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tonididdy:
If you see nothing wrong with the US invading Iraq (you say it's justifiable and later same you claim it was a lie)

What is putting doing that the West hasn't done, Biden is not weak after all. He's a man of principles, assisting Ukraine with forces in Ukraine would be tagged hyprocrisy because there's nothing Putin is doing, they haven't done.

What I meant and for someone who was glued to CNN when the thing went down. What I am saying is
1. The US did not attack Iraq alone, they wanted a coalition and they had about 10 countries support the invasion.
2. Most of us believed that Iraq was behind the bombing of the world trade center and when facts came out that the dude had no WMD, opinion poll shifted immediately against the war.
3. Give me an example of when West - lets just say US invaded a country without cause - ( I have explained the reason why they invaded Iraq, Afghan was because of ISIS , a domino effect of Iraq) But Russia has no reason to invade a neighbour - Ukraine besides the fact that he cannot afford the west to camp right beside him ( NATO) . Once the resistance start to rise, the US will supply weapons and financial assistance to make sure that Russia is never comfortable.
I have come to recognize that we are so polarized ( Republicans and Democrats) that there is no middle ground. There is just no appetite for war with Democrats, there are other social issues and injustices , Whilst the Republicans want to show their military strength. - They argue
Putin never took crimea when Bush was in Power , he waited for Obama. Now, he never invaded Ukraine when Trump was in power - He waited for Biden.
There is a lot at stake for Biden and Democrats, plus Ukraine is not a member of NATO or Any Europe Military alliance. Anyways. Cheers Mate.

Mooh247:
What you wear during summer around campus with residential blocks is not what you wear in a serious lecture hall

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Lecture Hall is a thing a building o jare . Have you ever heard the " This is the science auditorium where women can't wear bra's " ?
What's more important - What's between the ears or from the head down. ?
As long as you are not distracted with a mobile phone , side chats and you attend class regularly . Who cares what you wear. All eyes should be front looking at the teacher.
A lecturer role is to educate. Leave the clothes police to other school authorities.
Without a dress code - this is mute. And it doesn't address the root of the decadence in the society.

blackparadise:
God bless you my brother, nah true yarn be that...as I dey I get girl wey I dey date now, she doesn't disturb me for money or card .she do video call me anytime she feel, she is learning fashion designer,

Like other slay girls I dated , Everytime Money for hair, data for video call, foolish girls everywhere,...

Dude that is amazing - She has her own money and can help with house support. Plus, if she continues , she can open a shop and grow and have apprentice(s). That's the way bro. Extremely happy for you.

Mooh247:


lol

Why should security of the institution allow a poorly dressed person into the organisation

US is the most liberal of all countries, but they respect themselves when going into a government building

Even a notorious criminal wears suit and tie when facing a Judge


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Dude you are mistaken sir.
You should see these girls in the summer in College.
Nothing is hidden from the imagination with some ladies.
But this is a college meaning at least 18 years old whom are classified as Adults.
Unless specifically mentioned as dress code you are inviting a lawsuit on discrimination.
Just teach! Is he following them to other classes or when the ladies are in their doms.
How many dudes go commando ! Does he ask them to show their tighty-whities!!

tonididdy:
One question?
Can Russia have a military base in Mexico?

Yes there are over 13 Russia neighbors already In nato , trust me dude, Ukraine is special to Putin ( as a matter of fact this has being on over 8yrs now!)
There is something special about Ukraine, screw sovereignty.
Did USA consider the sovereignty of Libya, Iran, Vietnam, Afghan?
Let's not be hyprocrites lad, I don't support Russia Invading Ukraine but are they doing something new, absolutely not!

Why not ? If the two have some sort of joint military alliance but economically, it wont be worthwhile because the US will certainly levy some embargo on them but the real question is will the US invade Mexico. Certainly NOT !!! So Russia has no legal ground to invade Ukraine.

Special or not. Ukraine is a Sovereign nation just like the others you mentioned they have a constitution. You don't see US invading Libya, they bombed some parts but they aided the local militia to topple Ghaddafi. Iran as well and Vietnam are

Lets talk about when US invaded Iraq - Was it justified then Yes, but we have since come to realize that the pretext for war was a lie. Why is Russia invading Ukraine - there is no valid reason but just because he can, and that my friend is the def of a bully.

tonididdy:
In fact the greatest joke of any presidency is to cry out to her citozens to take up arms and head to the borders on day 1 oh.

Me I don't blame anybody but that dumb president xelensky, he allowed the west ginger him to his doom

What do you mean " ginger him" - They had a pro-Russian president who was ousted. Putin never attacked Ukraine when Trump was in power. You now have a president who reiterates that joining NATO is best for his country. Now , Putin decides to attack. What gives you the right to attack the sovereignty of another country. It's like us attacking Cameroun for " Just causes" . Its an act of war.

