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janejjjjj5000:
I am tired. I have a better view of marriage. He is not meeting up. My children are saying that the way he talks when upsets affects them. The children cry and he apologizes to all of us. I know I sound confused but I am just tired. I feel that my children will not be seeing this when we divorce. That is why I don't want the marriage anymore. I just want all round peace. I am tired.

This 'my children', na ur papa put u belle or wetin?
Is the children not his too?

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

I would have said u should try to visit a marriage counsellor but i remember what happened in Ozark, the man and woman went and visited that woman to advise them on their marriage...

These two use money finish counsellor job.

Before u know, counsellor don buy tear rubber car worth more than her income..

Madam know say the husband dey match her bribery more than her.

Abeg who get new season?

presidency:
Last week on this platform, focus was on the fact that adversaries of the Muhammadu Buhari administration were hiding behind the smokescreen of insecurity to vent their spleen.

We stressed that security was everything, and noted that while robustly confronting the monster of insecurity, President Buhari was equally taking giant strides on many other fronts, which the caterwauling crowd deliberately ignores.

Today, let’s dwell on something they have deliberately refused to see, hear, and chose not to talk about. But whether they see it or not, talk about it or ignore, it is there, as conspicuous as a tiger in a tea shop.

A fortnight ago, members of the Fertilizers Producers and Suppliers Association of Nigeria (FEPSAN) visited the President at State House, Abuja. And among others, this information came out from Mr Thomas Etuh, President of the body:

“Mr President, before you created the Presidential Fertilizer Initiative in 2016, Nigeria’s fertilizer production base was almost zero. We had less than 7 companies producing at 100% of their installed capacity. Nigeria’s Urea output was reported at less than 300,000 tons.

“Today, Nigeria can boast of having some 70 NPK blending plants. 95% of this investment is from the private sector. This is a clear sign of the confidence investors have in Mr President’s policies and programs.”

From 7 to 70 blending plants just under Buhari! But why are they not talking about it? Because it doesn’t fit into the narrative they want Nigerians to buy and imbibe. The country is broken under Buhari. It is divided. He has made a poor job of leading the country. That is what the poor salesmen sell.

I hear! When you hate a baby, you claim that the midwife that begat him is a witch. What has that got to do with the innocent tot? Their snouts have been yanked from the honeypot, so they are throwing tantrums. Politicians, so-called civil rights activists, priests, talk show hosts, and many others. All they want is to have the illicit bread back. So they must create the impression that Buhari did nothing.

From 7 to 70. Why are they not talking about it? No, it doesn’t serve their interests, so they would pretend it didn’t happen.

The FEPSAN boss had many other things to say:

“In the past 2 months alone, you officially commissioned the Barbados NPK blending plant in Kaduna and the Dangote Urea plant in Lagos. ..Such an honour in a very short period clearly shows the love you have for us and your desire for FEPSAN to succeed. For many of us, we still cannot believe that a President would honour the invitation of not one, but two of our members within a short period of time. It is such open support that encourages our members to continue investing.”

But they said Nigeria was broken, and that the only thing happening was insecurity. How then did the 63 new blending plants spring up? If the investors didn’t believe in the country, would they invest such humongous resources? Would you put several millions of naira in a polity that could go up in smoke at the next minute? No, you wouldn’t. So, the fact that investors continue to put their funds here belie their narrative that Nigeria was broken, and nothing was working. They lie through their teeth just because of the lust for power, and filthy lucre. They pine and hanker after those days that you did nothing, and government just brought bags of money to you at home. Buhari wouldn’t do that, so they must badmouth him, paint him black, and run him out of town, if possible.

From 7 to 70 fertilizer blending plants in 7 years. Why are they not talking about it? No, they wouldn’t, because they want a return of those days when the country earns billions of dollars from oil, and it is used to oil their pockets. The rich get richer, and the poor gets prison. The new order pains them like mad.

Hear how Etuh described what used to happen in the country: “The low base reflects the adverse impact of historical Government policies that promoted the dumping of all sorts of imported fertilizer blends in Nigeria. Our farmers were forced to use imported fertilizers which in most cases are not compatible with the nutritional needs of our land.

“All this is now past. By the special grace of God...Nigerian farmers will never go back to those dark days.”

A resounding amen, somebody! Whether they acknowledge the good things going on or not, this country won’t return to the rent seeking era, where you sit idly, and because you are a priest, critic, social activist, media personality, politician, or what, they just bring loads of cash to your house to curry favor. Buhari hasn’t done it, he won’t do it, and we shouldn’t do it as a country.

