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RomanceRe: Sex: This Is What Men Think About Mostly!!! by OvertheTop(m): 1:18pm On May 24, 2022
akanbiaa:
Serious men think more about financial security, family, comfort and to be at peace with self ,loved ones and Creator.
So...how do you create a Family with Sex?
RomanceRe: Sex: This Is What Men Think About Mostly!!! by OvertheTop(m): 12:48pm On May 24, 2022
Thank you my brother. I don't know why ladies are like that oo. There is dis girl wey dey my zanga. I dey always buy something for there shop. If I come buy something even if na pure water. Na so she go banter with me, dey smile give me Wella, dey even ask me how is my girlfriend. At first I no too dey mind her, make I no fall my hand, but she fine too, but to scop her no even cross my mind. I take my babe serious ( she is god sent). I come begin give this girl face too, dey make her laugh with jokes, next tin, all of a mighty sudden, she begin bone face give me oo, she stop to dey greet me, just like that, I cum dey wonder, wetin wrong. Just like that. Me too, as a soft hard man, I ghost her, after two weeks or so, she come start dey greet me again. Me sef I no mind her again, I go just wave give her with fake smile, nonsense. She tink say I wan chop her abi what sef, me I no just understand the whole scenerio.

[quote author=Washington505 post=113119840][/quote]She Started Forming.....so you Could get Serious with Pursuing Her"so she can start Billing you.....
RomanceRe: Sex: This Is What Men Think About Mostly!!! by OvertheTop(m): 12:14pm On May 24, 2022
Animegirl:
cheesy
Have seen post stating that women love sex more than men, this is a lie. Men can do anything for sex. They can sleep with anything with holes.

The reason why most of these Redpillers are frustrated is because no free kpekus. Using Redpiller and insulting their fellow men for simping as disguise.

I can go on but this is a known fact men love sex.
Wow!

Can you Explain Further What you mean By the Bolded.....

is it Monetized ? please Explain
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend's Brother Is Taunting Me Always, pls Help! by OvertheTop(m): 1:38pm On May 23, 2022
Tonero5200:
Any little issue we have she report it to her brother, just because am the cool headed type. I'm tired of the all whole thing, several times have wanted to call it quit but we end up getting back together. On Friday she went out with a guy to shoprite, when I asked who he was, she said they are just friends which was a lie because that guy normally calls her when she's with me.

I i told her, that she can go ahead to date him that me am done with the whole relationship. At first she laughed, then told me I NOR FIT. She's been calling since then which i ignored.
his elder bro came to my house with some friends of his that has several stab wounds and injuries all over their body, they didn't touch me, he just asked me what happened and I told him then what he said is I should try work it out with his sister then he Left.

Have made up my mind, but I know this isn't the end of it.. the dude is well known all over the town for his problems and he will be back.
Report to the Station immediately....and Write a statement.....
have her invited and let the Station Finalize the Breakup up.....

if you like.....after the Breakup...mumu go back again.....
HealthRe: Abnormal Growth On My Forehead And Wrist by OvertheTop(m): 2:38pm On May 21, 2022
engrjosefz:
Good Day Medical Experts here, Please I would like to know the effects of this growths I am noticing recently on my wrist.

The one on my forehead has been there for a long time say 5 or 6yrs back, I can't recall, but the one on my wrist started developing like months back.

It's a bit hard and fleshy, I don't feel any pains or whatsoever except when I press it very hard, but I am beginning to feel concerned about them.

What is the name, causes and effects on the body?

What Medical Solutions can I seek?
See Attached pictures.
The One on the wrist Happened to me.....because of Frequent you of the Mouse(computer)

The Solution:

I Press it often and Worried Less about it..... After like 6 Months, it disappeared.
CareerRe: My Experience With My Boss At The Office Today. by OvertheTop(m): 3:39pm On May 20, 2022
Agabaidu1234:
He is not the one paying me but am attached to him, he is the head of the department where I am.
Am no longer comfortable with the level of the man excess and insolence. And I so much believe I have tolerated much of it.
Am I foolish for being kind at the first place?
If he CAN sack you.....then persevere
if they are paying you there....then persevere. you be corper naa
if it will pain you more...if you were told to go....then persevere
FamilyRe: My Dad Almost Killed Me Today! by OvertheTop(m): 4:59pm On May 18, 2022
Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please can you guide me through all these sir
God bless you
Make the Internet You Friend.
Google and YouTube.

