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she's doing you a favour... have standards as a man, don't fat women... just like women too have preferences, always go for the better choice... don't date fat women, don't raise fat kids... !

burp18:
Man you need to calm down. If every man reacted the way you're the way you're doing right now no man will be married. Women normally no Sabi talk. Ignore it and you guys will be alright

this is why most men are miserable in marriage... instead of the man to discipline the woman and set her right, he will start ignoring what will later lead to greater problems.. all these subtle insults is what lead to a man being disrespected and emasculated in marriage.. you sha see one man wey the wife wan kill for front page few days ago... give a woman a little freedom, watch her go crazy... women know what they are doing..

op, no matter what happened between you too, it doesn't warrant her to talk to you that way, it shows the disrespect was there for a long time which you fail to confront.. now, this is happening.. the foundation is faulty already and I'm afraid it will continue that way.. this is another reason why as a man your source of income or provision should solely come from you.. when a woman start taking a man's responsibility, she starts to disrespect and look down on him... find a way to get back on your feet as soon as possible and regain control... never forget, women don't love men and you'll never be loved unconditionally by a woman...

EmiDon11:
yes but no be my fault bro.
Na konji do that one.

bro, I've seen many guys tread this path and didn't end up well... I won't lie to you, no matter how sex starved I am, promising a lady marriage just to have sex with her is one of the stupidest thing I will ever do, especially with a virgin for that matter...

bro, go and wash your head... nor be every hole dem dey chook hand.. there's no enjoyment in fornicating... it will cause you setbacks instead.. more harm than so called pleasures..

Shokoloko:
The tribe is not complaining. When my son is ready to get married even if his intended wife's family do not make a request, I and his father will flood the girl's home like this photo, and when my daughter is ready to marry I will expect my home to look like this. Water get level. If people learn to marry at their level they will not complain about bride price.

lmfaooo.. water get level but the type of water is what makes it unique... is it dirty water, sewage water, gutter water, drainage water, clean water? what type? if the girl is a hoe or olosho (gutter, sewage or dirty water) and you still expect to have something like this then you are living in fantasy land.. and by the way, those photos seems like many years past, times have changed now and people are getting more wiser and woke to engage in all these... even if they do, it has to be a unique investment not for a hoe or for a community puSs$y...

YouandiAllofus:
I had acknowledged the significant impact of fore play which any body can learn to do right like i stated before. Answer this; can one easily satisfy a woman through fore play without penetration? Do you kown that the mere thought and sight of a large genital can make a woman wet/ turn her on? The combination of fore play & larger genital can deliver more satisfaction with less stress

@ bolded, 100% possible if she's sexually attracted to you, intense romance and knowing your way around your woman's body can get to orgasm, penetration will just be like the icing on the cake... most women don't cum through only vaginal penetrative sex...

yes I agree that the sight of a man's dick can a turn a woman on, but it doesn't work the way it's been perpetrated in sex... a man's dick can only turn a woman on if she's sexually attracted to him due to how the man's personality, how he's built or some other reason... but when it comes to the real action, the size of dick rarely matters in achieving full satisfaction..

IbileIfe:
The depth of the vagina is about 3.77 inches (9.6 cm).
So any man with penis of 3 inches can satisfy a woman.

A report in the BJOG: An International Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology said that the average depth of the vagina is about 3.77 inches (9.6 cm), but that vaginal depth and appearance can vary widely.
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com › ...
How deep is the average vagina? Size and appearance

When a woman is aroused, it increases to 4.25 inches to 4.75 inches. Regardless of how long the vagina is, the area that is thought to be important for most women’s sexual response is the outer one-third.

exactly, even at that, the clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's private part not the vagina or vagina opening...

YouandiAllofus:
Being good at fore play is something anybody can learn. But performance surely has alot to do with both male and female genital size. Unless you want to be a working robot! I put it this way; the smaller the genital size, the harder the work to achieve satisfactory performance and the bigger the genital size, the lesser the work to achieve satisfactory performance. While this is applicable for men, the reverse is the case for women.

