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Go straight to the point.

Bubu is afraid.
Or he doesn't want to harm his Boko Haram babies.

Or both. Stop lying, agba iya!

nairavsdollars:
By Temidayo Akinsuyi



https://www.independent.ng/boko-haram-why-buhari-cant-lead-our-troops-like-chadian-president-tony-momoh/

Where there are millions of flexible pucci out there, someone is hanging his tongue out panting for one that has become slack.

Got nothing against single mothers who had been married, but for some like this, it is impossible not to chuckle at the perpetuity of their folly. Here is another prospective mother of almajiris, the children that flood the internet spreading their bank accounts every where asking for an alm.

A woman that has no control over her pucci, is that one a woman? Only fitting for a man who has no control over his phallus.

Franciscabless:
Am a single of mother of one , my baby is 1 year and 3 months , am in a new relationship with my new boyfriend who is not her father. We only start dating 2 months ago I love him so much , he also love me and my baby ,he is already asking me for sex. Am ready but am not sure if I should give to him with protection or I should wait a little bit more maybe 6 months , please I need advice should I give to him or wait a lot bit more?

Everyone, they have arrived.
They are here.

This is one of them. They are about to start digging, for treasure.

Omar09:
If this story is real, I'd recommend you use this sex as a weapon to get whatever you want from him. Don't fůck him for free... Make him bleed.

Pls use protection!

This dumb fake albino should go and sit down and focus on tithe collection and special offerings.

His brain can't handle what's going on at this time. Fake pastors everywhere. Dumb people with microphone.

ouigy99:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Me483sCINjU

The Senior Pastor of Christ Embassy during his church sermon on Sunday April 5th, insisted that the 5G network is responsible for the deaths recorded all over the world.

He opined that the social distancing policy and the home restriction is a ploy to get people not to protest the installation of 5G network.

Chairman, you are the husband.
Stop blaming anyone over your inability to stand your ground and protect your woman. Is the mama making jokes about kids, you simply return the joke that the two of you are not yet ready. Period! Act like a man for once and take charge of your house.

Perhaps you should let us know if it is the mama that is feeding the two of you? If not, then be the man that your wife needs. I sincerely hope she will be mentally repaired from what you have subjected her to now.

Blessedone26:
Not really my fault. The mama wahala was too much. Everyday, " how are you my dear, how is your wife, the next thing is kids and pregnancy questions..


You know, before they started calling one impotent, got to open that up to them..

You messed up dude!
You messed up big phu.cking time!

What you did was not even merely cheating; you went to camp another babe with yourself for several days! If your girlfriend (now your ex-gf) was really everything to you you wouldn't have needed to camp with another girl.

If it was just cheating, after scolding you we would have asked you to go and beg her. The kind of begging that you're gonna be literally groveling on the floor. And then she might reconsider and take you back... But what you did was infinitely beyond cheating... even the devil is surprised and shocked by your action.

Accept the fate of your choices and move on. Camping with another babe for that long means you have found a replacement for your ex-gf. And stop saying you're gonna kill yourself over this. Move on with your life, and respect your ex-gf, let her make her own choices. You don't deserve her. She deserves the chance to meet more decent and better men.

futuregovernor:
I was surprised to see my babe this morning, because of the lockdown. We chat and talk normal on phone,didn't know she plan paying me a surprise visit this morning.

She caught me red handed with her junior colleague this morning,the babe has been with me since last week Tuesday,I asked her to always stayed indoor because I got some shit gossiping forum call neighbors. I don't know how they got to find out,maybe they call my babe,I wonder how she got a vehicle from mainland to island.

I didn't know she was the one, because it was early, thinking it was my beg beg neighbor. She got inside and was flabagasted,she left after staring at us for more than 5 minutes,she didn't say anything.....,no movement,were could she be! my eyes are red,she has been with me for 6 years now. our TM coming up by October. Please advice me,say something,do I still have a chance,will she come back!

Hello Op.
First I must commend you for being very patient and supporting your wife. I had once come across a case very similar to yours, and after more than a year the couple had not been able to mutually penetrate each other. Yes, they tried all sort of things. They got family involved, with the wife's family having to pin down the wife for the man to insert his credit card while in that position... It did not work. They tried drugs and doctors and all. Sedatives, hypnotics... Nothing worked. I am afraid you too are already in your desperation for a solution making a fundamental mistake:

1.) You got external parties involved. As a man you should learn how to handle your family matter without involving others. You made a mess here already.
2.) You are the greater source of the problem, not your wife.

