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Pray4meJC:
For privacy reasons, I'm an old nairaland member.

About 22 / 23 years ago, a classmate in secondary school lured us into the act of masturbation. Few days later, I started practicing the act and eventually ejaculated after tough stimulation lasting almost two hours. It got to a point I was almost getting addicted doing the unclean act.

Thereafter I graduated to pornography when internet was just starting in Nigeria.
I went further to committing adultery and fornication in the heart rather than with the body by peeping on girls and women having their bathe all to fulfill my lustful eyes. I even watched couple have sex by peeping.

Even though I have stopped and repented from these like 12 years back, I still find myself struggling with other bigger problems called wet dreams, unusual erections and wormlike vibrations in my body and sometimes body freezing at night for 30 seconds to 1 minute.

These wet dreams occurred 2 - 3 times in a week and repeat same in like manner every week compulsorily throughout the year and go on and on the following year. I have gone for several dry fasting and prayer deliverance to no avail.

I don't see myself having sex in the dream when these wet dreams occurred. Sometimes, when the wet dream is about happening I'm conscious and try screaming the name or blood of Jesus but it seems am just very powerless and before I know it, semen has spilled out and I will remain like that. Sleep is distorted and all efforts to sleep is impossible.

Sometimes, when I go to bed early by 8PM and I get caught up by wet dreams by 9:30PM, it means sleep for that night is gone completely. I sleep maximum 2 hours daily because this stuff has messed my mind and life up.

Whenever I lie down to sleep, different uninvited thoughts start forcing themselves on my brain both those that happened today and the ones of years ago. I always try deflecting them by replacing them with bible quote or singing praise to God in my head.

I woke up since 2:30 am today with a wet burser soaked in semen and started typing this because I couldn't no longer sleep. Afternoon sleep is very impossible for me as it has never worked for even 1 minute

I'm greatly troubled and worried because I read my bible and pray before going to bed. I dream about my former schools etc.

As I speak, this stuff has rendered me financially devastated with millions in debt. Could not obtain university admission 19 years ago, brain can't simulate, not married, no kids. Very recently this year my health (details withheld due to family members who might find this posts) is suffering as I can't do anything to earn a living as I easily sored tired in the heart.

PS: At night, every day for all these years, uncontrollable strong erections will suddenly start building up whether I put up underwear or not and I think this is more than the 'morning erections ' science talks about. This is pure spiritual manipulation for me. Same thing happens when I get close to some females whether matured or underage, stupid uncontrollable strong erections suddenly pop up without any sexual thoughts whatsoever to these innocent females. Unfortunately, these arousal is also a problem because it inhibits low self esteem, shame and quick withdrawal from whatever discuss I'm having to avoid the bulge being noticed.

Lastly, a year before I got myself ensnared in all these evil activities, I was already developing memory loss and a single headache that almost took my life prior to all these. The headache can be best described as "sawchain and hammer " tearing the skull to pieces and lasted for hours and resistance to drugs. That was the first and last time I experienced such and any other for that matter.

Where do I go from here? Depression is real when solutions are being defiled.

there is a reason the creator created women so we can fvck them when we feel konji is coming to befuddle our minds,try a girlfriend that is ready to nack you 3-4 times a week let's see if that dick will misbehave again

SHINJA:
Southeast a barren Cursed region ..

A region where most of their daughters are into prostitution

A region where poverty rate is very high .

A region where Human flesh are consumed

A region where 99percent of the men are dying in Asian prisons

A region where all the youths see southwest as abroad

A region where their women engage in babyfactory..


God bless southsouth and southwest

One brothers...

your comment shows you have never crossed river Niger into the southeast,try and travel to learn more about people

kuonbe:
I work hard to raise this money, for house rent. I raised 200plus in February and march. Beofer my mini bus engine got spoil. The money for house rent I used it to get another engine. Now av raised 100plus in 1month betting av finish me. I used to sleep in my mini bus.

you work hard and raised #200+k in February and March,you are not ok but to use #10k to get free millions through betting,there is no free money,a friend of mine won #5m bought a Lexus keep and started betting again,the money finished and he sold the Jeep also bet chop that one,he is now back to square one,he who have ears let him hear,you cannot beat the house,the house always wins

shantti:
I ran under the heavy rain at night looking for a pharmacy to buy condom from, while the girl I was to have sex with was in my room pressing phone, I was afraid she might change her mind if I wasted time. If u see the way I was running eh, u will think something was after my life. No pharmacy was open, I had to run to a very very very far place under d heavy rain before I could find a pharmacy. After buying the condom, I began d long journey back home, I ran and ran and ran and ran for a long period of time before I got home. My phone spilt cos a lot of water entered inside it, my only palms spoilt, my jeans trousers tore, my wallet was drenched, Cold entered my body and I started shivering. I almost collapsed. I become very sick and had to spend a lot of money on treatment. I regret my stupidity. Thank God for redpill

did you later have any strength left to nack the pvssy,konji it shall not be well with you

