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prettydiva89:
amazing!unbelievable!
I pray for such an amazing child. So lovely

Please do not pray for such a child.
All these quest for fame and impossibly precocious achievements comes with a very heavy price.

Even the heavenly Father clothed in all wisdom did not allow his begotten son to start his ministry until he was about 30.

No matter how brilliant a kid is, there are expectations for different age groups, preping up your kid to start Uni by 10 just does not seem healthy regardless.

I actually pity the little girl, her childhood and by extension her life is being taken away from her by probably narcissistic parents

AirborneLacer:
Good good points you've got up there Mr Charles. Your tip No3 is a manipulative concept known as push and pull. ON and OFF still sounds good though

Personally, if you want to attract a woman faster and have her more powerfully attracted to you, the optimal mix for a man who already has his fundamentals on lock i.e his body language, tonality and basic inner game, and is interacting with a confident and attractive woman is 80% pull (ON) 20% push (OFF).

Many would be wondering what this pull and push concept is all about.

A quick definition straight from the pen of Swingcat:

“Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each push creates an emotional space for each pull.”

With push, you're cocky enough to think that you're too good for the girl, so you push her away.

With pull, you're cocky enough to think that you're irresistible to her and to women in general, and you want her, so you pull her in.

My experience has also been that push and pull is best mixed with humor.

In all, my point here applies to elite game. It's for guys who want to know what it's like to live in the top 10%, or higher, of men in this world. That's not to say this is advanced. It's just not for beginners.

The Op have got few examples of how this works in his tip No3.

Please, people should be careful about practicing this.

It does work , yes it works but not only on girls but in every situation. Even boss-employer relationship.

but the problem is that, it is the principle of witchcraft. That is how people get manipulated. Push and pull have a drug like effect on the 'victim'. Note that I use the word victim.

Unless you are diabolic, I do not think you want your girl to fall in love with you by making her a victim. It never ends well, even though it works.

Please forget all these teachings from the pit of hell. You can find true love the way God intends. You don't need to find love through witchcraft disguised as manipulations

I agree with the fact that some of these women can be rather careless though that does not in anyway excuse rape

Raping an 8 year old girl is diabolic, irresponsible and inexcusable. The rapist is not fit to be called human.

But time and time again, I'v seen women especially low income earners into trade who expose their children in circumstances that even I personally find uncomfortable. An example is a site where I worked and cos of the cost of stuffs in the hotel where I lodge, I usually walk down the road to buy things. Paste, brush et al.....This woman has a teenage daughter - early teens by my guess and you will see men - low lifes - making lewd jokes and calling the small child my wife and all that stuff and all the mother does is to laugh with them. It creeps me out really. Women sending teenage girls to hawk in mechanic sheds and places where you get lousy, uncouth men.
I don't know if it's only me but sometimes I feel some of this women are actually advertising their daughters and using them as marketing tools.

The worst was way back in school, the single mother who uses her teenage daughter to sell ogogoro to irresponsible men!

jcmaiah:
All i can see is mutuality in that chat. If u truely want to put her away, we all know the first step is to block her. Please Mods be creative when making a post an FP material

Blocking her might actually be a dangerous step.
She'll only get more desperate amd surprise him.
The best is to ignore her.

Two, as regards the fact that he enjoys it, it's catch-22. Everybody wants to be desired but the desire must come from the right person.

It is quite obvious that, yes, the attention seem to get to the OPs head but he's human. But it's also obvious that he does not want to sleep with the woman. If he did, it wouldn't have taken him anything

charismaticdave:
the solution is simple, you are just not willing to take, but if you are ready, this is mine,
Bone her, no replies, no calls, don't even block her or disgrace her, ignore her so long that she will know the kind of person you are and not by silly chats of NO NO

Gbaaaaaaam! This is the advice.
Only those who have gone thru this will understand.
Blocking her puts you in very very grave danger!
1. When someone is plotting for you, it's safer to know her state of mind at that time to defend yourself.
2. Blocking her sends a signal to her that your emotions are getting affected, she will only kick things up a gear.

You are in a dicey situation. Mine is even worse because I once dated this lady about 8 yrs ago. So there's a connection. However, I have purposed in my heart that it is something I will never do

eromspete:
Eleyi gidi gaan

Screwing married woman aint worth it.

In a perfect world i could have said you go to the Police to file a restraining order against the woman harassing you but it can never happen.

Delete her contact and block her on WhatsApp...