Google Digital Skill That Pays Well....
Read Trough....and look for a point of Interest

Put the point of interest on You Tube ...and Download the Tutorials....
then Start Learning
RomanceRe: Reactions As Man Takes His Male Bestie On An All-expense Paid Trip To Dubai by OvertheTop(m): 4:50pm On May 18, 2022
Jennyclay:
Please add me to your plan. I would like to go to Monaco too.
Do you Realize......These are 6 Guyshuh shocked

Be Careful what You Wish for......
RomanceRe: Man Hides In Wardrobe As Lady’s Main Boyfriend Shows Up Unannounced by OvertheTop(m): 3:29pm On May 17, 2022
BlueAir:
undecided sounds like he's feeling fly of himself. Not knowing he looks so low and worthless. U dey inside wardrobe dey hide because u dey chop something Dem no born u to chop for outside. The disgusting part is the so called main boyfriend would pounce on him alone instead of burying both man and woman. I trust myself Sha. Dem go disappear with no trace if I catch them as the main boyfriend. No noise
What if You are Not the Main Boyfriend?
and the main Guy Na Soldier.....

wetin you go do inside that room then Bros (Hulk Hogan)? grin cry
CrimeRe: Woman Arrested In Ondo For Stabbing Ex-Boyfriend During Fight Over Her New Lover by OvertheTop(m): 3:54pm On May 13, 2022
fasho01:
What an unfortunate way to go
he did not die naaa
RomanceRe: My Cheating Is About To End My Marriage by OvertheTop(m): 9:54am On May 13, 2022
Cassahav:
calm down[b] love is real[/b]
From your Yearns.....it will Take a Long Time to recover....
CareerRe: What Investment Can I Start Up With 500k As I Just Lost My Job by OvertheTop(m): 2:32pm On May 11, 2022
Cutecharlz:
Greetings everyone. My company just shut down due to economic polices, no incoming business nor fund to sustain the staff. So as it is now, I am back to the street.
I made a savings of 500k from my meagre salary of 65k monthly. I am married with a kid.
What business can I venture into that can sustain I and my family before house-hold expense will reduce the money to nothing.

Please I need a good and legit advice from everyone.

Thanks.
Guy....if You had never Done a Business Before.....Now is NOT the Time to Gamble your Last Savings....
Start looking for Another JOB immediately.....
and i hope you will find.....

Business is Not as Easy as it seems o....
FamilyRe: My Dad Almost Killed Me Today! by OvertheTop(m): 10:36am On May 06, 2022
Lucasmuyiwaa:
What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today huh?
At that Age (27),

You need to be More Responsible.

You need to Respect Your Father and Never Challenge his Authority. (Don't Talk when he is Talking) even if he Accuses You, politely convince him Later that You did not pick it.

Your Solution:
Guy, learn a computer digital Skill / a hand Skill and get Employed....(don't mix up with Fraud or Walk with people (in Fraud))
Then, rent a small Accommodation for yourself (mini flat). (stop all this wasteful behavior: booking Hotels, buying expensive phones etc.)
be Frugal with your Money( learn to start Small)

see...guys...of your Age...A lot of them at Massively into tech!
You can do the Same...and have the potential to Travel Abroad Legitimately and make your Mother/Father Proud!
your family will be so proud of you...they will want to identify with you always.....
You can do this!
Science/TechnologyRe: Monitor Lizard Found In AC Vent In Abuja (Photos) by OvertheTop(m): 6:25pm On Apr 26, 2022
BoneBlogger:
This post was gotten from the Facebook of Fedilis Ozuawala and here is what he wrote advising everyone to always be vigilant about reptiles.

Let’s be vigilant guys,

Always check your AC water vents, make sure it’s closed.