Kobicove:
Your friend is still exhibiting traits of immaturity

that's not immaturity,I think it is more of a fetish thing,my brother in law is a 60yr old wealthy business man,but he has a portable camcorder complete with tripod stand he will use to record his exploits with girls in his mansion in the village,his family will be in Lagos and he will come back to the village only with his driver and stay up to a week fvcking different girls,having twosome, party,the man is incorrigible,he had hundreds of videos of himself and multitude of girls on his laptop,married women,etc,he has a pharmactical company in his vast company that produces drugs,but this man is so rotten that he had fvcked all the girls working for him and had the videos,it is not easy to shock me but this my in-law is a different kettle of fish.

damo2014:
This is a personal experience with a married woman... Honestly, it is only God that will help men o in this generation of very loose married women. I stay in Okota, married with two kids. Although there are a few of them that will just be staring at one with one kind look. But as a man who doesn't even create any space, they hardly see my "gullible" face for ground.

Last last, I stumbled on one early this year when I was taking a stroll in the street before going to work. Prior to this day, we have had few random times we just said hi and good morning to each other, because she looks calmer and a bit serious. We shared contacts and ever since, it's being terrible, I must say.
She pointedly told me she was happy that we shared each other's contact, that she's being wishing that I do that for a long time. Btw, she is married with two kids as well.

Her WhatsApp status daily is a consistent display of love for her husband, appreciation to him for being the best husband any woman could have. Infact she has told me on a number of times that her husband actually brought to the beautiful level she has become. That she doesn't a spend a dime on herself because everything is catered for by him. She's so fond of him, as far as what I observe.

But this woman has some philandering tendencies. She is d one that will be begging one to come online for video calls. A lot of shit already done. Her nudity. She's made herself come cum one day while on vc that I never expected. Frankly, the only thing remaining between us is making those things real. My excuse has always been time availability on my part.

My submission from all these her potential escapades from my study is
She's relatively young, about 28 and more beautiful/sexier since her marriage to the man. And I also think she never really was exposed like that before marriage. During one of our convos, she told me her husband is a "churchy" person who is not really into all these worldly things. She told me her husband may not touch her in more than one month and he won't complain. This woman is starved.

Men, pls some women like fantasy. They like being taken out of boredom into weird stuffs. They like sex. Occasionally, have a romantic chats with them, both physically and online. A few dirty chats I have had with her confirms this. She was all over the moon at the end of them.

I know I won't give in to her eventually as I have done to a lot of them in this category. But am afraid, she may not be lucky with other men who are uncontrollably randy....

I really must commend your self control on not taking the argument to the bedroom,but don't you think you have gone too far to back out again,you have her nude videos and also you have made her cum several times which is good,do you think there is much remaining , backing out from such humanitarian work is not the African way,you have collected her contact, romanced her to cum via video call which is even a feat itself and you now remember your morality,if you come before equity you must come with clean hands but I am sorry whoever can make a Nigerian woman cum this days by any means necessary does not have Clean hands,so go ahead and fvck that pvssy heaven will not fall

Blaqroman0000:
If you love her and you really trust her....
Take her to a genuine medical center and treat the infection even yours aswell

Don't kill or stop a relationship because of infection something that is 100% possible to be cured

how can I trust her if she gave me infection she got from another man,I can manage a cheating woman but an infected woman,my hand no dey even if you are miss nigeria,seem you have not got any sti that why you are still a gentleman concerning such,if they give you simple scabies and you suffer it for one week,you will not make this comment

Kobojunkie:
You continue to leave until you become emotionally mature to the point o not to being easily provoked by your woman or anything she says.

