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Khoielvis:
Na. I don't do anything with that dude. What I'll say is the only way to date inexclusively for me is of these discussions take place from the start. I make sure I have these discussions within days of asking any lady out by the way. So, I don't stay long in unhealthy relationship no matter the qualities the other party may have. Some issues are unrepairable and we must not assume ourselves responsible for them

You mean with all these your Great Strategies that You are Dishing out Confidently and Practicing , You have Not Settled down(married) anyone of your catch....and you are still changing them?

That means your strategy is Not functional in getting the best to settle down with.

Khoielvis:
No na. Intimacy doesn't take place at the shallow levels. Just talk and talks and finding the right fit. Dating is now a mess anyways and many won't marry in this generation no matter how society spins it. Why? Many know that inexclusive dating reserves a part and wants intimacy, to initiate true committment. And when this committment starts, it almost triggers the idea of I've captured you irrespective of how bad I treat you, which makes it difficult to move on when the partner is bad


In anyways, intimacy shouldn't occur in shallow waters and financial compatibility discussions must take place thesedays at almost the very start of relationships, not wait for when situations bring them up

So...….you will be Collecting Money from all 10 different boyfriends (in the name of Sampling and looking for the right one).....But you will be saying No No to intimacy Right?

Explain yourself Again....

skywalker240:
When I was a still a single bachelor, i don't even buy up to that figure and it last me a month and some weeks

Bros,
We are Talking of Present day Cost where 1 Sachet of Tomato is now 200.
you cannot compare Today to Yester years.....

I hope you get what I mean...

Joezinho:
Mr Uche the coward from Alaigbo , hiding behind a cheap android phone to form Lion King online while lying down on his bedbug infested mattress waiting for his next meal.

PYO has balls bigger than your head and qualifications larger than that of your entire illiteracy populated community..

This is what happens when one's head contains more wool than sense.

ahhhhhhhh!

This is Fatality! You finish the Guy Completely....

Olaideolayemi:
Being an Economic man..Cooking food are more cheaper,especially when you have all the basic amenties for cooking..Like gas,electric stove,pot and many variety of food in wardrobe,satisfaction is quaranted,belleful is sure,and little saving at the end of the month,depending on your income..especially at this hard times of the economy..where income is poor to spending..

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Those Amenities, are they Free?

Alusiizizi:
A question that I've considered many times and to be truthful eating out is a little cheaper per meal than cooking at home.

Home cooking(one meal indomie):
********************************
Power-oil; #120
indomie(3 packs): #240
Kerosene/Gas: #50 per meal or thereabout.
Pepper: #50
Maggi: #30
Eggs: #200(2 eggs)
************************* Total: #690

Eating out(one meal indomie at typical food is ready):
*********************************************
indomie(3 packs): #100
Eggs: #200(2 eggs)
************************* Total: #500

The Stress of the cooking and Time used also has to be Factored in.

Cooking is Safer BUT more Expensive now....for a Single Person

Deepocean:
No matter how, cooking will always be cost effective.

For you to eat satisfactory in any mamaput these days, you will have at least 1,000

Let say you want to eat 1,000 food in the morning, eat snacks of 300 in the afternoon and another 1,000 meal as dinner.

This will amount to 16,100 in a week and 69,000 in a month of 30 days.

Now, if you use 69,000 to get raw food.

Analysis: If you look out to fill your gas from the seller selling in bulk you will fill at an average of 700/kg. You will fill 12.5kg cylinder with 9,000 transport included.

Out of 69,000.

1 12.5kg gas +transport fare = 9,000

1. ½ bag of rice = 15,000

2 Bean = 5,000

3. Semi 10kg = 6,000

4. Garri = 3,000

5. Yam = 5000

Ingredients for cooking soup eg: Palm oil, seasoning and others =5,000

Balance = 26,000

Out of the remaining 26,000
Budget 4,000 for soup and the transport fare to buy the ingredients every week.

Remaining 6,000 can be kept for miscellaneous and evening suya and Pepsi while returning from work.

