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GIANTPLUSHUB:
Traceey, we have passed that culture things. Now, everyone is trying to be careful and put somethings into test. You see, your man did nothing wrong at all.

How about he does not takes anything to your house but he gives you peace and comfort in marriage and always support if any situation arises in your own family side?

You need to think and go beg your man. So far he's a good guy to you. Somethings just need wisdom. Since he's into going to your house without buying something along. Next time, whenever he wants to go, try and meet him up and handover something to him to give them at home. Maybe as time goes on, he will get used to it. Do this with calm and good words, like you just want your family to see him as a more better good man.

All the very best.

at the bolded, my wife dey do am Wella. She knows me Na. Sometimes I will put my foot down and say I am not giving. She will bring out her own money and hand it to me to give to her people.

TransAtlanticEx:
Are you sure you really wanna do this?
Cos I'm ready when you are.
Feed me and my family( a whole my family ooo) for ages yet your mama dey want kill herself say your fiance no buy bread for am?.
Why not use that money weh you want use am feed me and my generation buy your mama provisions keep for house na
And somehow its from this miserly,miserable existence that you wanna feed my family(really rich ) from?
My eldest sister got married in 2004,in 2003 when the man came for introduction,he wore shorts and was empty handed.
You know why?There was nothing he could bring that we don't have and he knew it
What you could have done sef to even cover your bf is send some money to your thirsty mom and claim your bf sent it,but instead you fought with him over it,maybe because you and your mama don plan as una go share the stipends weh the guy suppose bring,
Yet a bottom feeder like you wants to feed my generation?

Bros u wicked ooooo. Infact I am crying on her behalf. U really finish the mumu girl

Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.

When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.

Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?

naturally when I see posts like urs, I try to check ur profile to see if I will find a profile picture. I need to remind myself that morons still exist, then I note their face and avoid them in future.

U are not yet ready to marry. When u get ready, we will know. Ur mama will even be the one to beg the guy to even come and visit. She fit dash am transport money sef.

taiwotimitt:
Seriously I think this woman has gotten the attention she needed. From requesting for 100m to threat of life.

Waiting for her next drama

she is a pure idiot. No one is taking her seriously anymore. When she is done with her social media drama, let her go and sleep

Dpharisee:
Reno is correct on this one. He handed over to a management with PTA and even Prefects among the kids but they failed him. He can't be everywhere. All that Kumuyi needs to do is reappraisal of their performances and apply appropriate punishment for dereliction of duties

gbamsolutely!!! Dazall!!!

And he is already doing it. So why the mudslinging on one of the few remaining true servant of God??

dawnomike:
I agree with oga Reno on this one...

first time Reno is making sense

GeneralPula:
However, she alleged that two weeks after she packed into the house, Jeff’s wife called her one day and asked her to pack her things and leave the house that it is not every woman that would allow another lady to come into her matrimonial home. She told her that she was traveling to Abuja and that when she comes back, she would sort herself out. But on her return she couldn’t immediately leave the house because, according to her, she had a lot of work to do at the office. This was what prevented her from going to look for accommodation elsewhere.

Pussy people self..

Truth be say.. The owner of the spoilt boobs gone too far. Carrying a full package breass into a married mans house is like a foul. Not leaving after the wife don para is another foul.

Nah accommodate dem wan accommodate ham.. She wan cum change ham from accommodating to residing..

But the wife self.. She no even pity those fresh boobs..

Summary be say.... Fear hoes.

u have said it all.
Wifey say leave my husband's house, and u are forming boss. Is she mad ni?

And I can swear they are actually having an affair and Jeff is giving her high hopes. That is why she would dare face the woman of the house and misbehave.

Omihanifa:
The government should first revive the technical/vocational schools first before any pastor will start insulting jobless graduates

Instead of him to own up with the fact that their generation failed us he's busy insulting us again

What stops the government from training graduates and non graduates in vocational schools then give them loans to startup their businesses

although I agree with him, I will still add that he, as a mega pastor, is part of the problem. Almost all large warehouses and factories abandoned are converted to worship centres by him and his likes. How then will the jobs come

Karleb:
She looks like a liar!

