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Similar to when you tell kids now to eat their food before they can have dessert. Most mothers used it to encourage their kids to eat all their food. Meat was the dessert LOL

I can relate. When I was a kid the smell of goat meat cooking used to make me feel like vomiting but now I love it

God bless her

His mother should be locked up

The part that bothers me is some random girl at the hotel. That is another level right there. Your reaction is totally normal but I have to say that I believe that you guys can get through this with time. Your husband needs to understand though that he paid the piper and now her has to dance. Even if it means for the rest of his life. He needs to be remorseful as long as it takes you to get over it and you will get over it eventually. You seem to be trying but I think his reaction to your pain is really inconsiderate and is actually making the road to healing more difficult. I suggest that you guys not stop counseling yet. I recommend you guys stick with couselling for as long as it takes.

Poop is poop. Oh sorry. Mugabe's is presidential poop

Tufiakwa

May his soul rest in peace and may God comfort his loved ones. Another life wasted.

Her vagina must be made of sugar. How crazy can someone get. Really? Your own brother's wife

75 year old man? She needs to be locked up. Foolish man sha. At that age still chasing women and marrying a much younger woman that he cannot keep up with

LOL. Get your own blackberry and text her till she gets a different phone. Are you upset because she seems to be happy without you or because of the time spent on the phone.

This is sad. May her soul rest in peace

omoekoni:
FINALLY!!! there is someone out there who shares my view about women. I don't understand what everyone is on about. lets keep it real folks, women are only useful to men because they have kitties! imagine if women didn't have that, would any man even look at a woman twice? we all know the answer to that. whether they cook,clean,nag, e.t.c, all that is irrelevant, We (men) only need one thing from them. and for this reason they are utterly and completely useless but i still love em cause i need to offload from time to time and in case you wondering, I do have a mum and sister, and i have seen the drama get up to just like any other woman

It is quite unfortunate that men need to have sex to function properly and that is where the women have an edge. and they use  this opportunity to the fullest. Look at the world today, 99% of all invention are made by MAN, should that not even make women wonder and ask themselves"what is my purpose on earth"?.answer is simple, to shut the hell up and satisfy the man's sexual needs to the fullest.

The reason why women nag and complain all the time is because they constantly feel the need to be heard, because deep down inside they know the are irrelevant to the earth except for that kitty between their legs. They always want equality but all they know how to do best is apply make up on their face and always try and look pretty for men. So if today, roles were reversed and men handed over all the affairs of the world to women, the first thing they would do is to take the world, put some make up on it, sit back and say, " awww, look at the world now, its so pretty"

I love women(pretty ones with a fat booty) and i always will but lets call a spade a spade. They need to understand and accept their place. It is in mans nature to have sex with different women, its how we were wired from wherever we came from, i don't know why women take it personal. The earlier they accept this, the earlier we can all get along. Men need and want only sex from a woman. but a woman wants and needs sex, love, money, more money, provider, security, marriage, loyalty, kids, someone to nag, someone to listen to her naughty woman and complain about other people, someone to cuddle at night(o000h how i hate to cuddle).

EPIC FAIL. You do not need to put up with any woman. If you really feel that all you need from women is sex then go out there like other men do and make enough to keep the kind of woman that will shut up and do exactly as you say. If only you spent as much time as you spend angry at women on improving yourself you would not feel the "sting" of living with a woman. Get a high prized LovePeddler, sleep with her and when you are done you ask her to leave.


They just don't make men like they used to make them. It really is so sad. Back in the day the men broke their backs to bring home the bacon. Nowadays the woman is paying the mortgage and there is a fight and he tells her "PACK YOUR THINGS OUT OF MY HOUSE"         Gosh. It is too funny. It just shows a lack of shame and values in a human being. How is this different from the inhumane dehumanizing affliction that racist white people put on non whites. It is a shame. The sad part is that nairaland is just a small section of the real Nigeria. Anything you see here you might as well magnify it significantly. This is real. They even play it down on nairaland. Submit ko, submit ni. While the woman is submitting her life a way what is the man doing. Submit to each other or do not expect any good to come out of that relationship. respect is earned. You simply do not get itbecause you were born with a pe, n.is

naijangel7:
I didn't know that there was any ethnic group in Nigeria that expects the woman to pound yam Isn't that the man's job? I still remember a folk story from my area about how a father tested all his daughter's suitors by their yam pounding prowess. Didn't know women are expected to pound yam anywhere.

Really? What ethnic group are you

Didn't Nollywood give is ISSAKABA?