Lock your windows and make sure they have nets.

In this photo is a Monitor Lizard which has lived and grown inside the AC water water pipes between the wall.

We keep hearing aggressive sounds inside the walls, like something was trying to make its way up.

From a small opening in the walls we poured fuel to chase this thing away, it wouldn’t go, other smaller lizards ran away as the fuel went down the pipe.

After several trials, it came out and behold it was a Monitor Lizard struggling to make its way up through the AC vent.

Even while it seemed impossible having reptiles around, here is a Monitor Lizard, something I doubted the possibility when I was told.

We are paying more vigilance henceforth.

The Aboki’s that killed it, took it away, saying it’s good food for some of their friends. �
It looks Big and Scary....
But it only Eats Insects.....

its Harmless to man...
Jokes EtcRe: World's Most Popular Memes And How They Look Now (Photos) by OvertheTop(m):
Kestolove:
No one Don die?
Desmond Tutu passed away Recently....

RomanceRe: What Was The Worst Reply You Got From A Girl After You Asked Her Out? by OvertheTop(m): 10:37am On Apr 18, 2022
I Know it well and not up to 25
its not Possible.....
RomanceRe: The Silent Pain Of The Husband by OvertheTop(m): 7:42pm On Apr 17, 2022
JONNYSPUTE:
.... Domestic violence can only end when both genders accept their culpabilities.
But as long as women believe that verbal abuse is nothing,then we will still be experiencing it.
They Feel its Nothing....
RomanceRe: The Silent Pain Of The Husband by OvertheTop(m): 6:29pm On Apr 17, 2022
dacblogger:
I will not lie, I dey insult Sha and if not for the kind of man my hubby is, him for don.commit suicide because of the things I tell him.
But the truth is that, I'm a very emotional person and I'm easily angered. Infact my hubby is the most annoying human being on planet Earth...
He has a way of getting at you and he does that on a daily basis .
So when he does that, I try to hold in the anger for days but when I can't hold it anymore, I explode... When I'm done telling him all those things, I feel better.
So you see , Venting is my coping mechanism.
We women we DNT do that intentionally, that is just our own way of expressing the anger that we have held for so long.
May God help each and everyone one of us Sha.

Modified: to all those he goats that are killing themselves on my post.... Feel free to hit your head on the wall grin
I'm still with my hubby and we are still in peace ... If you DNT like that fact, feel free to go home and beat up your wives that's if you have one.
at the Bolded.... shocked

CAN YOU IMAGINE WHAT THIS WOMAN IS DOING TO HER HUSBAND AT HOME.
AND SHE CONFESSED IT RIGHT HERE!!

Terrible!!
RomanceRe: The Silent Pain Of The Husband by OvertheTop(m): 5:45pm On Apr 17, 2022
dacblogger:
No, by the time you eventually marry,cos I'm sure no woman in her right senses will want to marry a fool like you... Na your wife go dey beat you.
He goat
From your Comments, I can Imagine the Level of Insult and Abuse Your Husband is Going Through in Your hand.
Breaking News: YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE YOUR WAYS!!
RomanceRe: The Silent Pain Of The Husband by OvertheTop(m): 5:33pm On Apr 17, 2022
dacblogger:
I will not lie, I dey insult Sha and if not for the kind of man my hubby is, him for don.commit suicide because of the things I tell him.
But the truth is that, I'm a very emotional person and I'm easily angered. Infact my hubby is the most annoying human being on planet Earth...
He has a way of getting at you and he does that on a daily basis .
So when he does that, I try to hold in the anger for days but when I can't hold it anymore, I explode... When I'm done telling him all those things, I feel better.

So you see , Venting is my coping mechanism.
We women we DNT do that intentionally, that is just our own way of expressing the anger that we have held for so long.
May God help each and everyone one of us Sha.
I hope You don't Stab Your Husband Some Day.....
and Give the same Reason as Your Point....

