I just discovered the person I have been friends with for over 8 months who I had thought would be interested in a relationship with me isn't really interested. I spoke to her yesterday night and she said no. I feel bad right now. But I know I will get someone better. I would play the game better too.
Gracedavid125: BBNaija housemates Vee and Wathoni had a quarrel last night over bed space.
Wathoni had earlier complained to Brighto and Kaisha about how Vee told her to leave the bed close to her that she was initially occupying.
Vee, overhearing the side talks, talked to Neo about it. While Neo and Vee were talking about Wathoni, she rose and confronted Vee.
The matter soon blew up into a noisy squabble with Vee telling Wathoni that she was fed up with Wathoni constantly making an issue over the bed matter and explained that her asking her to leave the bed was so that she could have more space for her stuff somewhere else.
In the heat of the argument, Vee told Wathoni that she is not okay in Yoruba language. Wathoni complained bitterly about the insult.
But instead of Vee apologizing, the argument got more intense, with Vee telling Wathoni that she would show her pepper.
She called Wathoni “stupid” and “olodo” before storming out of the room.
finaleeec: If you live arround ATAN Town ,There is a TOWN Called " Ajegunle " you can access the Town via ATAN as if you are going to Alapoti / Ado Odo .There is a Ritualist Den in that Town Of Ajegunle So beware ,if you have anyone that Plies that Road along Ajegunle from ATAN to Alapoti / Ado Odo warn them please .Many people have been Kidnapped by Ritualist there body cut to Pieces and only there Skeleton dumped and found .Recently i made a post of a 72 years old woman missing in that area on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6004490/70-years-old-madam-adefunke which the Moderator refused to push to the front page after several request ,Finnaly her dissembered body with little flesh and Skeleton with head cuts off was dumped in an Uncompleted building with very little of her tored clothes .The Team of Anti Kidnapping from.Eleweran arrived for some Investigation and they found that many people corpse remains were found such manner in the past .The Traditional leader has not done much at all in Revealing the Whole truth as he is concerned about concealing every Evils perpetrated there ,he prefers that such news should not be made Public so that people won't have a Negative impression about His Town.He has Successfully made efforts to bribe some Authority to calm.the whole issue down and keep it from publicity funny enough one Radio presenter on Faaji 106.5 met the Ajegunle Town Baale and after the meeting the radio presenter mentioned he withdrew from making the News Public ,I just wondered ,Another Radio presenter was hinted ,he is into exposing Evil acts in the Public also on Faaji 106.5 but His Service demands could not be met by the only daughter of the murdered woman .so she was helpless .rather the second Radio presenter would have Made it Public .Please if anyone knows how to get to our Radio stations please do to pass the News over to them ." Ajegunle Town via ATAN town in Ado odo OTA Local Government has a Den of Ritualist that kidnapped and kill people for Ritual Purpose the Baale of the Town is Called Idowu who owns a school at ATAN .No body can tell who might be the Next Victim ....Let's save lives please ...The Moderator on this Crime section does not care so please help to make this Viral .
Prestige001: There is this girl, we dated for one and half years before the major break up (not officially), the fault was from me due to insecurity, ego and i had other side chicks then. After 3 months, we bumped into each other, i tried to made up but she told me she is seeing someone else.
All this while i never knew i really loved her not untill we broke up. Now we have been seeing each other lately, she does anything a normal girlfriend would do, she would even inconvenience herself to make sure she satisfy me whenever i demand something from her (not sex).
Now old feeling have resucitated fully, we cant do without seeing each other nor talking to each other for a day. But whenever i asked her to come back to me fully she usually tells me she cant leave her boyfriend cos he havent offend her to to justify breaking up with him. But she told me she doesnt love him And i know too. cos i do check her phone, the communication between them is nothing to right home about, the guy doesnt appear in her chat list nor call history like me. I see this as having integrity
I really love this girl and i am very sure she loves me too (100percent), we are so connected naturally but the issue is this bf. If not i would have engage her cos she is a wife material. She does things for me she wouldn't do for her bf. I have asked her several times to choose i will be fine with whoever she chooses, she wept and told me point blank i shouldnt leave her again. She told me after i ceased communication with her in 3months then she was broken and now very scared what if i hurt her again. I told her i will seal things up if she dump the other guy for me. Now we are still in this issue 7month has passed.
