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LUAN1:
women mostly reject broke and ugly men. They can accept the weak and SIMP men just for his money and some benefits, but will used and dump them later.
My opinion tho.

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helinues:
It's not even about seeing them as cheap or dumping later, it's this mentality of most especially the beautiful ones to think because they like you, it's a must they get you..

Hahahah, beauty with no brain, beauty with no manner, beauty with half naked clothes when we all have taste, preference, choice..

exactly you're wise... but only people who's in the game will know about this... since simps and weak men are used to rejection and being used, they will never get to know the other side of the female nature...

a man who's confident and knows how to play will easily know this... this is why when a woman keeps showing you the green light and you treat her like she doesn't matter or you go for someone else, she will go crazy... they can't handle rejection because they believe the world begins and ends with their beauty and assets... when a man rejects a woman, he's automatically telling her she's below his standard, just like how women view weak men or simps.. when this happens, she either gets angry, become violent or try as much as possible to please him especially if the said man is high value and also knows how to play the game.. women only get rejected by men who knows their own worth and knows their way around women...

women do not have the monopoly to friendzone, women do not have the monopoly to reject... both men and women can reject or friendzone themselves.. but it is more common with men due to high number of puss$y ass niggars and weak men...

if you're not in the game, do not quote me...

tonididdy:
... Lol so which ones we nor go dump?
You never ready for relationship let alone marriage!

ignore the red flags and suffer for it yourself! no one will be there to save you when you eventually starts crying or thinking of suicide just like many ignorant men like you!

gbengene1234:
I think I agree with most of your ideas... But you too dey para oo

bros e be like say you don sabi me before
the truth is harsh... it's not for the light-hearted.. I'm not here to comfort anyone with lies...

you're right.. apart from that, they are all trying to glorify feminism bullshit... just to suit the Western narrative... it's what it is bro... just like she hulk, coming to America 2 bullshit.. that's the reality we have to face now... portraying men as weak simps and women as warriors... even the title is funny.. woman king lmao... while they have a king...

okay... let's do this.

the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..

some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with..

1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...

2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her

3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..

4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch

5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..

6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers

7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!

8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!

9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...

10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...

11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..

12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself

13) if she bleaches, dump her!

14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her!

you write well, you reason well, you're so fvcking good at what you do... More power bro!

Baronthecelebri:
7 relationship yet no marriage. Hmmm it's well

women like that don't care about marriage until they are completely destroyed... and she might later see a simp to settle down with after all her rendezvous... Simps are really suffering..

mehn, you already have a good relationship and someone who's ready to marry you but instead you felt you're still not done with the streets... the streets you came from, the streets you shall return... good riddance to that b!tch

you went to a guy's house on a first date, what did you think would happen? praise and worship? you didn't suggest an open place at first... mehn some girls get fish brain.. na why dem dey die like foul...

and I also blame the guy, he should have told the girl his intentions through his words or actions towards her before she came to him... spending 16K for transport and doing all those wahala because of woman, nor be me and you...

heartofcity12:
King sh*t, doings 😊

a good move! it shows I don't need your godammed money b!tch.. just get the fvck out of my life...

GreatVocalist:
I understood clearly before I replied.

You suggested that he should get another wife to stop cheating.

My reply was subtly intended to refute that suggestion. Getting another wife won't stop him from looking at other women to get down with.

All he needs is self control and to love his wife more.

you're just repeating what I've said in a more clarified terms... that's why I said he should control his dick... isn't that the same as self-control? or didn't you see where I typed "I hate men sleeping around like dogs" ?

GreatVocalist:
In that case, he should keep getting married to as many women he sees fit to get down with lol.

read to understand, not to reply!

siofra:
Break up with her. Shikena!

You both are not compatible, what more do you want to hear again

Leave her, let her find a provider, generous husband that she can depend on 100% I don't know why stingy men like to make women suffer.

someone that will carry her generational problems abi? or someone that will slave away his life to make her happy? generous simp abi?