@ bolded, you seem to watch a lot of porn than actually deal with a lot of women to say this... porn have change your perspective towards sex.. your statement or assertion is very wrong..

in fact, for a woman to enjoy sex, the man has to be good with føreplay and know what ticks in a woman.. most women rarely cum or get satisfied by penetration... føreplay and the sexual build-up before the actual act is what makes women enjoy sex not the length of your phallus... so quit watching porn and start dealing with women in reality... what you see in porn is nothing but mere acting that seeks to destroy our perspective towards sex..

back then, the best gender you can come out as is a man... if you're a man back then, you would be seen as a god..

now, the best gender to come out as is a woman!.. no wonder we have many people like Bob Risky and co transitioning into a woman.. if you play your cards well, you will get rich as soon as you can... in fact, you'll enjoy your life more than any man in the world.. stupid and foolish men like OP are plenty out there willing to do anything a woman asks them...

if you're a beautiful woman and you're poor, I put it to you that you didn't play your cards well

you're a good man.. God bless you

Sirchiboy:
Yeah we are the problem of this country..
No official bulletin release concerning fuel subsidy yet some fuel station have tripled the price...
Nigerians are wicked and selfish.
This country no go ever better

Nigerians are the problem of Nigeria but we put the blame on the leaders everytime... change starts with each one of us..

Illegal1:
Omoh.......take 250mg of tramadol then lock up,nah she go later beg u to stop bcus u no go relex..

bt eat better food 1st ooh,make u no go sleep or vomit anyhow inside hotel room ooh

op, take this advice and watch you life get destroyed slowly...

do not have sex with prostitutes, do not have sex with sex workers.. they are filled with demons and bad lucks...

stay away from fornication, at 21, nor be wetin suppose dey your head be this...

it's true... going by the topics you've previously created, you behave like a child.. like the poster above me said, you don't respect yourself... you're 32, and you lack self-respect, people won't respect you... wetin you dey relate with 19 years old for when she's not your daughter, family or wife to the point of telling her about yourself? nawa oo, shey na loneliness or boredom?

now this is what you have to do,

1) always say less...
2) mind your business
3) avoid gossiping
4) never tolerate disrespect
5) care less about what people think about you, people will always talk anyway
6) respect yourself
7) think before you act
8 ) be bold and courageous
9) own your style
10) do not be seen mingling with fools or immature people
11) keep your life private

plsdisvirginme:
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She is even a broke student.
Very stupid dirty animal.
I believe she is a lesbian.

alaye all these thing wey you dey talk na nonsense... next time when you see a girl you like, be bold and interact with her and go straight on the point... nor dey form nice guy or good Samaritan... you were weak and the girl is wiser than you!

you fvcked it up yourself and the lady is partly to blame considering the nature of women...

you helped her to charge her phone...?? sorry ooo, good Samaritan.. if to say na man now, you nor go do the same... na because of the girl you buy fuel for generator nor be say you really wan buy am... the girl dey enter your eye in the first place and how come you have her number to text her if she helped you see your ID card?...

you told her that you wanted to hang out and she said no, ehn wetin con happen?? Pele oo, cliffhanger... so because you charge phone now, make e dey do everything wey you tell her??

girls eat weak men like you for breakfast... you were interested in that girl, you couldn't man up and tell her from the start, you con dey use corner corner ways to follow her talk, you dey do good Samaritan, who that one help?? you con tell am say make una hangout, hangout kii you there! she even helped you by asking you what you wanted..

men dey go war, they fight predators, ordinary to approach women boldly and ask for what you want, you nor dey bold.. shame on you!

gentleguy1975:
relationship never start my brother, I think she has a date then and decided to call me when things went south with her former date

just listen to yourself man... just listen to yourself!

so you're just a plan B, a backup man, a safety husband, a push over which everyone comes back to when all other plans seems to fail and you're happy with her... don't you see any other woman apart from that... some men are actually the source of their own problems not women... she has showed you already that she has no interest in you, you're just the guy she uses to pass her time, yet you still kept oushing.. as to what??

if I become president, I will make redpill a compulsory course for all men.. i won't name it redpill, I will call it another sweet name..

@Ikennaford, you sef see the guy abi? weak men everywhere

Jodha:
Baba nah yhu o

na so life be oo

marlow1962:
1 week max, after that " self respect" start kicking in.

one week ke? nor be me... any conversation I have with a girl, if she's not responding to my vibe, I let go immediately...

VinnyBaba:
2 years!🤨

She was worth it.