Toxic
FamilyRe: My Aborted Marriage With Sandra Obi: Man Whose Fiancee Called Off Wedding Reacts by OvertheTop(m): 1:30pm On Apr 16, 2022
CryptoClub2018:
I believe this man. Most ladies are VERY wicked and evil. They know the society will believe them because they are women. They provoke you and push you to the wall and when you say pem, they start to play victim. Most of them are snakes and the society isn't fair to men at all. See the way people were condemning the man when the story broke out without listening to the man. See the rubbish false alarm made by that bastard Toyosi girl yesterday and without verification, foolish people started calling the number and raising curses on him until she issued a disclaimer. I wonder how the stupid people that believed that story will look at themselves and see how foolish they are.
The funny thing is that something like that will happen again and the stupid people will rush to believe because it's coming from a lady but if it were a man, they will laugh over it.
Thank God I am not God, I would have wiped out 70% of Nigerian girls
Exactly....They Will Laugh over it if it was a Man...
They will even say he should Persevere.... as a Man...
FamilyRe: My Aborted Marriage With Sandra Obi: Man Whose Fiancee Called Off Wedding Reacts by OvertheTop(m):
jrusky:
Oga biko keep quiet we are tired of men with no brain disgracing fellow men all the time.

Are you going to come out before I say you beat her? Even the beast called Peter Ochinahi demonic husband still denying touching her after so much evidence against him.

This is not the right time to go on defense in abuse case the death of Ochinachi still boiling people up so keep your explanation till later biko.

Your trap won't work she had dumped you and the is final go and marry your sister and turn her to punching bag.

Nonsense!!!
Guy. Don't Believe every story a Woman Tells U....

Even if your Sister was the one that was Guilty in a Quarrel with her Husband,
When she comes to Report to U, She will Make sure she twist the Story.... to Get You Angered and Involved

E.g....Me and my Husband were Quarrelling..... Suddenly He Started Saying: You.... my Brother Does Have any Work....That You are A beggar and a Bastard..... ( she will never mention what the Real Quarrel was About because she knows she is Guilty)

When She Tells You This, The Job is Done.....You will be on Her side 100%

You might even Go Violent for No Reason...And End up in Jail....Due to this Manipulation.

Always Calm down to Cross Check what Ever Story u Hear from them.
CrimeRe: I Don’t Know Why I Stabbed My Boss To Death, Stole His Car – Suspect by OvertheTop(m): 12:51pm On Apr 16, 2022
Happened:
Source: https://punchng.com/i-dont-know-why-i-stabbed-my-boss-to-death-stole-his-car-suspect/

cc; lalasticlala
This is Mostly common when a Woman Raises a Male child Alone.

He Become Absolutely uncontrollable by the Mom in his Teen....
When there is No Father Figure in a Male Childs life this Happens.

Most Women think Sparing the Rod...is the best way to show love to a child....
but he unconsciously becomes a Spoilt child that thinks he can get away with any bad behavior.
he doesn't know what's bad from what good, since he wasn't remanded for doing wrong when younger

in short...Parenting has failed completely.

Really Sad..
CrimeRe: Ifeanyi Njoku Kills Girlfriend, Sleeps With Corpse For Six Days by OvertheTop(m): 2:26pm On Apr 12, 2022
Yemlizzy:
Things some people do for ill gotten wealth, how about the girl’s family?? So they don’t know she is staying with a man who hasn’t married her the right way. They didn’t ask or look for her. Something sounds amiss in this narration.


Sadly, those who will tow the path of this guy are many outside, still many girls won’t learn. Fetish purposes and rituals would definitely lead to a number of deaths for the female gender drastically this year.
The Generation of Parents we have Now:
Their children ....stay out with friends for weeks without their parents knowing their whereabouts

Babe, do you want to tell me you don't stay in your boy friend's place for weeks?? don't lie
its so common...
Technology MarketRe: DJACK 3D SURROUND SUBWOOFERS AND LED FULL HD SMART TVS by OvertheTop(m): 9:31pm On Apr 07, 2022
Djackelectronic:
STILL AVAILABLE
Is djack 3030 available and how much is it now?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Will You Cope If You Lose Your Job or Source of Income Today? by OvertheTop(m): 1:16pm On Mar 28, 2022
harsysky:
I strongly believe this is one of the hardest questions some people would want to ask themselves, but to the fact remains that we ought to be realistic.

