online before

You are still friends with someone who tried to rape your woman?

Gidagreen:
Did anyone noticed how the neighbors fled away? They all fled away instead of helping the dieing man because of the fear of police. They were all afraid the Nigerian police will implicate them all just to extort them if they made an attempt to help the victim. This scenario is what usually plays out in road accident spot. People run away, instead of helping with an excuse of avoiding implications by police.

I read somewhere that if a country needs to be well developed, the police must be trusted in protecting the citizens and be honest in service delivery.

This is always a big issue, because the police will rope you in and accuse you of what you don't know. Most Nigerians would flee the same way they fled.

wisemum:
I read this and wondered what I would do if any man does this to my daughter? I went down on my knees and prayed that this kind of man will never cross my daughters pathway. So if your wife wants sex and you have been having a hard time in the office, she should climb on you one day, and just force her way through? Unfortunately, women cannot do that for 2 reasons. The organ of the man will not achieve anything for her if he doesn't want to have sex or is tired, so be it. And the strength of the man will overpower her. You have done wrong. And you have crossed the boundary line. It will certainly happen again since you have crossed the line.

If I were the poor girl, whatever love i had for you has gone out of the window. Sex can never be a loving act again This marriage is definitely on its way out. It may take 3 years, it may take 10 years. But it will eventually break. Mark my words. And you have yourself to blame.

The bolded is the pure fact.

It's just a matter of time the marriage ends (that time may even be 20 years and after more children), it's only by divine intervention the marriage will heal.


What I really can't fathom is why the violence,

Is it that the character had been in the OP but perfectly hidden and a little pressure and bam its out.

If he can rape his wife then he can rape any random girl out there.

Seek therapy, talk to someone to identify the root cause.

Tell your wife

If possible stop using an android phone when you sort these current loan .

Cut of those you hangout with.

orlahtohbadt:
Yes it is.

Is it working perfectly?

Is the old empty cartridge available?

Are the accessories like the cords available?

Contact?

orlahtohbadt:
HP Deskjet D5560 which prints in colour and black and white for sale. Also can print through Bluetooth.
Location: Mile 12/ Berger.
Price: 10k
In good condition, I got it when I was doing my undergraduate project. Only thing is that the cartridge needs to be changed because it has dried out from non usage.
Just send me a PM if interested.

Is this still available?

Chai,
A building housing salvation ministries - they probably rented the place.

illicit:
She has not grown into a woman yet

Wait ok

You just had to set the record straight, Nairaland oooo una no go kee persin with laugh.


Happy birthday, pretty baby.

The cheapest milk miksi is now 950 for the 450g refill (carton price).

The milk was 600 carton price, like every other thing it has skyrocketed.

I just wonder how much SMA gold is

Thermodynamics:
Nor mind those useless loan company, the people who support them do not understand, every single Nigerian is at risk of being embarrassed for something they know nothing about. I think they know what they are doing, maybe if they follow the normal process of requesting for a guarantor, it'll discourage their customers/victims. That is why they just accept any guarantor provided by their customers without any form of verification with the hope that they can threatening the guarantor to pay on behalf of the debtor if the debtor default. They are very useless people, those loan apps are thieves, all they care about is collecting their money, they do not care if the person they are collecting it from didn't borrow any money from them.

So you mean someone that knows your name and phone no can just give it to a loan company as a guarantor? Without signing anything?

Or maybe they are even calling all the contacts randomly telling them they are guarantors.

I don't even understand sef.

Walkee:
there's nothing wrong with him. You are obviously not married Any married woman who doesn't have a son will do anything, I mean anything to have a son Real life is different from internet

Not any woman, you should be more specific

e. g any woman married to someone from xyz

It's one thing to desire a gender which is normal, it's another thing for it to be a do or die affair.

So saying any woman would do anything to have a son is not correct.

Lots of women don't even have sons and they are not doing anything to have one.

Fridaya30:
Bath them too , pack the pups, replace the pampers, breastfeed the baby, pamper ham if na cry the baby Dey cry, be there always to attend to the baby’s needs �.
Abeg find another thing talk about. U think say e easy to be a mother. I be man o. Before u come replying yin yin yan yan yan

Loool the only thing in that write up is buybuy buy, I was expecting to see the above.

Do homework, bathe them, feed them, play with them none of this is there only buy buy buy.

As if buying things will make your children love you.

