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Buhari wehdone sah

Bros you dull enh....
Chai

What sort of nonsense is this?

JustBeingFrank:
See height, the policemen are so tall that the woman appears so short.

You mean the woman is so short that the policemen appear so tall

Any Nigerian who commented on the possibility of Tinubu becoming President has a serious problem and is part of the problem Nigeria is dealing with.

Never Again!
Times up for these old clowns. Buhari is the last.

Those who think 2023 will be elections as usual, be prepared for a movie, the reign of Partisan politics in Nigeria is coming to an end.

Rilwayne001:
Buhari is still in shock

Shock kee am dia... mtcheew

I am glad the masses are beginning to see that the responsibility of being Nigeria's President is ill fitted for old people who have no formal education, no international enlightenment, but are just politically connected moguls.
Next time, Nigerians select your leaders wisely.

For all I know Buhari has been a Colossal failure on various levels.

Those are the ones who voted in the current government...

Ice water...

Futuragetty:
The Nigerian electoral system is mental slavery...emancipate
yourselves and help destroy that evil constitution! Nigeria as
constituted, is Tragedy in Motion!
# thinkAgain!
Uncle Egunmogaji, am I wrong about how US electoral process?

Brov, you knew this kind of content and you have not made a topic out it? I just can't...

This right here is bloody front page material!
please enlighten the public, I implore you to have this piece release people from looming electoral slavery, by making several topics out of this till it hits front page.

You deserve a barrel of beer brov!

I don't know if I am the only person that gets severely irritated at the mention of the statement; "Buhari, Nigeria's President"...

What did Nigeria as a country of majorly normal people do to deserve this abnormal occurrence ?

How did he even get a second term??

I am done...
My alternate citizenship will be in order by then...
They can cook the country alongside periwinkles for all I care

WHO ... I really don't know what to say about these guys anymore.
Snail slow decisions about critical issues...
Tchai,

The same way he shows love to his mother without flirting with her...

A couple of issues could result to that,
1-Mental/Psychological abstractions
2- Hormonal abstractions
3- Spiritual abstractions

In either case being gay is as a result of some abstraction. As it is not normal.

It's not possible, why?
Because he's a glorified herdsman himself

Raxxye:
Hmmm. I doubt if Buhari would want to nominate a former member of GEJ's cabinet. If it's true, then congratulations to her. But why should we continue to recycle same individuals for so many years?

Because that mama is raw talent and sheer world class... and it's for a global role, that needs her country's attestation.

That's basically the world asking Buhari "is she Nigeria's finest for this role?" And Buhari knowing the absolute truth, admitting to that.

Google her cv.

For now sentiments aside, I don't know anyone up to her standard.

The easiest way to learning a foreign language "as a guy" is having a relationship with a foreign lady that is real.
I speak, Dutch, French, Turkish and German(with difficulty).

Snaagg:
Nigerians abroad, how many of you are considering relocating back to the 'motherland' once this whole pandemic/lockdown debacle is over?

If you are, state your reasons here..

It depends, unless you live in Wuhan-China

I used to be 5"10/5"11 inches for the whole part of my late teenage years... well turns out that now I am literally 6 feet tall, and that complementary inch must have come in my mid twenties, I didn't even notice when that happened.

Acmepreneur:
This my guy is not serious at all.

I used to tell myself change is the only permanent thing in life bla bla bla. And I really believe that once you take the right steps, you can be anything you want to be. This made me to be very soft with people.

When I started dating my Boyfriend, I really was not choosy or judgy. I accepted him without a second thought. I'm not the type of lady that actually do all those lady stuff, I'm a very serious person and I don't play games at all.
My BF is very cool, like not bad looking, normal behaviour etc and I like him a lot.

I'm a very ambitious person, with an extremely big dreams, my boyfriend is also hard working, but I'm not seeing any future at all with his career/prospects/life. When I say I'm with big dreams, it's means I'm working on discovering (new innovations), planning big business that would compete with top brands etc. I'm that big in dreams.