Impossible:

This your Food Stuff Supply CANNOT last 1 Week. if it Does Max is 10 Days
then You have to factor in the Time and Stress of the cooking.....Imagining being a Programmer and cooking.....chai....
you go chop POP Beans tire!

pansophist:
What people don't realize is that there is no such thing as a career, or I will put it this way, the people that have a fulfilling career are very tiny. If the job pays you do let you to live a respectable life, then that is the ideal. The idea that you must be in a suit with a tie in an office is nonsense. Arrant nonsense.

Human civilizations are not built on suits and ties but on hard grinding work. From the peasants building and maintaining railways to long-haul interstate drivers even accross countries, to the sewage workers, the farmers, traffic guys, and so forth. These are the people that powers society, the majority in the background, not the tiny veneer of men in suits that are sprinkled on top. These ordinary men and women are the heros of society but sadly, these are the people we don't want to be like.

In other words, we live in a cappuccino society, where beneath is an untold amount of ordinary men and women keeping the system from crumbling, but with a sprinkle of tiny men on suits on top. Lots of people depressed themselves nothing because they have filtered their vision to see the majority that powers society who are ordinary, to see only the tiny ones.


And here comes the most important one, which is contentment. Contentment doesn't mean settling for less, or not aspiring to be more, but it's about being okay with what you have while working to improve it. [/b]Probably Nigeria hasn't reached the peak of educated masses, but in all developed countries where most of the populations are educated up to 99% (eg Canada, US, UK), the majority of the workforce are not happy with their jobs, and even Ph.D. holders do taxi jobs.

This is sad to say, but personally, [b]I see how many of my ex-classmates torture themselves just because they think life after school should be nirvana. Some postpone the pain by taking more courses, embarking on more degrees, and so forth, but shifting the goal post doesn't mean the post isn't there, it's still waiting albeit, a bit farther. Perhaps if they could just see that the world is not powered by men in suits, but by men on rags, it shall be well with them.

At the Bolded:

Please Be realistic:

What Drives men to Excellence and bettering their standard of Living is Non-contentment.
You cant be Contented with your present situation AND have a Drive to Improve your Living condition - Impossible!

Have you every heard of the word - DESIRE? You have No Desire when you are in your Comfort Zone! (contented)
You only have to be Grateful for your Progress...while You keep the Drive for your End GOAL alive.


How can You say Self Development after living School is worthless Pain?
Let me tell You - it is a well Know Fact that - if You Have a Desire to improve your Life, you have to Do more....a lot of Self development outside the walls to School( it is a welcome pain -price you have pay to Achieve your Desire for the Top- a better Life/Pay)

With Great Desire Any thing is Achievable....

But if You Embrace your comfort Zone ( Contented) your income will continue to shrink until technology will eventually make you Jobless

Be Grateful for current Achievement but Never be Contented in your comfort Zone... be Adaptable!

djojo:
How sure are you that he is truly ready for a change, maybe he is broke and he needed your help but knows you wont do it until you see some changes in him.
before you try to put him in any learning process, i will advise you first test him otherwise street guys are difficult to change
if you put him in a learning process and Oga talk to him anyhow you wont be surprise that he might stab the Oga or anyone that makes him angry.
First is to try and rehabilitate him because for him to grow up in the street till 24 nobi beans

The Ops needs to be Very Careful....he is not Hurt in the Process to trying to be Helpful.
The Street No easy o

Danonym:
It's been 4 days since the transfer was made.
I contacted my kuda and they've seen the transfer has been sent, But they said they haven't seen anything till now.
Also I want to thank everyone who responded,
I'm grateful.
I didn't even expect anybody to see this post....
Cus currently what's happening in my family and all around is making me feel very low.
I hope I move past this

No matter how bad....Do not Think About Suicide!!
you will get over it!

[quote author= post=113121196][b][/b]
Yes, your company can get them arrested.
Report to the police and get ready to get a lawyer.[/quote]He Might Spend More than 25k...to follow through with this case....

Next time make sure you use Established Agents and Also Do a Background Address Verification and Guarantors form filling) on Your Workers

akanbiaa:
Serious men think more about financial security, family, comfort and to be at peace with self ,loved ones and Creator.

So...how do you create a Family with Sex?