The reason you are asked to leave is the same reason why as a kid you were told to kneel down....immaturity. When you become emotionally able to control your emotions rather than having them control you, you can then calmly sit through situations and arguments, in your relationship, like an adult.

for a man leaving the house whenever there is an issue with his wife shows as you correctly pointed out, immaturity and hot temper,all women are created naturally with a factory fault to be cranky, unyielding, stubborn and freestyle mouth,it is maturity when you understand those issues with women and try as much as possible to defuse, deflate and manage a potential situation from flaring up,I know that for some days in a month women have very short fuses that can explode if not handled carefully,also most of this problems don't emerge overnight they have been simmering and bubbling under the surface for days or weeks waiting for just a spark to set it off,it is the mature man that will try to be proactive and face such issues not sweeping it under the carpet

Cyosaro:
Yes, before she lands you in trouble

I don't see anything wrong in a woman calling a man,maybe she just liked the guy and that's no reason to block her,she has not suggested anything offensive,just let her be,she might be giving green light but it is left to your conscience to decide,let's aviod making unnecessary enemies by just assumption,if she gives such signals to me it is my duty as a married man to fvck the living daylights out of her pvssy,it will not get me into trouble and heaven will not fall

omenka:
These terrorists sure think they're smart and everyone else a fool. They imagine everyone else carries the curse of unparalleled stupidity like their members and supporters.

They rely almost entirely on propaganda to achieve the goals they've set for themselves. You create an armed group, mostly comprising bloodthirsty ignorant illiterates and jailbirds, give them orders which the carry out to a T, and then come out to deny responsibility every fvckin time.

You have ordered those into cattle business to vacate the East before a particular date not far from today, failure of which would attract very dire consiquences. You know the consequences would come in the form of death and destruction as always, so you put out this idiotic press statement to deflect blame, create room for denial, when the bodies start piling up because you know indeed, just like your failed experiment with the sit at home, the bodies would start piling soon.

You ipobs are probably dumber than a dead sloth.

can't you see from previous statement about the Monday sit at home that this ipob is not the one issuing this orders and violent attacks,they have repeatedly suspended the sit at home but different splinter groups that is more violent don't think like that

epondudu:
These are bandits. Because UGM are
restricted to the East .

or unknown bandits

TotoGame:
You can't compare Owerri to Enugu nah! Enugu is by far more developed than Owerri just that night life dey Owerri wella ...hotels and Restaurants everywhere!

I live in enugu but you cannot compare owerri with enugu,owerri beats hands down in development

DaveDGreat:
Omo! What am I reading?

come on man,that cannot possibly be true,how can you remember what happened when you are 3 years old or press boobs of a primary 2 child,it is not possible,how can a 5-6 year old in primary 2 have a pressable boobs,I have not seen that,maybe in your place

DoctorOlasDesk:
I've been there. A 16 year old house help went on ranting rampage to the police station. I slept in the cell self. We must grant people the opportunity to defend themselves regardless of the info about them

that is why a woman scorned is dangerous,a teenager scorned is even more deadly and lethal,diplomacy and mature adult intelligence is to be used if they are becoming too cutely cuddley with you,outright rejection with Stern words can be counterproductive

oseahumenb:
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Pics attached..

About six months ago, I returned home from work and discovered that my wife and four children were no where to be found. I also noticed her that belongings and that of the children were missing.

I quickly dashed out of my flat and went to my neighbours to enquire of their whereabout. I was shocked to my bone marrows when they narrated to me how a man accompanied my wife to move out her belongings. When they tried to intrude the man warned them of serious consequences.

That was when it dawned on me that my wife whom I have caught severally on the phone discussing with her lover on the phone has finally done her worst.
On two occasions I caught her sneaking around with her phone, in the midnight I discovered an Sms that the so-called lover sent she was fast asleep . I cannot divulge the content here because it was disgusting to me at first.
I reported to the pastor and she was warned. Then the identity of the lover wasn't known to me. I just let it go, because I still needed the marriage for the sake of my four children.
However, I began to investigate without her knowing. Then I discovered that the secret lover was a custom officer, named Adeniyi Adesola, he was in Ibadan command. He is married with children.
One day he called my wife and I just could bear the insults, I confronted him on phone I warned him to stay away and reminded him that she was married.
Then he started abusing me and even threatened to kill me. He revealed to me that he knew my wife before I married her. He told me to backoff and let him always have access to her or he will kill me.
I reported the matter to the ekpan police station warri. The IPO who was a lady advised me to thread with caution and report to my family which I did.
I am from Edo State and my wife is from Ondo state. The custom officer is from Ekiti state. The custom officer, Adesola was intimidating me because I was not understanding their language.

I gave my wife everything she needed. I got a loan of 5m from a bank to set up a business for her. She squandered the money and there is nothing to show now in the shop. The bank has started moving in on me, I don't know what to do.