All girls have been coming across it is either i dont develop any atom of feelings for them or we dont just connect, some of them like me very much but i love this girl more than any girl i have ever met.
Guys should i leave her again or just continue with her like this till her relationship die naturally with the other guy. Since shes doing a girlfriend role already?
Mature response please. Bashing is allowed too. Thanks as you bail me out of this one.
U lost a Gem bro..but relax, I see you truly love and care about her and you've really realised your mistakes. All you need do is to be persistent I'm making her see how repentant you are and if she is destined to be with you, she ll come back. Good luck
Sorry for thinking beauty is a yardstick for picking a wife...That's the problem with you ladies...u think we guys are stupid. We flirt with the girls with looks and marry the well groomed ones. So check ur all round character, it could be ur problem. Attitude is everything, remember.
Dicktion: 1. The guy that knows how to talk to girls and is always seen with girls hanging around him is seen as a leader and highly respected
2. The average looking girls (the 5 & 6s) are at least 7 times more promiscuous than the finest ones (8 & 10s)
3. 9 and 10s are the most loneliest girls as they tend to scare men away with their excessive beauty which translates to these men like she's a dick house.
4. The ones that bang all the time tends to get more pussy. The ones that lack pussy to bang even the small they get is swiftly snatched away from them. You can also find this concept in the holy book
5. No 9 and 10 lady has ever been thought of being single. Most often than not at least 70% are always single and they tend to be more faithful in a relationship than the average ones.
6. The guy that talks the most and seen as the secretary of the group is always the most timid when girls are around. They possess 100% confidence when with boys and a fluctuating 0.1 and 0.2 confidence when a lady is approaching from a mile away
7. The most quietest of the guy in a group is the most creative, devious and most at times the Master of evil plans
8. Girls that make too much noise about sex are the most weakest in bed. Likewise to guys. Most of the quiet ones are bombs
9. The most unserious student in a class/group is always the one with the sharpest memory. A huge percentage of the ones that show off in a class/group are on the average side.
10. The girl you don't like is the one that likes you and keep following you upandan
madone: my fellow gentle menh how far. it's like am not the only one in this matter arising. just entered twitter this morning and met a south African lady posted same thing about guys not putting more effort in chasing ladies these days. is it same in ur area. what is the cause of these things. is it that we are tired of toasting or now more prudent worth our spending? i was liking a lady and chatted her up but she was acting indifferent to my request so after a week of chat i just forgot about her and decided to let her be. just last week after about two months she chatted me up to say i forgot about her and stuffs like i gave up too quick. she was giving me.green lights to continue with the previous talk but i was not interested anymore .i have had more similar cases of recent of ladies coming back to say u forgot about them. and wanting u to pick up the old convo.
does it happen to you too gentlemen.
You women should blame yourselves for that...why will a dude stress himself when you keep telling them that all you need is d money.
I need you to post this for me. I am very angry and I want to know what other people think about this. I live in Abeokuta with my family. Recently, I travelled to Lagos and before I travelled, I told my cousin that is in Lagos that I might come over to stay with them for like a week or so.
I noticed she tried to make it look like their houses is not convenient, she said,no space abi their house is full. I was like,I will manage..no need to be worried about me getting comfortable. I told her except she does not want me to come. Later,she agreed.
When I arrived in Lagos,she paired me to sleep in the same room as her house girl. I noticed the girl did not like me. She was giving attitude right from the minute I got in. I was even shocked to see she was also giving attitude to my cousin.
Like 3 days later,I asked her help me boil water to bathe...she just told me that I should do it myself,that she does not work for me. I got angry and told my cousin. My cousin just kept quiet and told me to ignore her.
That made me think like...why is my cousin condoning this rubbish? I asked my cousin why...she said nothing. That she has had plenty house helps..that they are all the same. That if she keeps changing them...that how many will she change?