From 7 blending plants to 70 under Buhari. Why are they not talking about it? It doesn’t favor their selfish intentions. It is said that in over 12 years, Nigeria has seen its highest consumption of fertilizers at 1.8 million tons per annum in 2021. But does it interest them? Never! They don’t care, and can’t be bothered.

“Today, many nations who rely on fertilizer imports are facing acute shortages as a result of the events in Eastern Europe. However, Nigeria remains one of the few countries in Africa and indeed the world, where fertilizer availability is not an issue,” Thomas Etuh said.

Truly, President Buhari is a man who saw tomorrow. He focused on agriculture, funded it massively, encouraged people to go back to the land, and we have a lot to be thankful for today.

In the wake of COVID-19 and the attendant global lockdown and food supply challenges, how would 200 million people have survived, if we were not producing what we eat locally, as encouraged by the President? But they won’t talk about it, because it doesn’t fit into their narrative. They only allege that the country is broken, divided, not recognizing that they were the very people breaking and dividing it with their mouths.

Central Bank Governor, Godwin Emefiele, disclosed at the FEPSAN meeting with the President that cumulatively, a total of N114.09 billion has been disbursed to support the fertilizer industry in the last five years. The interventions are long-term loans at concessionary interest rates. That’s what you call putting your money where your mouth is. In the past, such funds would have ended in the pockets of government officials, and in those of some priests, critics, and other jobbers. From 7 to 70 blending plants under Buhari. That’s why they are not talking about it.

Hear this information that came as I was concluding this piece. According to acting Comptroller of the Federal Fire Service, Dr Karebo Samson, in 2015, when Buhari came to office, there were only 3 functioning fire trucks in the country, two in Lagos, one in Abuja. But today, there are 189 brand new fire trucks in the Service, apart from new ambulances, water tankers, etc. Why are they not talking about it? It doesn’t serve their interest in portraying Nigeria as broken and divided.

They live their lives perpetually on the complaint counter. But with the realization of the progress being made by patriotic Nigerians, they will be soused and marooned in that inglorious place for a long time to come. The people are not ready to return to the dark past, whether those tiny but vocal minority talk about the good things happening or not. Forward we move.

*Adesina is Special Adviser to President Buhari on Media and Publicity

How muchis a bag of fertilizer?

Can u compare it to what it was 7yrs ago when we had ZERO blending plants in the country?

Buhari knows how to choose fools i swear, he inturn make them more foolish

Massiveglory:

Heavy shock is looming in Apc. A shock that will shock more than high voltage electric shock.

Abeg make this shock resonate reach calabar whether e fit result in light even if na low voltage..

Na we carry this grid collapse for head o.

Light no dey calabar since that friday

People r wicked..
Like how do theseguys do this.kind of evil without fear?


Daddies, mummies 2kids is okay abeg

Give birth to kids that u can comfortably train and look after..

We should look into our population explosion, it's more of a curse than blessing..

So many crimes today cause plenty families gave birth to kids they don't have wherewithal to carter for, thereby causing serious crises in the country.

NPC should sensitise patents on birth control Please...

Rilwayne001:
Lmao

All those pretenders, running like mad men around will disappear before that day.

I know Umahi, Ken Nnamani and Ngige will not buy this form. Dem no get money to waste.

Make we wait PDP own. Should PDP peg their price at 100 million too, I can bet that Peter Obi will disappear. That guy no wan spend money at all.

U dey use internet explorer or wetin?

Pdp form wey be 41million naira, na just say i no get shoe, i for don buy since.

plaindealer:
Coming from another ipob village agbero..

Other people dey progress and develop, but you kerosene and wheelbarrow ipobs carry hatred and bad bele for head as life achievement...

Sad people...

So person no fit play with you..

Was just concerned how they have denigrated u to posting only on nairaland.

I heard u can't even post on twitter so u won't spoil things for sugar daddy...

plaindealer:
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Plaindealer suppose don be either SA, SSA or commissioner in lagos state by now...

Plaindealer is ur agberoism different from that of mc oluomo and others?

Amos come and see the work of akpabio the criminal...

Amos1423:
So you've ran out of useless statistics that you can't tell how much local government in Akwa Ibom receives since you're the SSG abi what, you're now bringing the whole federation to the useless defense? To make mention self, did Udom not make mention he used his salaries to services the states debt, oh! You've never heard of that?? Akpabio has never come up with such silly excuse! If the state receives so less why then did the government jettison the idea of local government autonomy and deceived the state legislators to vote against it when onofiok was the speaker? Mr. Man i can't hold this conversation with you. Go find a job!