Thank you my brother. I don't know why ladies are like that oo. There is dis girl wey dey my zanga. I dey always buy something for there shop. If I come buy something even if na pure water. Na so she go banter with me, dey smile give me Wella, dey even ask me how is my girlfriend. At first I no too dey mind her, make I no fall my hand, but she fine too, but to scop her no even cross my mind. I take my babe serious ( she is god sent). I come begin give this girl face too, dey make her laugh with jokes, next tin, all of a mighty sudden, she begin bone face give me oo, she stop to dey greet me, just like that, I cum dey wonder, wetin wrong. Just like that. Me too, as a soft hard man, I ghost her, after two weeks or so, she come start dey greet me again. Me sef I no mind her again, I go just wave give her with fake smile, nonsense. She tink say I wan chop her abi what sef, me I no just understand the whole scenerio.

[quote author=Washington505 post=113119840][/quote]She Started Forming.....so you Could get Serious with Pursuing Her"so she can start Billing you.....

Animegirl:

Have seen post stating that women love sex more than men, this is a lie. Men can do anything for sex. They can sleep with anything with holes.

The reason why most of these Redpillers are frustrated is because no free kpekus. Using Redpiller and insulting their fellow men for simping as disguise.

I can go on but this is a known fact men love sex.

Wow!

Can you Explain Further What you mean By the Bolded.....

is it Monetized ? please Explain

Tonero5200:
Any little issue we have she report it to her brother, just because am the cool headed type. I'm tired of the all whole thing, several times have wanted to call it quit but we end up getting back together. On Friday she went out with a guy to shoprite, when I asked who he was, she said they are just friends which was a lie because that guy normally calls her when she's with me.

I i told her, that she can go ahead to date him that me am done with the whole relationship. At first she laughed, then told me I NOR FIT. She's been calling since then which i ignored.
his elder bro came to my house with some friends of his that has several stab wounds and injuries all over their body, they didn't touch me, he just asked me what happened and I told him then what he said is I should try work it out with his sister then he Left.

Have made up my mind, but I know this isn't the end of it.. the dude is well known all over the town for his problems and he will be back.

Report to the Station immediately....and Write a statement.....
have her invited and let the Station Finalize the Breakup up.....

if you like.....after the Breakup...mumu go back again.....

engrjosefz:
Good Day Medical Experts here, Please I would like to know the effects of this growths I am noticing recently on my wrist.

The one on my forehead has been there for a long time say 5 or 6yrs back, I can't recall, but the one on my wrist started developing like months back.

It's a bit hard and fleshy, I don't feel any pains or whatsoever except when I press it very hard, but I am beginning to feel concerned about them.

What is the name, causes and effects on the body?

What Medical Solutions can I seek?
See Attached pictures.

The One on the wrist Happened to me.....because of Frequent you of the Mouse(computer)

The Solution:

I Press it often and Worried Less about it..... After like 6 Months, it disappeared.

Agabaidu1234:
He is not the one paying me but am attached to him, he is the head of the department where I am.
Am no longer comfortable with the level of the man excess and insolence. And I so much believe I have tolerated much of it.
Am I foolish for being kind at the first place?

If he CAN sack you.....then persevere
if they are paying you there....then persevere. you be corper naa
if it will pain you more...if you were told to go....then persevere

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please can you guide me through all these sir
God bless you

Make the Internet You Friend.
Google and YouTube.

Google Digital Skill That Pays Well....
Read Trough....and look for a point of Interest

Put the point of interest on You Tube ...and Download the Tutorials....
then Start Learning

Jennyclay:
Please add me to your plan. I would like to go to Monaco too.

Do you Realize......These are 6 Guys

Be Careful what You Wish for......

BlueAir:
sounds like he's feeling fly of himself. Not knowing he looks so low and worthless. U dey inside wardrobe dey hide because u dey chop something Dem no born u to chop for outside. The disgusting part is the so called main boyfriend would pounce on him alone instead of burying both man and woman. I trust myself Sha. Dem go disappear with no trace if I catch them as the main boyfriend. No noise

What if You are Not the Main Boyfriend?
and the main Guy Na Soldier.....

wetin you go do inside that room then Bros (Hulk Hogan)?

fasho01:
What an unfortunate way to go

he did not die naaa

Cassahav:
calm down[b] love is real[/b]

From your Yearns.....it will Take a Long Time to recover....