I have met couple of guys who had lost their jobs , and it was not funny at all. They tend to be somewhat miserable.

It is never something anyone would wish for their enemies. Even the ones who have managed to build their own houses are not equally spared as I recently met one and had this great pity on him .

Even to my enemies, I would not want to see them in such state as reality always dawns on people when they experience retrenchment. Most people could tell you one thousand and one ways they would have improved their lives if given a second chance, but the truth is it's like comparing theory with practical. Both can never be the same.

Everyone cannot be an entrepreneur hence I would advise we all go into it.

Now to my question, how would you practically avoid this miserable state especially if you are earning now, or how have you avoided it in the past?
Backups for Job Loss:
1. learn a Hand/person/outside office Skill (might look Demeaning to you...but Generates income) eg.Uber
2. Save a much as you can when the Going is Good....(min of 30% of your Salary) I know its not Easy
CrimeRe: How I Got Scammed Of ₦150,000 On Fairmoney by OvertheTop(m): 6:56pm On Mar 25, 2022
Hanks0000:
I saw a post about how I can earn ₦50,000 VIP grant weekely on fairmoney app and I decided to apply because I'm going through financial difficulties.

I clicked on the link on the post and I was redirected to

https://molinahealthcare.life

It looks identical to Linda ikeji's blog which made me believe it could be real, after following all the steps that was listed on the article, I was also redirected to this website.

https://fairmoney.ng-pay.vip/Grant.html

I was directed to log in my fairmoney account and to enter the OTP code that was sent to me through SMS by fairmoney, I entered the code on the site.

The next message I received was that ₦150,000 was transferred to Esther Blessing Odion (access bank) from my fairmoney account, a transaction I did not initiate.
I called Fairmoney to make a complaint about this transaction which I didn't perform and the transaction indeed happened.

That was when I realised I'd been scammed and I don't know what to do . I might commit suicide because I don't have any mean of repaying. I am a student and I was considering taking a top-up so that I can pay my lodge rent which is already due.

I'm to pay
64,240 this month alone.
I don't know what to do.

PastorMisback
WoundedLamb
STOP CLICKING Mouth watering Links on the Web.....
Its Very Dangerous.....
RomanceRe: What Was The Worst Reply You Got From A Girl After You Asked Her Out? by OvertheTop(m):
Bellotelli:
She was so opened to me and I was so ashamed of myself that I didn't know what to say. She simply said ' I can't date you cause you don't have money.. Let's say I need 10k now can you afford it?
This was Actually a Negotiation....You should have said...2k is available Right Now.....Let's go home.
grin grin
RomanceRe: What Was The Worst Reply You Got From A Girl After You Asked Her Out? by OvertheTop(m): 3:21pm On Mar 21, 2022
akezn:
A girl that my guy asked out told my guy that she is not his mate, that when she started running show, that my guy was still watching tales by moonlight.
if You Know tales by moonlight, You should be Around 40

Great Man!
TV/MoviesRe: I Just Downgraded My Dstv After Feeling Cheated by OvertheTop(m): 2:20pm On Mar 21, 2022
feldido:
Who still pays for DSTV when I can always stream live matches on HD and also cast it to my TV
But The Internet Subscription is also Not free and also Same amount as a Full month DSTV sub
TV/MoviesRe: I Just Downgraded My Dstv After Feeling Cheated by OvertheTop(m): 2:16pm On Mar 21, 2022
cescky:
Hmm

Wer in the same boat.. This guys are wicked... With this package, when their playing champions league.. Thed off all the channels showing major matches.. After the match they restore... Evil people, ive refused to subscribe again.

Am buying Amazon 4k, ill get more shows and i heard ill watch epl for free. Dstv de wicked


Edited :For those asking.. Its called "Amazon fire stick" 4k is the latest version.. Just ask Google for more information
Does it Require Any Monthly Subscription after purchase?
Will you need to Data/Internet Subscription along with it?

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