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The page opened will surely be Psalm. Religion sha. Before I got understanding, I used to put Bible under my pillow.

Gbenga Adeboye
Whitney Houston

Wow. What a wisdom! When the whole city starts smelling like poo, nobody will force people to go inside.

She has to convince her parents. If not, don't waste your time. I don't know some parents are still shortsighted to that extent in 2020. There are a lot of PhD holders that will box their daughter to stupor at home. I am not HND has automatically made you responsible, but you are the one she loves.

I think we should work with Madagascar. They are getting something right. African countries should work together

Orubebe01:
why not we reach out to Madagascar for the drugs they discovered, is it because it is an African country

This 2020

Keep deceiving yourself.34?

You are doing well!

I don't know where you live, if in Lagos that money may not go very far. If that money can go far in the city where you live, consider building like 4 2-br or 6 2-br or 3 3br terraces. Just build something that occupies you and also brings rental income. Remember, this is not your last house and you still have many years ahead of you. So, you don't need a lot of comfort for now.

You can never go wrong if you buy original verifiable land in a good place. Also, building project will make you more responsible in spending. You already know where your income is going before it comes. Please, don't rest on your laurel. You are not there until you have passive income.

You destroyed your wife psychologically. I doubt if she can ever gain her confidence back. You may have to hire a therapist to help her.
Start where everybody always starts, call it devil's handiwork, say you were charmed. Don't expect the relationship to pick up immediately. It will take a while.
Welcome back home, the prodigal son.

Depends on the woman's body but I think 2 or 3 months of healing won't be a bad idea.

Trust me you cannot control another adult decision. You can only influence them. Keep being real to her. Don't do more what you've been doing. Don't enter debt to impress her. Keep assuring her your loyalty. If she finds a reason to go back to her ex, don't take it as the end of the world.

RIP Mama. Sun re o
Please next time, give us a responsible child.

Haruna

whytediamond:
What's his first name again ?

Are they not the one that asked how they can help us. Let them deal with Nigerians. Do they expect Nigerians to be requesting for highlights?

This guy got me. Credit us individually

It's normal to be emotional when she saw that he's engaged. If you are sure she has really gotten over her ex, then past is past. This is a new chapter of her life.
I guess Op is just imagining different kind of acts someone who has lived as campus couple may have done. Ladies learn from this, you don't have to be detailing your past relationship especially if he has no negative effects on your present one, but don't keep vital secrets like;
if you have kids
if you have divorced before
if you are SS
if you don't have a womb
if you have recurrent ailments
if you have a major scar cover-up by makeup

If you are 30 and above and you have a secret like those aforementioned info, pls inform him as early as possible. Maybe 3/4 weeks into the relationship. So, if he's cool with them, he can stay. If not, he should leave. No time to waste.

Jesus, how can a lady value herself 1k Naira. That's disgusting

I am surprised many still fall for those fire-spitting shenanigans. People just go to Church for fun in Nigeria. 95% of Nigerian Christians easily lie in times of trouble. The average unbeliever in America has more integrity than 90% of Nigerian Pastors.
I am surprised you didn't pick all those errors during courtship. Right now divorce may not really be the solution. If she's not a fetish, continue to pray and talk to her.

2020 is a year

Don't try it. Continue your tailoring job, keep acquiring more skills, get a degree through a part-time program (if you don't have any). Also, expose your business through social media. Those girls going for your yahoo boys are not even home material and you will regret if you have one of them at home.

If it's just charm, under the law, he has not done anything wrong. So far, he didn't commit a crime to make the charm. A crime like using human parts.

Don't do it. Don't use 10mins enjoyment to destroy your family and your wife's family.
Stay inside the bedroom anytime your wife goes for gossiping. I believe your wife's sister has no access to your bedroom. Another way, You too can step out to talk with guys in ur streets immediately your wife leaves the house. Trust me, if you keep seeing and thinking about those nipples, you will fall someday.
In another vein, why is ur wife not staying with you? There are four people living under your roof, why does your wife find solace outside? Are you boring? Can't you gossip with her?

I am happy for her.

Hallelujah

Talk to him about health implications of what he's doing. If you have money, consult experts. Sex addiction is real, experts will find a way to help him. I hope he agrees. In the meantime, research about other ways you can relieve him aside from penetration. Learn those ways perfectly that he'll derive great enjoyments in them. You can research education materials about other ways to relieve him in case you guys are not practising them yet.

Wow. This could the beginning of a new era for Africa. If Africa doesn't learn from this COVID-19, then we can never learn again. Our Messiahs (Europe, America) can't even help themselves at this moment.

Please, go for the extraction if you can afford it. Negotiate with the dentist, maybe 20k could be considered. A stitch in time saves nine.

Pray and God will direct you. It may just be a coincidence.

I respect Islamic rights but I think they should not rush to bury these people. We need to do forensic analysis to find out what is killing these guys.

It's a great idea. I believe God can heal. It cost Govt nothing. We have many healing Pastors in this country. Will the Pastors be on PPE?

This guy should "pipelow" during this period. Nigerians eyes are red. They may kidnap his parents.