₦airaland Forum

JaneYave:
Phone etiquette is very needful. If only she listened more and answered the questions, the problem with us is that we voice out too many unreasonable things.

You are likely to do the same thing too if you were in her shoes. That's the glorious truth!

justwise:
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That is not entirely true, luckily you don't have to worry about immigration but without money as Lexusgs430 has being saying in a city like London..you are toast. Try any city outside London to settle until you can stand on your feet then move to London if you want.

Hotel is not a good idea, look for cheap B&B for a start until you get a job

people no go understand what you are saying.

Terry44:
Hello nlander, Had to create this account for anonymity sake.

Kindly forgive my Errors.


I am a guy in my late twenties, at least I can say am doing good for myself in this Buhari's next level. I've dated this lady for two years and I'm almost considering walking down the aisle with her before I started noticing some changes with her, mind you she is 24.



Issue all started when I left Abuja for Lagos for a contract job, before then she had been a very good lady and faithful too. For the time we dated she never demanded from me untill she lost her Step-mum, even at that her demands were untypical of a Nigerian lady, because she always fended for herself unless I willingly intervened.


Problem started when she first visited me and I noticed her long unusual calls, I confronted her but she convinced me with the normal just a friend stuff from female folks. Fast forward to the present day, she has kept her profile of been a good lady before me and family. I even introduced her to my people and from time to time she spends reasonable time
with my ailing father and younger siblings.

The actual trouble bothering me is this, toward the end of completing my contract job, she had accommodation issues and I couldn't lend a hand due to the fact that I had a lot to take care of financially and such emergency spending was not budgeted for. She was so much desperate that I couldn't help looking at her. So I had to use part of my younger brother tuition fee and also borrow from my colleague to help her secure a self contain apartment as well as everything needed to make her feel comfortable, she collected the money from me to give to the agent who was supposed to source for the apartment. She resolved to squat with a friend pending when the apartment would be ready and acquiring necessary furnitures.


Almighty God been so good to me, I got a permanent job offer in a multi-national firm in Ogun state. She came to visit me and I had to pay for her flight ticket to and fro, she just left my house on Tuesday after spending two weeks with me. During her stay with me I found out that the friend she told me she was squating with all those while has been her Ex-boyfriend. And the same person we started having issues over previously due to the fact that she was having sex chat with the said Ex and also another guy who is a member of their family church, which she told me is nothing to worry about that the ex was disturbing her that he his still having problem moving on .


I'm at the cross road and unable to decide whether to end it or wait for her to apologise. Though, I haven't told her of my findings, truth be told she's everything of a
good woman and has really supported me
except for my latest findings.



Am as confused as hell now, I be not even confronted her,
my mind is playing games with me. Pls somebody should
talk to me. All the thoughts I have in mind are so far futile.




NB: no insults please. I'm really unstable at the moment.

You were doing a great job with your English till the bolded.

Maybe you should give her sometime, she will come back to her senses and realise how such a good man she has, since you don't know what to do.



Why una deh find am hard to understand that any girl that will as much as entertain her ex's chat on WhatsApp whilst still dating is never loyal nor serious and will eventually dump you when a bigger guy comes by? Kpele oh

Another ploy to buy a new fighter jet. How dem go buy jet for Burutai tenure them no go buy for en tenure. E cannot happen ni

They wanna scam us guys.

Zane2point4:
Even the stupid so called world leaders, like UK, instead of calling a spade a spade in there recent Muslim attack in a bid to sound politically correct they'll not. bleeped jo World.

When it comes to UK, no country deh diplomatic pass them. Leave them, they know what they're doing.

Diplomacy na white man tricks.

lenghtinny:
The husband is a simp.....

That idiot doesn't deserve a wife

Now that, you are correct.

franchasng:
sense is very far from you.


If her parents didn't cross Sahara desert when Buhari and IBB and Abacha were fvcking Nigeria from the front, back and side, she would have been killed by Fulani herdsmen in one remote village or maybe molested to death by some uncircumcised hungry lanky herders.


She invested because she had savings from working in the UK where she was born, all thanks to her father who took the bold steps of crossing the Sahara so many years ago.


If you had said a young girl in a remote community in Nigeria builds a furniture business from scratch and now making millions then I will take you serious.

But talking of a girl that brought millions from money she and her family made abroad to invest in furniture business in Nigeria and you are using it to mock or yab Nigerians demanding for a better Nigeria, asking for good governance makes you look so stupid.


Tell her not to celebrate much, go and ask the other woman that returned from US to invest in farming in Oyo, she was making millions too until Fulani herdsmen struck her farms. She was lucky to be alive.



Go and ask God for forgiveness for this nonsense you typed here, yeye girl

That person you quoted na bastard. Na pure en be. No be adulteration.

youngreezy:
the kind SIMPs wet white men be eh....tufiakwa which kain thing be dis..the useless man say em support another man to dey cuddle em wife..I no dey put mouth for this simp thing ooo but this man na pure and natural SIMP!!!?

He is no simp sir. He is making money whilst hugging a woman, something our girls here always dream of.

Because there no Nigerian there... Them no tag am: NIGERIAN JAILED FOR 100YRS FOR TRYING TO ROB MEZUT....

Why is it that Nigerians can't video something? Why?

orohbiro:
she is not the ist girl I have dated I just decided to respect this one cause I love her I have met a girl and slept with her the ist day she came to my house

Here's the problem mate. You don't respect your girl, but love her. She's to respect you.


Since she doesn't want to give you, find another babe.

Tickles001:
His name is ubi Franklin and that video is from Instagram. So, I suppose you can find and follow him on insta.

