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Sexy/curvy babe, pretty, college degree (from any institution asides a Nigerian institution), educated parents (siblings too), exposed but pretensive and above all- pseudo submissive. This profile is what we have as the classic catch for most Nigerian celeb guymen. Meanwhile...na format, the best these ladies have to offer can be seen on social media photoshots and trending posts. You can fish for such in some ponds (environs...like all these serene and high in profile clubs) where slay Q hang out with a bevy of friends as PR.
Most of these specs really need to get married with 2 safety valves as mindset. 1.They will eventually make money and influence. 2.DIVORCE has been part of the process, the more the children, the more our celeb's long term obligation (failure to do so will only lead to blackmail), no losses for Mrs Ex. Just a body count retirement plan with vacation trips all over places with the kids as 'masks' to cover their misdeeds.

Ain't no redpill sh*t, but hommie...shine your eyes.

Merry Chrismass sis..

pocohantas:
When a spouse is misbehaving and has the support of a parent, my dear forget it - they won’t change.

There is a saying that you can manage a bad spouse, but you can hardly ever manage bad in-laws. Couples fight all the time and makeup, but once it involves either in-laws, it becomes harder to fix as multiple egos are crushed and loyalty would be tested.

Hopefully you have a partner who understands peaceful co-parenting, which is most times not the case.

...I cannot help but thank you for your wealth of experience. Trust overindulged adults to pout their mouths and hiss at their own peril.

ibkayee:
Well staying together for the kids for the sake of their ‘stability’ sounds reasonable on paper, assuming the parents are able to show a ‘civil’ front for them but I dunno how practical this is in a genuinely toxic environment. Kids are more observant than people give them credit for so it may actually be healthier to split in some cases

But I’m not an expert sha so…

Quite so. Thank you.

Mercury12:
There are divorces with happy ending believe me

I wouldn't have a single reason to doubt you, it's how it can be done (without it's negative efx scarring any of the parties involved) based on your experience is what this is all about.

ibkayee:
Doubt anyone wants to marry just to get divorced later but sometimes it’s necessary

Better a divorce than a marriage where you’re unhappy, being abused etc. Not everything can be mended and in such cases, divorce is probably the better option

Relief from a toxic, miserable and or/unsafe partnership. Or just relief from a relationship that didn’t work out can be a happy ending

Let's assume abuse isn't involved (coz ain't like dat all the time), is there a way to ensure the offspring emotional stabillity and moral compass in the long run? (especially with kids).

I com dey fear say e no go reach me.

Divoc19:
You call it Crush
Some call it Love
I call it Lust
Nice one@ Pastoshizzy


The way you hit the nail ehn, you should be a divorce lawyer without a certificate
No caps.

good to hear from you too D...for real I'll rather be a bus conducter (lol) . Shey turkey ti set sha? Have yourself a very merry xmas.

Fira09:
Whoré, I'm the one who supposed to blame my self for replying a menace like you.

Wishing you same, also have a bad night and bad weekend.

I think I will get your details from the mod and do the necessary.

Rubbish!!!

you must do this a lot. Bury the hatchet. She's a lady. You be Oshewa hin brother ?

Illegal1:
4 sure nah...

i taught i told u the last time we met dat u are sexy and f*ckable.,

here comes the accomplice...

Kiddogarcia:
Not married, will probably never do.
So I have no idea on how it works.

Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho

After the scoring goal don set...she go com make tender loving care with good cooking reset your budding redpilling attitude into fatherhood/simphood. Marriage dey happen o (without juju involved).

Kobojunkiee:
We tend to confuse the swirling of brain chemicals and sex hormones with love many times too and when the delusion fueled by those chemicals fades, we interpret that to me love is gone.

'CRUSH`...that's it. I know of a parent that slugged it out so long the kids became social misfits. The decisions we make atimes may have lasting effects on our wards. Emotional abuse and rejection has been known to distort childrens' potentials.

Kobojunkie:
The kids were grown at this point and did indeed realize it was best for the parents to move on from what was clear even to them was a loveless marriage.

Growing up with parents that don't love each other is something though. Getting into conclusion that all hope is lost in a fillial setting is another. Well sha.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, divorce where both parties are on the same page and accept it is time for them two to move on and stop living in denial of their reality..

