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Tboymessiah:
Thanks for your contributions,
If I may ask, is 6 month courtship too short to know in and out of a woman

It NOT enough o. like I said....you need Multiple like 4. You must Not be footing all their Bills like Mumu

cRobo:
Alexgman1
I noticed that you have countered all the advice given to you thus far

If you thought your opinion were superior why seeks others opinion

Since you keep saying you love her go to hell with her and stop being a nuisance

EXCACTLY!!!

Alexgman1:
You guys are really confusing me oh!

These Your Responses are Baffling me!!!

HOW OLD ARE YOU??

Alexgman1:
[color=#990000][/color]That will hurt her.

Let me Tell You....
in the First Place Office Romances....Mostly End in Tears....
You go Hear ram Sooner or Later.....

If you Must Go down, Make sure You convince her You will Use protection
tell her ....you are protecting her just in case you have an infection

No matter what, don't give in to her manipulation not to Use protection!!

Alexgman1:
I and my colleague at work recently got romantic. Shes a single mum but she said it was a mistake. Four years ago her so called ex got her pregnant & told her to keep the baby but after a while he travelled and till date he hasn't return neither is his line going through. She later delivered the baby and with the help of her parent shes taking care of the child and hes going to school.

Now back to us. We got into a romantic relationship & she started disturbing me to sex her because its been years she did it. She came to sleep over one night & after so much romancing she pleaded that i should flex her that she cant endure any longer. I stood up & went to my jacket to get a packet of condom. When she saw it she was displeased & asked me not to use condom on her that she doesn't like it at all. I told her i have to use it because i am not ready to be a father yet. I told her i dont know how to withdraw. We both sat on the bed pleading to each other until she got fed up & slept off. She said i dont love her.

MUMU man. You are Being Manipulated!
When You Know The Logical thing to Do (Protection), And a Woman is convincing You to do Otherwise.....You are Being manipulated!!

When the Beans Don Done!....(she Get Pregnant or you Get an infection)......
You would Now be running Kiti kiti ....wishing you had Listened to your Logical Reasoning!!

PROTECT YOURSELF Always as long as you are not Married!!

begoniaa:
If your sister or your mother was r*ped and defiled, as young as anyone of them were, you would not do more than Princess?

Or if your daughter was the kid in question, you will not be a bitter father seeking for justice?

If na you dem r*pe, you life will continue to remain the same?

Because na ordinary heartbreak from women naim turn you to this bitter being always creating one million threads, now imagine if a group of guys sexually molested you, gangr*ping you, and come back to call your mother bitter if she lays curse on them.

How Old was the Girl?

Fiendy:
Hello everyone,

Am so baffled, am online to share this,,

The intelligence report that I got from a reliable source with proof clearly shows that my own blood sister is chatting secretly with criminals to extort my money under false pretense..

Please what should I do, I need an advice please

Can they Take the money with your Consent?

Thats Easy....Just Say NO to any Money request.

Tboymessiah:
True talk,

But what of we wey we no get long time relationship...
And we are not any relationship, and age is not on our side, how then are we going to settle down then

32 this December but planning to settle next year, no girl friend not in relationship, but financially okay

Sadly, If You are not Currently Dating a lot of women at same time and analyzing their Characters without telling them your Real intentions of finding a wife.....You have to start immediately..... (Because you can't Select a good one without Long term Experience in the Trenches...sieving the shaft from the food)

without Experience You will Mostly like fall for a retired Olosho. (this Happens a lot.)

LutherSanchez:
OP,Please stop being nice and calm to ladies especially those above 25,they're looking for the last guy to clean up and pay for the mess all the bad boys,one night stands,hookups,bleep buddies and ex boyfriends did to them. Always remember this, SECURITY and COMMITMENT is the female end game and marriage provides this,that's why after all their bleeping around,they always try to find a SIMPle guys who will tolerate their bullshits and he usually pays for what other guys got for free.

SPOT ON!!

ehissi:
Girls typically like men who are comfortable, stable and think they are easy to control.

If they see you as someone that will not give them wahala, its okay for them. If in addition to that, they also see you as someone they can easily control and walk all over, then you are their idea of a husband material......

ABSOLUTELY!!!

They can Even Cheat and Get Caught and still Bully their way out of it (Taking advantage of your Calm Nature!!)

UyaiIncomparabl:
Sweep test? What the hell is that? Hahaha. Poor people mentality.

