₦airaland Forum

Jones90:
I hardly respond to people's post but this topic got my attention.

Just last weekend, a colleague of mine came to my office pleading that i should let her change her wears in my office and i asked her where is she going or what is she up to, this lady bluntly told me that she wants to go and f^ck a customer. Innocent me took it for a joke and laugh it off. But to my amusement, the lady change her wears sneak out so camera will not see her and took a bike beside the company to God knows where.

After an hour plus, she came back with some drinks and that was when it dawned on me cos i can see that she really went to f^ck but i still pretended not to know and i asked her where she went to. Lo and behold, the lady repeated what she earlier told me and even said why would she be lying to me. That will i beat her because she went to f^ck a customer. Saying the customer was sick and needed her presence to calm his naive. Till date it's still as if I'm dreaming.

she wanted you to be one of her customers and may even give you discount

nathyx:
21st century indomie generation heavily exposed to social media, how do you expect them to know that marriage requires a great deal of tolerance?? Thank God for the girl he blessed me with My wedding is next month, I don't have employment, zero source of income, zero kobo in my acct yet my woman loves me and eager to live the rest of her life with me cos she of knows am not a lazy man and I will never let my family sleep hungry. If you're still out there waiting for the perfect partner (100%) keep wasting your time marriage is not for feeble minds. Congratulations to me and wife in advance! October 21st 2023 save the date guys!

congrats bro,sometimes it is better to tackle a problem, most times the solution will
always come in the struggle

Stephen2324:
Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.

Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.

The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.

More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

you don't need to look far to find the root cause,it is the internet,social media has broken down the barriers to communication and has given human beings the ability to interact more freely with other cultures,women now has more freedom than ever in the history of mankind,a girl in owerri can send a live video of her pvssy to an India man 7000km away in Bangalore,I have seen a 17yr old ss3 girl that went from anambra state to visit her married lover she met on facebook In mali,a 50yr old army officer that kept her in a hotel for 2 weeks with steady banging,I was shocked to my bone marrows when this girl was telling me the story,with expensive phone,pictures to back her up,at that age to have guts to lie to her parents and stay 2 weeks with a total stranger in another country because of ease of communication,you can reach your own conclusion on what she will grow up to be

Obidense:
Only fools send nudes

a woman in love is semi insane and can do anything for love,even sending nude is the least on what she can do,let her do what the Indonesian president did when the Russia kgb wanted to backmail him for fvcking a Russian air hostess,the president told them to reveal it and send him a copy of the tape so he can use it to boast to his friends how strong he is in bed.the kgb weak

spiritedtete:
This is laughable... the man obviously gave the woman the mantle eheheheh. Dear Men, show care, show love , but never go soft for a woman.

NB: I am not saying you should be abusive. But please be the giant you are meant to be even if she is richer.. Do not go soft. Please!

Make sure you are always two steps ahead.

I don't think this is even a matter of going hard or strong,you have to know when to be firm and when to back off with women,I just finished reading a historical account of genhgis Khan the warlord killer that conquered and ruled almost 50% of the known world at that time ,ruling over millions but he was killed by his Chinese mistress,if a woman that knows your secrets,weak points and backups wants to destroy you, it is finished,

GanagiBitrus:
At this point, a state of emergency needs to be declared in Ogun over ritual killings.

The silence that is coming from the Yoruba elites and Leaders is what shocks me the most,how can such harrowing and grisly habit turn into a culture,are they part of the problem?is ritual killing so ingrained and institutionalised in Yoruba culture that they are all guilty?if this news of a 20yr old boy cutting off his father's private parts for money ritual does not shock them into action then I will know that human sacrifice is part of Yoruba culture,hese and many more are critical questions we must ask ourselves

vikkogg:
Good day, everyone.
Trust you're all doing good.

I'm a 34-year old single Lagos guy. A graduate of Statistics in a top Nigerian Uni. I'm gainfully employed and doing averagely well for myself.

Now the bottom line of this writeup is that I'm sexually attracted to older women. Once I set my eyes on any good looking older woman, I get attracted to her by default.

I'm pretty sure there's nothing abnormal about this. So please if you're a woman living in Lagos between the ages of 37 to 48 and will like to explore with a young guy, send me a mail to

mastervikk@gmail.com

37-48 are still brand new chassis babes what you need is 60-70 and above then that is were you get older women,let's see if your fetish is freaky enough

Yugoslavia247:
Simple

Bad guys have not time to correct bad behavior

Gals have a lot of bad behavior and secretly wish to try out

No jury or judges


Good guys
They will wanna correct you
Judge you
Force them to be responsible
Semi parent attitude

Bad guys are care free and don't care.