Sounds nice. Can you bare witness to any of such happenings? Please..your experience does it include the emotional well-being of their offspring.

Please share your experience as regards the subject matter.

Na format!. Sultry and naive shey. No worryyy! Your net go catch. Keep it up, you're doing well.

Ambition good sha..but not at the expense of millions of already impoverished Naija.

And the most '8terz peppering' couple award goes to the duo and only..
Wish peaple well, no be every body you go wish bad...only GOD (Daddy YOU are 2 mush) knows our fate.

CHASTITY IS A VIRTUE. HAVING IT COULD SHOW HOW SMART YOU ARE.
A lot of men have the brains, the brawns and also track record of achievements. They also have desires (body specs to be precise)...some women just come as remote control to an undisciplined man because they need sex just like that, or guyman could be manipultive (or he's paying and demanding what he pays for...u know) in other situations. Either of them (or both) would get to a point of regrets coz the feelings may not be mutual just (a transaction sha). If you remain mumu, you may have been jazzed (that is a possibility) coz 'naija' no dey play. Most men these days prefer 'pay-as-you-go' services (no strings attached) to save much drama...same goes for all these so called "slay queens". Chastity can take us to great places if we place more value on ourselves.

The basic element of every relationship is respect...then love (please note it isn't the other way round). My woman (when we started dating) was earning almost twice my monthlies, it was an opportunity for me to check out for egoistic tendencies (she has an higher college degree too) before I get into one of those situations such as being forced to defend your credibility as a male counterpart coz of some liberalist fad, wrong advises (toxic associations) or just static ego. I always have an emotional 'safe house' when it comes to emotions so I don't get burns. All my relationships never started from the gift shop, movies, eatries and the likes...mostly we started as friends (I guess we all know what a good friendship should feel like) which becomes platonic (due to mutual respect and care). We may have crossed the line after sex is involve, that is when we really need to start negotiating the future of our relationship. GUYS...if you find out the foundation of your love life is materialism...pay her off!

Yuck! Na foreign demons posess them. 40 days fasting (by their mama) with vigil marathon prayers will rectify their hormones. Fine boys with sores on their butt holes...omashey o.

Attention seeking rookie. Revolution ko...John Wick ni.

I thank JESUS for justice shall prevail. The heart of kings lies in the hand of GOD...

If to say...uhm.

Sweat, mud, dust, darkness. The stench. The hate. The greed.

Ilamina:


My Ethiopian friend said we all complicate our lives, one way of the other

But in Nigeria, when your life is not perfect
People criticize you
Especially when your grammar is not good

Great Ethiopia

Even if you speak the best of english with most apealing accent but you ain't got doe (ain't slaying, ain't balling, no paparrazi with dem likes and followers), my dear...dem no wan hear you. It's woven into the fabrics of our decading values. Just go ahead with your good self and see there are rewards for virtues.

Tribally biased, hypocritical and disrespecful responses. The best of attitudes can only be seen and felt only on days of worship. Fine! the country is experiencing hardship but how does it relate with our extincted values...our culture. I hate politics the more. The social media has given your average illitrate a club...to clobber our values. A whole lotta DAs don't know nothing about economics (just memes and stuff). It's so sad.

I feel you. May his humble soul rest in peace.

VeryWickedGoat:
Return to Motherland na attention seeker.

you ehn! If I catch you!

Sense man. You try na.

Kobojunkie:
When Jesus Christ said, "Accept my Teachings,", He meant we are to accept them as-is. What you folks call interpretations are nothing but twists on the Truth of God as written, similar to what the Pharisees were guilty of and Jesus Christ laid curses against. And yes, those curses/woes laid out in His teachings by Jesus Christ are curses that follow all those who teach lies using the name of God much as the pharisees and teachers of the Law did. So being born-again is not get-out-of-jail-free card as far as curses are concerned.

that "get out of the jail part" curses remain valid part I agree with coz...b, there's a possibility of you being under the manipulation of a curse. You're my '6 foot pole' guy. Ciao.

Kobojunkie:
But God is Truth and your Interpretations are lies which you obtain by twisting God's direct Truth to you so?

how are you?