How can you say you are now afraid for your life when you are the one who first tried to murder her with heat Both of you need to grow up LOL

Guyman02:
No, she was not leaving in hell, she was earning good salary and I was also giving her additional money to spend how she likes in order to please her, I was the one suffering abuses, i almost left the house for her, now I think I am so lucky because she has greatly changed and she said she was been influenced by a coleague in her office who kept reminding her about how to deal with a man who tries to subjugate a woman which i never did. Finally, her mum asked her to quit that job she loved and attend counselling, not all men are lucky to see their wives changing from bad to good.

We will just agree to disagree. I am happy though that you guys found a way to make it work. Kudos

Guyman02:
I can feel the mans pains, I had a similar experience, where I was attacked by my woman on different occassions, I faced serious abuse and was almost dying in silence because I didnt want the public to see me as bully or batterer. It got to a point where she slapped me viciously on the face during an argument and for the first time I struck back because of the extreme provocation and next she was calling everyone to report to them that I mercylessly beat her up.
Many friends and relations where calling me to express their disappointment that I could lay my hands on my woman, I saw my image being battered and what i did was to concentrate on my job, working late hours because I was adviced by my dad (who believed my side of the story)that if I should loose my job the situation would get worse for me.
I asked her to leave my house but she would not heed to that, I contemplated divorce but it was not easy because your family in Africa feels you are going to embarass them and the pastor kept reminding me of what the holy book says;
like what the ambassador said, there are many men in Nigeria who are living in bondage with their wives. Those who are lucky not to have experienced such will never understand, they will quickly jump up to say crucify the man, what sort of man should ever raise his hand against his wife, he is not man enough bla bla bla!

For all bachelors, before you decide to settle down, among the women around you, choose the one that seems to respect and fear you most, not the one that seems to love you most. There are many ladies who will hide their ugly sides and pretend to be good just to get you to marry them.
I hope that ambassador doesnt commit suicide, as the Igbo proverb says 'its better for you to kill a man than to humiliate him'

That statement there just tells me that the woman must have been living in hell. I am not trying to to minimize your suffering but the woman must have gone through hell to have to deal with a husband that calls the house "his house". It just means tome that you enever even understood what you were doing when you decided to marry

Not all fruits are equal though when it comes to fiber. Prunes are good for constipaton. Oranges too and make him actually eat the pulp on the inside not just suck out the juice. I don't think you should worry so much if you are doing everything right. As long as you know that there is not impacted stool

I find this wo/man truly offensive

One version said the woman hit her face on the stairs
Mr Wigwe said she hit it on a shoe rack
Desmond Elliot says she drew the blood out of the atmosphere
Nobody is saying how hitting your face on a shoe rack or the stairs leads to cuts on both sides of the face
Finally, desmond elliot needs to stfu

I think blowjobs 3 times a day for the next three weeks is in order. Make sure she also says "thank you sir" after each session.

How much fiber does he have in his diet? How old is he?

These pictures were definitely not photoshopped. As for the issue with the obvious assault of the woman there is a lot to it. From the mans explanation to the womans accusations. It seems the man is a liar. This is just my opinion of course. It seems he beats her and cheats on her but lies all the time. remember the son said something to the tune of his mother gets frustrated because people always say that the man is a saint and she has been looking for a way to discredit him. That along with the man himself describing himself as peaceful and unassuming just makes me see him as a manipulator. It seems that he has lied to everybody around him for so long he did nto even see that such talk would make people suspicious of him. coupled with the obvious lie that he only pushed her. Abeg. Then according to his version after he locked her out and she wrestled three able bodied men to the ground she started to call him names and his family also. She just seemed like an angry bitter person to me. Simply years upon years of living in a toxic situation. The woman is not innocent by the way. She could have left. He cheats, he beats you etc. She obviously is too in love with the benefits of being a diplomats wife.
Just look at the picture of them walking side by side and look at the one of her face. Nobody ever knows what happens behind closed doors. I always tell my friend whose favorite saying is "why must my marriage be different" to be careful what she wishes for. Somebody else will gladly take your "problem". You just don't kow how it is in someone else's home. What you see outside is rarely what happens behind closed doors

If what he says about the woman is true then the woman is obviously insane but it still does not mean he is a saint. I can tell a photoshopped picture. Those pictures were not.

Actually if I got assaulted like that I would take pictures before it gets wiped away. Absolutely. It is obvious that they have a very volatile relationship but the father is still lying by saying she got injured on both sides of her face by a push. The woman is obviously not as angel. I am still reading though. I stand by what I said about the son. He is a grown ass man by the way that sees nothing wrong with a wound on his mother inflicted by his father

Why are you feeling sorry for him. he assaulted his wife. Both him and his son (who also sounds like a potential wife beater) have not denied that he actually inflicted injuries on her. It is possible that the woman hung around for the money because I do not see any other reason why an educated and enlightened woman with a very strong personality would hang around a man that has a history of beating her. She likes the power that came with his office. There is really no innocent person here but Wigwe is definitely not a victim.

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