Why the No. 2.? You just admitted that after several months you did not know the hole you were supposed to slot in your credit card. Who knows if you had been sounding her anus all this while, and it's the excruciating pain of it that really caused the whole thing. At your age and for a man planning to get married you should have taken time to read up about sex. That's the least you could have done. At your age you don't know the position of cookie garden... This is not good at all. And you might be the source of this problem for your wife in the first place. Sex is never meant to be a punishment, but the most pleasant and the most beautiful experience in man's life.

For now, you have to go to the school of sex that you have skipped all your life. Forget about penetrating her cookie garden for now, and tell her so. Tell all the family members that you have misyarned to that all is now well with the two of you. Give yourselves space and the privacy that a marriage deserves. STOP, absolutely stop putting pressure on your wife to have sex. Instead go and learn how to use your tongue and your finger to make her cum. And yes, this is perfectly possible without penetrating. And then when she is eventually comfortable with your tongue and lips on her cookie garden, you will have done a lot to get her to a point where she will be more welcoming with respect to your pen.

In any case, it is neither a pharmacist nor a medical doctor that you are supposed to consult. It is a mental health expert, especially one subspecializing in sexual health that you need to see. Your solution is not in drugs.

Blessedone26:
Hi nairalanders,

I dated my wife for close to 8 years without sex, we went to same school. Though the decision of no sex before marriage was mine. Cos I am a very addictive person, I never wanted to be addicted to sex during my undergraduate days. She later told me she was a virgin then which I never believed and I told her I am not interested in her being a virgin or not.

Fast forward to our wedding night last year, naxo amaria begin they cry my daddy, my daddy, lets do this thing nah, nah tears full bed. So I took her to see her dad the next day and both of them were crying like a baby.

We got back to our location, we made several attempts with no sex, we've seen different pharmacists, we but different lubricants, but a touch of "pola" on the honeypot area, she will start crying of pains, she's so scared to the extreme. Confession: It was after 3 months that we've been trying that I was even also able to recognise the location of virginal, I had been putting the thing in a wrong place initially. ....sorry, ain't a bookworm but a bit spirikoko

I reported her to her parents , they came, brought diiferent lubricants, still we weren't able to reach the promise land . Now we've decided to go the way of sedative drugs .

Is there any side effects to the drugs?

Do I have to get her to sign a paper cos women ain't predictable, that she won't start shouting emotional trauma in the future that her husband drugged her to have the first sex with her. We need kids mehn.

Thanks..

I admit that you have tried with your submission but I must say it is a little theoretical. I had encountered at least a case like the Op's, and it wasn't a funny experience.

Donald3d:


I am about to go very raw, kindly permit me, I haven't gone this raw here before, but you need help, so here it is.
I hope this doesn't change people's perspectives about me sha , we Nigerians like been mute about sex. Its an important ingredient in marriage, no matter how spiritual you are.

The best way to solve any problem is identifying the source or root of the problem and eliminate it .

From what you have said, she enjoys pre-intimacy , I would have loved to ask what type of pre-initmacy to help find a solution, but I also understand she is your wife and you can't be too explicit because this is a public forum.

Anyway, as I said earlier, let's tackle the source of the problem, which is FEAR, she is afraid, very afraid, so we need to eliminate the fear.

She is also pressured because you are "reporting" her to people, keep this between both of you Sir, please stop involving other people, fear and pressure is a very dangerous combination.

Please don't give her any sedatives, you really don't need it.

The issue with her fear is closely related to why lubricant aren't even working, the internal muscles of her privates would contract making it tighter because she is afraid, her natural lubrication won't also be discharged because her fear is making her mind "switch" it off, coupled with the fact that you are also scared of inflicting injuries on her privates.

There are two possible ways to eliminate her fear

1.Trying to convince her not to be afraid (easier said than done)
2. Introducing something that would involuntarily eliminate her fear.

I assume you have tried number 1, let's go to number two.
There are a few things that are greater than fear, but we would be sticking to the subject matter.
In this context and with the peculiarity of the situation, there is only one thing I believe can exceed that fear ...... Pleasure , Excessive Pleasure, when a human experiences excessive pleasure, the body releases pain killers and anti-stress chemicals.