Also details of your real communication with her is also not clear. WHY IS SHE ASKING YOU FOR CALL CREDIT ? HER HUSBAND CAN PROVIDE

It seems you don't understand how this ppl work, it's not about the money, she just wants to maintain a connection.

I can relate with the OP.....
There's a married woman who has been disturbing me since last year.
Her husband is a military officer who has been away on Posting.
Still got her call yesterday

Badgers14:
26 out of 27 votes, the guy with the one vote dey vex ooo

Lol.....definitely, the one vote would have been his opponent na!

Obasanjo the trailbazer !!!!


This is now the season of tearing PDP membership cards, expect more cards to be torn !!!!!

Tmex:
she's either an attention seeker or a scammer,she just joined NL today

I don't think she's either , there are actually people who think and talk like that, they suffer from a disorder called NPD. They are very cruel people

The reason why you don't have a boyfriend is because you suffer from Narcissistic Personality disorder.

What you want is not a boyfriend but a boy that will worship you for your supposed beauty (as opposed to your ugly friends - who calls her friends ugly anyway ??) and will be a source for your selfish 'narcissistic supply'.

May God deliver young men from your witchcraft spirit.

The story looks possible but exaggerated

are these people that ran for 15km?

centjamie:
This kind of honesty has the tendency of making a woman remain a spinster perpetually.whatever happened in the past before she met the man should remain in the past.i think her mistake was keeping mute when the pastor asked her that question.she should have simply asnswered no even if the answer was yes.the pastor was wrong to have asked such question in the prescence of her man.

ThoniaSlim:
I'm sorry but I don't feel sorry! A pastor will only have such effrontery to say nonsense when you treat him like a demi god.

Na wa o ! What if the said fiance was your younger brother ? Almost getting married to a lady who has had several abortions that might or might not have affected her ability to bear kids. What if the Pastor was just being perceptive (either Spiritually or by physical observation) and asked the question to save the fiance from deceit and major pain in future

Am not being hypocritical but would Jesus or Paul or Peter have hidden such if they had perceived such - no be church we they talk again ?

Nobody holy pass but Jesus might be patient with sinners but never with deceitful and hypocritical people - abi did Peter not rebuke and curse Ananias and Sapphira in the open ?? The woman with the six husbands Jesus met at the well, was it not in the open ?

Please let's stop calling Dog, monkey and monkey, dog

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that question especially as it came from YOUR Pastor

@DianimalCanada @intercom
I concur with your reasoning.

I am a stickler for openness in relationships - The scenarios are these.

1. She has never had an abortion - of which she'll joyfully and firmly (though embarrassed) say "Never, definitely no". Which will even end up boosting the respect your fiance has. - no problem here.

2. She has had an abortion and told the said fiance about it - Once again, no problem here. Just slight embarrassment.

3. She has had abortion(s) and kept it as a secret from her fiance - Now that is where the big problem comes from, you can't answer yes or no so you just keep mute !!!!! I tend to suspect that this is the OPs likely scenairo

AmberQueen:
The talkin about women part is soo annoying,so utterly disrespectful...

Real men seldom talk about women.

But the dumb goons wit empty heads will rather talk abt a girl who fell from d bed...Mshew

Btw,y will a girl fall from the bed I smell lies just to spice up his story.

You really want to know why girls fall from the bed looool.
But I don't know why you think it's a lie anyway!!!

WHy do they always sit so far away from the TV ?

Are they just pretending they are watching the match ??

The price of a brand new Kia rio is 2.7million naira, even before the crash of the dollar

crownprince102:
Opon Imo exist no where in the world except osun....... An innovation by Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola. It consist of various educational apps, every subject, brain teasers, learning apps, all needed textbooks, "WAYEC" past question for the last ten years and no compatibility with internet in order not to divert student concentrations. Every SSS student has one in the state.

One of the reasons we may never catch up with the west !!!!!!

Education without internet access in the 21st century Absolutely ridiculous.

The same 'diversion' that has over the years led to ground breaking inventions by students in first world countries

Actions they say, speak louder than words.....

Babangida's body language was far from 'warm'.

We all know IBB's reputation of not always meaning what he says

Bevista:
I understand the plight of labour. However, this looks to me economically not feasible at the moment, irrespective of the govt we have in Aso Rock by may 29th.

Remember, oil price is still around 50/bbl (most state govts are currently owing, even at the current salary scale).

There is also the issue of inflation. Without much growth and production, prices will simply climb back up and negate the impact of the increase. So while you may be better off in Nominal terms, in Real term you are still stagnant if not worse.