Mr i too know all, go and contest and save us ur foolish rants...

Abi are u not old enough to aspire?

You know nothing, absolute nothing but come online to rant as if u can do better...

We have seen Plenty, otoge movement today has scattered..

Kwara state hasnt turn dubai...

Udom is the issue, udom will soon leave... And please when new people come, don't want u defending them for not creating tangible jobs...
And also blame the past ...
Atleast they know how much akwaibom earns..

And before i forget...

Amos1423:
If things are so hard with the government that they can't stand to the mandate of every successful government, why then the lies? Who is bank rolling the maintain peace movement accross the state and in Diaspora? Does Udom not receive the same basic allowances and salary same as at 2015? Why when it comes to paying civil servants and delivering the purpose at which he was elected, you urchins would come up with silly defense that there's no money? Where then did he get the one to bankroll all the half audio projects he keeps making noise of? BTW, ain't a member of any political party, when I see evil I call it by its name!

Is udom owing u salary?

So u r a civil servant without ministry..

Iya ikap ikid mkpo on net..

So u expect udom to use his salary to run the state?

Did akpabio used his salaries to run the state?

Bobo udom's tenure is elapsing 28th may 2023, we have enough aspirants on ground jostling for pdp guber ticket.

aPC too and other parties r still alternative..

U should start enlightening people on who is the best, allow the incoming govt deal with udom when the time reach.

The issues with citizens is we think we know more than those who r there..

That's how buhari explained how subsidy was a scam, but today he pays more for subsidy than any other govt in the history of Nigeria.

For what i know, state civil servants are not being owed salaries, the issue is always with local govt civil servants..

Do you even know how much some local govts receive as allocation?

Lemme give u run down of how sharing formula between states, fed govt and local govts..

Fed govt takes 52.65%
State govts(36) takes 25.62%
Local govt(774) takes 23.73%

Go do the maths when next faac release figures that was shared.

Most local govts in Nigeria gets less than 60million naira as allocation, thats why most state govts don't allow local govt authorities to embark on any capital projects, all they are to do is pay salaries and maintain security within the their domain.

Amos1423:
Senior Keyboard warrior I salute you! The former governor of the State brought in 3 African president to that place and not just that Messi played on that field likewise did Nigeria play a friendly match there with other events with Akpabio as a governor, were all those carried out by a private citizen? When you see a failure name it one and stop beating about your keyboard in defense all in the name of stomach infrastructure, I know you Udom media urchins are all over nairaland doing the bid of your pay Master by deceiving the public. Did Udom Emmanuel not prevent the EFCC from investigating the state finances through the court? Did he not make excuses for the flour mill when the state did hit inflated prices of flour? What about the palm factory he deceived the people of Esit Eket during his second term campaign all in the name of buying the minds of those poor people only to shut it down? Did he not make an excuse of the opposition party using Mbiam (black magic) to hinder the growth of the coconut factory? If I may also ask, what happen to the Mexican cows, the fertilizer processing factory which today if you Google search would refer you to story of the manager complaining of no source of electricity for the place, has Udom been able to resolve the conflict with the state owned varsity, can you also in anyway compare the states poverty rate to that of 2015 before he came in amidst all the industries he keeps laying claim in the media? Who are you self!

So u r akpabio's urchin?

Isoryt..

Lemme tell fool what u don't know about akwaibom u don't know based on facts.

Akpabio received at least 30billion monthly while he was the govr..

Foreign exchange was 187naira to a dollar.

Cement was less than 1300naira..

Minimum wage was 9800naira before Gej increased it to 18k.

Did akpabio paid gratuities during the hay days? NO!
Did he provide alternatives to civil service?
NO!

Lets come to reality now, under udom, state recieves less than 20billion monthly..
Foreign exchange went from 380 to 408 to 414 this is at official window rate but unofficial is 580naira per dollar.

Cement is 4500naira per bag..

Minimum wage is 30k

You know why am painstakingly mentioning this indices, cos contracts are priced in foreign currency, those contractors uses cement..
I forgot to add fuel was 65 naira then beforr it went to 97 back to 87..
Diesel was 145 or so

Today fuel is 165 officially.. But in the real market na 190naira per litre.
Diesel is 630naira, depending on the area u find urself.