So what should you do ?
You need a non-invasive pleasure mechanism, proven and tested , the most painless sexual activity. Guaranteed to give utmost pleasure .
You guessed it , O r a l Sex.

Its isn't just about putting your mouth there , you need to do it right (forgive me as I am about to go a bit raw).

You know your wife more than anyone, you know what turns her on, her pleasure spots. Use your mouth very well on those spots.
You need to understand that there is a mission here. O r g a s m
But there are some "hot spots" common among most women

1. The nipples
2.The clitoris

I would focus on number 2 ..
1.Make sure the bed is well made, clean sheets, turn on the AC , if you don't have one, turn on the fan and leave it running to cool the room. Make sure no one else except the both of you is in your home, she needs to be comfortable.

2.Ensure you both have a warm bath and wash each others privates before you commence.You wash hers, she washes yours.Try and start up a conversation about some funny experiences you've both had, how you met each other and fell in love , how much you love her, all while washing each others privates. You are psychologically manipulating/distracting her with this.When you are done, dry each others body and carry her to the bed.Careful, so you don't slip and fall oo, you can leave that part out, but women love it !. You can back her like a baby or carry her in your arms, whichever you are ok with. Make sure she is unclad, but put on a boxers short, this eliminates her fears of seeing an erect instrument.

3.Its important you place a pillow under her waist to elevate her lower region, it allows for easy access with your mouth and with your instrument, when its time for insertion. It also ensures you don't feel neck pain and can breathe well during the process.

4.Use your mouth on the clitoris till she "explodes", don't stop no matter how long it takes, but you have to be careful not to be too hard on it as you would get the opposite of the desired effect, you would give her pain instead of pleasure. You need to be gentle and firm(I know this sounds contradictory, I would explain), use your lips as they are soft tissue, that won't cause much bruising, suck on it, in and out, grab the whole of it (the clitoris--- I have attached an image for easy identification, its that slightly protruding part of her privates that looks like a mini peeeenis) with your lips and gently slide it out of your mouth, without it leaving your mouth completely, make sure your lips holds unto it(this is what stimulate it and gives pleasure), but not too tightly, you can use your tongue as support to put the clitoris in place, if the clitoris is slipping out of your mouth. Keep repeating this back and forth.

5.Now, its important to hold her, so you can feel the "rhythm" of her body, hold her sides, or her laps, start out slowly, but not to slowly, gradually increase your "sucking pace" as you notice the rhythm of her body starts to change . This method ensures you don't bruise her and you also don't get tired easily.It also ensures a natural flow and gradual increase in pleasure.It would get to a point you might have to go really fast, this clouds her brain with pleasure, do this only when the rhythm of her body tells you to do so, when she starts to slightly wriggle or when she asks you to increase your pace.

6. Do this till she "explodes", and wriggles in pleasure, most likely at this point you are also erect, its important you take advantage of this moment, because at this point, you have killed three birds with one stone. She is too climaxed to notice her fear, her body has released enough chemicals to considerably reduce pain and she is properly lubricated for relatively easy insertion.Don't waste time !!!. Slowly (not too slowly), insert, before she comes back to reality . Make sure the pillow is still under her it ensures her lower region is elevated, so you can see clearly for insertion , I assume from the beginning she is already lying flat on her back, spread her legs out gently, this also relaxes/expands the cavity of her privates.If you still find it a bit difficult to penetrate, manually use both hands to spread the outer privates open for easy access, glide in back and forth as you both copulate to produce a wonderful seed that would bear fruit in 9 months.

7. You might need to do this more than once to be successful at it .
8.The fact that you did all this doesn't mean she might not feel pain, it just reduces the pain, it also might totally eliminate it.
9.Once you start have it in mind that you must see it through till the end.
10.If she is in excessive pain, stop and repeat the same day or another day till you get it done.


NOTE: Please stop reporting her to people, apart from the fear she is feeling, reporting her or telling other people about it, is putting her under additional pressure and stress, its adding to her Psychological lock-down. Please don't be upset with her. Buy her gifts, make her feel loved, make her understand you aren't judging her or upset with her. I am sure this steps would work for you

NB: I am married by the way, in case anyone was wondering.

He married his mothers.

Later we will start saying women are this, women are that, not knowing he's the one digging his own grave.

You never ever train with one woman you go carry two put for house.

agwom:
Source: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/what-gave-me-courage-to-marry-two-women-same-day.html

Guy, you must be distributor of STD by now. You met a random girl and inserted your pen in her ink just like that!
Your ancestors won't be able to protect you from the rage of your village people this time.