My children is also very important to me, I don't plan for their sufferings at all.
I'm an introvert, I find solace in my aspirations, dreams. I have books I work out those formulas (I mean how I would execute my business plans), I research a lot, think a lot etc

Our fight now

Since day 1, I do tell him to do this and that. I really hate company works, so I would tell him to have savings, and be building something sideways where he works. Also, I wanted him to do Masters, since he said he would love to travel out, he's always saying he hates Nigeria bla bla bla. His dad also wanted him to do Masters, but he's in the crew of Masters is a waste of time, and he can't do Masters in Nigeria bla bla bla

Baby try this business, he would say he doesn't have money, he needs 2 million to start a business etc.

Meanwhile, he doesn't have money to travel out of the country to do Masters, nor 2m to start any business. So I would tell him to manage what he has first, and that would propelled him later, but he likes to talk like illiterates that Masters is meaningless.

Meanwhile, while that is true, those things are just like investment, you don't know when you will see an opportunity to use your Masters certificate, and since he studied computer science, I told him that it can even help him get a job outside Nigeria when he leaves, that it can be useful there. I understand the situation of the country, but not having masters doesn't mean you will get a job as well, so why don't you just have it.

My bf would shut me off, and also his dad, the dad even asked him to take job at the federal university where he works, but my bf said he can't work in that place, this is a federal government job o, he would say the salary is too small and people there already knows him, because his dad is in a big office in the university.

So it won't seem like I'm disturbing him, I went quiet, but might chip it in in discussions, but I don't fight him on those things. He works in a small company, and he rose to the position of a Manager, he spent all his time in office, the little time to waste with his friends. It's a good thing but I'm not comfortable with that, the pay is about 90k, which is not enough for his expenses, also he's the first born.

Fast forward to last year, his dad died, it looks like a film trick to him, he now have to take care of his siblings and mum (mum is nurse, but retired long time ago, her pay is little because it wasn't normal retirement). Everything I was telling him finally came to pass.

He rented an apartment with His friends, he later hated it, and said he wants his own, he went to rent an apartment of 600k (he gathered it from different places and he borrowed), which I really hate and we fought on that as well. Because he could have used the money to secure his life in a better way, since his complain when I told him to start a business is that he doesn't have money bla bla bla

He will not apply for better jobs as well
He's practically doing nothing to grow, and would say he hates Nigeria and he would like to leave, but he can't even apply for scholarships or even google schools.

So this 2020, Jan 1, I started fighting him, that I'm not going to continue with him like that, that he should go apply for MSC, start a business or just do something. He now started saying that he has responsibilities which are his siblings, I told him this is the nonsense, he would do till the year ends, we will fight and later resolve it.

He won't even talk about it, or get reminded, he makes me feel Hus boss is using him. I have told him several times how he would be used and dumped, in fact, he makes me say negatives sometimes, and that's because I have seen people that get dumped while working with companies and they fall back to grass, my mum won't even accept him because he works in a company, small company, not cocacola or big companies. My mum hates company works like shits because we've heard and seen people falling to zero due to company jobs.

The problem
1. He says I'm disturbing his life, and not allowing him to rest

2. I'm not happy with him living that way, with no future, no investment, hes not building himself while working, hes not doing courses, not learning any skills, and I think its too risky.
His current salary is not enough for him, not to talk of me collecting part of it. But he gives me money though, has not been more than 1k, 2k and data subscription which I really appreciate.

3. I can't introduce him to my family because I want him respected. Truth is I don't know what he would say to impress my parents because I'm not even impressed with him. And I want him to be superloved and respected. I believe in first impression would last very long. He has introduced me to his family and all friends

4. He never ask me about my own life, aspirations, advice me etc, I'm always the one to do that. Yesterday he had the gut to tell me I'm not caring because of just two days of not showing care

5. Corona has turned his company outside down and he's highly affected. Just like all what I was telling him finally happened, and he has nothing to fall back at. He has a car,

6. I can't marry him or anyone this way, and I'm getting old, though and I want marriage next year. He said he wants too, but I can't marry him like this. And I don't want to get to late twenties, and he breaks up and I start looking for husband, people would be thinking maybe I have a problem that is why I'm yet to marry, they won't know that its him that caused my delay. Plus I have a very high esteem, so I would hate to be desperate for marriage with a man or be the one to be wanting marriage so much in a relationship

7. Right now, we have temporarily break up, so I'm asking if I should break up or make up? Because he was saying rubbish last night

Note: I'm not a fan of dating and rubbish, I love him very much and I don't want to leave him at all. I don't think there's any man I can date as I do not like dishonesty at all and 95% of men are dishonest. My BF is very honest and good I'm every other aspect

Mama, what stops you from doing the masters degree abroad?

