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Maybe they are strictly following their Lawyers' plan.

Bishop Oyedepo and Pastor Chris Oyakhilome are taking this too far.

Maybe she's a neutral football follower. It's hard to switch teams.

I hope she gets help. I don't know why some ladies are putting stress on themselves. Sometimes, they are better off without husbands. Don't just marry anybody because you are getting old, it may lead to your death.

In 2020, we shouldn't be burying people at home. For Christ sake, we need to have moved ahead. They may want to sell the house in the future. This is what somebody's grave turn to:

Ask the guy that promised u. If ghost could get a job in Nigeria, then what's stopping a human being with 3rd class. Impossible is nothing in Nigeria.

Gbangasawyer:
Please, I need urgent advice, I graduated with 3rd class but have applied for fg job and was promised by one Oga please won't my 3rd class affect me??

E-money is into Oil & Gas

KanwuliaExtra:
E Money. . . . You are next!
All these E-monIES wey dey miss roads!

Always flashing wealth like the STARK-illiterates they are.

The stupidity of the highest level. Ode. I am very sure it's more than deportation. It's either drug-related or general crime-related. If you are deported, you still have hope when you return. If you are jailed, you still have hope that someday you will be free. If you are sentenced to death, there is still a little glimpse of hope cos you might be miraculously or diplomatically pardoned. Now you ran into your death, all hope is lost.

It makes sense. At least, we must be able to feed ourselves.

Was her problem financial? I think the post didn't specify what led to her depression. She said people promising her but cancelling/postponing. Truly, it could be financial help but it could also be something else.
There is one area of depression that we are not paying attention to in Nigeria. I know most of our depression is caused by finances but hormonal imbalances and family history could also cause it. There is no amount of money or numerous counselling that could talk anyone out of it. Some depression medicines and therapy have to be involved.

GOFRONT:
Where are the "Suicide is not the best option crew"...

Well, something must kill a man or woman.

Rip Folashade. Someone would have intervened financially but in this present day Nigeria where everybody wants to be or claim to be financially smarter than the other.....

Where an Only one man has 58 bank accounts, 42 facebook names, 67 twitter handles, 44 Nairaland Monikers, 78 Email accounts, then it would be Difficult to Distinguish the REAL NEEDY from the FAKE Needy.....This is the Nigeria we found ourselves...

Meanwhile, while Folashade's tragic demise is understood, I'd never understand why Steve Bing had to commit suicide.

Give her just a card but no major gift. Just watch her reaction. From her reaction, you can decide if she's money freak or wife material.

Depression does not respect your status or wealth. You may have everything working for you and still get depressed. Please, research more about the subject. Life issue is not just the cause. Some hormone imbalances could cause it too. Also, some people have a history of depression/mental issue in their families.

Kobicove:
How can a 55year old man who is relatively well to do say he is suffering from depression.

He's a nut case as far as I'm concerned!

Number 4 is very important for guys coming from a poor background. it may look as if you are selfish in the beginning but people around you will see the advantage in the future. You must weigh higher than the people you are trying to save from drowning or else, all of you are going down together. E.g A new graduate who just finds a job should try and save for investment so that he can create passive income in case he loses the job. Unfortunately, that's he will start sharing money to family and friends. Somebody that travels out of the country that supposes to get an education first will start sending money home, after 10 years abroad he will find himself stuck on menial jobs. "The boy is good, apa lo n jebe"

Number 8 is very great too. Confidence attracts people to you. You can't sell anything if you are not confident about it. How can I believe in what seems you don't believe in? You always doubt yourself, how will a lady/guy believe in you. Accept yourself first. Accept things that can't be changed like height, race, etc. Safely change the things that can be changed without breaking the bank if you think it will give you more confidence. Like losing weight.

olabrinks:
1. Maintain your weight whilst your young. Not watching your weight will give you series of problem later on in life. Exercise and eat properly.

