₦airaland Forum

Actionleap:
[b]Helping your wife in the kitchen is no big deal. I've been married for 10years now. When i was in secondary school, one of my father's tenants used to help his wife pound yam. We laughed at him then, not knowing the real meaning of love. When a man love a woman, i mean real love, he does not care what anybody says or think. I am a very good cook. My wife knows that and respects me for that. I used to do the cooking most times as i enjoy doing it. Pounding yam is a child-play until she misbehaved. It was not that she asked me to pound yam that made me to stop helping in the kitchen completely. She got power-drunk when i was down financially. She almost turned me to a house-boy until her kid-sister banned me from the kitchen. I tried to forgive her but each time i remember what she did, i feel like throwing up. She's scared of me now as she is not sure if i love her or not. Women out there, stop taking your husband for a fool if he try to show that he loves you.[/b]

Awww. Sorry to hear that but keep loving your wife. I am sure she has learned her lesson. That is the problem with people. You don't know what you've got till its gone.

Okay I stopped at "my gentle and unassuming nature". ROLLSEYES. I will come back and read it. Gentle and unassuming indeed.

koolguy88:
as a woman, try to be with your man all the time, most especially in the evenings when he's off duty, play wif him, engage him wif what you like, if he wants to drink, go to the bar wif him, know his guage for drink and brands, know the type of friends he keeps, make him happy

so while she is busy babysitting the grown as s man who is raising the kids. you people should get real. nobody can help him but himself. she can only be a supportive partner

da doctor said if he started sringking before the marriage then she deserves it and if it started after the marriage then she drove him to it. Da doctor have you ever heard of taking responsibilty for your actions. Like not blaming the devil or another human being when a grown as, s adult chooses to make foolish choices. You people need to grow up

How long has he been married

jude33084:
In Nigeria,, he will be given the position of minister for women affair NEXT TIME

As funny as this may sound it can definitely happen in Nigeria

henry101:
Those in red?
That's the Nigerian Police, Ceremonial uniform,

Nope the ones walking beside the vehicle in trench coats

This sounds like a full time job to me

Makeup?

Are you people trying to force me to like this Jonathan guy. Okay you succeeded. He does seem to adore his family. I like that he has his arms around his daughter. Thry look good together.

I find it hard to believe that this woman was just walking around with a butcher knife. This is sad. May her soul rest in peace.

those secret service guys with the trench coats dey try o. In that heat ke? Somebody has been watching too much matrix

I must say that I like that he is dancing proudly and lovingly with his wife. I cannot say I have seen any other public offcial do this in Nigeria. To me it says a lot

I do not believe him. Unless that push ended with her hitting and having open gashes on both side of her face he is a liar. Those injuries did not come from a fall. Did he even see her face? The questions they are posing are insulting? Why did she wait 10 days? Why did she take pictures first? Are you kidding me?

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=677875.msg8415830#msg8415830 date=1306691339]oh, wasnt aware she married oyibo.

was the wedding low key cos i dont think it was in the papers.[/quote]She is a low key person. I personally see nothing wrong with what she said. She married what suits her. Good for her

I wonder if it is a Rabbit

Why does she keep unlocking the door when he gets home? Don't they have those burglary proof things you put behind doors anymore? If you want to be nice you can throw a pillow over the fence.

Why do we like the complicated easy solutions. Why not start by making it a crime to not educate your children. It should be mandatory for all kids to go to primary school. An agency should be set up to ensure that children are not being malnourished at home. if a child is seen hawking on the streets the parents should be arrested. If a child is sent to relatives to live and the relatives abuse the child and it is found that the parents have had not contact with the child for months then both the relative and the parent should be prosecuted. When it becomes a crime for people to have more kids than they can afford then things will change. You cannot walk into someones home and tell them you must have only two kids but you sure can help them make that decision by making the consequences of neglecting their children dire.
The same goes for polygamy. If the woman is stupid enough to marry into a home that already has a wife and is stupid enough to get into a competion with the other wife to see who can have more kids then she and the stupid man should be ready to go to jail if they cannot afford to educate the children or feed them. I am sure birth control is not as expensive as feeding a child for a month

Oh my land. May his soul rest in peace.

This woman needs to be arrested until she starts telling the truth.

Go see a demartologist asap

Actually I think this is the perfect female for you. She is what you deserve. You went and picked a younger woman that you could easily manipulate. One that you would pay her way through school and she would forever be indebted to you. Now you are missing you "mature" ex who "has not even clocked 30". SMH. Please leave your ex for a man that will love and appreciate her loyalty and her "maturity" even when she clocks 35.

Chuck D:
For this man to have come this low, I believe the woman in question must have fallen lower. It's the man's action that is evident therefore whatever the woman did to push the man overboard will at the moment be forgotten. I'm not a wife basher and I don't encourage same but maybe when we finally get to hear the man's side of story, all we might end up saying could just be: "well, "
Some women are devils o, make no mistakes. It only takes an unusual man to cope with such. Until I hear the man's side of the story, I'm not going to say whether he's an animal or whether she deserved it.