Why don't you take that step and observe your life change.

Keep knacking oga... mtcheew

@op it depends on a range of factors,
1: Which country in Europe? For instance, Germany and Czech republic are both European countries but have very contrasting settings. What applies in Czech does not apply in Germany and vice versa. So Europe as a whole is made up of various unique countries.

2: are you skilled? What can you offer that is unique?

3: are you good with languages or willing to learn a new language because Europe in general is not essentially English speaking.

4: most likely you may need to return to school to get yourself up to par if you intend to integrate into the labor market are you ready? How solid is your education?

5: can you handle blue collar jobs? Oga at some point you may need to work some menial jobs while checking the waters, are you tough enough?

6: have you properly researched the part of Europe you intend to go to, does it fit your profile? Are your experiences of any value to the place? Do you have people there who can potentially guide you?

7: do you have a plan?

If you responded with no to most questions, then Oga please don't go, I beg you. Try another region perhaps

Wallahi this man irritates me... I can't believe he represents Nigeria, I just can't.

Mancala:
All it takes is a small spark and an accelerant to ignite the whole thing. They say it's the last straw that breaks the camels back. That last load is coming. Nigeria is a very resilient country with a lot of creativity. We excel at finding ways around obstacles. For example the country is messed up so those that can, migrate. No electricity so we individually buy generators. We dig wells/boreholes for water. We are frustrated but not yet enough. But a day will come when "monkey go go market he no go come back". "Choir master wey dey mess for church go soon smell am."
Aisha Buhari has said some interesting things about her husbands administration. They are beginning to smell their own farts!

To be honest with you, I don't see any revolution of the sort happening, Why? Because
Unfortunately the high resilience of most Nigerians has evolved into a weird sort of complacency... what sort of spark would be larger or any different than what Sowore started?
What other revolution again would be different? Abi is it for secession, that Nnamdi Kanu didn't do?

Sowore actually started a revolution full on and guess what... it kicked off the proper way too, all that he needed was the might of Nigerians behind him and trust me Nigeria would have been on a 360 degree redemption pathway, but what happened...? Oh wait, Let me remind you... the average Nigerian at the time didn't want any trouble, preferred to settle for the usual "less", bother about the next meal, was not concerned about the whole revolution but wanted to see how it would end up without his/her input.

Well of course Sowore was jailed, tortured, almost even assassinated by dss and the average Nigerian was like "mtcheew ... he was not even the messiah afterall" #StillAwaitingTheMessiah... did they want him to start shooting fireballs from his eyes? look, even if Jesus came to take bullets for Nigeria while challenging Buhari's gov't currently, the average Nigerian would still act very non challant in offering revolutionary support and nobody, I repeat, no Nigerian would standup.

The answer is simple, true patriotism died in Nigeria during the 90's, what we have now are Nigerians who mostly care about themselves, stomachs and maybe their gods... dasall.

Despite this babas tenure being a colossal fail, Trust me the next election I wouldn't be surprised if another probably "western baba" as usual was voted in,
Everyone will cheer that baba until that baba begins to wring their ball sacks... and then as usual the "resilient Nigerians" would start complaining again about the baba being a baba.
Yes! Nigeria Nigerians for you.

Eric Cantona and of course the pricipality himself "Roy Keane!"
Especially if you are talking about influential.

LinLinGentle:
Disclaimer: I AM NOT A SAINT...

I have been hustling abroad for a few years while wifey was working in Nigeria and living with children. Marriage has always been turbulent and we even almost got divorced after I travelled out. We somehow worked on our issues with the help of pastors, family and friends, and after a few years of ''roughing'' it abroad to pave way for them, I succeeded and they finally arrived a few months ago.