BigTableShaker:
Naso o..

America is a loser.

If Kiev fight with their last blood, then they'll win the monster called Russia

Americans do not have the appetite for war. Especially a war that cannot be justified to congress . Ukraine has no Oil. So the idea to send troops cannot be justified to congress.
Let the Europe - NATO members send their soldiers to Ukraine. Do not rely on the USA/Canada for everything. By God - Germany, UK can't send troops
In addition, its high time that NATO members increase their defense budget to fend for themselves.
Ukraine is a Sovereign nation since 1991 over 30 years. They have a constitution . There is no excuse for Russia to invade another nation ( not a covert mission, but to invade) It is an act of war. Where is the UN in all this ??
All that needs to happen is for China or North Korea to bomb US and then Putin will have the wall he is looking for with the US.

All you dudes now know how to look at dates on a calendar.
So you should not claim ignorance on missing birthdays and important anniversary.
That being said-
1. Why you dude's don't listen to advice, if you must do - get a condom. !
2. The next thing is to inform her of your fears . Babe, Listen, we have been dating for x days and this news caught me by surprise . You know, I love you very much and I am happy you have decided to keep the baby. I know that you would not intentionally hurt or betray me but I have been deceived in the past. And so, to remove any doubt, I would like for us to do a paternity test. I want to be 100% sure with no Iota of doubt that this child is ours.
3. Then wait for the answer.

There is NO ONE who has had to sign the death certificate of soldiers , call up parents and console them for the loss of their daughters and sons would argue for war. That is why the US and other countries are not putting boots on the ground in Ukraine. They would rather drop a bomb and be done with it.
War is a terrible and Ugly business - And in Nigeria will only bring about tribalism . Yoruba + Igbos against Boko Haram North.
If you were a member of the armed forces you'll not be so openly advocating for it.

internationalman:
Almost all women are lesbian at heart but only few are openly practicing it...

Fact

I disagree Sir ! That is a lie.
Why do you think some women use Love Machine and what shape is it ( A penis)
And those of us that masturbate - You shape your palm like a hole ( A vagina )
It was not so in the beginning.
We have called the truth a lie and a lie the truth to the point that we r confused.

Now this mental illness and an addiction - She just can't stop !

Penguin2:
I beg to defer.

This attitude of having everything cheap in this country is the reason foreign investors are not enthusiastic to invest in so many sectors of the Nigerian economy.

These airline operators said they now buy aviation fuel at N410 per litre then add other charges that they pay at airports yet Nigerians want them to be doing Father Christmas for them.

Must you travel by air?

Look at Power Sector, we are against paying the right bills that will allow investors put the right money into buying and installing equipments and facilities that would have improved our light situation.

Now investors are not willing to borrow money and invest in the power sector because they can’t recoup such money since we insist on underpaying.

Same thing with subsidy.

We don’t want subsidy out even as it is totally unsustainable and highly weighing on the nation’s finances.

Please we need to stop that madness.

If we want quality, we must be ready to pay for it.

I’m sure most of those protesting are those who use 25k to book flight and take pictures to oppress people online to feed their fake live.

I humbly disagree.
Things do not have to be cheap but affordable. Hiking the price when inflation is at its highest , cost of living is through the roof. Salaries have not been increased is ridiculous . I understand that they airlines have to be competitive but at what cost ? Lets do the maths
5 people x N50,000 (250,000) against 50 x N30,000 ( 1,500,000).
The cost of maintenance is the same for 5 as is the whole plane - the Pilot and Flight attendants. The only difference is added weight means you burn more fuel. But how much fuel really justifies that much increase ?

Must they travel by air no - But the roads are terrible and people are susceptible to kidnappers and boko etc.

On Subsidy Power - make things affordable not cheap. Government have a role to play. 9ja is a very rich country in resources that everybody ought to be receiving a monthly stipend from the government but its going into someone's pocket.

1. Sex
2. Sex
3. Sex
4. Sex
5. Sex
that's all i heard

I thought "it" was a woman saying this. Must everything a man think in his mind, come out from his mouth ?
Women are not built the same we are. Your gf might not be able to go without for 3 months but please don't lump the whole gender together.

You marry whomever makes you happy.
whomever will be there with you through tough times
whomever will be confidant.
whomever you share common goals and belief system.
The rest is gravy.

Ah Friend Zone ! She sees you but does not " see you" in " that" way.
Meaning she does not see you as the dude I want to marry type. You are in between.
I would rather you be hot or cold and not lukewarm.

