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ObamaMessi:
I'm proudly moma's bwoy.I'm 19, a big boy not 17.

Start learning useful skills now, forget about foods etc.

Threesha:
From DM

Tell her I said her mates are finishing NYSC and she's there talking nonsense.



How can she say she's a failure even before starting life?


I dey vex sef, I would like to reset her coconut head.



Make she no waste her parents' hard earned money sha, what a painful waste that will be.

bmdmix14:
Believe @ ur own pere.
To save face she don relocate.

Or bloggers just dey find more views

Change your search to

'can canine brucellosis kill human?'

If you allow sex without protection in this Nigeria, OYO is your case.



Her boyfriend should go for testing.




Chai.

FirstPostNig:
DUMO LULU-BRIGGS: A BELOVED SON PLAGUED BY THE SPIRIT OF ABSALOM

“The family is entangled in a succession and inheritance battle to determine who is the proper person to spearhead and ensure the permanency of the Chief O. B. Lulu-Briggs legacy. But history is replete with stories of how Kingdoms, communities and families go into long and arduous search for worthy successors to uphold the cherished legacies of forbearers and ancestors. King Saul was anointed because he was head and shoulder above his peers and King David was chosen because he had fought off lions from devouring the family herd. King Amachree was a warrior King that led his people to war against enemies...At the center of the crisis are the second son of the late High Chief O.B. Lulu-Briggs, Chief Dumo Lulu-Briggs, who is the incumbent chief of the family and the all-powerful widow of the late High Chief, Mrs. Seinye Lulu-Briggs.”

~Sotonye Ijuye,
Spokesman and Publicist for Dumo Lulu-Briggs as published on his Facebook page on 21 October at 9:57am as well as across other media platforms.
The raging crisis in the family of respected Nigerian statesman and renowned philanthropist, High Chief Dr. O. B. Lulu-Briggs is erroneously believed and being contrived by Dumo and his associates, as the above quote shows, as being between his wife, Dr. Mrs. Seinye O. B. Lulu-Briggs and his second son, Chief Dumo Lulu-Briggs. That narrative is not accurate. The crisis has always been between Dumo and his father over Dumo’s scheming and hostile attempts to take possession of his father’s wealth in his lifetime. His stepmother, Mrs Seinye Lulu-Briggs’ only concern at this time is the unnecessary delay by Dumo of the burial of their patriarch’s earthly remains. This is the crux of her public and private entreaties to him, personally and through other intervening mediators on the issue.

Ordinarily, the common ambition of sons to continue their father’s legacies is a worthy one. However, when greed and ambition drive them to rebel against the very object of their admiration, it becomes the cause of great anguish and distress for their families and communities. Invariable their efforts fail.

The long and bitter historic public battle between Dumo and his father dates back to the late 1990s. It is a battle that is both reminiscent and reflective of the biblical narrative of the life of Absalom, the son of King David who, like Dumo, also sought, but failed, to overthrow his father as King.

The biblical description of Absalom states that he was his father, King David’s favourite son, even though he was not his first son just like Dumo. Dumo is actually High Chief Lulu-Briggs’ second son. His charming ways, salacious tongue, personal brilliance and attractiveness; his love of magnificence, and royal courtesies captured the hearts of the people, in the same vein as it is with Dumo.

THE LAVISH AND OBSCURE LIFESTYLE OF THE MOST BELOVED SON

The bible says that Absalom lived lavishly, drove in a magnificent chariot, and had fifty men on his convoy. Despite this outward show of leadership, very little was known about Absalom’s own family life. Perhaps, you too are now wondering if there could be a better model mirroring Chief Dumo Lulu-Briggs’ lifestyle, right?

Does Dumo have a personal family life? Who has ever received an invitation from Chief and Mrs Dumo Lulu-Briggs for a housewarming party, a birthday party or a naming ceremony or graduation? Has anyone ever received any invitation from him for a ceremony involving any of his siblings, like his sisters’ engagement parties, wedding invitations, his father’s birthdays or even his father’s marriages? Not to mention the numerous other events associated with his father’s active social life?

