₦airaland Forum

garnetty:
@ ronkebp, Just my point. @ Outstrip, am sure you would n't stand it.

Maybe in my 60's or right after a new baby but other than that why would anybody say that you should not have frequent sex. The question should be if he can handle it. If I am not having sex at home where in the world should I get it from. Also it is not just the act of having sex. It is everything else that comes with it. It is hard to stay mad at someone you are making love to. Even if it is angry sex when you are done you relieve some tension and unless you are mentally unstable you will not be as mad as you were before the act. It reminds you that this person is the only other person in the world that is worthy to have that time with you and vice versa. What should you do in the weeks when you don't have it. Pray? Anyway just make a time table and be done with it then

Your sister is right. Your mom should even be the one paying it back. Her son can give her the money but she should pay it back. I wonder why she dotes on him? Was he very sick as a child? I don't get it. Did you have an older brother before him that did not make it? It just seems strange. I don't believe anybody is too old to learn. I really hope that your mom has not spoiled your brother

Na wa oh. Please make sure you marry a woman that has that same view on sex. Before you starve someone to madness

What exactly did you need him for?

The school should be held responsible. Why would they hire a minor and leave her under the supervision of an adult male. Why would her mother know of the attempted rape and not report the matter. Too many questions here. May her soul rest in peace

Cut your coat according to your size

Look what this beautiful girl has done to her face. Say no to drugs

He makes valid points. The only thing to correct here is that it works the same way for both sexes. Why should a woman marry? Especially in a culture were women are not encouraged to move up. Why not just travel the world. Screw anyone you fancy, advance your career or businesses until you hit the glass ceiling and then adopt children in your 40s. For some people this is ideal. For others the sacrifices made for marriage and family is worth all those other things. To each their own.

What is she confused about. Married or not the man does not want to marry her. How many ways will he tell her

Dress

outspoken:
well said @outstrip, people dont knw health is wealth, dont knw y u ll say u cant leave somewhere cos of bizess wen u nw d place isnt safe any longer. i like your decision Halima Abubakar,its a bold step,may God guide ur family and everyone of u
am so in love with this dress, really nice

As we speak I know people that are still there. I pray they are safe. Money no be everything

jennykadry:
Didn't Jolie wear something like that in the 2011 golden globes?

Yes she did

I think I have heard Chelsea handler in the past refer to Melissa as "horse face". LOL. Joan Rivers tends to be very protective of her daughter

So you simply cast someone because they are igbo? Can't believe someone mentioned Oge Okoye. Please lets get serious

ThiefOfHearts:
Can anyone tell me why Thandie Newton is playing an Igbo woman in the film adaptation of Half Of A Yellow Sun?

and none of you have a problem with this? 

Doesnt Chinamanda have a say in this? She couldnt suggest a Nigerian actress?

Then again seeing that Nigerians are colorstruck and Thandie is biracial thus lightskinned, maybe that was the point.

Can you recommend an Igbo woman who would have played the role? (besides genevieve o)

Yet there are still southerners living there claiming that they cannot leave because of their businesses. The ones who were born and raised there are running for dear life.



I like that dress. Angelina Jolie wore it recently

emmatok:
But if the woman call the COPS, the man will be arrested.

The law must be made for women .

That is a lie. A woman cannot call the cops over and argument and the cops will arrest the man because he was arguing with the woman. Geez

May God have mercy on human beings

St. Obi is the man

Sounds like it could have been Post Partum depression combined with an inconsiderate husband and inlaws

Once you give someone else your power then you are finished. I am just speechless. The man did not even bother to ever defend himself because of whatever voodoo they did. I think this woman should never be let out of jail. She is a danger to the public. Sick, twisted and demented. This man needs a hug

Shinatu:
Is there a way one can find out if a minor's identity has been stollen?i.e if SSN has has gotten into wrong hands.?

You could do a credit check
www.freecreditreport.com
www.experian.com
www.creditkarma.com

You can also get a free credit report from all three credit bureaus once a year. There is a government website for that. This will only sure debt and possibly income information depending on the website you are going through. If the number is being used for other things like collecting public assistance or illegally moving babies in and out of the country it will not show on the report

mutter you broke up your son's marriage. You said it yourself. So it is safe to say that you are bad mother in law. Don't take your unhapiness out on others. You had a chance to be happy and fufilled you made the choice not to. I pity that former dil of yours. Not because she married your son but because she had you as a MIL. Your son is not your husband and you never encouraged him to be a good husband rather you encouraged your dil to suffer with him because that is what wives are supposed to do. SUFFER. I think you just brought up your DIL just to get old opinions back out. How can you say you will take your sons side even if he is not acting in a morally upright manner. It makes you seem like a bad person. My mother would even be harder on me than my husband and she would be the same with any of our spouses. Why would a DIL respect a MIL that tells her that her son is always right and she always wrong. Sometimes I believe you are just a plant here on nairaland put to just irritate the piss out of me.

Anyway back to Kardava. Kardava please leave your MIL alone for now. Why is your husband asking you to tell his mother that you guys don't have money. Whaat happened to his own mouth. Don't get too excited and then when things get ugly the both have a common enemy. A word is enough for the wise. Your husband knows. He has seen. So let him handle things.

I was never a pink loving girl or interested inplaying with with dolls. It is just silly to make a big deal of this. The parents are even contradicting themselves to make this silly point. Why give him a feminine name then.

Me I am going to go ask for my own allowance. Today na today

Everybody is talking about the junk care and leopard print but wetin concern the two dogs for this picture. So irrelevant

Is this supposed to be artistic or what

Is there a way to get a btter view of the information on the cards. The names. ID numbers etc

Awwwww. Such a sweet kid. Kids are always a joy. I always say there are no bad kids.