In the movies - Just tell her how you feel. You miss all the shots you don't take. Better to know that she said NO, than not to ask her and die in silence.
From personal experience, you decide , Do you value the friendship more than a romantic one.? I've been caught in this web as well . All 3 ladies are still my friends to this day. They wanted it to be romantic but I didn't because they were the serious type and I knew that If I did the deed, and there was no ring or commitment - they would hate me for life. remember, "its a thin line between love and hate "

Besides telling time, can the watch tell me my heart rate, dial 911 when I fall, send me notifications of missed calls/emails. Nope .
To everyone his own.

PrinceMike24:
My phone isn’t worth 20k,the last time I took it to a phone center I was told they would buy it for 20k and this is about 2 months ago. I’m using an iPhone 6 and the screen is badly damaged

There you go. You have 20k to settle your debt. Yet you are holding onto it looking for a deliverer elsewhere.
Physician heal thyself !.

If I were in your shoes and desperate. I am selling the phone and pay of my debts. You want to end it just for N20k .

JohnEazy:
*********The story below was told to me by my friend********

Every girl that is on inmessage, Tinder and Badoo is doing prostitution and every guy that has those apps on his phone is looking for a prostitute. Nothing una wan tell me.

During my early days in Abuja, I had no female friends so one Friday afternoon, someone convinced me to download Tinder that I would meet interesting men and women that lived in the same area as me. I immediately downloaded but of course I didn’t download it to meet any man, that man dey crase. I immediately started swiping and liking pictures up and down until I saw one babe that was just less than 1km away from me.

I quickly messaged her and she responded almost immediately. Na this kind chat I dey like. In the next one hour, we had known the simple things about each other and so of course, the next line of action was to initiate a date for us to meet. Before I could ask, she was already initiating that we meet that evening. I been broke die that weekend so I wanted to postpone until next week because I no get money for fast food. In fact, the only N1k I had was for dinner that night and for Okada to ATM for when I got salary alert but this babe said she didn’t want us to go out, she wants to come to my house that evening.

I immediately accepted and gave her directions. Her house was less than 3 minutes okada from mine. I quickly borrowed my neighbor’s generator and his DSTV smart card as my own don expire. I wanted the date to be perfect.

When this babe came, I wasn’t disappointed. She looked even better than her pictures. She came indoors, and we were watching TV. I told myself that I was going to be a proper gentleman and not make any move as this was our first date.

Una know say bachelor no get chair, na only bed dey for ground so I was lying down and pressing my phone and she was sitting on the edge and watching TV. Then all of a sudden, I felt a hand on my thighs. I looked up from my phone and she was staring down at me with desire.

I looked up to the ceiling. I didn’t pray for this. But as e don come, make I take am like that. E no good when something wey you no work for, reach your hand and you come spoil am.

I pulled her over and 3 minutes later, we were both ready for the main thing. She pulled me in for one last kiss then she looked me in the eye and whispered something. I didn’t hear her well so I asked her to repeat.

“Na 10k for short time”

“What do you mean by 10k for short time?”

By now my whole body don dey on fire so I no dey understand both pidgin and English again.

“If you want to do, na 10k”

It was then my eyes cleared that she was just a prostitute. I sat down on the bed and shook my head. I don Bleep up. Kai. I dressed up and she dressed up too and I began to preach to her.

I wasn’t looking for a prostitute when I signed up on Tinder, I was looking for a friend and I can’t patronize her because I don’t pay for sex (not because I’m broke �).

We talked at length and she opened up to me about her life. She was an orphan, couldn’t finish University because her father died, came to Abuja to live with her Aunt but the aunt’s husband tried to sleep with her, she reported to the aunt and she threw her out, so she’s squatting with a friend and doing prostitution to help with the bills. She was a broken woman who needed a real job, a good friend and all the support she could get. She broke into tears and I comforted her. There I realized that behind even society’s bad eggs, there was a story to tell. I pulled her close to me and told her I’ll be her friend and support her whichever way I can.

I held her for long and somehow we started kissing again, this time it didn’t seem like a business transaction, this time it was real, it was romantic. I took off my clothes again and she took off hers, then just as we were to begin. I heard another whisper.

“As na you, pay N5k”

Classic lol .... You wan reach 3rd base on first date.

jayworld15:
When you were taking the loan, we didn't know. When you were spending the money, we didn't know. But when the loan company is requesting for you to pay back, you rushed down to nairaland. Oga, end it if you want. It'd be your decision.

Savage Comment

In other countries, being together that long - You are considered live in partners , common-law. So payday baby !!!.

tydi:
A man identified as Maxwell Banzi, is currently trending on Facebook after he shared how he stopped himself from cheating on his wife with an old co-worker.

Man shares

According to him, the said co-worker contacted him on Facebook and revealed that she was interested in him and is willing to do anything to be in his life.

After receiving the message, Maxwell who was lying in bed beside his wife, said he thought about the lady’s proposal and concluded that his wife doesn’t deserve to be cheated on.