THE GRAND USURPATION BY THE MOST BELOVED SON

Absalom killed his elder brother, Ammon. Similarly, Dumo appears to have extinguished the light of his elder brother Senibo. According to the Kalabari custom, that Dumo is upholding, it is the first son’s responsibility to buy his demised father’s coffin. However, at a recent Oruwari Briggs compound meeting, in the presence of all the chiefs and compound members, Chief Dumo was said to have publicly announced that at the risk of “being braggadocios,” he had “bought the most costliest casket in the world” to bury his father. A clear violation of Kalabari tradition, going by his high regard and demands on tradition against his stepmother.

After pleas from Joab and others, Absalom was forgiven by his father. In the case of Dumo, Kings, Chiefs and Clergy pleaded with the High Chief, and he too was forgiven for publicly humiliating and nearly shocking his father to death. Absalom was so anxious to be King that he allowed the pulsating rage of his vaunting ambition to guide his actions when he came back to his father’s Kingdom. He conspired against his father, behind his back, and without fully disclosing to his own associates what his real intentions were. Eventually he showed his hand, waging a bitter war against his father. Interestingly, Absalom failed in spite of crowning himself King. In the same vain Dumo was impatient with a father who loved him so dearly but apparently refused to, or was too slow to die.

The story of Absalom and his father King David has so many parallels to that of Dumo and his father High Chief O. B. Lulu-Briggs.

It is an open secret that like Absalom, Dumo was his father’s favourite son. And like Absalom, in 1998 after being employed into Moni Pulo Limited by his father, Dumo plotted to take over the oil company, behind his father’s back. Having perfected his plans, in 2002/2003 he made his moves. First, he sent letters out to the company’s key stakeholders introducing a purported new management formed by him, and casting aspersions on his father’s.

Next, in the company of a group of people who had been dismissed from the company, Chief Dumo physically led thugs and forcefully took over the company’s then Lagos office on 18 Festival Road in Victoria Island, Lagos.

THE PLOT TO DISPLACE THE FATHER

In a letter dated 26 August 2002 written to the Commissioner of Police, Rivers State Command referring to the siege, High Chief O. B. Lulu-Briggs stated that, “The said Dumo is one of my sons now occupying my office together with other dismissed staff and has threatened to shoot me if I continue to demand from him my Naira investments in banks (which he fraudulently withdrew without my knowledge or consent) and other company documents in his possession.

“In his bid to humiliate and shock me to death and make me beg for food from him, he fraudulently wrote to my bankers in London making himself and his cohorts… (names, including that of a current Bank Managing Director, withheld for now)…signatories to my company account with intention to liquidate the account,” High Chief lamented.

High Chief revealed, “I employed him in my company in 1998,” but regretted that “…he has since then tried to scheme and strip me of all powers and all funds and of my life.” He sought the then Commissioner of Police’s help, “I am appealing to you to intervene and save my life, my family and property and the life of my staff.”

Even though Dumo’s efforts were gallantly thwarted by his father. He did not relent.

In 2003, under the fraudulent guise of being a Director and shareholder of Moni Pulo Limited, in order to perfect his ambitious scheme, Dumo sought to conceal, regularize and formalize his fraudulent actions by filing suit FHC/ABJ/09/548/2003, at the Federal High Court, Abuja. Through it he sought an order of mandatory injunction compelling the Corporate Affairs Commission “to accept for filing and registration all the resolutions” of Moni Pulo Limited passed at its purported and fake Extra Ordinary General Meeting of August 15, 2003.

When he failed, once again Dumo dragged his father to the Federal High Court, this time in Lagos, and yes you guessed right- on behalf of Moni Pulo Limited. He sought to remove High Chief Lulu-Briggs from the ownership and management of his own company, maintaining that it was a family business that he falsely alleged his father was mismanaging.

As part of the suit, FHC/L/CS/1156/03 Dumo stated that:

An Extra-Ordinary General Meeting on the August 15, 2003 had purportedly removed his father as a director and chairman of the company and appointed himself, Director and Managing Director/ Chief Executive Officer of the company. So just like Absalom, he dethroned his ‘biological’ father and placed himself at the helm of Moni Pulo Limited.

Going further, he sought an order of court to compel his father “to surrender all the company’s chattels and properties in his possession including but not limited to BANK DOCUMENTS, CHEQUE BOOKS AND VEHICLES.” He also sought injunctions restraining his father or anyone associated with him from among other things “WITHDRAWING OR ASSERTING CONTROL OVER ANY OF THE FUNDS of the company maintained in banks within and outside Nigeria” and “from acting or parading himself or continuing to act or parade himself as director or Chairman of plaintiff” being Moni Pulo Limited.