Also, please we cannot keep spending all our budget on recurrent expenditure, when there is a huge infrastructural deficit (remember not all of us are employed by govt).

#GodBlessNigeria

#TeamGMB2015

You are one of the very few intelligent people left in this country.

I won't add anything further to this piece because you have echoed the mind of common sense.

Chimarto:
If we talk in terms of sizes, we woould find that JPEG is much larger than the other two and it is widely used for the distribution via web or email because it gives you ample detail while being very efficient.

You tried with your article but. . . . .

PNG are usually heavier than JPEG.

Femi Fani-Kayode made me laugh, as usual - Soludo



Pls someone should ensure that this guy never leaves the political sphere, who else can make us laugh as much as he does

This is a scenario where it is appropriate to say the lady's 'head is not correct'.

Don't worry, hopefully you'll get married soon and you'll realize that what goes around comes around.

Apart from his age, at least one other information is wrong...
Goodluck Jonathan is taller than 175cm.
He should be at least 5"10

Gejfreesupport:
When George Bush won re-election, he lost in all online polls..

Internet warriors said he had no chance..

In politics, elections are not determined by social media.. It is determined with the ballot..

Alot of people insulting other persons in defense of GMB will not comeout to vote..

They would take a bottle of Orijin and be tying change on the internet.. Lol

PDP and their members would be on the field, determining what happens..

The same e-thugs who didn't vote, would be the ones screaming "rigging" on the internet when GMB is finally declared a serial looser Feb 14th.

That's a lie...as @ 2004, George Bush was very popular amongst the American populace because of his handling of post September 11 bombing fallout.
His popularity fell AFTER his reelection due to the dwindling economy and the Iraqi war

But she can only ride one at a time

Alexkene:
They are two totally different countries now, but they were once a country in the past and divided.

Congo is also known as the Republic of Congo (Brazaville)

while DR Congo is known as Democratic Republic of the Congo (Kinshasha)

Your 'I too know' too much....

Can't you see peeps are just having fun !

Afrok:
If U are not 37 years old and people say U ar 37years old, that means U look like one . So, what will crying on twitter do to make people change their view about ur age? Abeg if U can't work on yourself, then forget about peoples thoughts on ur age coz me think say U look older than that .

Ur age is ur business, their thoughts about ur age is their business, the way i look is my business, so won't it be nice if we all mind our business?

And to think she's an entertainer!
Why not just hit the gym. It has no negative impact, only positives. Cos at this rate very soon, they'll call her 50

Why don't you use a captcha ?

It's 2015 you know ?

I'll give an example from my own relationship.

I think we should not be hasty in making judgements.

People that write others off just because they come from broken homes are wrong .......

so also those that say it doesn't matter.

Broken homes affect kids while growing up and they more often than not carry the effects to adulthood and it might reflect on her relationship with the opposite sex and marriage.

She's only said her side of the story - have you heard from the other side ?? Are there traits that she must have demonstrated in the relationship that might have given prospective in-laws cause for concern. I for one, am tempted to think so based on her write ups.

It's not just about - the person that will love you will come - she probably also needs counseling.



I'll give an example from my own relationship.

At some point we had issues and when I told a friend about the fact that we both come from broken homes, she just advised against the relationship, anyway she had a point although we're still together and working thru it.

Now here's the case.

As for me since I never really saw much of what marriage looked like from home - I grew up believing the marriages of other families were perfect. My father was a quiet man who shielded his family from much of the drama going on in the marriage and left at some point.
I grew up thinking my relationship (and marriage) was going to be blissful "like other folks'.
I intentionally left serious relationships till much later in life cos I believed things were just going to work out perfectly when I was ready. And when the time came, I went into it with a naive 100% confidence and trust. Even before getting to know the girl well.

She was at the other end of the spectrum, she was exposed to all the drama in her family and grew up believing marriages were just sham and fake. She started dating early and never really commited herself due to trust issues so they never worked.


Naturally there were a lot of hurt and mistakes and breakups and makeups. But over time, we've been having some bits of balance. She's getting to be more trusting and realising that not everybody out there is coming to take advantage of you while I am also getting to see the precarious other side of relationships and truth be told, I am much less trusting now with what i have been exposed to.
We're going through counselling and sincerely hope things work. It's been a couple of years now together.

Anyway, the point I am trying to make is that - coming from a broken home actually does matter. And definitely there will be some traits she might have displayed (and be displaying) that are turning potential in-laws off.

In the case of my gf, she's just lucky that I stay far away from my fam, If they were aware of some of the things that happened in our first year together, I assure you she would have been a goner!