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lefulefu:
this is what happens when a man makes a woman his priority in life
aint no coincidence that men who tend to be broke for life with no ambition are those men who make women their hundred percent priority in life.see d mumu..money u are supposed to raise from selling those phones and start a business u just gave the phone to a girl.mumurity of the highest order.

spot on.

Great one

This is too beautiful

Dreadlock69:
Two manipulators can't date each other
A bad boy cant date a bad girl for a long term
Don't want to turn to mugu and maga at the same time
There difference between chasing and pursuing

who is the bad boy? Is this your story because it is not clear?

Bodyodour:
I started on a lying note but noticed how good she was so I decided to breakaway. I don't like the guilt I feel when I break an innocent heart.

fair

Sometimes, we have genuine intentions towards the opposite gender and we just want to sincerely get to know them first and then see what happens from there. But at times, we quickly see some red flags and some unhealthy handwritings on the wall that make one change his mind.

My story: I knew her in school and interacted before, now I'm done with school and she's in a higher level too. I just came home and met her so we exchanged contacts. After a few calls and chats, she then stopped picking calls and would barely reply chats. After picking up eventually, she said her phone spoilt, I asked if she had repaired it and she said she wanted to buy a new phone (this means communications would be placed on hold till further notice, ah!). I just felt like the spark that was supposed to be ignited would be unnecessarily delayed (who knows when she will be able to get the new phone?). On the other hand, if what she's asking indirectly was for me to buy her the phone, I would hand over all the powers in the relationship to her on a platter of gold, lol. So I saw it as a dubious game. Try and understand me, after dropping the call I saw that she had put a guy's picture on her Whatsapp profile and that was just like saying there are competitors so I should try and outdo my contenders, smiles.

So I said to myself, I'm not going to willingly deep my neck into this mess, I munstered all the courage in Africa and gave her a befitting delete. And my Whatsapp settings is such that, once I don't have your number, you will not see my "profile picture" and "About". So she must have seen that I am not in for her moves, afterall I play checkers pretty fine so I know when I see trappings.

N.B. I'm not talking based on redpills or alpha males mindset, but it does not mean a gentleman will have his head played by some girls who are still not ready for something serious.

Hence my question, what made you to make that U-turn and ended a relationship even before it started?

Hyms are beautiful

Nice one

Great

I'm happy for him; the guy is so happy with who he is with.

2cribz:
Af been using my s9 for 2years now. Bro outside samsung the rest na nonsense. I got an a21s and found out later that it wasnt oled but HD. Sold it off quickly. Na samsung note 10 dey my head now and i must get it b4 xmas

How much is that pal?

You did well

Majikman:
see as she and her husband dey drag who fine pass

smiles...but I think I will give it to the huband, my own opinion.

This is the kind of thing I like o, e sweet my belle.

Even if it is just because of this Lai muhama, APC should be voted out in 2023 and PDP is not also an option.

What do you say about RAV4 2008

Christians should not join protests at all.

Great

This wants to push me to tears...kindness and humanity is pleasurable.

BabbanBura:
Agreed totally, the only way anyone could have wrestled power from Aketi would have being alliance to combine votes so it is one party against APC and not splitting votes across two opposition parties.

The lack of alliance must have also made it easy for those on the fence to tilt to Aketi's side for inclusion sake

true that

incogni2o:
1. Bouqui


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x1uC2tPvRho

thanks pal

friezerna:
Please help!! how do I genuinely give my life to Christ. I know the truth.
please help me

simple follow the instruction in Romans 10 vs 9- 11. Then find a bible believing church and attend their services. Gospel faith mission is a recommendation.

Congrats to daddy and mummy Bamiloye

A true survivor.

Mrscarter:
Yeah in your teens Ur younger n more prone to making silly choices n are more immature n by your 20s U should have learned from those mistakes n the hurt they can cause etc.
Some ppl are already sensible n do what's right at such a younger age but I find most ppl make bad choices n stuff.

yes I understand you, but I'm of the opinion that teenagers are not supposed to be dating at all, not only to avoid all these mistakes but they are to be busy with studies or skill acquisition. Relationship is part of life and future also, but it is too early to engage in it as a teenager because their ignorance at this stage can cost them too much.

Mrscarter:
Yeah ppl are always who cheats most men or women. But it's not a gender thing cos both do it.
Is more of an individual thing. A choice one makes.
Is pointless being in a relationship n trying to build a connection if U only bringing other ppl into the mix.
It just confuses things, causes mess n drama n hurt.
Ppl should grow outta that kinda thing by the time we reach 20yo

well said maam, but we don't even need to reach 20 before doing what is right, then again I don't believe relationship is for someone under 20 in the first instance.

Righteousness89:
Pls Wherever you are as Couples! Take out Quality time to Pray For Your Home together..

Study the Word together ..

It is a very Serious Matter..

Pls let's Make it a Pirioty in our Homes

God bless you for this sir. I support it fully.

Mrscarter:
Ta. Yeah if U wanna be with more than one person why even be in a relationship. Ion understand that

help me tell them.

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

good to know this.

IamD18:
If only people will leave sex, cheating and money to focus on important things during courting, we won't have people in miserable marriages or high rate of divorce.

Anger management, personalities, addictions, abuse, level of mutual understanding, friendship, goals, genotype, differences, family background and histories are very very underrated in relationships these day.

Sex, money, birthday, hanging out, cruise, sexchat, cooking and gifts are the only things existing in 99.742% of relationships in Nigeria.

well said. You made very reasonable contribution. Zzor says cool things like this...

Zzor:
Dont mind him,never believe anything that's not coming from me here

that's good, zzor give me a chance.

Mrscarter:
I think if you're only dating then the guy shouldn't have to buy every little thing for her. If he buys her something it should be because he wants to give her a gift or make her feel special. But ion think the guy should be responsible for everything especially if they only been dating a short amount of time. If I was a guy that would turn me off. But once Ur married a man should support his wife but she shouldn't expect more than he can afford(I know girls who do this n put alot of stress on the guy) if they been dating a long time it's fair I think that the guy spends on U to some extent if he wants you to have things n U can't afford them yourself.
But never should us girls act like we are entitled to his money, we don't work for it we didn't earn it. Especially if he's a decent guy n faithful n all. If your man us broke but he's a good guy in every other way then inspire n motivate him to work hard n find a way to make money. Build him up n give him faith in himself n stand by him the same as U would if he were rich. Giving him the confidence he needs n motivation n you can be surprised what he could accomplish. And he will love you the more for it and be faithful n loyal to you n guys always remember that kinda thing. Good guys do. He will work harder to build a better life for you aswell as himself.
Dating guys for petty things like money for hair and iPhones and all that stuff that's just taking what you didn't earn. I prefer to have my own money n have no reliance on a man n that way our relationship doesn't have anything to do with money n we can enjoy the things that relationships are meant to be about.
But that's just wat I think.
As for cheating that's a deal breaker for me. ion see the point in being in a relationship if U want other ppl than Ur partner. Ur in a relationship for love n if U love someone how can U even think of someone else. Ion understand that.

I particularly like your conclusion.