THE GREAT LOVE OF A FATHER

The scandalous battle raged on until High Chief O. B. Lulu-Briggs was compelled to enter into a settlement agreement with Dumo through which Chief bought Dumo’s purported shares back for Moni Pulo Limited. All was forgiven and there was a truce for some time as his father continuously prayed and hoped that his dear son would repent. This, of course, brings to mind King David’s anguish after Absalom murdered his elder brother Ammon in broad daylight and ran away to his mother’s people. The loving father eventually sent for Absalom after three years. Two years later they reconciled.

However, in the case of Dumo and his father the respite was short lived. Dumo struck again in 2004. This time representing his two brothers, Senibo and Sofiri, who he had implicated in his initial scheme and fraudulently assigned Moni Pulo Shares and appointed as Chairman and Director respectively.

THE PLOT THICKENS

True to character, Dumo used the law and courts recklessly. This time, charging High Chief Dr. O.B. Lulu-Briggs in London and Houston. Once again, his father was forced to the negotiating table. Once again, he parted with money. Once again, he forgave his Dumo, his Senibo and his Sofiri. But their relationships with their father were strained and remained so until his passing.

However, just like Absalom, Dumo’s scheming continued. He stayed close and kept a tab on goings on in his father’s home. Like clockwork he would strategically turn up and take photographs with his father, usually at the end of gatherings where his father was being honoured, birthdays, and even whenever his father required hospital care. This explains why he would visit and take a photograph of his father who had just emerged from a coma and post it on social media and publish it across other media platforms in a bid to prove that he was not estranged from him and they had a close relationship.

THE CONSPIRACY AGAINST A WIDOW

Today, the impression is being given that Dr. (Mrs.) Seinye O. B. Lulu-Briggs is the problem. Dumo has called her all sorts of unprintable names, personally and through his acolytes. Dumo has made disrespectful references to the matriarch of the O.B. Lulu-Briggs family and its other children, his siblings. He has recklessly accused her of killing her beloved husband although he has all material facts contradicting his claims about his father’s demise. He uses his father’s body privately as a bargaining chip with his stepmother for the possession of his father’s estate, while he blackmails her in public to surrender the phantom assets belonging to his father he believes she is in possession of, as he told her he would do, right in front his own pastor.

A RELENTLESS PURSUIT OF THE ABSURD AND IMPENDING DOOM

Just as Absalom pursued his father with his last breath, Dumo is relentlessly pursuing his father, even in death. He has dragged his father’s body to be dissected in the name of autopsy, without cause.

The autopsy has been done but the report is pending. The preliminary results indicate that Dumo’s father died of cardiac arrest. Yet, he wants his father’s body to be brought out and dissected again through another autopsy. In the meantime, the two pathologists that represented him in the July 19, 2019 autopsy, Dr. Francis Adedayo Faduyile, the current President of the Nigerian Medical Association, who was flown to Ghana for the exercise, and renowned Ghanaian pathologist Professor Agyeman Akosa observed the autopsy and have not disputed its preliminary findings to this very day. Can someone please ask Dumo what he is looking for?

Chief Dumo Lulu-Briggs can put a stop to the wicked public spectacle he is subjecting his family to now and save himself the divine consequence that followed the case of Absalom whose spirit appears to drive his actions. While King David and High Chief both forgave their sons in spite of all they did to them, Absalom’s insistence in pursuing the despicable was his ultimate ruin.

High Chief (Dr.) O.B. Lulu-Briggs’ in his Will has directed that he wishes to be buried and for his funeral services to be simple and done in the Kalabari tradition, as allowed by his Christian beliefs. May God grant his solemn wishes.

Oraye St. Franklyn
Spokesman, Dr. Mrs. Seinye Lulu-Briggs

This appears to be a one-sided story.

Hotbreadandbean:
The parents are even supporting her, her mum is 43 and hasn't reached menopause yet, she's also planning to do it cos her daughter told her the hospital is offering 180k

Just let them be.


At least you have done your bit.