Beautiful, humble, soft-spoken and looked modest.
Her Best friend was doing Runs while her younger Sister was dating a Yahoo Boy but she wasn't influenced.🙂

She said no to me because she said I looked like a Womanizer!

dey play

your type is very sweet to manipulate... na your type dem fit sell calculator as mobile phone for...

at this rate, I let people wallow in their path of ignorance... life will definitely teach you..

ooh I have stories to tell...

first girl name - Peace.. mehn I really loved peace.. we were exchanging letters back then... this girl loved me with everything, she dey even help me write note back then.. when I'm not in school, this girl will give my friend letter to give me.. there was a time I had to visit her on a Saturday just to see her because I was missing her, funnily enough, I didn't see her haha lol... a time came, I started taking her for granted because I got fed up of the attachment some time, at a point I even insulted her through some of the letters I wrote... she didn't deserve that... maybe because I was somewhat naive back then, I'm sorry peace... we recently reconnected on Facebook anyways... she's good... sometimes I wonder what makes her feel attracted to be back then, maybe because I was kinda cute or very intelligent.. trust me, I knew I was very intelligent book wise back then.. secondary school love days is quite fun I tell you..

second girl name - Faith
faith was the girl I fell in love with after peace, but not quite as deep as Peace... she was the first person I got somehow intimate with also... she loved me, there were couple of times she visited me at home also.. guess what? I fvcked it up again .. I started behaving anyhow and she got fed up with my wahala and I didn't bother to apologize.. I get craze for head back then.. maybe because I know say I go still catch another fish.. and oh, lest I forget, Faith is very beautiful.. we still talk till today though...

third girl name - Fateemah
I wouldn't say I had anything to do with Fateemah, she's just a girl that had a crush on me due to how intelligent I was.. we became close but never for once declared our intentions towards one another.. we still talk till today though.. she's doing good as well, such a beautiful lady too...

fourth girl - aisha
Aisha wasn't in the same school as mine, but we were dating... we only get to see during the holidays... when preparing for jamb back then, we would go to the center together and come back home together also... there was another girl in the tutorial center that had a crush on me and Aisha knew this, sometimes she would stop the girl from getting close to me.. Aisha is a good lady though, she loved me, like she really loved me.. we got really intimate and did alot of things together.. we lost contact though and I heard she's out of the country for now..

these are just the notable stories in my secondary school adventures... man has moved on now and with another girl currently.. life happens... love is a great feeling, but one should be very mindful of the emotion..

Rayban25:
Question.

After school everybody du find their own path...nobody too get your time again...if at all they have time for you it's either they date you with the intention of marrying you or you just satisfy yourselves sexually and go una way

exactly bro.. after school, reality sets it and everyone is just busy dealing with live issues especially for the men... women on the other hand now focus on getting someone who's going to marry them after most of them must have done the unthinkable during their university years...

the large number of men and women mixing together is what makes dating or getting a partner seems easy... when you're out of an environment like this, it gets more difficult and options are limited due to few number of people you come across daily, that's if you even make the approach..

manillas:
True story,

I once stayed with a friend who was dating this very beautiful fair skinned girl named Chioma. Chioma fine no be small. I swear die!!! If NO be say I really respect the brothers code, I for don reason Chioma since. But as the brother wey I b, I shut down. Now, Chioma on her own, as with most fine girls, she no get sense. Every small thn na fight and quarrel the whole compound go hear. If Chioma start now, na meeting we go call before chioma stop. One day my friend whose name is Kingsley comes back late unto boys night out o, no be say na another woman, d guy no even dey double date, he just likes Chioma as per fine girl she be and had serious plans to marry her, na God save am sha. So Kingsley comes back late and meets a very pissed off chioma waiting for him and all hell was let loose. Na so quarrel start o, like play Chioma enter kitchen collect knife😲

So kingsley faced with the biggest threat of his life, finds a way to get the knife from her, overpowers her and beats her to a pulp, for fear of his life. Then calls of the engagement. My guy say e no dey do again😂

Chioma say Mbanu, you’ve wasted 5yrs of my life dating you. She calls her severance package of 500k, as in 500 thousand naira for Kingsley to pay her off. My guy was so scared for his life and found a way to raise that cash from nothing to pay her off. I mean, he ran from pillar to post to raise the ransom money🤣🤣
For fear of his life. Year was 2020


Well he pays her off and she’s gone for good, right?!

His fortunes changes, he gets a job in an oil servicing firm and starts making it big. He meets a dark skinned cool headed lady named still Chioma, but this one get sense sha😁
They get married in less than a year. Omo na so the other Chioma dey threaten my guy wife dey tell am say na her life be that wey she dey live o😆


Old Chioma gets married again but it doesn’t last as a result of the same issues, lack of subordination to your husband and temper problems.