You've suddenly forgotten that the church asked her to withdraw the case?

This is the church doing. Only the church can influence a commissioner.

If only your were in this trouble maker's shoe.

@ the bolded......Her words, who is to say she did not lie?
Deeper life would never ask her to cover sin on their behalf. They may have asked her to desist from blowing the issue out of proportion, in order not to unduly bring bias into the investigation. But to outrightly withdraw the case.....I doubt it

U must agree with me that the current social media backlash has already eroded objectivity In This investigation. That is not fair in the interest of justice

Karleb:
She looks like a liar!

You've suddenly forgotten that the church asked her to withdraw the case?

This is the church doing. Only the church can influence a commissioner.

If only your were in this trouble maker's shoe.

u don't know deeper life.
They don't cut corners in matters like this. They will ensure justice is done. Even if it means closing the school. Take it to the bank. There are churches that might want to subvert justice. Definitely not deeper life

Lamasta:
I don't engage with emotional people like you that will just rush to social media to start ranting....

Am not in support of what had happened and I will never be, issues like this should be resolved amicably with the management of the school and if justice is not served she have every right to go to court to get justice for her son without dragging the church and the government making it look asive they are all against her...

eggxactly!!! And gbamsolutely too

Karleb:
Na their way.

Anything to not put the church of God to shame.

Fuuckkk Deeper Life!

did u read the the write up at all?

It is not deeper life or the school board threatening the woman. It is the parents of the culprits and the commissioner of education.

And by the way, I think this woman is being over dramatic with this whole matter. The case is already receiving appropriate attention from both the church and the government. Why over flog the Matter. She deserves what she gets jare. She even looks like a liar and a trouble maker.

iamyemiakins:
Before deciding to put your child(ren) in a boarding school, one thing you should know is that:

Boarding school is divided into two.

The junior students(slaves), while the senior students and teachers (colonial masters).

If you can survive boarding school like I did, you can survive hell fire.

and I was seriously thinking of sending my son to this school next year.

If a church as morally upright as deeper life cannot run their school well, then I don lose hope

Gina2019:
What's the advert in that? That's the fact. Runs girls will always give u condition, freak girls won't.

somehow true.
Olosho no be am at all.
But then even freaky girls are usually part time olosho.

Barka00:
May we drink all types of tea in this life except pover-tea.

If i hear vanity upon vanity i go block you.

oga na vanity joor.

why shud water cost so much.... even if na 7 star hotel

SpecialAdviser:
This north eeeeh. 80% of Nigerian problems comes from the North. They are inherently violent, uneducated and unable to think positively about Nigerian development. There is a reason every other part of Nigeria should always dream of a day when they will be free from the north.

-You can never host a major world tournament

- You can never expand your tourist potential

- You can never host a major world figure like the pope

- You will forever suffer insecurity
- You will never have government that runs on merit

Just a lot of hindrance being in same country with the north. They don't project Nigerian image in sports, in education, in entertainment, in anything positive. Breeding children without a plan to carter for them. Sponsoring violence and counter violence. To stay with the north in the same country is not a day job.

honestly these are exactly my thoughts

Racoon:
God rest your souls young boys.You dont deserve this evil but your leaders planted it & you're suffering it.Too bad! Yet their clueless state governor-Masari was earlier saying none of the boys have been killed.

I can't believe I am the one now saying this.

But the only way to save Nigeria is to split it up. We southerners (yorubas, Igbos and co) need to come together and form a new nation. And then we seriously defend our borders to prevent this horrible virus of banditry, herdsmen killings and bokoharam from crossing our borders and infecting us all.

The north is indeed cursed......and like a cancerous body part, we need to cut it off quickly

Abbey2411:
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oga go a build your own poultry farm.