2. Dont be with someone who’s family do not like you. It is an everlasting battle that you will eventually lose.

3. You will not gain respect trying to please everyone. Stand up for yourself and always speak your mind.

4. Only share things when you are established. People are envious and will try to destroy your plans if you share too quickly.

5. Listen more than you talk.

6. Social skills are paramount for getting further in life. You must learn how to make solid connections.

7. Elders do not know it best

8. Confidence is more valuable than looks

9. Your family doesn’t always want the best for you

10. No one will values you until you hit it big.

11. Be careful with alcohol. It is addictive and very accessible, probably the worst drug out there.

These are just some of mine, feel free to contribute some of yours.

I think Real Madrid will win the League. They are going to throw everything in to win the remaining 8 games. Barcelona may even drop more points cos they still have to play Athletico Madrid.

I hope our people listen. Some people want to use 1k Naira to win 100k Naira. It can happen but what is the chance.

Some people bet, some people bet like trading. Those people that bet like trading involve a lot of statistics to reduce their chance of losing. As it is in every business, some people enter without understanding the nitty-gritty, some people get into it well prepared. I know some people that win so much that betting companies limit their accounts or ban them. They have to be staking by proxies. Some people win in Casino so much that they will get a life ban. Please watch a documentary titled "breaking Vegas". You will see how a group of MIT mathematicians broke blackjack by counting numbers and they won so much that all Casino's in Las Vegas banned them.

I don't encourage betting but if you want to do it, stake what you can afford to lose. Also, stake with a plan. Your chance of winning by packing 20 draws in a slip is almost zero, maybe once in 20yrs. The chance of Leicester City winning Premier League is like once in 100 years except they got a new buyer like Man City, PSG and Co. Our people don't research enough before doing business. We are a bit lazy research-wise. The same applies to forex. I remember a few years ago when people are shouting forex all around, I warned them that Forex is not a child's play. Many burnt their fingers. They went for a day training and think they've understood all principles affecting currencies to go up or come down. What some Economists spent 5 or 7 years of their lives in the University to study, a small boy in Mushin thought a 4-hr training is enough for him to start trading.

I think he got an Opera voice. He needs education and more voice training.

Congrats.
Please, if it's IVF, tell our people so that we can remove the stereotype. That's what late Ibidun Ighodalo was fighting for. The majority of these multiple births at old age are not natural but most of them don't want to tell people because some will be calling their children test-tube babies.

You are right. Sebi video games even give you the option to test your brilliance but in virtual games, you are waiting for results that have already been programmed. I don't know why are youths our doing this to themselves. Akin Alabi, Kunle Soname are billionaires. Do you know Kunle Soname, the owner of bet9ja even owns a small club in Europe?

comshots:
Even in video games it is hard to defeat the computer opponent you are playing with not to talk of virtual soccer gamble.The computer game will do you ojoro if you are better than it.I play bet9ja a lot but I have never attempted virtual soccer.If I go to a bet9ja shop to stake a live soccer bet and another customer came in after me to play virtual soccer the cashier will first attend to the virtual soccer customer before he attend to me because he will make more money from him than me.Even the #100 wey I dey stake E dey pain me gan if I lose.Especially when one game cut my #50k winning.

Idiot. Virtual games.
I don't know how people think. Betting real games is an issue on its own but betting virtual programmable games is disgusting. You are programmed to lose except you win now and run away. There is no way you win now and run away. If you win, you wanna try more. In real games, your destiny is in the hands of human beings. In virtual games, your destiny is in the hands of bots. The bots have been programmed to always win.
Nigerians wise up, Akin Alabi, Kunle Soname and Co are smiling to the bank every weekend.

Weak leaders. Some stupid emotional followers will also fall for this. Great leaders are not determined by a cry. Great leaders take responsibilities. Great leaders act. Did you see Andrew Cuomo, Boris Johnson or Giuseppe crying up and down when their people are dying of COVID-19?