Op get help for your sister now it’s early. That seed of anger, temper and violence only grows bigger with age till you can’t stop it.

acrimony part 2

Borntosmoke:
I have this my friend, I don't know how he live his life. When he graduated, he doesn't share to people, dont even post it on WhatsApp status for people to rejoice with him. Now, he is currently doing nysc, nobody knows he is doing nysc. He doesn't post pictures. The stupid thing about him. He can post music videos or another thing on is Whatsapp status. I see this as selfishness. Why are some people like this. If you want to keep low profile, keep low profile with sense. At least let people know about some of your achievement, I'm not saying you should broadcast all your achievements, you don't where your helper may come from. May be through your WhatsApp contacts or social media

lol.. why do you want people to know of his achievements? so that you can backstab him abi??.. the earlier people know that most of the friends they think they have or keep secretly hates them, the better... you won't know about this until you find yourself doing better than them...

I love his lifestyle... don't tell people your plans until it has come into realisation... why do you want to know about his life? If you're truly having an interesting and exciting life, you don't need to post about it before people know you're having an exciting life... most people post about their exciting life and where they've been just to pepper other people not because they are really enjoying.. but social media have taught us on how to live fake lives online and live miserable offline... most people gave their enemies passwords to their life by posting too much of themselves and what they are doing online...

and what you said about finding an helper, is it until he posts about himself online before he can see helper? this is just a nonsense assumption.. do you know how he lives his life offline? do you know his plan? abi na WhatsApp and online all helpers dey live... bro face your life and your own progress and stop worrying about someone else's.. it seems you're the kind of friend he should avoid sef because why are you so worried about it? you might have plans to attack or backbite him sef..

internationalman:
Nice food..
But I wonder why grown-ups like ripe plantain
But I will pass cause I have phobia for foods that are too sweet.

what are you saying?

there's absolutely nothing wrong with polygamy, we have been deceived by the West who sees nothing wrong with homosexuality and tried to cancel out polygamy to enforce their other myopic ideologies on brainwashed souls... it's the plan of the new world order.. the thing is that many people don't think...

the plan is to replace kids with pets.. replace polygamy/monogamy with homosexuality... replace humans with bots.. reduce the number of critical thinkers... replace geniuses with dummies... destroy the family line, destroy civilisation from within, makes the masses easier to control...

check the countries and cities where there family line is in order and where they don't advocate all these nonsense the West is selling, they are more in control of their society and have sane beings leading them... they are also more powerful than their counterparts.. they thrive naturally compared to where these deranged and brainwashed souls are situated... it's a form of mass brainwashing and control and sadly, Africa is losing her heritage into threading that path..

siofra:
People can find joy and satisfaction in the little things in life, like just waking up and showing up everyday. I don't have to have get married or have children to say I'm truly happy in life. That's all I'm saying.

you're in the stage one of the programming...

you would be still graduate to stage two, be a feminist or a homosexual, after realising you've been scammed and brainwashed with the media lies later in life.. you'll realise that the happiness you think it is, is nothing more than an illusion..

what am I even saying? You wouldn't be here creating this thread if your parents made the same choice...

this one matter don pass simp own.. even some simp sef get self-respect pass this OP... foolish men everywhere thinking with their dicks.. tueh!!

take the redpill, they said no, that all women are angels from heaven... take the redpill and save yourself, they said no, that redpill are for broke people.. don't worry, you go wise by fire or by force...

a man and a woman can never be friends.. what do you need female friends for? why female friends when you can have male friends or better still, stay on your lane?

what benefit does having female friends brought to you other than being used, manipulated and used as a medium to control boredom? don't you have any value than seeking female friends?

you don't need female friends, if what you want is sexual relationship or prospective partner, then go straight to the point and tell them your intention... you don't need female friends... you'll only end up getting used..

lmfaooo.. typical West mentality.... replace kids with pets.. replace polygamy/monogamy with homosexuality... replace humans with bots.. reduce the number of critical thinkers... replace geniuses with dummies... destroy the family line, destroy civilisation from within, makes the masses easier to control... lmfaooo

OP is part of their programming.. and their plans has been proved to work..

well I feel the person behind the moniker is looking for attention as usual...such a lonely depressed soul...

ObiofAsaba1:
bro that girl back side will make any man to rethink

now I know you have a problem... that's if your story is even true or you're just looking for attention as usual...

you have a backside full of problems...

xynerise:
Too many clowns in both teams

clowns Vs clowns ... very interesting game... man city will spell man utd name in FA cup final.

love makes men stupid... someone wanted to purposely infect you if not because you had the test kit, yet you still come here to say "you love her, and want to get along with her".. she knew about this, why didn't she tell you that before?

shey nor be juju be this? guy e be like say you nor just like yourself..