750 per kg go kill u there

Do you fabricate manure drying machine?

tsdarkside:
what the hell are you talking about....

nigeria had much more men and well trained....alot of weapons....

dont be cocky because nigeria held back....

they could have easily rushed you and annihilated all of una quick quick....

had nigeria realy went to war against una,more would have died....

I don't know what version of history u read. But let's apply common logic here. Do you really think that soldiers who started massacre of their Igbo colleagues while still in the barracks now held back in an open battle?
Do u think the initiators of the Asaba massacre actually held back?
Do u really think that there was any attempt to hold back, given the hatred again the Igbos back then?

Na wa for Ur reasoning ooo

Heartbrokengirl:
We never had penetrative sex, I have never had penetrative sex. The messages are from our past chat, I only cleared the chat after creating this thread. I have not set my eyes on him since then. He has called with other numbers, but that has been it.

Plz, you can reserve the “hoe” tag for your loved ones if it is such a pleasant name. Using it randomly on people you do not know is a not a sign of good upbringing.

You guys here are all about the dick, dick is everywhere, but I have lived 25yrs of my life without it and I didn’t die. I was only hurt he lied to me and led me on. Some of us are trusting. I know people that would have ransacked his house and social media pages, but I didn’t do that. I am not even on Facebook and Instagram. He preyed on the fact that I am quite private and trusting, direct your misgivings to him!!

u sound like a very sensible, good mannered and well trained lady with good family values. Keep it up.

But I am very pragmatic when it comes to issues. I am also realistic. At 25, u are still young and u shud know what u want from life right now. Not everyone wants to marry by fire by force. Not every girl of Ur age wants a relationship that must lead to marriage. People have different relationship goals.

So review Ur relationship goals for the moment. If the goal is to get married, then it's ok that you left the married guy.

But if u just want to catch fun and enjoy a relationship while it lasts, then you should be with the person who makes u happy....even if he is married.....as long as he clearly shows that he takes care of his family very well too. U are not doing anything bad.
Forget those bullshit called karma or nemesis.

Awoo88:
All of una wen dey say "ontop 10k.....". No get sense!! I will not pay 10k per room and you serve me rubbish for break fast! E better make person go 4/6k room with not break, you go still get ac

true sha.
As long as I am paying from my pocket, I won't stay in a hotel of more than 10k ooo.

And I don't eat hotel food. It is not worth the price

tunjiajayi:
Great!
Guess they should have won with this.

oga if not for the help of the British, the Russian and the Egyptian mercenaries, Biafra was undefeatable by Nigeria. Do Ur research.
I do not support the Biafra agitation. But I still have to recognise the truth. The enterprising spirit of the Igbo man remains unparalleled in Africa.

etrouble:
Eku oriire naa. Start another war nah so that you can build another armoured tank. Let’s see how many hundreds of Biafrans will be left.

u want mentions Abi?
We will give u mentions.....with enough curses to ruin your next 10 generations.
You are cursed beyond redemption

ajebuter:
Either this Osaze just clout-chasing or simply sick upstairs

Or both

Edo witches don do osaze strong thing oooo

lafiagi007:
Some of you here saying rabbitry is not profitable, that's a lie ooo, maybe more profitable that even poultry, rabbits can reproduce almost every month.
But you know my problem with this so called Federal government scheme? When and how did did they recruit the young men?

is not about reproduction. We know they reproduce very fast.

It is about feeding, medication and most importantly, MARKETING.
Those are areas where serious research is needed.

Veqtor:
Imo State govt empowered youths with rabbits...now a whole FG is about empowering youths with rabbits..

Soon we will become a rabbit federation, whereas their children are doing nothing but they own fleets of cars and flaunt private jets..

Probably, most of the beneficiaries will b graduates...ahh.. O wrong now!

This govt have no iota of shame

most of u guys are not even seeing the matter from the angle I am viewing it.

Entrepreneurship is not bad, Rabbit farming is not bad, but the results must be worth the efforts.