I'm not angry with the fact that your comment was directly below mine, I'm just angry with the fact that you chose to comment foolishly once again...

another relationship wahala...

1) see ehn, she has already showed you that she's a lazy woman who doesn't want to do anything, even if you marry her as a full house wife, you'll still end up taking care of the house yourself... she's a lazy woman and if you marry her, your kids will become very lazy as well and which will affect them greatly... she has shown you that was how was brought up - to depend totally on someone or the man who's to be her husband...

You have two choices in this case, if you marry her, you must be prepared to marry another wife or get a maid... if you are a man who's programmed his mind to get only one wife, ready to work as a slave for the woman till you die which she basically does nothing to improve or reduce the stress in your life... and don't forget, your kids will be greatly affected too... when considering marriage, always picture your kids with the person you're currently dating to see how she will handle it.. how she handle your space is how she will handle the kids...

2) because she's a virgin and so what?? in as much I advise men into going for virgins, they shouldn't sleep on it.. and you said you're in a long distance relationship, hmm I wouldn't say much that, but don't rely on her that she won't cheat on you...
you are already investing so much in this woman and you've even taken her to see your parents while you noticed all these red flags, I would say you acted based on emotional feelings and you were not being logical... never be in a rush to quicky introduce a woman for marriage to your parents without first seeking professional advice from them or without first scrutinising your prospective mate.. virginity and a woman's past should be a factor to check out for when considering a woman for a real relationship, but that's not the only thing to look out for in a woman... in fact, we have so many types of virgin now compared to the full virgin in mind, body and soul...

3) I can say you've really done enough for her... a woman who's ready to work just need a little push or opportunity and she will work.. nor be person be Dammy wey dey cook abi she nor see her mate? she's a liability and she will be when you eventually marry her.. she's shown you her real self and it's now left for you to enter the danger by yourself...

remember all these investments you're doing for the sake of your relationship is making you more emotionally attached to her which will haunt you later if she later dumps you after sucking another guy's dick or you've finally upgraded her passed the level you founded her.. I feel she's still young, and I feel you're even the one pushing to get married asap to her and not her doing the pressuring... bro, I just pray it doesn't end in tears... you can't change a woman when it comes to her personality, don't think you can....

heartofcity12:
More reason why you should always keep dates very cheap even if she shows very bright “green lights”, she may just be playing along or leading you on just to finesse you..
She has successfully eaten what she came to eat and she’s onto the next one, why won’t she block you 🤷🏼‍♂️😂

I like the idea that they should fiirst get to meet in a public place since you don't know who you're inviting to your abode....

mistake number one: talking to a woman about your personal life on a first date.. like seriously?? even the one you're dating or being sexual with sef gan don't deserve to know about your personal life unless she finds out herself... I'm sure he even said to her how he would like them to be in a relationship... this is a fvcking attraction killer... if a woman is really into you, she will be the one talking the most not you...

mistake number two: making the date costly as you've said.. they should have chosen a neutral place and the man is supposed to be in charge of where to meet not her... this shows his indecision.. when you let women be in charge of something important, they will feel you are not competent... women want you to dominate them but they will never tell you this...

mistake number three: the woman shit tested him and he failed... he wasn't bold enough to ask for what he really wanted... even if he wanted her for a good relationship, he should have invited her to his place and hide his intentions towards her...

mistake number four: a woman is supposed to be the one to call you if she has gotten home after a date.. you calling her shows you're just a fvcking simp she can milk... she was hoping she's seen a bad guy who can take her for a ride and the guy behaved like a simp.. she blocked you because you acted like a simp and misused your chance!

ghettochild:
These ones needs sex machine.. Make dem just buy am put for house

I dey tell you... their psyche is already destroyed...

izonborn098:
why calling me Hypocrite, to your question, in nigeria a man can marry more than one woman it has being in existence before u were born, i dont mind my daughter been polgamy marriage if she is happy with the union i am fine, but i will disown my son for marrying one woman with another man because it is taboo and he doest not know his self worth and i dont even want my son to marry a single mom too.