No jury

I think this explains a lot,I have caught many of my Ex's several times cheating,I don't care what you do,I just fvck you join,I can't chase you because of cheating

Kingosytex:
You must be tolerant and learn to overlook many things.
Staying together comes with sacrifices; overlook the shortcomings of others because you aren't perfect either.

there is a level of things you can tolerate as a man and how much stupid is enough,for instance last week my wife hooked me and seized my phone that I will give her money to repair the soakway system,my fellow brothers this said sokaway is in a 2 storey building of 6 flats,with one rented BQ and five occupied shops at the front that I gave my wife to be collecting rent for the past 6 years and leave me alone,she cannot use money generated from the ptoperty to repair a damaged sokaway ?in anger I gave her a nice uppercut that resettled her mindset that it is a taboo to hold me physically like a market agbero.

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

actually I will be happy at that age to have my wife off my back and on top of it,I will be receiving hard currency from two sources if I be a good boy,why not?I will have the freedom to do what I like ,fvck any pvssy I fancy,misbehave as I like and why will I even think about getting a second trouble called wife?God has answered my prayers if i find myself in such predicament.

EbolaTinubu:
So because the useless Buhari did it, him too wants to reciprocate sha?

let's change the northerners with westerners let's see how far it will work,if it doesn't work we may try the easterners and Niger deltans,if they failed too,then I don't see anything wrong in hiring expatriates to run our country like Dubai is doing.

Enny2013:
Men have higher libido.

maybe because of the testosterone hormone but women enjoy sex more hands down,I have watched my ex in seething envy orgasming for more than a minute,rolling her eyes,convulsing and speaking gibberish in ecstasy,imagine if a man orgasmed for a minute that will be something else.

ayesco202:
The only thing we see everywhere and online are drugs that boost sex drive. How about those that reduce it? The only one I found is for treating prostate cancer which side effect might be reduction in testosterone levels.

Won't there be a curb of sexual immorality in our society if such drugs are everywhere? Why do we have only drugs that boost libido? I've been searching for long but there's none that has been clinically tested and approved. Devil truly rules the world.

Medical practitioners, what do you have to say?

Seun

mynd 44

lalasticlala

if you do hardwork you will even forget you have penis,idleness is the major cause of high libido

Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?

even if I marry Beyonce I may still be tempted to sample the ugly Bolande or ngozi, variety is the spice of life

Battlefield2:
Not even trying to be tribalistic or something but believe me, Igbos are very good people
I have so many Igbo friends and we interact so much,what I deduce from them is that majority of them are very very business minded and they help a lot provided they have what you are seeking

Days ago,I created a thread seeking financial assistance for the scan and medication of my kidney stone problem, I was diagnosed with the issue years ago and I have been living in pains with it while spending a lot of money and by d grace of God,I passed out the stone naturally like 2-3weeks ago....here is the link

https://www.nairaland.com/7804137/how-peed-out-kidney-stone

But the symptoms started again few days back, so I needed some funds to get my medications and get scan to understand my condition.
I am presently very cash strapped,so I had no option than to solicit for funds online to treat myself
A nairalanders mailed me and asked for my account details and sent me #5000 and another one sent me #3000 and another sent #2000
I bought small drugs I could buy with these money and keep hoping to God for financial breakthrough to keep my health together

This morning,in my idle time,I was scrolling through my bank App and I discovered that the 3 nairalanders that sent me the money are Igbos checking their name, I am really very grateful to them that despite the fact that I am Yoruba and they don't know me anywhere and with the level of controversy and wahala brewing between Yoruba and Igbos because of the just concluded election,they kept rivalry apart and send me funds to take care of myself.

Igbos are very good people believe me, Politics is just our problem in Nigeria and the Nigerian politicians don't care,they are just using us to create enmity among ourselves but I'm quite sure that very soon,Light will shine and Igbos and Yorubas will start acting like the brothers and Sisters that we are
Thank you so much

"any observer can clearly see how the competitive individualism and the adventurous spirit of the igbos could have been harnessed by committed leaders for the modernization and development of Nigeria,nigerians pathetic attempts to crush these idiosyncrasies rather than celebrate them is one of the fundamental reasons the country is not developed as it should be and has emerged as a laughing stock" chinua Achebe,there was a country,page 78

YouandiAllofus:
In the next five years, investment go don mature for a handsome return

this one is no longer gold digging with shovel and headpan but using a caterpillar D10 excavator,I pity the poor man he may not even last 5 years

Fuckyoumod:
Hahahahahahaha.... haahahhahahaha.....

If Democracy is not working, why not try another system of Government?