I used to be hot tempered, but I have had enough time to gain insight into my issues and I have now seriously calmed down as per ''abroad levels''. My wife on the other hand is fully taking advantage of me. First thing she did when she got here was to cut all my family members off. She said she did not want to have anything to do with any of them again and they should all mind their businesses. She has also not been too keen to kickstart her career, all she does is endless picture taking and social media hyping of herself. You would never even think that she is a married woman!

She has become a more toxic person that she ever was, very bossy, never backs down, always the attacker, always ready for a fight, lazier, always on social media, communicates as little as possible, embarrasses me in the neighbourhood with her constant noises and door slamming, and finally her threats have tripled! Madam is now so fierce that I have become the house chicken. Just within a few months of being here o! She tells me that she will show me for al the ''gra gra'' I used to do back in Nigeria. Friends advised me against bringing this woman here but I no hear word as per responsible family man wey I dey claim to be.

The popular threat is usually ''I will end your career''. I wasn't taking this too seriously initially, but she then started following through with this by constant police calls and spooky career ending accusations and allegations.

I have never been the one to first lay my hands on her, but I have spilled drinks on her before when she attacked me. My wife now gets very physical without having any element of self control, fear or restraint after the simplest argument and sometimes, she damages things out of anger. She does this so often and never hesitates to dare me to do my worst.

I discovered that signed up on dating sites just within a few months of arrival here and when I caught her chatting about sex to a particular guy in our area, she said that it was all my fault. She did not apologise for this. She even referred to it one time after an argument that ''Na only chat you see me dey chat with guys abi, you will soon see them fucking me in your own house! Wait for it and let us see what you would do about it''

My productivity at work has declined significantly and I am now on the verge of depression. Neighbours called the police on us one time after a lot of noise from out house. She accused me of domestic violence. The police had to separate us and I was stuck at home for an extended period and could not go to work due to this. I am now being investigated for domestic violence, which is a serious crime as madam wants it and I have had to report the situation to my company! The whole thing is so messy that I am scared that I have not seen the worst yet.

I am so afraid of losing it all and returning to Nigeria broke cos I spent my last card and even racked credit card debt to bring them herehoping to pay off gradually. I still have a few years to get my Pali and if I lose my job now, that is the end for all of us!

For now, I don't know what is going to happen to us, as this woman is so determined to cause great and irreparable damage that could ruin our lives, just to get back at me and she is being cheered on by her family and friends.

OUR SITUATION IS SO MESSED UP!

I understand you brov, however if you don't mind, which country happens to be the location of this predicament?

Because the solution to all this, is as easy as pie if you happen to reside in Europe, especially if they "your wife" are on dependent visas/residency status... You don't even need to send her to Nigeria for her to feel that cold bite of reality.

Sososo:
HBD BTW football age

I hope you are not referring that "football age" term to him?

Because we all watched him grow...
as at 2014 his father still took him to training holding his hand. He literally had the right to start driving as at 2016... Google about him please!

Footballers especially with western backgrounds have no platform to fake their ages these days... unlike in Africa or some parts of Asia where background checks and info are rarely verified, due to a disorganized system.

Yes Alex is 24

O! Sowore
I wish that man was Nigeria's president for just 1year.

Beautyaddy:
Very Correct Analogy.

Nigeria as a Country is Blessed with abundant natural resources and good weather...but the Main problem with Nigeria are its Citizens.

Nigerians are the main curse of Nigeria.

On point there.

I remember talking to a Dutch guy once and he told me if all Dutch people were emptied into Nigeria, within 5 years, the world would become envious of Nigeria... My response was: if all Nigerians were emptied into Holland, in 2 years time, Holland would get kicked out of the EU.

Nigeria is not a bad country, in reality Nigeria has the template of a global power house, however Nigeria's problem is more of the leadership and the followership pattern.

I worry for this Madame...
Can't she give him good head or somefin?
Must she always smash?
Sometimes a lil variety is fun... just because a husband has to bust a nut doesn't mean he must smash na.
Pfft ... I just taya for all these prehistoric wive's sef