don't argue with women, they argue emotionally instead of logically... they equate men with women... they think we are the same physically and biologically.. don't argue with women, it's just like arguing with small children.. save your energy..

ettelinhno:
please what is the difference between someone being intelligent and smart

there's a slight difference between being intelligent and being smart... being smart most times comprises of how experienced you are maybe due to the environment you were born into or through learning, being intelligent most times has to do with your ability to break down complex things, subject or provide valuable insights...

someone can be intelligent without being smart and vice versa... someone can also be neither smart or intelligent, these kind of people are what we refer to as dummies, stupid or foolish...

when it comes to social relationships, most men are intelligent but not smart, while most women are smart but not intelligent.. being smart in this sense relates to being cunning...

simple! get another wife and control your dick... don't give your wife infections... I hate men who sleep around like dogs... sometimes having side chics and sleeping around is even more dangerous than getting another wife...

tonywonder:
✍️✍️✍️ And one way I think to discipline this strong sexual urge is to masturbate which is much more acceptable than having multiple sexual partners? Or what do you think

yeah masturbation can cure once in a while, but the best is to get a partner who matches your energy and aligns with your journey... abstain from having multiple partners, sex is overrated and sometimes too costly... when I say costly, I don't necessarily mean money..

machote:
Always how to please a woman, this and that , but never "how to please a man".

Better thread we all want to see:
Man Tells Detailed Story Of Best Sex He's Ever Had

sure but the thing is, women don't care about satisfying men or what they can do to satisfy men, only what they can get for themselves only... when they celebrate birthday, they expect you to give them something, same thing when you're celebrating yours... women rarely go all the way for men like men does to women unless they are genuinely attracted to you...

they don't care about you... they know you'll do all what you can to hustle for them, still waste your last strength for them on bed... you're just a slave acting like the master... they are the real masters... until you change your mindset, have abundance mentality and don't give a fvck about what happens, and starts acting like an alpha that you were born to be, you'll continue being this way...

a woman is only a slave to a man who put himself first and doesn't allow himself to be manipulated by his partner... in summary, women don't care about you...

tonywonder:
You need to do more research about Nymphos.... Some were naturally born that way!

If you're talking about having more stamina or urge for sex.. that's a nympho... a nympho is not someone who have sex with multiple partners, a nympho is someone with more stronger desire to have sex... anyone can be a sex addict or have many sexual partners, but what differs is self-control and abstinence... no woman is born naturally to be a hoe or have sex with multiple men, but some people are born with stronger libido than others and there are those born this way who chose to control themselves... only animals have sex unrestrained...

tonywonder:
There are Women who are nymphomaniac (sex addicts). How do you deal with one if you get married to any?

nymphomaniacs? it's better to avoid having anything serious with these ones...

and to me, I always believe being a nympho is what the body was trained to be.. by having multiple sexual partners, you risk being a nympho... I don't think anyone was born a nympho..

tonywonder:
Attract but don't chase? Your submission is deep but a rich guy with money who doesn't even chase after women would still attract a woman as bees are to honey because he's smelling of riches

sure... just like ants are attracted to sugar because the sugar has what the ants want.. same as women are attracted to riches... they are attracted to the riches not the guy itself...

if you put a sugar cube on the floor, ants don't care about who puts the sugar cube on the floor, they only care about sugar cube.. same with the guy with riches, they don't care about him... another reason why a woman will never love you unconditionally... it's either you're smart, intelligent, cute, rich, good in bed and the likes... but one of the worst things that a woman can get attracted towards a man is his resources.... if she's attracted to you solely because of how loaded you are, then don't expect loyalty from her...

even if you're rich as a guy, and there's no possible way to hide it from your prospective partner, that's the period you don't even use any of your resources in charming a lady... you don't talk about your wealth, or how loaded you are... and you don't help her with bills and all of that until she becomes your wife... if she was truly attracted to you other than your resources, you'll surely know because her actions will inevitably give her out...