I Really Wish we could go back to the days...…PARENTS ONLY select the woman they dim fit for their son... it would be so nice

if You failed in Ethics as a Woman back then,....You will Die Single

when Men choose themselves, we are carried away by only the things we see... like Shape, beauty etc. ( that does not make a Great Union)

parents help you select beyond the physical appearances.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I should be asking you if you know what you are talking about. It is insolence to sweep when a guest is around, especially with the entitlement mentality that she should have taken the stress off you. Who asked you? Wait and let me be gone then you can sweep your house.

It simply tells the guest that you don't welcome them. Learn simple manners. Why must it be when a guest is around the mother chooses to sweep?

THAT was the "SWEEP TEST".....
to Sieve out the Good from the Bad Prospective Wife of the Son.

she Failed!

JackDaAlienz:
I want to find an apartment but na money kill am.
I will be turning 30 on october and im still living with my parents. I feel like i have failed in life at my age.

It pains me that as a guy, i dont have my own apartment. Apartments are so expensive now than before. And i dont have friends that i can squat in their house.
What should i do?

Apartment is Not the First Step

the First Step is to get a Good pay Job...Save and then start with a very small Apartment like a 1 room.

if Not You will still fall back on your parent when you cannot pay the next rent.

Na frustration be that o

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. If u know that u rocked this game, say hi.

I enjoyed this one.....Got Batteries at all Cost
Adaptor later saved the Day....

Munzy14:
Plus the mood swings to manipulate and frustrate him the more..

Occasionally shouting at him at any little provocation and the regular "Ozu Nwoke" tag.. ..

Man is vegetable without money I swear..

May God keep blessing o..Insult full everywhere for this country.

A swear!!

Mayemavins:
I have been seriously contemplating, she Aborted my pregnancy after we both went to hospital confirmed it and we both agreed to keep the baby.

Moreover I really need the child, she connived with her sister and they Aborted it. I'm thinking to go the Police station to make a report and arresther!!

Pls should I?
Many more things surrounded that Pregnancy. I really need a child.

You Can Not Do anything About it.

Even if you were Married to Her, You can still Do nothing....

The Maximum you can do is.....Go Your Separate Ways....

wiseone28:
Life goes on..


Another brother fell victim to the street.

Young Nigga, There is a heaven for a G.....
be a lie if i told that i never thought of d***h

My Nigga, we a the last ones left...

But Life Goes on.....

Munzy14:
Very obvious..few with fear of God will manage to hold themselves, though they will still make that humiliating side talks ones in a while.

They will Turn him to House Boy....Sending him Demeaning Errands.

justli:
When a friend of mine met his wife, he was a taxi driver and she works with an insurance company , driving her own car and living quite comfortably.

Since she likes the guy and a being a born again, she gave him an order:
" I don't know how you are going to do it, but you must be the head of the family and that means you have to start making real money "

Well, to cut a long story short, today he is a billionaire with multiple estates in Abuja and doesn't joke with his wife.

It's natural for a woman to want to be looked after. If you reverse the order, in which case she makes the provision and you tell her thank you, over time, your authority in the house is going to wane and hers will increase.

DONT TELL ME You are NOT Familiar with this Outburst from Women.....when there is a Serious Argument
Especially when you don't Bend her way in Decision making:

"I Pick You Up from the Gutter, i Clothed You , i Cleaned You Up.....and you have the guts to Argue with me"

You easily get this from your Story Above....
If you want to Avoid this You have to Align 100% like a Puppy.
and you will still get the Heat form time to time.

i magine her having a Visitor....and Telling you to go into the room.... that she want to entertain her guest....
You just Run in like a Puppy!!

Successlane:
@ ....' I still fulfil my obligations as a man ....'

That's just your saving grace.

The Truth is that:
1. he Cannot give the Rules.
2. in fact, she will give the Rules and he will have to follow...
3. He must be Submissive or He will be Sent Packing....

Ifabernard:
Na just service my girl friend de do o and they gave her bag of rice, spag, 4 litres of vegetable oil (4) and some other stuffs like that. She lives in my house free cos I have another place I live. I just visit her once in a while. As I enter there house she no de na so I carry one vegetable oil go house. U need to see the insult this babe give me. Even shame catch me sef. Next time I visited the house she don carry the 25kg rice to her friends place so I won't see it. Just fear ladies.

and she is Still Living in that Place for FREE?
you Amaze me o....

Eberex:
Not true
My wife doesn't fall in this category, all because of God's spirit that is possessing her.

You must Really be Submissive to her...
keep doing the good job...

Maverick777:
Nobody needs your conviction sir.
I'm not a journalist. Who makes a video of such situation just for clout?
I'm not that insensitive okay, I'm an elder..

Elder, Are you married?

King44:
I am not sure I am capable of targeting a woman again whether friend or gf even wife self. Omo for the past one week I have not fully healed.

