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Is it not against the law?

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Thanks Lucrabasi though I have heard them referred to as both when I lived in Nigeria. I don't think it is ridiculous for our climate. What is ridiculous s a three piece suit in 95% weather when there is no need for it. My dad worked in University of Benin and this is what he wore to work everyday including his colleagues. Most goverment workers wore this o LOL

White gold

No excuse whatsoever. I don't care what the culture is or what it will cost. Na wa oh. Did their child kill someone?

Bones. LOL. For real though. My friend is lactose intolerant but he says he is not worried because he doesn't only eat the meat but also the bones. Please if you are not african don't try this at home

Actually it is the man that donates the chromosome to make a boy. The woman cannot. If a man does not have a son and he feels like blaming someone he can blame himself

I can use my uncle in Nigeria as an example. He works for a big oil company and he is well off and the only son of his parents. He has two kids and they are both girls. My Aunty wanted more but after a difficult pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage he said no more. He will not lose his wife because she wants a son for him. Most people will almost keel over hearing that they are both content having only girls when he is an only son but my uncle is just fine with it and they have a very beautiful marriage.

Thank you. I did the conversion myself and I was shocked. You are very right about the mentality too. It is like someone getting abused but they feel that the abuse is justified because that is what they are used to. Another person says they think it is outrageous and the other people who are obviously okay with mistreatment jump in and try to tear him down. $17.00 for something that they should give you for free.


PS someone mentioned though that if you print it online it is free and if this is the case then every customer should also be told that and that is also if the online service is free because from what I heard you get charged to set up your account online also.

I used to think that village girls were less exposed so less promiscuous but that is not the case. I guess I was young then to really understand it but HIV is on the rise in many villages in Nigeria and it is not because they are sitting at home pounding yam that they are catching it. I am not saying that the city girls are not promiscuous but do not lie to yourself and think that you will go there and find an angel besides a real man that really wants a woman will find a good woman anywhere

Village girls are very promiscuous for the most part. I am speaking of Edo state sha don't know about the other states.

Haba. You are not mad. Your life is not over. You are beautiful, strong, intelligent woman. So you go crazy and who will lose. Snap out of it. Tell yourself that you deserve the best and decide what the best is for you. Please stop this "My life is over" thing. You had a life before him and you will have one after him. From what you have said he does not respect you, his family does not respect you and even his random pussy on the street calls the house and disrespects you and yet you are still mourning the marriage. What will it take for you to woman up and help yourself. Did you see the post a woman posted a few days ago about catching HIV from her husband? My dear this is not the time to feel sorry for yourself. Your life is not over. This is the beginning for you.

I don't even get the report part. Why does she have to report to anybody. Is this grade school? I just feel like you have self esteem issues. It seems you enjoy being treated like a dirty dish rag. It is one thing to cheat but then to let the whores start callng the house and then you acting like such a simple person. Do you think the so called woman called the house by mistake. You might as well be a piece of rotten meat to her and that is because your husband does not value you at all and his whores know this. I don't understand women like you. Some people ask for advice for things like how to deal with in laws, how to raise kids, how to spice up things in the bedroom etc and you come here with this. If you were my sister I would kick your ass.

A woman is calling your house and you are wondering what to do?? You have not even confronted your husband. What the hell is wrong with you

I am surprised that people are saying "oh banks charge for reference letter". Why would a bank charge it's customers to show that they bank with them. I don't care if they have to make the paper at the bank this is just crazy. $17.00 for a letter that shout be free? This is simply stealing. It's just a pity that Nigerians in Nigeria have no other options. This makes me so upset

May her soul rest in peace

Many average Nigerians have AP shares and this could have ruined many people. It is illegal and Dangote should be punished if this is true

I want better quality too o. Like better quality of life, better quality education for my children etc. Purses do not fall into that category for me o when I can get a cute knock off or a similar design for 1/8th of that price. Well if you have the money sha and you worked hard for it then why not

It can even be nasty on men too. I saw a white guy with hairy armpits and maybe it's because his hair was straight and long but it kind of grossed me out.

I think your mom needs to stand up. She is taking the easy way out and it is hurting her family. I don't blame your dad for being upset. He sees his family for two months max and yet your mother is bringing in extended family?? Mba. Your mother is simply taking the easy short cut way out and at the end it will not benefit her in anyway.

hackney:
Is the salary N25000 per sec or what? (and in V.I?)
Agency man!!

LOL. No it's per millisecond.

Thanks Mohawk. Did you see somebody say $460.00 for a a purse? That's more than my mortgage. I love fashion but I cannot even imagine it. Whaaaattttt? It seems most people in Nigeria want "real leather" depends on what people really know about real leather I guess. It doesn't have to be real leather to be cute

If you are 19 as your name suggests then  would say listen to your parents. A responsible man will not ask a 19 year old girl to leave everything she knows to come live with him simply because he is obodo oyibo. Would he dare say that to your parents if he lived in Agbor (my apologies to my agbor peeps lol). Nonsense. If he loves you he will wait until your finish school. He will come to Nigeria to visit you when he can. He will continue to be attentive and loving. He will respect your parents by not forcing you to disobey them.

My brother wears my dad's things. It is not a big deal. LOL

It's hard to give advice when I don't know where you live. If you are in the US then I would suggest that you take your GED and get in a community college and go part time to work toward your bachelors degree. You are smart if you have those certifications so I know you are more than capable.

funny you asked about nads because that was the first time I tried waxing myself. I went for it cause the yeye woman kept emphasing that it did not hurt like traditional waxing. Let's just say that it drew blood when I did it. I will not touch nads again even if they pay me. The kiwi chamomile lotion that came with it was good though. I wish I can buy that buy itself.

I have two of them (knock offs ). They are really nice. I am wondering if these knockoffs will sell in nigeria and how much. I actually wanted to open a thread on that. Will do it later tonight

I hope the boys turn out okay. People just need to raise their kids right. SOmetime I wonder if some parents should be aressted when their children commits a crime that is obviously due to their lack of supervision but that would just be a slippery slope. So sad.

PS
Is the father gay. It says lives with his partner. That usually means same sex partner

I think we are overlooking a few things here. Did he call your mother a witch to her face. It is wrong either way. I have issues with my in laws but I would never tell my husband that his mother is a witch. That is just too much. Being abusive to your mother in law is way out of line. As far as the passport issue I also do not see why her mother should not comment if she happened to know about it. Some people depend on their parents for guidance and this is not an intimate marital issue. If she was getting pressure from her husband and sister in law to do something illegal then there is absolutely nothing wrong in her seeking guidance. It is better to ask her mother that to carry it outside. Maybe if her mother had not stood her ground she would have given in to the pressure from her husband and sis in law. I am glad your mom talked sense into you. If they want to call your mother a witch over that then let them.

I like the sidekick because it is pretty but that is all it is. It is nothing like the iphone not even close