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Franzinni:
I don't misunderstand I only see it for what it is ... Can you tell me any advantage that a man has today over a woman Anything ... That people say only men can do it You only become feminists when you percieves an unfair advantage forgetting the metrics that made that possible.. you say men are making more money, but you won't dare do the kind of blue collar jobs that send men to their early grave...How about we talk about the unfair advantage female pornstars have over thier male counterpart I have never heard feminist fighting for that, let's talk about warfare in Ukraine, men are dying while the women are in clubs having fun in neighbouring countries ... Where are feminist on that ? You guys only seek to play victim to get advantage out of pity... And because you have weaponised your son's from the 50s and 60s into weak men, So it became very easy to manipulate narratives .. let's take black america for example, you can see what happens to a community ran by feminist... It's a shit show where their men are overly emotional, never had a father so all he learns is feminine mannerisms and eventually can't lead a family because he never knew how to be a man and then the women call them, weak making them feel violence is how a man should conduct himself and then he goes out and kills or gets killed leaving the single mother feminist at a loss ... But she has 11 kids from 6 men ...

Lett me tell you something, I know how women feel, we all have souls So why should a woman be subordinate to a man ? Are we not all people ? I get it ... But if you would be honest, you would rather have a good man in your life, leading the way while you build with him ... than to be single ... It is a part of the fabric of a woman's being. Dont fall for the narrative of feminism.... It's a waste of life.

Idaytesj29:
Thanks for clarifying this

pansophist:
No gree for Yourself.

One thing I have trained myself to do is that the difficulty or easy mode of a task has no influence whether I'll do it or not.

If I have to do something, then I'm doing it. Full stop. If I plan to run for example, the rain won't stop me, it would be challenging, but now it become a matter of what is greater? My will or the rain?

And that's how you get things done. Mandatory comfort is your enemy. Comfort is like procrastination, only that it makes you enjoy wasting time.

So do things you have to do, because it has to be done, not because it's easy or hard.

pansophist:
Be independent.

Not the feminists kind of Independence that don't need a man o (well, they need his money somehow lol), but in the context that you can rely on yourself and do away with betrayal in form of friends.

If a friend betray you, you can give him the middle finger because you can do without him. Previous fraternity with him is not for your survival, but because you give him the benefit of trust after all, life is better enjoyed with good people.

Also, you can only truly respect yourself when you can rely on yourself. And that's what will makes others respect you too.

Because the day anyone feel that you can't do without them, then they will punish for you. And it's your fault.

pansophist:
When God asked king Solomon how he should blessed him, he chooses the blessing of knowledge.

Also God said that my people suffer for lack of knowledge. The opposite is also true. If you are wise, you won't suffer.

Apart from existential suffering (suffering that is part or life eg death, sickness, accident), almost all suffering I see that people pass through can be traced down to a lack of knowledge, or ignorance.

You can't afford to be ignorant. Na suffer full that place. So ready widely, ask questions, be curious, observe, and think. You may not eliminate suffering, but you'll reduce it to a large extent if you have wisdom

pansophist:
The new slave masters are not with whips and chains, they are addictions. To be free is to be free from addictions.

Imagine a man that smokes, is a philanderer, a gambler, addicted to porn, an alcoholic, and a wankster? How life wan take better for such a man?

So to be free and lead a good life, you must rule yourself very well. You must be a well-functioning self-government. You're like a raw diamond, and you must refine yourself to live a good life.

Franzinni:
give it time sis... Just give it time, there are millions that came before you and they ALL reached that point where reality hit them but it was too late ...

Give it time. To be honest with you I enjoy the fruits of feminism, becasue It makes my options wider and I can just get into the box without all the commitment that is required from a man, she would think she is strong, independent but it's an avatar, like a clown needs an audience, the same way feminist needs simps ... And if you know how to play simp ... You will just be hopping from feminist bed to feminist bed 🛏️🛏️🛏️🛏️ haha 😂😂.

Let me go and do my duties to my goddess I think she needs a back massage from a man she doesn't need ... Ciao!

Franzinni:
The grass is not greener on the other side ... Most feminist are depressed and miserable like beautiful crowns with no head to sit on.

Here are mine:
1) Make a to-do list. Ideally, make it the night before so your subconscious can work on it while you sleep.

2) Guard your attention jealously. Treat it like money. Be conscious of what you give your attention to. There are sooo many distractions in this internet age, FOCUS has become real super power. Those who can tune out all the noise and focus, win!

3) Spend the few minutes after you wake up (and to less extent before you fall asleep) being grateful, hyping yourself, and telling yourself what a wonderful day you'll have. This can set the mood for the day.

4) The first 30 Minutes or so after waking up, your brain cells are more active and vibrant and devoid of worries. Try to do your most difficult or unpleasant tasks durring this time (eg. a difficult phone call or email). Don't spend this time checking phone or playing social media.

5) Decide to do things you find painful or unpleasant through most of the day, minimally doing escapist stuff like social media.

6) Decide to NOT be after perfection. Things of high value usually cannot be done perfectly or even very well at all (at least not at first). As you do them you get better at them. You'd never do them if you wait till you can do them perfectly.

*What are your thoughts on these. Agree? disagree?
Why?

SmartPolician:
Sim Fubara is a coward! 😁😁😁

Idaytesj29:
No, they can. They only need a duly signed arrest warrant by a DPO or office of the commissioner, area commander etc.
The police has lot of powers that you don't even know.

The guy should have gone to them with his lawyer for their questioning. That will be better.

phemray:
Very simple.

People condemning police forgot that police officers are human being as well grew up in the Nigerian society. Some people comments on nairaland and this policemen actions are same in different ways. Action and reaction are equal and opposite. Trust me if d guy has no issues, he will not be making noise to create sympathy. Ok I ask, why didn't the police go to another person house, but choose to go meet the guy in the studio because they know who they are looking for.

thesicilian:
Don't forget that many witnesses also came up to testify against Jesus at his trial. Did that change the fact that He's the Son of God? Let's learn to apply wisdom in our dealings

Anguldi:
Blunt truth: ''your wife is not your blood but your kids are''

ednut1:
How a family who initially prevented me from marrying their daughter, made a U-turn when they discovered that I’m now successful in life — Germany-based Nigerian man.

https://x.com/instablog9ja/status/1747296866327207939?s=46&t=6OZ_nbE1xwVeLo2T5RIeWw[/quote]*Politeness*
But being in Germany does not equate success. Many Nigerians in Germany are not successful by any standard whatsoever!
Likely equally important factor - babe ain't getting any younger!

GOATandYAMtheory:
show us where it is stated in the constitution that a bricklayer cannot be arrested while doing his job.

Una go just dey speak nonsense English full space. So you mean if a junkalist says things capable of disturbing public peace and inciting violence, he should be allowed to finish because he on the job?

Most Nigerians just want to be heard. They don't even listen to themselves

SGANIVA:
My newly married wife is not romantic, what should i do in this situation, very boastful i mean pride.i don't know where all this is coming from ,if she haven't given

Jman06:
You're arguing with kids. Many of them won't understand your point because they are still at the fantasy stage of life. Time shall reset their brains!

Hardunmhi:
Oga you just Dey talk Dey talk nonsense abeg