QueeenKKfire:
I was still in shock when she came to kiss, oboy I know I no gree oh(like seriously who does that)I went down to her chest region I sucked on her succulent boobs, they were delicious.
In few minutes time my D*CK was ready, I layed her down gently on the bed and spread her legs wide like the heavens. Her p***sy was so clean(my type of p**sy)I putted my index finger inside the hole, oh my goodness it was so wet, I mean like a river, it was dripping wet. I mounted my rod of destruction, peewmm I entered it was so warm, Pam Pam Pam pam Pam i was nacking none stop,this girl is so sweet.

We nacked and nacked and nacked for like 10 minutes, she told me to wait and climbed on me, come see kpanshing, she was a pro I must confess she was good at it, we f**Ked like that until we came.

I was tired, we went to the bathroom to take our bath, i on the shower as the water hit our bodies, one thing led to another my stupid d*ck rose up , with her hand on the toilet sitter you know the rest nah. I came she came, we were satisfied for the main time.

We came out, I allowed her to use the the towel, in my mind i deh pray make she no go that day. As I was still thinking i thinking I heard my name down stairs.

Stay tuned

As long as I do not support ladies seeing guys as ATM, I also can't stand guys who take advantage of ladies who care for them.

Relationship should be give-and-take, and by that I do not mean money. There must be something a babe is contributing to my life for me to spoil her silly. And the moment I see that the lady only wants to use me as her ATM, I will immediately lock up. And it doesn't matter if it is 1,000 naira or 1,000,000 naira she is asking me for. From experience, a man is only as good as being a source of cash. And the moment you stop don't that, the babe is leaving you for sure. So, I don't even start it in the first place.

The same goes for a guy. If a guy only takes from a babe without giving back he is never going to change. You can quote me on this one. So it is better you spare yourself the needless investment and move on with your life. You are only as good as the things he benefits from you. And from the way you painted it it seems as if you're the one forcing the relationship. Don't force it, it will always end in tears.

Money should not be the foundation of relationship or friendship, but it can be the end of it.

I'm sorry about your experience. And I am sure the dude too will have a thing or two to say about it if we are able to ask him.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

I just fell in love with Warri people. They are the most sensible lots at this time.

Where exactly will people find food if you lock them down? Instead of copying verbatim what saner climes with enough money and provision to last them for a long time, we should come up with our own brand of solution.

Don't tell people to sit down at home when there is no food for them. It will only increase crime such as robbery and domestic violence.

Made4naijalove:
Angry Warri youths on Wednesday morning, attacked some of the state taskforce team deployed to enforce the state government's sit at home order.

The governor, Ifeanyi Okowa, on March 26, announced that the state will be on total lockdown beginning from today April 1, to prevent the importation of the Coronavirus to the state.

Men of the state taskforce who were sent out to enforce the order, were attacked by some angry youths along Jakpa road. According to the youths, they cannot sit at home when they have no food to eat.

Watch the video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmBgZTvO8oY

You're wicked walahi!
Did you just call her conditional virgin?

Snipper007:
U mean she's a virgin when she's with you?

This is how the foundation for poverty is laid.
A man starts collecting some change (chicken change) and he immediately believes he has arrived, and so he goes out to squander it one women.

How much is this silly man's take-home as a councilor? And what happens to him and his family when he leaves the office? All other things happening normally we may expect competitive and synchronous birthing from the two wives. In less than 10 years this family may well have 10 children, that's if he doesn't add more wives.

What then happens to the children when the source of the man's little change dries up? Go on the street and become a proper beggar? Or go online and become electronic-almajiris?

backT:
Source: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/nasarawa-councillor-marries-2-brides-same-day.html

I am sure it sounds funny, but why not?

By the realities of our time many of us end up traveling and living far away from where potential mates are located. I am personally and increasingly thinking about the possibility of contracting an e-relationship with any interested female. Any babe who is interested, or is curious enough should send me a pm.

The last point is obviously incorrect. COVID-19 is not a synonym but a species (a type) of coronavirus. The term 'coronavirus' merely describes the physical appearance of a group of virus of the family coroviridae. Saying coronavirus is also called COVID-19 is thus erroneous. The COVID-19 the world is currently combating is referred to scientifically as SARS-CoV2 in recognition of its high genetic similarity to the (now) old SARS virus (SARS-CoV).