I was like...that response from my cousin is not making sense. To be honest, I decided to mind my business until the last day. After all,I am only visiting for one week. It was clear all is not well but I decided to mind my business if my cousin decided to manage the girl like that.
When I got back to Abeokuta,I called my cousin,just to say thank you for accommodating me and all. And then,I told her that.....
Born in Kwali village in Gwari, a Nothern region of Nigeria (FCT), until her death was a female potter because pottery was an indigenous female tradition in Kwali.
She received numerous awards which includes:
MBE: Member of the order of the British Empire (1962)
Honorary degree by ABU Zaria (1977)
NNOM: Nigerian National order of Merit Award (1980)
OON: Order of the Niger (1981)
Also a street is named after her in Abuja: Ladi Kwali road;
Also, Sheraton Hotel names their convention center after her.
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queensera: A Nigerian lady with the username @Chichi_Arinze on twitter has taken to the platform to warns against yahoo boys that are using ladies for rituals. According to the lady, any man that want to ask her out must provide his work ID and a letter of recommendation.
Below Is What She Wrote On Her Twitter Page:
So I hear yahoo boys are now using babes for rituals... From now onwards If you want to ask me out, you have to come with a copy of your work ID and a letter of recommendation from your boss. Thanks
Xinox: I started driving at 15 and became a defensive and trained driver at 19.Don't get me wrong, I am a graduate from one of the prestigious universities but my love for driving pushed me into a difficult situation. My Boss is a nice man and the wife will always want me in bed! How can I pay this Man that is so kind to me with evil. At 25 iam a mess if I can do this to a good man... I resigned from this job a week ago cos I can't tell the man this is what the wife is doing and the man keep asking me to come back to work. Please I am confuse, advise me.
You took the right and bold step ...dont go back. God who gave u the wisdom to flee portiphar's wife will get u another job. Respect man!
ScholarAcademy: Today, after closing from work somewhere on the island, I saw a guy holding up a placard on which his number and these words were written "Home Lesson Tutor". As motorists drove by, the guy held the placard advertising his service.
He might just be one of the private school teachers whose source of income has been cut for months.
Sometimes we criticize lazy people, but this is someone who is probably skillful and who advertisizes his service the way he can.
However, the question is: will people even trust him enough?
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Just listen to Nigerians, u didn't take photos of the placard so someone can maybe reach out to him? So wot then are telling us for? If it were an indecent dressed girl or stupid and senselesss scene, everyone will pull out their phones. We are our own problems in this country ,big time.
sanyablaze: Popular Nigerian On-Air Personality, Toke Makinwa has taken to her vlog to blast broke men who dream to date her for her money.
Toke said she’s tired of forming independent woman and she just wants to relax and be taken care of by a wealthy man who can afford to give her the good life.
According to her, any “young guy” who want to “dig” her is wasting his time.
She then went ahead to blast broke men who are gold diggers, waiting for her to fall in love with them and sponsor their dreams.
“You’ll now be telling me that I should follow your dream. Oloshi ma ni e. Dream. You’re still dreaming. If I was dreaming would you even meet me like this?” she said
sanyablaze: Popular Nigerian On-Air Personality, Toke Makinwa has taken to her vlog to blast broke men who dream to date her for her money.
Toke said she’s tired of forming independent woman and she just wants to relax and be taken care of by a wealthy man who can afford to give her the good life.
According to her, any “young guy” who want to “dig” her is wasting his time.
She then went ahead to blast broke men who are gold diggers, waiting for her to fall in love with them and sponsor their dreams.
“You’ll now be telling me that I should follow your dream. Oloshi ma ni e. Dream. You’re still dreaming. If I was dreaming would you even meet me like this?” she said
Honestly friends, forgive me but if there is any celebrity that I always feel like strangling each time she speaks, its this vain, gold digging Toke makinwa. Jeez!