The custom officer I heard has kept my wife and children in Ibadan because his wife couldn't take it.
MY children are not in school and my wife just gave birth to a baby for the custom officer.
Meanwhile, she has not returned the bride price but she has delivered a baby for the customs officer.
Now I want the custom officer, Adeniyi Adesola to release my wife, Helen Bose and my children with immediate effect because he has charmed them.
Pls nairaland admins put this story on front page pls.. I need my children. They are not in school.
Pic attached

kneel down and thank God for taking that slut and a disgrace to womanhood away from you,just get a divorce and carry on with your life,I hope you have learnt some lessons about women ,stop trying to please by any means necessary, especially borrowing money to please a woman,I will be surprised if that custom man will not take #1-2 m from that money

Kriss216:
At least he sold the lands for valid reasons. Not like he's squandering the money

I don't think marrying a new wife and a chieftaincy title are valid reasons,how can you sell your land to be a chief?next he will sell another one to buy a Jeep,how dumb does it sound,despite the fact that he inherited the land and can do whatever he likes,but in our community he must give the sons land to build their own houses before selling everything,forget about lawyer and court be prepared for village politics,if it is in igboland put omu on that remaining land and report or sue him to the eze or igwe council,he maybe a chief but some other titled men will not like him,sound those people out and meet them one on one in their house be sure to go with original hot drink and tell them your predicament,they will cherish the respect and give you advice how to tackle the case,on the day of the case be bold and say what happened without fear, you will be supported by majority of the cabinet because a man that can sell a land for frivilous reasons will not be liked much by his peers, something like this happened in my in-laws place and it is the eze cabinet that shared the land themselves to the children of the man

[quote author=Rashkeed101 post=112196561]Oga Sanwo-Olu, now that you have taken a decision after watching the video, when will you commence your journey to 14 years imprisonment?[/quotei]haahaaa,oga sanwo-olu will claim they watched it for investigations, they have seen that the school is blameless,very good decision,but that small girl na fire imagine the audacity,now that every male close to her have seen the videos and know what she can do I wonder how many dicks she will ride cowgirl in the days and weeks to come

frbona:
how is this news ?!?

I wonder so she can't fvck again because she is pastors daughter

n3rve:
Besides how they drive, it's going to need to be serviced before it's put on the road. I don't even trust the drivers to use the recommended oil. I don't know the state of the break pads, etc. So I'll go with your advice to lift it. Feedback appreciated, Nurey

different strokes for different people I guess,but for me there is no thrilling experience that I will love more than driving a 2020 Honda Accord from Lagos to abuja,I won't even bother to service it or check anything,no need,that car will drive to heaven and back if there's road,the only thing I can do is get an armed army escort with ak47 and I will throttle that car and enjoy the adrenaline rush,but the rate of kidnapping these days on that Abuja road will make me think twice about embarking on such now,but my God what an experience it will be to drive such car cross country,it is an opportunity that a petrol head will hate to miss,

Studentdelta2:
I have too many problems at this moment to even bother myself about this girl but it's very hard to let her go. I am a student and being the sole bread winner of myself she has been very supportive...

She lives with me and so money always comes from her side. Only few will relate to this, I have no one, absolutely no one to get money from so I hustle online and money comes but it's not frequent.

Though when we met things were a bit better with more than 500k with me but now, i don't even know how to say it. I can't even pay my current final year school fees which is even giving me BP.

So this lady has been very supportive, but she sleeps with everything in this life. She lies without thinking twice as if it's normal. She sees sex as a normal thing. I can boldly attest to several times I caught her with her always claiming to change. I can't let her go cos when I did, I nearly starved. Things are not working well for me at all and she knows this.

So, an ex boyfriend of hers, a limping Cripple(married) called recently and I found out they have been banging even after my preaching about self worth. The girl will get me into trouble but oh well, i am just confused.

I know more than 50 names she has slept with and very certain she has done more than 500 people....