if possible act naive and kinda act like the struggling or hustling guy when you're relating with the girl you have in mind for marriage, unless you don't really have anything serious to do with her... then you're free to do what you can just to satisfy your own needs... but just be cautioned.. it might backfire...

satisfy her on bed, do what you have to, but don't go extra mile just to satisfy her.. sex is dual works, sometimes leave her to hustle for her own orgasm.. she can't just stand there laying like a wood while you do all the works...

do not let yourself be manipulated into taking drugs or competing with those who has fvcked her with drugs or aphrodisiac to satisfy her... you can never satisfy a woman let alone a hoe... you can never see the end of a pu$ssy but it can see the end of you just like it has seen the end of many great men... you've been warned... there's more to life than puS$sy...

MrBrownJay1:
good anaconda is more powerful than money.... you fukc a babe the right way and she could stay with you for life, even if you are as broke as a church mouse.... better yet, she will marry a billionaire and continue come spray you with his money.

some women literally lose their eyesight for a few second (some even minutes) after a PROPER ORGASM!!!!!

true, but the thing is, someone like that who's ridden multitudes of dicks will still cheat on the naive man who thinks that him giving her orgasm will get her loyal to him... the experiences she's had with other dicks will never get her satisfied...

she might be with him for a while, but when the emotions has died down, she will begin craving different types of dicks and will eventually cheat... she only went for a vacation, she will be back...

women who have more sexual experience from past relationships carry more baggages, cause more problems, cheat easily, divorce easily, transmit more sexually transmitted infections and are more likely to be violent or being predatory females... cease your association with these type of women totally... they will destroy you...

the more sexual partners she's had, the more mentally damaged she is... the more sexual partners she's had, the easier it will be to get her laid... judge her by her past before you commit to her, else she will destroy your future...

this also proves that you don't need to chase a woman... if she's feeling your vibes, she will automatically role with you... she might resist the first time, but it won't last, because her emotions will eventually win over her... you don't need money to get women, you don't need your resources to get women, you don't need to chase women to get women...

all you just need is confidence, boldness and the sigma male aura... attract but don't chase...

you have the time to follow only nairaland f monikers.. that says much about you... you simp online, you still simp offline... you deserve special award... you don't need advice, you need help...

Modifire:
but sex worn out men quickly

casual sex and drugs.. addiction to drugs or dangerous substance is more dangerous...

CandidAdmin:
There is na but e no constant, they still bought it yesterday and it lasted for about 5hrs

so 5hrs na electricity to you??... mehn we've gotten so used to suffering...

stories not new, next!
it will continue happening over and over again..

and btw, this just proves further that the redpill does not lie... reading through some of the stories, it validates some redpill sayings below:

1) never ignore red flags..
2) you can't negotiate genuine desire, you can't buy a woman's love.
3) women are moved by emotions and how they feel at the moment.
4) hypergamy doesn't care how long you've been together.. she will leave you when she has weighed her options...
5) do not be naive when it comes to the nature of women and what women are capable of before considering having a relationship with them...
6) never rely or trust any woman...
7) do what you want to do as a man, women will always whine..
8 ) trying to impress her might work for a short while, but will haunt you in the long run..
9) women know what they are doing...
10) always make sure the woman you're in a relationship with have something to lose...
11) women don't love men, she's only in the relationship for her selfish interests... she will be gone the moment the benefits cease...
12) women will cheat multiple times and pretend they've never flirted or seen another guy's dick but flare up violently the moment they catch you cheating...
13) women are natural actresses... always verify...
14) a woman's past matters, judge her by her past.. scrutinize her thoroughly!
15) save yourself because no one is coming to save you..

modified: last but not the least, women are not the weaker vessels as you've been misled... they are manipulative, cunning and powerful.. underrate them at your own risk..