Just a question sha

democracy is working but the wrong people are in charge,it is clear to everybody in Nigeria both living and dead,that mr Peter obi is what is needed in to lead this country,

Brainlight:
GOD WHEN E GO REACH NIGERIA TURN

I don't think a coup in Nigeria now is a good idea,the very foundations of the country is on the brink and a coup can easily tip it over,moreover Nigeria is not the type of country were you rule for 40+ yrs and hand over to your son,like it is a chieftaincy title,we are far too stubborn to fall for such nonsense

Sirheny007:
Let's not forget the economic importance of these "Gala houses".
Closing them all down is a wrong call.

is this not even a breech of fundamental human rights,why can't an adult of 40yrs go to a place and relax after a hard days work

MurderX:
What's up with the red boots? Naija no be Yankee, do anyhow, see anyhow, 14yrs loading for despicable man ass lovers.

I am totally puzzled by that red rainboots,I have looked at it from several angles and have come to the conclusion that they are swampboots not rainboots

jaeyking:
What you don't know doesn't kill you

But since you know, run your STI test and you could file for a divorce if you are not comfortable.

It's quite simple or more easier to say

it is easy for you to advice her to file for a divorce,what happens to for better and for worse,so she will pack up and run away at the first hint of problem,my own case was even far worse that I was seduced by my wife's last born in the family and the witch got pregnant,all hell broke lose but my wife didn't pack and go,now everybody is happy,even my in-laws that swore to kill me are now very happy because the 10yr old girl is living with them now and making them happy,tough times never last but tough people do,I learnt my lesson the hard way.

Supreme145:
On point...shes trying to guilt trip me that I am threatening her with break up because she goes to work from my place but that's not my concern at the moment, told her to go stay with one of the numroues guys she's flirting with

a leopard cannot change its spots,your babe is a cheater or a potential cheat that lack opportunity yet and she has zero love and respect for you,she is just using you for her convinence at the time being,when she is ready she will pack her things and walk away from your house

Solofresh2:
Brother it's not even about mummy's boy.Woman don show my uncle shege for this life no be small

don't you think it is time to revenge the shege they dished out to your uncle?but honestly I don't like such women they are desperate and clingy

IconicR:
Lies upon lies

from what I have seen women do I no longer doubt any story about them no matter how depraved,wierd or outrageous it may sound and for modesty and civility sake I will refrain from telling some of my own experiences

Bluntguy:
She and that witch of a dog are partners in crime.

I have a sneaky suspicion that the dog will suck pvssy more than a man,infact that ekukuke is a dogdildo,you can reach your own conclusions

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

ignore them there is nothing you can do,girls love such guys

illicit:
7 to 10 men in a day



Women strong pass men

it is the men that are killing themselves to satisfy woman I am piting,you can only satisfy a woman that wants to be satisfied,the day I fainted and really died on top of girl is the day I retraced my steps,despite the fact that we will all die one day but doing so on top of a woman is not a good way to die

Quality20:
Many ppl in big and semi big cities always wish to get married to city girls who are very educated or at least enlightened and speak good English
Guy, you are about to cheat yourself. Many city girls are already prostitutes without knowing. Its far better u go to a nice decent village and marry those girls whom you see as uneducated than to settle for those coded prostitutes parading themselves all over the city speaking English even more than the oyimbo ppl themselves. Yes, agreed, some of the village girls maybe corrupt, but then they still won't be as deceptive as many of these highly educated, wise jet age girls who may even be lesbians, bisexuals,multiplesexual etc. Many men who are married to these so-called modern ladies find it so difficult to kowthe real character,personality and lifestyle of these ladies for many months or years as against village brought up ladies who lead simple lives

my brother,50-60% of girls in a village we have our farm in imo state are single mothers,they fvck like rabbits,infact they have so much freedom that they now consider sex as a normal function of the human body,two very good tisp to get a good wife either from City or village is to make sure she and her family are properly vetted by married woman around,also give your relationship a maturity period of at least 6 months to one year with good nackings,in that time a smart man will know if he is right or wrong

Labdi69:
I have noticed this more than once. Whenever i take a lady out to a fancy restaurant, she always looks for a way to talk down on the food and make it seem she’s been to better places.

This has happened more than once and with different ladies its not a cooncidence. Mind you, these are pricy restaurants.

For someone like me, even if the food is not good, i wont even say anything especially when im not paying.

seriously I don't even see myself taking out time and money to take a girl to a fancy restaurant,WHY?my objective is to nack you not to exchange culinary tips,if you are not ready to come to my house forget it.

Wawelexy:
No RIP...

I am of the opinion that the guy may have mental problems,even to train a girl in University nowadays you must be very mad or SIMPly stupid,I only spend what I can afford to lose

Wawelexy:
No RIP...

I am of the opinion that the guy may have mental problems,even to train a girl in University nowadays you must be very mad

DCmaverick:
I've been going to church year after year, month after month, week after week and day after day but it seems all the prophetic declerations and AMENS i've been shouting is nt working. What is wrong lord? Where am i getting it wrong?
what must i do?

the time you should use to improve yourself and work on new ideas are spent shouting amen in church,if you like keep on waiting for prophetic declerations so long you don't provide a service or have a product you will wait forever