My life is just a sad irony. A cruel one.

keep on managing her,she helps you with money and pvssy why are you complaining,or do you want a pvssy that is exclusive for you?then the bills will give you extra bp

ezegenigbonine:
See ajibo children
Me wey dey pray make person rape me when I was young.
I remember when a story of students raping a carpenter in my state, i was like how I wish it was me.

be careful of what you wish for because you might get it,for a boy to be sexual abused at a very tender age is not what you will wish for,a boy that was forced to suck pvssy and breasts from 8-9 yrs will grow up to be a chronic womanizer,the worst type

punterzone:
strange things are happening

nothing strange about that,this is mostly what caused the problem (hello)yes who is that?(it is me Sandra)ok, what do you want?(I am 5 months pregnant and you are the father,WHAT!!!!

helinues:
It's time for out ladies to stop being a liability to the guys

if your girlfriend is giving you pvssy whenever you want and however you want,I don't think it is right to collect those things,and the guy is a simp for thinking the girl is made for him only,even me that's married for years I cannot swear oath for my wife talkless of girlfriend

ednut1:
Pikin wey go bad go bad. All this one na aesthetics

true talk my bloda,

Verbtips:
my brother find girlfriend you go the visit her towards evening when she don the near to cook finish

I remember the time I worked in benue cement,I have only cup in my house,I simply have to befriend a babe that has a restaurant in gboko just to be eating and nacking her, sometimes in the packing store,no food for lazy man is not for those the baby get restaurant.

Something similar happened in my street in enugu,the tenants living in a two storey apartment block refused to pay their landlord for 5 years the matter was still in Court then the frustrated man sold the house to Oga uche a well known fraudster,gangster and general trouble maker,so one Sunday evening two bus load of thugs with dangerous weapons and Indian hemp the size of baseball bats in their mouths proceeded to knock on every flat,if you open the door they will come into your sitting room and warn you to leave before they come next Sunday, before Friday every body has packed off,there is nothing you can do to Oga uche he has the police and thugs,I pity who remained stubborn in that house,they could have beaten the living daylights out of him before throwing his property outside.

akeem0706514:
Pure fallacy!!! I just hope you're not a ghost? Go back and tell them that, we on earth fail to believe the story

fantastical imaginations from an idle mind

DispatcherLagos:
Yes!
By economic importance I hope you know you are considering both their advantages and disadvantages?

they reduce the population of the world by infecting people with malaria,dengue fever,etc,this kill millions each year reducing overpopulation in the world

2braithe:
Many many countless menstrual food wey I don chop from different girls,how all of them wan get me at the same time??

Ada brought one rice and stew for me on a Sunday.Walahi the stew was looking and smelling suspiciously.
"Ada,bring spoon and join me na".Ada said God forbid!

just like one babe start to drag used condom with me that let she throw it inside toliet herself,I said let me throw it myself she refused,I also refused insisted that I will go with the condom and dispose it outside,this girl was visibly distressed she has planned to collect my semen for what only God knows,we dragged that condom until I ran off with it and never went back again.

calberian:
I just wonder. What ever happened to rolling tyres, flying kites, monkey post, going to stadium pool, “king, sergeant, and recruit”, and a lot more non academic stuff to do?

who will fly kite for you again,I just siddown they look the insane boldness of this generation,just last week I saw a strange WhatsApp msg on my phone,after inquiring,I found out that the msg were sent by the last daughter of my former farm manager a girl that is barely 15 yrs toasting a 45yr old man to buy Android phone for her,that she is ready to do anything for me,she then proceeded to send pictures of herself wearing skimpy outfits to enforce what she has in mind,I have been thinking how on Earth did she even get my contacts and also by the holy beard of Moses what gave this girl such a courage to send those things to me with her sister's phone,I am still in shock,this is a girl that my third daughter senior,my God

mascot345:
One just need to be very careful and prayerful.

This afternoon i was at a restaurant. When I was eating... I saw a guy with a very popular prostitute around my area.
This girl Hawks her body for as low as #500. She is too thing and ugly. With tattoos all over her body... She lives in a brothel near my area.

The boyfriend ordered fish and food worth 2k. The guy was showing her movies in his phone.
The prostitute was just laughing sheepishly.

If the guy knew ,,,, the babe na ashawo #500 is what I don't really know.

May we never date the wrong ones in Jesus name..... Amen.

friendship and relationship is not always about sex,I have seen men having relationship with prostitutes that they know every well,it is most times about the synergy between two people

Orgasmgiver123:
Waw
This is a motivation to me
Thanks for commenting

correct me if I am wrong,is that not pointsett cucumber by technisem I am seeing,if it is then you cannot get a proper final result because the variety is on the very last of rung of the performance ladder,it is small size,late maturity,poor or no resistance to Downy mildrew,poor fruit set,the list goes on,you could have used Murano,greengo or jorad but I guess they will be costly but worth it,no need suffering for nothing,I could have sent some cu 999 for you to try but any waybill going to ibadan is ,#3k,even if na one single cucumber seed.and the cu999 will be for small test only it doesn't sell well there.