How can a government that has never done anything to improve the rabbit value chain suddenly decide to fork in money into rabbit farming?
Have they tropicalised an improved rabbit breed? Have they found ways to make feeding, medication and management more cost efficient?
How many people eat rabbit? Have they carried out necessary market research and sensitisation?

This is a project that is doomed to fail from the word go.

Ishilove:
That's the sacrifice we make to have your children. Flat belly or kids. Make your choice

why u no dey write again?

I can never forget "Iyawo Nylon bag" the story that would have made a master piece, had u finished it and published it.

Contact me if u still want to publish that book

zikter:
But there is no evidence to that. How many lecturers has been dragged by anti corruption agencies for mismanagement of University funds? These funds are never under their direct control hence you cannot hold them responsible. That is the more reason why what you are saying here is at the best in the realm of speculation and can hardly be substantiated. The revitalisation funds will never come under the control of ASUU so I wonder how they will corner it

it's clear u still don't understand me. Make we just leave the matter

zikter:
I don't agree with you on this. I did a five year course in a public University and I understand what goes on. Lecturers will not harass the bursar or VC on anything. Mostly, the administrative staff comprising the VC and Bursar are the ones implicated in corruption cases. That aside, if ASUU harasses them on anything, don't they have channels to report it. For crying out loud, the NUC, ICPC and EFCC are there. How will the money get to ASUU? How much does ASUU get from, example TETFUND that has done at least some infrastructures on the campuses? If an incompetent VC is not capable of managing the funds given to his university, he should take the blame himself. Nobody should use ASUU as a scapegoat. And if the government cannot monitor these funds through their numerous anti corruption bodies, then government itself should not blame any one. As far as I am concerned, everything stops on the government table. Let them properly fund the universities, built infrastructures, pay lecturers well and stop grandstanding. Look at the countries you make reference to even in Africa and compared their education sponsorship with ours and you will understand.

u did a 5 years course....as a student.

I have worked in the system, in a very strategic position that placed me very close to the school management. I think I should know better.

weyreypey:
We're going to get our dues as lecturers. If you want good quality education... fight for it.

oga, am sorry to tell u this.
But with people like u, quality education is a mirage, even if u are to be given 5 times Ur present salary. We know ur type, always running after union politics and the perks that come with it, rather than conscentrate on your job. We know Ur type, always seeking for one juicy appointment or the other in the institution, none of which u have the capacity to discharge the duties properly. Always seeking for appointment
as a part time/adjunct lecturer in 100 universities, most of which u won't even be able to visit 2 times in a whole semester. Ur type sees everything as an avenue for enriching urself and playing out Ur political fantasies.
I have a lot of them in my organisation, when the time for appraisal comes, they will start running around looking for lecturers who will add them as co-authors to their journals. They will start looking for other people's research work to craftily plagiarise as their own. They are never able to produce a quality research paper.
It is your type that will blackmail the VC and governing council until they give u a promotion u don't deserve, u will use the union and the threat of strike to force them into doing Ur bidding of u can

zikter:
You are still not making a clear and coherent point here. What is morally wrong about revitalisation fund for universities when we all know they are grossly underfunded? What is wrong about visitation panels to universities to assess their decayed infrastructures and other needs? What is wrong in trying to correct the proliferation of state universities while the established ones are not faring better than advance secondary schools? What about earned allowances? What is wrong about paying you your allowances you earned? Is not as if government is denying they earned it, they are outrightly owing them the allowances. Many times, people are bias towards ASUU for no just cause. You are accusing them of moral corruption but you cannot exactly fault them correctly on all there demands to government. Let us be objective here for once

oga, quote me anywhere. 80% of whatever revitalisation funds released by the govt will end directly in the pockets of the lecturers. They will blackmail, harass and arm twist the VCs and the bursar's until this is done.

I have seen it happen several times.

Forget stories ASUU uses to screen their true intentions. The only thing they ALWAYS want is more money for Thier own pockets. Every other thing does not count for them.