Read his full post below,

“As I was sleeping with my partner last night �I got a notification from fb. I stood up to check; it was a friend request from a lady. I decided to go through her profile to know who she is. Finally, I found out that it was my old time coworker.

I accepted her friend request and she sent me a massage “Hello” since I was still online. I replied “Hi, I heard you are in a serious relationship ” I responded, “Yes”. she said, “I used to have a huge crush on you and I was afraid to tell you but I’m not afraid anymore✋really love you and I’m willing to do whatever it takes just to be part of your life”.

Hmmm�I quickly closed the chat to make sure my partner was sleeping�and I just slid off the bed and sat my ass down and asked myself is this girl worth my time�.

I looked at my lovely wife , she was deeply sleeping after the busy and exhausting day she had from taking care of our son and chores. As I was still looking at her, something came into my mind. “This woman doesn’t deserve to be cheated on, look at how safe and comfortable she’s sleeping in our bed. She really trusts me so much that I can’t hurt her” I started thinking, ” she left her family, her caring mother and father, who at all times were providing almost everything she needed and her siblings who always brightened her day. But she decided to leave all that behind just to come and share her entire life with me. All these thoughts and more were driving me crazy. Then I asked myself, “how can I do this wickedness to this innocent woman?”

So I hurriedly picked up my phone and hit the “BLOCK” button.I turned to my lovely wife and I rolled over to the bed and cuddled her and she adjusted herself to accommodate me�♥️ I can’t afford to lose her trust or make her cry. Never!

I really hope my bond with my partner doesn’t break, I really love my Ayanda Chantell Mnyambo ❤️�”

See his post below,

lalasticlala

I hail you ! He that fails in the time of temptation , his power is weak.
This one we know, how about the ones you didn't reveal .
You overcame this temptation. Another will come.

Mizwisdom:
Why was my previous post deleted?


Like I posted before, one Nigerian paid for the flight tickets of more than 700 stranded country folks in S.A does that make all Nigerians kind? what of the bro who gave N1 million to a beggar and translator right here in Nigeria? so because one White person pays your meal and complements your baby it means all Canadians are nice

lol ! Its very true. And depending on which province or city you live. Its magnanimous to say All Canadians or ALL anybody are nice.

I don't care what the Issue was - That's a crime wanton destruction of property. She should go to jail.

Righteousness2:

It's not a mistake or error.
Let me plug in loudly! Go to the LORD'S CHOSEN !

Fine ! But you want the brother to go to a near by bible believing church. Remember someone sows the word and reaps elsewhere. The goal shouldn't be church membership but heaven membership.

Ah dude ! What happened to you man.
Where are you picking up/meeting your women ?
You sound very very bitter on the inside and it's spilling out.
You haven't met a good one and it shows.
In the context of marriage - You need a good woman, unless you play on the other side.

I'll tell you a story of my older brother. nah.. I wont. You have made your position clear and Ill respect that.

Rule of thumb, I would have informed my babe what I was doing despite her reservations.
Win the verbal argument with your girl on why you bought the phone for her sister.
You have just sowed a seed of distrust going behind her back to do something she asked you not to do. How would you feel, if the tide was turned. ?
We know you are loaded - the display was not necessary, was it ? really ! dude.

Officialmaureen:
Hi everybody, I have never done this before but my boyfriend introduced me to nairaland land in 2019 and since then I have been a guest on this site, but today I joined to be able to write and apologize to him.....He has been nothing but good to me since 2019, I really love him so much to even do this here....
Am deeply sorry for having a fling behind ur back all this started because you stopped having my time always playing busy I had no one else so i started getting depressed. In order for me not to feel too bad I had to go out with kelvin and he was aware of the fact that I don't love him... Am just so sorry for being this stupid... I don't invade your privacy but u always go through my phone. And just this once I went out of the line u walked out on our 3 years relationship. I remember asking you for your phone just one time and I know what your reaction was Like.
You know am really Inlove with u, am not a perfect girl but I try to be good..pls dont throw away our tears, sufferings, praying times,good times too... I know how many times I see texts u feel I would not see but I over look them cos I see them like a one time thing..... I will always forgive and love u no matter what because that's how people who are married handle and still remain in their marriages. I have my bad sides too we all do pls forgive me this one last time....if u feel that some other girl out there won't cheat on you and truly love and care for then so be it nobody is a saint including you. But pls don't let our 3 years be in vain. Don't fall into the wrong hands please.
Am sorry and I truly love you official. I just wish you will read this.

" ......so be it, nobody is a saint including you." and this is an apology ?

beannmenX:
bastard next time say I AM, I AM , I AM. NOT AM . Or just use pidgin english.



Now the most important questions, did you suck his dick? Did you cum? Did you moan while he was pounding u? How many times did you cum?

I repeat , did you cum?

Oga na you be the boyfriend lol. Savage Comment.