Cutecharlz:
Greetings everyone. My company just shut down due to economic polices, no incoming business nor fund to sustain the staff. So as it is now, I am back to the street.
I made a savings of 500k from my meagre salary of 65k monthly. I am married with a kid.
What business can I venture into that can sustain I and my family before house-hold expense will reduce the money to nothing.

Please I need a good and legit advice from everyone.

Thanks.

Guy....if You had never Done a Business Before.....Now is NOT the Time to Gamble your Last Savings....
Start looking for Another JOB immediately.....
and i hope you will find.....

Business is Not as Easy as it seems o....

Lucasmuyiwaa:
What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today ?

At that Age (27),

You need to be More Responsible.

You need to Respect Your Father and Never Challenge his Authority. (Don't Talk when he is Talking) even if he Accuses You, politely convince him Later that You did not pick it.

Your Solution:
Guy, learn a computer digital Skill / a hand Skill and get Employed....(don't mix up with Fraud or Walk with people (in Fraud))
Then, rent a small Accommodation for yourself (mini flat). (stop all this wasteful behavior: booking Hotels, buying expensive phones etc.)
be Frugal with your Money( learn to start Small)

see...guys...of your Age...A lot of them at Massively into tech!
You can do the Same...and have the potential to Travel Abroad Legitimately and make your Mother/Father Proud!
your family will be so proud of you...they will want to identify with you always.....
You can do this!

BoneBlogger:
This post was gotten from the Facebook of Fedilis Ozuawala and here is what he wrote advising everyone to always be vigilant about reptiles.

Let’s be vigilant guys,

Always check your AC water vents, make sure it’s closed.

Lock your windows and make sure they have nets.

In this photo is a Monitor Lizard which has lived and grown inside the AC water water pipes between the wall.

We keep hearing aggressive sounds inside the walls, like something was trying to make its way up.

From a small opening in the walls we poured fuel to chase this thing away, it wouldn’t go, other smaller lizards ran away as the fuel went down the pipe.

After several trials, it came out and behold it was a Monitor Lizard struggling to make its way up through the AC vent.

Even while it seemed impossible having reptiles around, here is a Monitor Lizard, something I doubted the possibility when I was told.

We are paying more vigilance henceforth.

The Aboki’s that killed it, took it away, saying it’s good food for some of their friends. �

It looks Big and Scary....
But it only Eats Insects.....

its Harmless to man...

Kestolove:
No one Don die?

Desmond Tutu passed away Recently....

I Know it well and not up to 25

its not Possible.....

JONNYSPUTE:
.... Domestic violence can only end when both genders accept their culpabilities.
But as long as women believe that verbal abuse is nothing,then we will still be experiencing it.

They Feel its Nothing....

dacblogger:
I will not lie, I dey insult Sha and if not for the kind of man my hubby is, him for don.commit suicide because of the things I tell him.
But the truth is that, I'm a very emotional person and I'm easily angered. Infact my hubby is the most annoying human being on planet Earth...
He has a way of getting at you and he does that on a daily basis .
So when he does that, I try to hold in the anger for days but when I can't hold it anymore, I explode... When I'm done telling him all those things, I feel better.
So you see , Venting is my coping mechanism.
We women we DNT do that intentionally, that is just our own way of expressing the anger that we have held for so long.
May God help each and everyone one of us Sha.

Modified: to all those he goats that are killing themselves on my post.... Feel free to hit your head on the wall
I'm still with my hubby and we are still in peace ... If you DNT like that fact, feel free to go home and beat up your wives that's if you have one.

at the Bolded....

CAN YOU IMAGINE WHAT THIS WOMAN IS DOING TO HER HUSBAND AT HOME.
AND SHE CONFESSED IT RIGHT HERE!!

Terrible!!

dacblogger:
No, by the time you eventually marry,cos I'm sure no woman in her right senses will want to marry a fool like you... Na your wife go dey beat you.
He goat

From your Comments, I can Imagine the Level of Insult and Abuse Your Husband is Going Through in Your hand.
Breaking News: YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE YOUR WAYS!!