OnlineTv247:
Source: https://www.farooqkperogi.com/2020/03/7-corovavirus-grammar-lessons.html?m=1

Farouq Kperogi, Mass Communication Professor, writes from the US

This level of dumbness from a monarch never ceases to amaze. If you find folly where you expect wisdom, you can only imagine the disappointment.

The world is hustling in search of a cure you are offering yourself as a sacrifice. It's only attention you're looking for, the little brawling king of shit and piss.

ouigy99:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QjIfQI_KJeY

“God, infect me with Covid-19 and leave the rest of the world out of it,” Oluwo of Iwo offers himself as a "sacrifice" to save the world from coronavirus

The Oluwo of Iwo, Oba Abdulrasheed Adewale Akanbi has asked God to spare the world of the coronavirus pandemic and he offered himself to be inflicted with the virus so the rest of the world can be free.

The monarch said this in a video making the rounds on Twitter.

While sitting on his throne, the traditional ruler said a prayer regarding coronavirus. He asked that the coronavirus should come to him and leave the rest of the world alone.

"I'm not king, God is King. You created everything," he began in the video.

He then proceeded to ask God to make the virus come and inflict him.

He added that he is laying his body down as God instructed him.

This comes days after the king issued a spiritual warrant of arrest for COVID-19.

Just like you all joined Sowore right?
Or like many people came out here saying, "Serve him right, he abused GEJ, serve him right". Or "Serve him right, he is a Yoruba man, serve him right". Or yet, "Serve him right, he is not a Northerner, serve him right". Or like you joined and supported Nnamdi Kanu?

Nigerians only support people that give beggarly alms to them. The fact is, we deserve this shit, and it is only just beginning. We haven't seen nothing yet until we, or our children or their children learn to have sense... by force. Perhaps the generation coming will learn not to mortgage their future on the basis of ethnicity, gender or because they are offeredn N2,000 or tradermoni in exchange for their vote.

Y'all better start saving for solar module that will take you off the stupid national grid. Because, power supply as epileptic as it is, is a major avenue for the rich politicians to rob the poor of the society. How many of the truly rich Nigerians depend on the national grid, or they are all going solar?

StephenSammie001:
Oga you can lead the struggle & I will definitely join you. Nothing do you. Assuming we have an alternative source of power supply, we won't be in this chaos of bad light, crazy bill

I dense too dude. We all are. Otherwise this shit would not be happening to use back-to-back without us doing anything about it apart from our pathetic refrain of God help us! and It is well, all the time.

LucemFerre:
Chairman wey no dense oya wetin you want make we come do now?

That's how dense Nigerians will all be shouting Thunder fire!, Thunder fire!, yet do nothing.
They will tax everything about you, even the air you breath and the ground you work on will soon be taxed, and yet we will get worse return from this government, and the next and the next. Nothing will happen.

We can all continue screaming thunder fire and expect God to come down and save us.

Crooked government, stupid people.

StephenSammie001:
On a low, na thunder go fire dem PHCN!
Light here is barely 6 hours a day & yet the minimum amount on bill per month is about #3500, too much exploiaton in the land. Not their fault, no competition.

Person wey u no fit fight na to put hin mata for baba God's hands be d koko but all I fit talk be say NA THUNDER GO FIRE DEM AGAIN.

Oh my goodness! Blimey!
The foundation of my education was literally built on Brighter Grammar!

I never knew it was authored by such a blessed woman. With her gift and passion she has literally built many lives. May her descendants continue to reap from the good seeds this woman has planted.
Sleep on Mama Ogundipe.

Antoeni:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/charlotte-nc/phebean-ogundipe-9100817

Our own Maurice Iwu is still trying to test his 2015 agbo.

It is the same thing sha.

lalasticlala:
Source: https://www.bosch.com/stories/vivalytic-rapid-test-for-covid-19/

Everything.
Its leaders. Its led.
Even its dogs and goats no dey hear word.
Its gods and priests dey deceive.
Its rivers and lakes get too much poo.
Its history and future dey fear person.
Everything.

Dominionflora:
wth is wrong with Nigeria?

Ultimately the amount you are paid as a doctoral candidate depends on your field as well as the kind of contract you got. But You should expect to receive anything between 1200 euro and 1800 euro monthly. And most of the contract will automatically increase your monthly pay by about 100 euro every year.