I'm talking about the man in the video not Ubi Franklin.

Tickles001:
This thing don dey turn to nightmare o. I don't know this man, but listening to him reveals how bad things have got.

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CL6Y0J3JQwX/?igshid=rblqp3zb4ayk

Who is that guy and how do I follow him?

nosagold:
Pay me I go teach you wella!

No need.

Albertone:
Why?

I want show you something.

Even you no need say hi... Make I show you wetin I want show you.

Albertone:
"Search for Kevin Powell's responsiveness video on YouTube and thank us later."


*Culled from Web developer's hangout group on whatsapp.

Come, I deh that group, just go there and say hi..

Limassol:
This comment struck a chord for me. . Not every dude will discern the wisdom in it. Thanks man.

Cheers man.

fuckpro:
...you must be a very lonely person

Depression has really eaten deep into you

Go look for some dick to suck it will really improve your mood swing

Don't you think you are pretty much defining yourself?

Not to defend her or anything, can't you let her or any other female be? Ignore their post after all she didn't even tag anyone in her comment.

Na wa for all these nairaland guys...

Frank sneaky bastard. You just submitted your cv without even submitting it. I saw it 13 years earlier

SuperBold:
The same story in Abia and Enugwu. If their people keeping leaving alaigbo who will call out their bad leaders?

If igbos can put in the same energy they used in dragging Tinubu to drag their leaders, alaigbo will be a little better than this.

[b]Nnamdi kanu [/b]state is the worst state in Nigeria but he has never said anything about it. Shiooor

Anything to make you cum ese.

Zabiboy:

Men find it so hard to learn from the experience of others....They rather wait and experience it themselves and most times, it'll tear them to shreds....
Women have been dumping their kids in the dustbin for years now and move on like nothing happened...But show a man this video and he'll be asking questions like "What if it's your sister/daughter/mother" blah blah blah..
Thanks For sharing the video man...i'll even download it

I just wanna thank God for giving me the opportunity to mix with the street in Nigeria. Apparently, what I learned is what I'm going to use to survive added with Grace of God.


The first thing you learn in the street is: OBSERVATION. They will tell you to always observe where you are at any point in time, whenever you go to a new place.


The first day I landed in Newcastle, I didn't know the street I live in was as bad as the street I grew up in Nigeria. To the point I get warning from taxi drivers anytime I am opportune to take one.

The first day I landed in Newcastle, I went to buy food by around that 11pm I was so hungry. When I was coming back, I saw two guys, you'd never know they're together, but I saw them from a mile away, they positioned themselves in a way that you can't avoid the road. As soon as I reached them, one of them asked me if I had a smoke, I politely told him I didn't. Next thing he asked me was for time. I laughed within me, because I knew he wanted to rob me but wanted to make sure I had what he wanted to rob me.

I simply told him I didn't know, but from my guess, it's pretty late and they should be in bed at that time...

He laughed, I laughed and went my way. All these while, I was very polite yet making my grounds.

Tbh not every man has the opportunity to live in the street. My mum hated the street, she in fact thought I was a problem child but she never knew I was learning about the street due to the kind of friends I had and today it had helped me.

My advice: Those guys in your neighbourhood, the good for nothing guys, stop looking down on them or discriminating them, they have loads of experience that you can only learn if you at least call them humans.

Martinez39s.

Martinez39s:
What's all these girl power nonsense? Why are they praising her? Is she not a pilot for a reason? Mtewwww!

I mean like, didn't she take a lesson before flying a plane? WTH people! What a time to be alive.

Abeg make one una help me teach me responsiveness of webpages. Abeg, mbok biko..

Zzor:
In a sanner clime she would be hiding her head in shame but here she is even granting interviews.I no longer pity any of these baby mamas,they intentionally took that route.We are indeed in the last of days, God I beckoned on you to keep guiding me even in my weakness I don't want to be involved in such shameless and sinful life.

She raise her head even more higher in saner clime

I can relate to how she felt before dropping on the floor.

She will be alright.

Una weh use that torch suppose don born like two now.

Martinez39s:

It was pun intended.

Zabiboy:

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Nice one....Me sef nor go call police..
I'll tell you guys why

Abeg update us.

Zabiboy:

Check out the story below...
I THINK this is a classic example of what Coldswe@t meant by "Redefine abi Redesign Masculinity" ..i cant recall the exact words he used...
Please, i'll love to get the thoughts of everyone..
I'll might open a thread on it too....so i can observe the difference in the way men and women think..

I'm too feminine to get involved between a man or a woman even if it's my sister, na to call police.

franchasng:
All you guys from the South are fools. Complete idiots!!!



Fulani terrorist group without fear is threatening a serving Governor and all other Nigerians who refuse giving them their lands for free for their personal businesses, and instead of you cowardly Southern youths to start mobilizing yourselves for retaliatory attacks even without provocation which will make them retreat, you are rather here instigating fear in the hearts of your fellow southern cowards.


God forbid!


Fulani should know that if all other Nigerian tribes allow Fulani to kill and trample on them freely, Igbos will rather die all than allow that to happen/


Igbos alone single handedly fought Fulani agenda even with their collaboration with Yoruba and the rest of Nigerian tribes and held the war for 3 good years....they should think about it now........


ESN alone will wipe out the entire Fulani tribe in West Africa without the help of Nigerian combined military forces they always use to shield themselves from destruction


Hungry, lanky fools forming warriors, bring it on fools


What nonsense

You deh mind that fool, s/he is displaying the cowardice used to know his/her forefathers.

RisenPhoenix1:
Yes. Though I'll probably be going off the grid sometime soon.

Let me hit you up now just in case you go phoenix on here.