Clap for yourself. Why am I not surprised? I feel sorry for people like you. Until Nigerians start frowning on this sort of evil Nigeria will remain the gutter that it is. You think this is not a big deal. You think you can excuse it away? Nothing good will come out of a place where the mindset of the people (both men and women) mostly resembles yours. National disgrace. You can not say you are not a wife beater. If you have this mentality I have to pray for your wife everyday because she has not said the one yet that will make you go postal on her as, s. No human being can look at those pictures and say it is okay especially when the person metting it out is physically stronger and that socially powerful. This is what makes me pissed of about Nigerians. It is shamelss. It's just simply gutter behavior

Nothing will happen to this man from the Nigerian side. Mark my words. 90% of the men that have the power to punish him beat the sh****t out of their wives too. I am sure this is not the first time this waste of oxygen has assualted her. Now she has an injury to her spine that can lead to paralysis. I have to admit I cried just looking at the pictures. If a woman with her social status can be beaten like a wild animal you can just imagine what the millions of women in Nigeria who have no where to turn go through. That man should be stripped naked and made to crawl on his hands and knees in the market place like the animal that he is.

harakiri:
@outstrip. . . If your head wasn't in the clouds while you were reading, you would have noticed that i NEVER had a good "back and forth" with AJIGGLIN and neither did DAYOKANU and it was when she revealed she was female i understood where the irrationality was coming from. You say powerful men support feminism? Don't make me laugh (huhuhuhahahaha. . .lol). The powerful men who support feminism (gay marriage and others) do so for their selfish interest and nothing more. Senator McCain tried to woo over the greater population (which are women) to vote for him by choosing Sarah Palin of all people as a running mate (this is a woman who claimed to have better "experience" in foreign policy than Obama and yet she didn't know Africa was a contingent and not a country! ! !). Are you so naive that you can't understand the game play here? You so called "feminists" have little or no idea about the real agenda of today's feminism and you are merely pawns in a chess game you can't comprehend. This is stark reality and not about your sorry a$$ shaming accusations of men feeling "insecure" in the midst of successful. A man who has a working game plan of his own will NEVER feel "insecure" before a woman who's 200 times more successful than himself. Nuff said! ! !

I never said they were in politics. You just assumed that because you cannot imagine that a man would want for the women he loves the same priviledges he gets in life. Jay leno is married to a feminist and has even said that he is a feminist in the past. He has a successful career and more money that he can ever spend. I wonder why he would think that treating women like human beings is fair. He must be crazy. McCain is probably the worst example you could have chosen. Choosing Sarah Palin to woo women voters just showed that he thinks women are just as stupid as you think they are.

You asked a question and I answered it but you never responded to it. You instead decided to feel sorry for yourself instead by referring to yourself as an uncivilized Nigerian. I don't know you personally so I can only agree with your assessment of yourself. Who am I to say you are lying. The only personal bitcching here is you. You seemed to be having a good back and forth with ajigglin until you realized that she might be a woman and you decided that all her previous arguments are not even worth responding to. She was just being typical. There are many very powerful men that support feminism. They are not intimidated by a woman wanting what they themselves want. They appreciate those women in their lives and most of the these men that I know or know of are married

harakiri:
@outstrip. . . Please, can you mention ONE goal the feminists have fought for that hasn't been achieved (apart from exterminating all men from the face of the earth) ?

There is still very much a glass ceiling for women. I am sure I do not need to point that out especially to a Nigerian. It is still a fact that men make more money than women especially in fields that are dominated by men even when the women are just as qualified or even better qualified but I am sure you know this already

harakiri:
Let me see. . .erm. . . Can you lift a wounded or dead colleague (preferably male) on the battle field and walk for miles to EVAC? Can you sentence your own son to jail if he was guilty and you were the presiding judge? Can you authorize air strikes in an alleged terrorist region knowing fully well that at least 90% of the casualities would be innocent women,children and the elderly(bush and obama did it). Can you approve THE DRAFT to include young women (if it's re-commisioned). Can you go into the sports field and compete with a man? Can you run a company as CE0 and base your judgement without "feelings" or emotion? Have you EVER taken a rational decision without emotion being involved? Have you ever chased a man,wooed him,bought him gifts,took him out and paid for all without grudges,met his people,proposed to him,married him and took care of the bills? Can you pee into a coke bottle or out of a window? Lol

Of course I cannot lift a human being and have no desire to do so. Typically a man is physically stronger than a woman but what does that mean? Are you saying that it means that a man is a superior human being. Should every woman who is physically stronger than her husband then feel that she should be superior to him? Every single thing you have listed have been done by women and are still being done by women every day. I run my own company and there are many other women who have done more than I have. Your whole post reeks of hate and insecurity. How can you ask me if I have made a rational decision without being emotional. What makes me sad is that you truly believe yourself.

Please tell me one responsibility you have as a p, en, is wielding human being that a woman has not handled. Can you please name one? I did not misquote you but you do come across as very angry at women.

This is an insult to Chioma

If my dad ask me that question honestly I will wonder if it is old age that is worrying him. There are a million other things he would rather be doing like praying while I am labor.

I thank God for your family