Yes, after tax, pension, social contribution and health insurance deductions.

truthsayer009:
Hello, please can you guide me to how you were able to get funding for PHD around 1,700 Euros per month after taxes? That's a lot of money even in Germany especially if you are not in the main cities like Munich. Maybe a link I can read up or something?

Bikonu abeg.

I cannot reveal too many specific details here, but suffice it to state that I got an MSc degree from the University College London.

frog12:
what did you study in uk and germany? i like your post.

As someone with a London Master degree from one of the leading university in the World and a PhD from Germany, I can tell you upfront that it ain't worth it. There, I said it. I consider the tuition and accompanying expenses for PhD degrees in the UK highly exploitative and no one should ever have to pay for a PhD degree.

You would ask me why. PhD training isn't about you get a degree but is about you contributing effort, time and lota lota pain to solving a human problem. PhD training is more an employment that it is schooling. The more reason I so much respect countries that pay PhD candidates monthly salaries/stipendum. My PhD in Germany I was receiving a monthly salary of about 1,700 euro after all taxes and deductions.

Getting a position like this in Germany, The Netherlands, etc is very competitive but you should insist on being fairly paid for your effort during your PhD training. No matter how long it takes for you to get such a position, well except you are not good enough for the openings (no pun intended here, just stating the obvious).

Plus, no matter how much you spend on getting an overpriced PhD, employment after the degree is never guaranteed.

UK exploits people in this regards, don't waste your money on a UK degree which is arguably not as good as what you get from countries like Germany.

Trello:
Hello everyone - I'm not quite sure whether this is the right section to post this.

Anyways, I currently hold a Master's degree and I also recently gained admission into a PhD program in a UK university but with no funding from the school and the estimated total cost of the tuition and living expenses amount to about #16 million for the 3 years.

So, I decided to come seek the opinion of folks here with better experience if it really worth spending this amount in the long run or should I rather invest this amount?

Thank you in advance!

He yaff spent all im money on election petition tribunal; he can not come an' do better.

opeyehmmy:
He can do better too.

My kind of guy!

Illuminated993:
If I advise you, I do so as an OG whose girlfriend cheated on him in the past, so my take on this issue is priceless. Do not leave her! Life abhors a vacuum, and you will be lonely and unhappy if you can't find a good replacement in time. Be with her, but understand that you will never be that human she cheated on (she cheated on you because you were too nice to a fault). You will change many things about you. Lets get to it: Be with her, fucckk her, do not be concerned with what she does or who she talks to. Whether she fucckks some guy again should be none of your concern, do not be bothered with whatever she does, or wherever she goes to. Also, do not help her solve her problems, do not give her cash. But it's important you have happy moments with her, like taking you both out for drinks and socializing, you both could get high together and end it with sex. Live a carefree life with her. But while with her, talk to other girls(if you can, date them, fucckk as many as you can). All these things I recommended, gives you that bad boy feel that women crave. When it's time for marriage, you will know the person amongst the women in your life to settle down with. The point of my writing is that you don't take women so seriously to the extent of attaching emotions on any one of them. If you become emotional with a woman, she plays you like a fiddle, and it will break you mentally.

That babe na scammer, pressing your mumu buttons until you prove yourself to be mumu too. Don't fall for her tricks.
She asked for a break because she wanted to consider another prospect, another dude. She's coming back to you after realizing you're indeed a better prospect compared with the unknown dicker. She will stay in relationship with you until a better prospect comes along. Don't be a used.

Instead convert her into a fucckbody, friends with benefit and all. That way everybody wins.

Nagol95:
Good day house.

I bring this here as I always see here that it's not advisable to forgive a cheat. I and my girlfriend had a smooth relationship mid last year but by early this year we started having issues.

I was calm about the whole scenario to be brief, she cheated along the line. I saw hints but I had no evidence and we kept having issues till the end of February.

She felt the issue was too much and suggested a break up which I accepted immediately and stopped calling or texting her. We were not in contact for a week then she broke it and started calling profusely but I ignored it.

She used another number after three days and when I picked, it was her mum and she just enquired why I've been distant, I just told her I've been busy then we talked normal.

In a nutshell, she confessed all her doings with all the details and has been asking for a last chance begging everyday and feels extremely guilty. I don't want to accept because I've started rubbing it on her face but she is willing to continue.

She has made efforts by changing her number and saying that she is not in contact with the guy.

This is just a brief, I'll need advices and I could provide more info on request.