Women why do you lie and manipulate guys that are good to you?

Omo, fear women. That advice no be joke.

What Happened?
we wey wan Marry next Week, Make we Learn o.....

mfm04622:
You go to an ATM anytime you want, you withdraw money with the card. You don't know banks spend a lot of money to ensure you can do that? They should spend all that money to make life easy for you free of charge?
1. They built ATM gallery, it cost money
2. They buy ATM, it cost money
3. They buy inverter and batteries, it is expensive
4. They pay for power (bill or diesel)
5. They sort money to put in ATM (you can't just put any money in ATM, ATM will only accept ATM fit notes). This is very expensive to do as you need expensive machine to sort, staff and other equipment for the sorting center
6. You buy data services for internet connection, it cost money
7. Them you employ staff to manage the ATM.

All above are cost banks have to incur to ensure you can have access to your money anytime you want. If you use your bank ATM, all these are free! Free! So how do you want banks to recoup the expenses they incur to provide the services for you? How much are they charging you quarterly?
Even what you are charged for using other bank's ATM is to defray the cost of the other bank checking your account to see if your have enough to do the transaction and then doing the transaction. Another company provide that services that link banks together when needed. Even at that, your bank pay for the 1st 3 transactions of every month on your behalf!

the Above does not justify the numerous Deductions

1. The Money we all save in the bank is used by the Bank for investment and they get massive returns.
2. The ATM card is not FREE we bought Them
3. They even give almost nothing back in interest for Money saved.
4. There are Numerous other charges... some they even deduct without Notifying you (including you the defender)
5. I am also aware we pay for 3rd party transactions in ATMs and when you do transfers to other Banks
6. even though inter-switch does the linking of banks, they should pay from their Massive Business returns
7. You leave 1k in your account, in 1 Year it would be emptied by Deduction



How would you feel if MTN was

1. Charging You SIM card fee.
2. SIM card Maintenance fee
3. Mobile Number selected Maintenance fee
4. MTN Base station Infrastructure fee.


No Justification for the numerous Deductions Abeg.

Nova1982:
Hi niaralanders,

I've been experiencing this for a while now but now I'm tired and sick of it.

Please is there any medication I can get for it?

EASY.....

Use BONJELA for 1 week....

mfm04622:
How is bank charges scam?

You don't want to pay for services rendered?

What About the ATM card maintenance fee...

ATM that I bought from them....N1000 and is in my Possession.....

I'm still being charged for it Quarterly!

MrRajhu2020:
Hello, good morning



I’m a student of FUTA in the department of Mathematical Science, which means I’m affected by the ASUU strike.



I’ve not been doing any work actually, but I’ve tried to learn Copywriting — I can write all sorts of copy, ranging from Email copy, sales copy, product description etc.. but no clients coming my way..



I also tried to source out for a job, I found two. One is ushering service, two working days in a week — Monday and Saturday with a pay of #6500 for the two days. While the other is Retail sales cyclists with a pay of almost #40k in a month.



But due to my present situation, I want to quickly actualize about #30k for an online course (this will further help me to be more better in my copywriting skills and more so, in freelancing) before mid July.



I need your advice guys, and if you can help me with any job I’ll be glad.



Thanks.

Are You sure That Ushering Job is not those Jobs pasted on walls.....
its GNLD in disguise o and could be Kidnappers too. be very Careful!!

Aniluvreal:
Very Usêlèss male you're

Assuming it was the husband that did this, you'll still twist the narrative. Very Usêlèss male to the core you're.

NA woman she be!

IyaTola:
Good evening,

My younger cousin got both offer below
80k in ikoyi with pension and HMO or
80k in Ikeja with no Pension or HMO

He resides in Alimosho

Which would you choose and why?

BTW the Devil and the Deep Blue sea......

Alimosho to and Fro Ikeja is also like N1000/Day Transport
so in 20 Days, you would have spent 20k on Transport

Ikoyi from Alimosho is suicidal except you relocate to Ikoyi environs
But i think the cheapest you can get for Accommodation will be Around Ajah (Roomself = 250k/Year)
Ajah to and fro Ikoyi is still like N1000 per day on Transport Alone.
so in 20 Days, you would have spent 20k on Transport


Your Situation is very Difficult abeg!

Take Ikeja and Actively be on the lookout for another Job!

LCling:
Please I just transferred my voting location state even I registered people .wt is now successfully I'm thinking that why not people should assemble computers and printer go to their communities or the neighborhood and help people out to register is free .since this can be done online using this address .https://cvr.inecnigeria.org
I just did for the whole family now very successful application successful please share this information

How did you Take Snap Shot on the Link?