Lamba42: Had a chat earlier this week with some of my older colleagues (very late 30's to Mid 40's) about 6 of us all together ,mind you they're all doing very well for themselves and rather successful.The topic came up concerning how everyone's relationship/flings were going and apparently the summary was..Money doesn't make a woman loyal to you ,in fact most(including me)were of the opinion that a woman's loyalty is by the grace of God. Each of them narrated stories about women they had spent huge funds, taken them on vacations(Commot naija o), gotten jobs for ,invested in businesses for them only to find out they were soliciting attention from other men via dm's and texts, and some even went as far sleeping with those other men, for reasons best known to them.Not all women are cheaters but it seems a lot of them just naturally enjoy being the Centre of attention for Multiple men. Please share your own Experiences .
The problem is with our men, a typical Nigerian man feels this sense of entitlement and ownership just because he helped a lady this raising such questions about loyalty or disloyalty.
Jakumo: Armed robbers caught in the act do certainly deserve instant death before they can muster return fire in an ambush, BUT, once they have been disarmed by vigilante men, the mandated sentence should be carried out AWAY from the public view, so as not to desensitize the public to acts of sadistic cruelty. Summary street mob lynchings list prominently among the notable characteristics of a failed state, so any post-firefight mopping up that needs doing in the wake of armed robbery failures, must NOT be carried out in view of a thousand camera phones, for the sake of international relations.
This normalizing of primal human savagery in which demonic instincts that lurk in so many peaceful looking citizens are unleashed, will only serve to breed generations of cold-blooded killers capable of inflicting the most unspeakable cruelty on other people without missing a heartbeat. This encouragement of "frontier justice", should therefore be curtailed in any society that aspires to the status of being a modern, civilized democracy.
That beautifully executed and courageous ambush laid by vigilante men as the bank robbers fled with their loot after murdering several people including at least one paramilitary Mobile-Police sentry at the bank, was a tactical and strategic triumph that both neutralized all the fleeing killers, while also serving notice for the honest word to see, as to the fate that might befall any future attempts to rob banks in the town where this "High Noon" gun-play unfolded.
U shouldn't be the judge of that, that's y we have law enforcement and security operatives...there is absolutely no excuse for jungle justice my brother. Taking a man's life in the most gory and gruesome manner. Without rules , we are savages.
tnerro1: My girl was in my place recently and while I was watching a movie, she was on her phone chatting. She got up from where she was and came to sit beside me and we had this conversation: Babe: Do you love me? Me: babe i do na and you know I do. Babe: how do I know you do?
In my mind I said see this one ooo, probably one mugu guy has been rolling on the floor, fooling himself just to prove he loves her and she was probably wondering why I wasn’t doing the same. So I pulled her close, looked into her eyes and said,
Me: babe, like water inside coconut, my love for you can’t be explained but it can be expressed. So I kissed her and put my hand under her top towards her breast, she laughed, jumped up and when towards the kitchen, talking happily on her phone. I was like chai, this girl don escape oooo
So have you ever been asked and how did you respond?
Love is overrated, mates..and Until we start telling ourselves this ugly truth, we may never understand but keep coming up with such exhausting threads.
For me, compatibility is the ideal and real thing. What do you think has kept our parents for up to 30, 40 and perhaps 50 or more years in their marriages? U think it's love?
Great100000: “I Can't leave My Boyfriend", Lady tells a Guy after Collecting 10K See Leaked Chats
Good day My People I'm going to bring to you a reality base story about how Chima was scammed by a girl he has been trying to make his girlfriend friend for long now.
I believe true love comes from the heart not how much your pucket can give, Some girls nowadays like to extort cash unnecessary from guys who tends to love them and use advantage of this, But not every girls.
According to his friend, Chima is a very loving guy although he is single beacuse of the way relationship has affected him, he stays alone. There has always been this girl Chima has been wanting to be his girlfriend but no response from the girl, Chima also tried getting 2 two of her numbers he succeeded but she only responded to him once.
So on a faithful day Doris the girl Chima has been trying to get attention and love from chatted him on WhatsApp not knowing that she wanted something from him that moment.
Romance › Re: Finally I Have Known The Truth by Rickmann: 9:19am On Aug 05, 2020
No 10 and it's vice versa too