Some fathers that are not present due to their jobs are better fathers that those available 24/7

okine4real:
You see if you are Yoruba, You would not understand where am coming from. Am not mocking Yourba's but most Yoruba's dont place priority on Male children. Its there culture and an individual thing. Its just like some people, after building just one house, then its okay for them, they will kill there hustling spirit because they are contempted. In my case i have A boy and the Girls. I dont know how i was able to do it the first time, but i want to have another boy. I have tired having a boy right from when i wanted to have my third child, it came out to be a babe, third babe. So when i seek advice, i was told about this Ovulation day of a thing. As a matter of fact, I love my babes very very well. In fact my First Daughter is more Academically sound than my son. I would train all my girls minimum to B.Sc level, but the reality is, in a family setting, there are role for guys and for babes. Personally i dont like putting all my eggs in one basket, having only one son, would result in me spoiling my son, indirectly i would be pampering him because i would be scared because he is all i got. Also when you have more than one son, you confuse your enemy.

Something happened to me on the 1st of this year. i was to load lots of appliance into a Truck on 1st of Jan, 2022, Nor Aboki was avail around 5pm, the truck came early, when the truck driver told he was close to where the appliance was, i woke my younger brother and we proceed to the said location where the items where. It took myself and my younger bro about 45mins to load the appliance, items where gates, AC,Pumping machine etc after loading those items, we then proceed to where i leave again to load the second bash, after loading i followed the truck to where i would be off loading the appliance. While we where moving, something came to mine mind, i have only a son, if it was my son that wanted to move this items, will he start knocking on his friends door at around 5am for them to come help him, then i decided that i really need to have a second son. Besides my son has been begging his mom to give him a brother.

So for you all shouting, its what you give is what you get, agreed, but remember on this same thread, someone said, his father had 6 girls and was looking for a male child, when his father met his mother, she gave him 3 male child because his mother understood the Ovulation thing. So for the ladies dont every tell your husband that, its what he gives he would get, if he then goes outside and meets a woman that understand the way this ovulation thing works, then you would have yourself to blame.

It was my friend that advised me about the Ovulation thing, but i was not sure, so i decided to bring it here.

Bros ooo, there's nothing wrong in desiring a male child(another male child) in your case.

The issue is the way you presented the case 'male child or nothing' and 'trouble fit dey' statements it's enough to evoke reactions. I even frowned and shook my head when I read the write up.

Since you people have 1 son already you can also have another, follow the ovulation method and hope and pray that time and chance happens that's all.

As for the bolded not necessarily, some people just make love at the right time and there's also time and chance, some have all boys without even trying, some nature mixes it for them.

Ohh and I am Yoruba and I don't understand where you are coming from but nothing wrong with desiring a particular sex, just that some people make it a life or death affair which shouldn't be.

Thermodynamics:
What if one day you wake up only to find out that one of these loan company has posted your details as a fraudster for something you know nothing about.

Ask yourself, how come they keep contacting and threatening people who has no relationship with their debtor ?
For someone to be a guarantor, he has to sign some documents and possibly attach a passport and a personal ID card, i don't know why these loan app don't request for all these just to confirm if there is actually a relationship between the debtor and the guarantor, they won't do any form of verification, when the debtor refuse to pay them their money, they will start threatening an innocent man that his name appeared as a guarantor and that his details will be published as a fraudster.

Their level of unprofessional is mind blowing, they just want to collect their money by all means, saying shit like your name appeared as a guarantor to see if the guarantor N80,000 will pay the money on behalf of the debtor even though he does not know the debtor personally and did not sign any guarantors form for anybody.

This line has been calling me (012271647) that one afon nwa collected loan and has defaulted and as a guarantor I am liable and can face the law,

I didn't stand as guarantor or sign for anybody and the no called is the contact I give out to everybody due to the nature of my job and I don't even know anybody by that name oo.

This is the 3rd time they are calling me oo it's an auto recorded message and when I try to call back it doesn't go.

Someone cannot give person no in peace again abi which kind wahala is this one.

I don't know how a person can be a guarantor without knowing.

This line has been calling me (012271647) that one afon nwa collected loan and has defaulted and I am guarantor and can face the law,

I didn't stand as guarantor or sign for anybody and the no called is the contact I give out to everybody due to the nature of my job and I don't even know anybody by that name oo.

This is the 3rd time they are calling me oo it's an auto recorded message and when I try to call back it doesn't go.

Someone cannot give person no in peace again