All these affects production, construction and projects..
It affects cost of governance and the outcome of what the government projected..

Did udom provide alternatives to civil service even with the dwindled and low economic indices? YES!

He paid backlog of gratuities from 1991 till 2010 or there about.

Was he in govt in those period?
U should answer that.

Am waiting for ur rebuttal and facts and figures u have..

Am not driven by sentiments, i speak what is on ground and i don't hype anybody cos i want to be noticed.

I dey calabar as am speaking, with no job.

Udom has his own shortcomings cos he is human, but udom is far better and moreproductive than akpabio.

U have never defended akpabio morr than me..
I know couple of times i was at plaza defending akpabio against those umana and udoedehe boys..

Today na those same boys dey carry akpabio for head.

The earlier igbos know that buhari no send them, the better.
The igbos should learn one or two things from south south and niger delta, we r the most marginalized region, even when buhari came in he did his own part by maligning and ignoring agitators..
But we read and studied buhari's body language knowing who he is and what he can and can't do.
Fiam we begin do what we supposed to do to helo ourselves.
Today niger delta is the most quiet region in Nigeria, no issues but guess what, millions of barrels of crude oil is missing daily.

Boys r tapping their resources backed by the state forces, every where quiet, boys dey chop,nigerian economy dey bleed.

No killings, no kidnappings...

Once boys vex enter street, akpabio go call them, tell dem to relax say money full ground.

Why r igbos destroying their region cos of buhari..
Does buhari owns any business in igbo land?

If igbos like make them wakeup and stop this madness to themselves..

Na their economy dem dey destroy

Amos1423:
People can't breathe here as a result of Udoms wickedness, people are just regarding Akwa Ibom from the benchmark of the former governor now minister Godswill Akpabio but come back to Akwa Ibom today and you'll see even the stadium that stood as something that will pronounce the state, the pink lips man has turned it successfully to a dumpsite where only locally matches can only be played there; I mean village matches oo

Do u have international matches, u took it there and the govr no allow u host them?

I wan sabi.

Akwa utd and dakkada dey use that stadium as their home ground.

U think emirates stadium host international games every week?

U need to be sanitized profusely with
funbact-S+

MadamVanessa:



Kudos to Udom Emmanuel, he's one of the best thing to ever happened to Akwa Ibom state. But his successor choice is nonsense. Umoh Eno Is so selfish, self centered and a useless Pastor. I don't know why Udom is so myopic to have chosen a complete NONENTITY.


Umoh Eno akpedo governor Akwa Ibom state yak ndudu itid anside.

Utom nnyin ado adi isite ndudu itid..

By the grace of God almighty iya inam without too much ubiak..

Loveurneighbour:
https://thenationonlineng.net/tinubu-is-gods-choice-for-2023-presidency-bishop-kayode-williams/

Na only apc ur god dey deal with and also na only South West people ur god dey do things with.
Ur god no dey tell u things about el rufai, yaya bello, even wike or umahi.. Only yoruba people him dey do things with.

Ur god na too much amala and ewedu dey affect am pastor williams..

Try dey give ur god fufu with afang soup or pounded yam with better white soup, u will see wonders..

Lanrelagboi:
Days back, the media was a washed with reports that the respected Olu of Warri, His Royal Majesty, Ogiame Atuwatse III "endorsed" an APC presidential aspirant Bola Ahmed Tinubu

Then some other reports came denying such endorsement. But what exactly did the Honorable Monach say?



If this is not an endorsement, I wonder what else is but lets say it isn't an endorsement. But this is what the monarch has said and let no one misreport it

Here is a video of what he said
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3hmdwt1TL0

That wasn't endorsement, na prayers..

Na blessings..

He is a royal father, anyone that comes to him, he blesses them.
If tomorrow amaechi, obi, atiku goes to his palace and seek his blessings, same words he used for swaga will be use for them too.

Endorsement is saying i and my kindred support ur aspirations and we will all make sure we deliver u.
That is endorsement..
Abi this sophistication tag na ment?

West1side:
Who is then ? I hope you won't say the Pandora kleptomaniac criminal.

That person is not osinbajo or tinubu.

Moferere:
And Lagos controls the power sector?

Mad man will talk better than some of you

But uncle fash said 24 hrs electricity isnt tocket science na, he said he did it in lagos..
Which lagos did he do it please?
Abi lagos na 2..

WibusJaga:
Quite pathetic. Our Local league still has a very long way to go.
One of the reasons the referee is always under pressure to favor the home side else he might receive a serious beating.

