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Kobojunkiee:
We tend to confuse the swirling of brain chemicals and sex hormones with love many times too and when the delusion fueled by those chemicals fades, we interpret that to me love is gone.

'CRUSH`...that's it. I know of a parent that slugged it out so long the kids became social misfits. The decisions we make atimes may have lasting effects on our wards. Emotional abuse and rejection has been known to distort childrens' potentials.

Kobojunkie:
The kids were grown at this point and did indeed realize it was best for the parents to move on from what was clear even to them was a loveless marriage.

Growing up with parents that don't love each other is something though. Getting into conclusion that all hope is lost in a fillial setting is another. Well sha.

Kobojunkie:
Yes, divorce where both parties are on the same page and accept it is time for them two to move on and stop living in denial of their reality..

Sounds nice. Can you bare witness to any of such happenings? Please..your experience does it include the emotional well-being of their offspring.

Please share your experience as regards the subject matter.

Na format!. Sultry and naive shey. No worryyy! Your net go catch. Keep it up, you're doing well.

Ambition good sha..but not at the expense of millions of already impoverished Naija.

And the most '8terz peppering' couple award goes to the duo and only..
Wish peaple well, no be every body you go wish bad...only GOD (Daddy YOU are 2 mush) knows our fate.

CHASTITY IS A VIRTUE. HAVING IT COULD SHOW HOW SMART YOU ARE.
A lot of men have the brains, the brawns and also track record of achievements. They also have desires (body specs to be precise)...some women just come as remote control to an undisciplined man because they need sex just like that, or guyman could be manipultive (or he's paying and demanding what he pays for...u know) in other situations. Either of them (or both) would get to a point of regrets coz the feelings may not be mutual just (a transaction sha). If you remain mumu, you may have been jazzed (that is a possibility) coz 'naija' no dey play. Most men these days prefer 'pay-as-you-go' services (no strings attached) to save much drama...same goes for all these so called "slay queens". Chastity can take us to great places if we place more value on ourselves.

The basic element of every relationship is respect...then love (please note it isn't the other way round). My woman (when we started dating) was earning almost twice my monthlies, it was an opportunity for me to check out for egoistic tendencies (she has an higher college degree too) before I get into one of those situations such as being forced to defend your credibility as a male counterpart coz of some liberalist fad, wrong advises (toxic associations) or just static ego. I always have an emotional 'safe house' when it comes to emotions so I don't get burns. All my relationships never started from the gift shop, movies, eatries and the likes...mostly we started as friends (I guess we all know what a good friendship should feel like) which becomes platonic (due to mutual respect and care). We may have crossed the line after sex is involve, that is when we really need to start negotiating the future of our relationship. GUYS...if you find out the foundation of your love life is materialism...pay her off!

Yuck! Na foreign demons posess them. 40 days fasting (by their mama) with vigil marathon prayers will rectify their hormones. Fine boys with sores on their butt holes...omashey o.

Attention seeking rookie. Revolution ko...John Wick ni.

I thank JESUS for justice shall prevail. The heart of kings lies in the hand of GOD...

If to say...uhm.

Sweat, mud, dust, darkness. The stench. The hate. The greed.

Ilamina:


My Ethiopian friend said we all complicate our lives, one way of the other

But in Nigeria, when your life is not perfect
People criticize you
Especially when your grammar is not good

Great Ethiopia

Even if you speak the best of english with most apealing accent but you ain't got doe (ain't slaying, ain't balling, no paparrazi with dem likes and followers), my dear...dem no wan hear you. It's woven into the fabrics of our decading values. Just go ahead with your good self and see there are rewards for virtues.

Tribally biased, hypocritical and disrespecful responses. The best of attitudes can only be seen and felt only on days of worship. Fine! the country is experiencing hardship but how does it relate with our extincted values...our culture. I hate politics the more. The social media has given your average illitrate a club...to clobber our values. A whole lotta DAs don't know nothing about economics (just memes and stuff). It's so sad.

I feel you. May his humble soul rest in peace.

VeryWickedGoat:
Return to Motherland na attention seeker.

you ehn! If I catch you!

Sense man. You try na.

Kobojunkie:
When Jesus Christ said, "Accept my Teachings,", He meant we are to accept them as-is. What you folks call interpretations are nothing but twists on the Truth of God as written, similar to what the Pharisees were guilty of and Jesus Christ laid curses against. And yes, those curses/woes laid out in His teachings by Jesus Christ are curses that follow all those who teach lies using the name of God much as the pharisees and teachers of the Law did. So being born-again is not get-out-of-jail-free card as far as curses are concerned.

that "get out of the jail part" curses remain valid part I agree with coz...b, there's a possibility of you being under the manipulation of a curse. You're my '6 foot pole' guy. Ciao.

Kobojunkie:
But God is Truth and your Interpretations are lies which you obtain by twisting God's direct Truth to you so?

how are you?

kkins25:


Kobojunkie, no matter what you do, the high priest, sadduccess, pharisees would over and over again crucify christ. No matter how many times you show them the profane things they do in the name of God.

Profane things? Pharisees?...I admit that your role model can be quite contagious but living your life contrary to the interpretation of GOD's word in the Spirit has dire consequences. You're being manipulated.

Angelfrost:
Nah... I imitate no one! Only Christ!
The truth is what it is!
Embrace it and be free!

welcome o!

Angelfrost:
Covert?!! Lol... Nah!

Honestly, he is just irreligious like myself!

I just happen to be more tolerant of gullibility than he is!

What do you know!...Another attention seeking 'Kobo' wannabe. You're welcome darling.

sharpwriter:
I don't think he/she is an atheist, more of a confused entity and trouble maker (I'm not limiting this to religious threads alone). Sometimes amusing because he/she's always on the other side of the divide, na ITK

ITK! I see some possibility in that too. But Kobo's problem get depth o. I see someone seeking attention/applause...I pray he gets well.

Naira20:
As much as I may not agree with the Op, what's your problem with her personal experience?

You delight in saying things that has no biblical basis.
Who cares about what you feel.
Your personal experiences or understanding should remain with you abeg.

If you feel you want to teach about what you know, create a thread

Imagine, God doesn't deal with His followers with emotion... Bla bla bla.
But He has emotions, in His presence is fullness of Joy and His right hand are pleasure..
Wetin be Joy and pleasure?

Kobo is the most expressive loony on NL. I wouldn't touch him with a 6 foot pole. He's a covert atheist on a mission.

I see a whole lotta ignorant illitrates who cannot analyse and discus politics objectively. Little wonder, the literacy level is at it's lowest. 'Google Made Me Smart' theologians erwhere. What do you expect if all this tribal ignoramus' exposure and enlightment is relative with Tiktok trends. Dem sabi (only) insults.

SLAP44:
Tribalism is evil.

...and dumb too. A whole lotta them here.

einsteine:
So you don't know the difference between Mormon and mammon

spelling error. I know the difference. I just corrected it.

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Time to choose. GOD or Mammon? If he takes the dollar he will definately won't be able to worship GOD.

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