Correct

Maybe you've not heard about multiple streams of income.
You are highly disrespectful to women.. I hope you don't have one at home. You think she can't achieve ordinary Venza with her hard work. I have 3 workaholic sisters trying different businesses and they barely sleep. I would have given you a dirty slap if one of them bring a nice car home and you are asking if body is involved.

Gforce2015:
How much are they paying per show that she will put together to buy Venza car luxury. Of course, she uses her pussy in exchange for Venza.
Yoruba movie producers don't pay much money...

Shut your stupid mouth up. Let's respect women. Why do we always think women can't achieve anything without their body. Will you be happy if someone asks your hard-working mum or sisters such question if they achieve something.

ajimotoke:
Congrats dear, I hope your body is not included if you know you know.

Our Pastors acts are chasing people away from Christianity. Religion does not suspend your brain. America is a good example of a country that finds the balance. The country is littered with Churches too but they didn't suspend their brains. Although, their Pentecostal Churches misbehave too.
I will advise you to still embrace spirituality even if you are leaving organized religion. This world is truly beyond 3-dimensional space and there are many forces around that we can't see. Trust me, I have experienced a lot.
Embracing Jesus (Yehusua) is a form of spirituality. We've seen the name work several times and when we quote some of His words, they have worked wonders. The IFA people too have their own form of quotations (incantations) working for them. Muslims have their own too working for them. Find a form of spirituality you are comfortable with. I believe Christianity is an easy one with less stress to deal with. You don't need a goat or chicken for sacrifice. You only need to be sacrificing those animals into your mouth. You don't have to be rushing to kneel down 5x a day, you can pray while driving and reserve the kneeling for work out time. You don't need to pay any priest to cast a lot, just give that money to your needy neighbour. The religion is very easy, but the greediness in some of our Pastors make it looks like rocket science.

Girls nowadays are very desperate. I don't know what is going on. In fact, they are now boldly selling charms to hook men. There are many vendors of such charms on Instagram.

EzzyCarter:
The main prayer is may we not jam agbako . No matter how careful one is, na God fit save person. Imagine bringing her over in the afternoon and something happens to her. Although OP definitely has a point. Bringing a girl to pass the night in times like these is high risk asides the whole girl dying scenario, consider your own safety as well.

Had this experience with a lady. We weren't dating but we used to hang out and feck each other's brains out. So she came to sleep over that night (her first time). We kept chatting and stuff and aunty kept asking me when I'd sleep. Lmao. As a real gee, I never sleep with my two eyes closed. She later slept off and then I did too. Woke up by midnight to see her bending over me in bed checking to see if I was still sleeping. So I pretended I was still sleeping. (I even gave her fake snore) . She stood up and tip-toed to where her bag was. She took out a razor blade and a small paper and came over to the bed. She softly grabbed a few strands of my hair, trying to cut it with the blade. Twas then I held her hand and I shoved her and rose up then she started begging and all. She said she was pranking me. What kinda prank is that? The rest is history sha.
I cant imagine what would av happened if she had succeeded in stealing my hair tho... be careful out there guys. Not every lady you see is an angel . God save us all..

20 years will be 15-16 years in real Calendar. He will be back at 47.

If he snitched enough, he might be getting 5 years and that will be 4 years in real Calendar.

Borehole is a timebomb. It's getting too much in Lagos especially on the Island. Almost every house in Lagos is now drilling one. We are creating a lot of weak zones within the subsurface structures. In the future, this may cause some tremors. I hope Govt fix the root cause by fixing our Water Corporations.

As early as possible to avoid wasting time. It's not a big deal to some people, it's a big deal to some people.

Not the first date though except if you talk along the line and the question pop up.

Mr Man, come here, where are you going

What about women giving cars as acceptance gift

I am confused with this write-up, sometimes Adewale is referred to as a man, sometimes as a lady. Are there two Adewale's in the article?