This madness happens only in the North esp in kano, katsina, bauchi..
This season akwa utd, dakkada have lost more than 3home games, have u heard any attack on the visiting teams?

Its time these guys are rightfully penalised, points deducted to show that the league management commitee means business..

Can someone help me tell femi that all those who instigated and perpetrated all kinds of shootings, violence and killings in the US were either killed, captured and prosecuted.

Yes killings happens everywhere globally, but Nigeria own is perculiar in the sense that a particular group is being targeted and the govt is acting weird and awkward without addressing this.

politicoNG:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6721381/simon-harry-replaces-yemi-kale#105204071



https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-simon-harry-statistician-general-dies-seven-months-after-appointment/amp

Is simon harry an hausa man?

Cos almost all his outings na this outfit him dey wear...

Southerners r really slaves to the North.

Shebi GEJ been dey wear him Niger delta, i never saw aboki wear Niger delta, but see as southerners dey wear babanriga with aboki cap like say dem be muslims..

buckeyemedia:
Any faceless anonymous coward can do this?

Outside constitutional power nigerians gave him, can buhari fight any small boy wey fit enter him house wan rob am?

Africonji:
Me too I have been looking for the achievement he achieved while he (Osibanjo) was acting president. Is it that price of garri went down? Did price of fuel and rice return to the Goodluck Jonathan levels, or did dollar value to naira improve for the better? Nwanne help me to ask these pipo because I don't understand

He fayad a fulani and hayad a bayelsan...

He confamed onnoghen as cjn..

He traid...

Penguin2:
Tell me one governor who has endorsed any presidential candidate…

When you realize that no governor has endorsed anyone, you will realize the stupidity behind this post in trying to paint the Amaechi candidacy as unpopular.

Junk journalism meant for half brains.

Fools!

They r giving tinuboo sumal hope

nd also keep the dispensing machine active.

U know if they tell him the truth, those donations will cease..

I pray make my village head dog die, make tinubu come console am.

CamusMidas:
Oga your Math is off.

Where i miss?

Harddiskng:
#Gbam at the bolded.

When people suggest feeding people as some sort of poverty alleviation scheme I just tell them straight-up its a silly idea because its not sustainable.

The person you feed yesterday would still be hungry today. How look do you intend to feed them for?

It’s better to channel the fund into more sustainable ideas; eg completely eradicate malaria, power, primary & secondary education (children cannot be children forever) etc.

Wastage is synonymous with this present government (they are not even feeding up to 40% of children in government schools, it’s mostly in northern states; that’s if it is still on sef).

Exactly...

The programme itself is skewed already..
It would have been better if we r using funds from excess savings to do this, but we r borrowing to do this rubbish.
May God help us

Maverick777:
i won't give you the privilege of indulging you, by all ramifications you're obviously a kid.

Papa, keep ur indulging to urself..

Or take it to old's people home and do whatever u want to.

Idiota

Maverick777:
people are talking about hungry kids,
this one is talking about egg and onions..
you well so?
you'd also have mentioned cold chi-exotic to wash it down! ode!
if MISPLACED PRIORITY was a person...

Actually or eventually you u no well at all.

Do u feed ur kid with 100naira?

Who told u they r hungry kids?

Even if na rice they want to feed them with, is 100naira enough prepare rice?

U r actually foolish than i thought, coming to show how stupid and useless in a public forum is something i can't fathom..

Also what kind of food will 100naira prepare now?
Smallest size of indomie noodles is 80naira, egg is 60naira..
U will buy onions and use either kerosene or gas to cook.
Kero is 550naira a litre.
So the vendor delivering this food to the kids, is he/she gaining or they r doing just to make the apc policy be on track?

12billion monthly...
U feed 10million kids using 100naira which amounts to 1billion naira.

Do they feed these kids once a month, or donthe 100naira feed each kid for the whole month?
Let's assumed they feed them 3 times a week, that will be 300naira per kid multiply by 10million kids which is 3billion naira.
Then in a month that's 12billion naira..
Yearly is 144billion and not 1.4Trillion someone mentioned up there..

Is this spending worth it?
NO!

12billion can build and equip more schools, employ atleast 1000 teachers, so in one year 12000 teachers and more functional schools would have been built and equipped with sound teachers..

etokhana:
http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2022/04/osinbajos-declaration-is-rccgisation-of.html?m=1
Mynd44
Lalasticlala

Vawulence here and there....