Hotbreadandbean:
Hmmm, I dunno how to talk this girl out of it o, she already has an appointment with a doctor tomorrow

Well, legally, she is an adult, so, you cannot be made responsible for whatever goes wrong.



But then, why not call her parents and tell them today?



They might be able to prevent her.

HiFive:
I have a problem. I don't know if its really a problem but this often happens to me. I see I girl I like, I walk to her, tell her how I feel about her, we exchange contact and later do all the follow ups and stuffs but eventually looses my interest for her for no good reason at all. Just like that puff, every thing gone to the wind.

Then fast forward few weeks later and she calls complaining how I have abandoned her how I don't care about her no more... And this kinda makes me feel sorry for them and also makes me ponder that maybe I'm not cut out for relationship shenanigans. But I'm cool tho.

...and another same episode begins.

You've already had sex with them.


That's why you lost interest.


It's the game

DarlingtonC:
He doesn't have money. And he's making it sound like I should give him for free

Tell him you're sorry but he has to pay, else, your bus is going nowhere.

cococandy:
:l
Nope. I’m not. Why would I be kidding?
Selling eggs for a phone?

First of all the process isn’t as easy as when men go donate sperm. It’s more tedious. Requires multiple fertility treatments and hormones so that the woman can produce multiple eggs during one cycle. The extraction is painful as well. Plus the hormones have side effects. Why someone would go through all that for something minuscule as a phone is what I’m not understanding. That’s why I said I’ve never seen that before.
I know one lady who did hers to get $10k to pay some part of her nursing school tuition. That makes sense. But for phone is just weird

Now I understand why you said you've never seen that before.



Truly, I was surprised that she did all that for a phone. But hunger and the fear of it makes people do the most stupid things.

Hotbreadandbean:
Hmmm, was there any side effects to it? Asking for a friend she's around 21 yrs old, I'm trying to discourage her from doing it but she's hellbent, I just hope she won't regret it in the future

It's more suitable for ladies who already have kids. Because they are simply giving out what they don't need.





Anyone who takes eggs from someone who has never had kids is wicked in my opinion.

JovialJune:
There are several consequences for the procedure, she can experience bleeding when the needle is inserted to her ovaries, damage to the bowel, bladder, or nearby blood vessels, infections etc.

That is why I said my concern is possible malpractice.



Could you please read through before quoting?


This is the second time you're rushing to quote me before reading properly.

Larryfest:
Ahahaha pls don't make me laugh... More eggs to sell Even this one she sold I'm so pissed off about it, who knows if there will be consequences later.

Medically, there is no consequence to the procedure, but my concern is possible malpractice.



She should have told you so you can watch out for her.

cococandy:
I’ve never heard of something like this before

cococandy, you're kidding, right?

Abetterperson:
I don't really fancy married at all, it as to do with my upbringing I never grow up in a stable home and I found happiness when my parents were apart rather than together. I really don't like the idea of marriage because I see it as a cage, mind you im not totally against it I just think it wouldn't suit me, I never grew up in a family home so I don't know how to build one.

A guy asked me out and I agreed only on the condition that we wouldn't get married, he refused saying what's the point of the relationship if it wouldn't lead to marriage, even though I don't like the idea of marriage I do want to feel loved and wanted, I still do want kids and some sort of companionship, as crazy as it sounds I just want a baby daddy, I wouldn't have a child with him because I want to money, nop I'm already trying to establish myself, I really want to be financially independent so as to take care of my kids
Now the main reason I don't want marriage is because of my Independence, I don't want to answer to anyone at all and I know it will be difficult if I'm married to someone because in every marriage there is a level of dependence that is needed to make the marriage work, whether you are a man or woman u don't just do what you like especially when there is a child involved, secondly I'm thinking about the emotional stress my kids will go though if the marriage doesn't work, I don't want my child to grew up with memories of dad beating mum, mum shouting at dad, mum throwing a knife at dad and incase I do divorce I don't want my child to be in a state of depression, thirdly most Nigeria men treat their wives as trash, I Know what I'm talking about they don't value their wives, some see them as property other than an actual human being, some think of their wives as house maids and will refuse to do anything in the house or even allow the woman to get a help, some are also serial cheaters and don't see anything wrong with cheating because as they put it "I be man". Now I know that some women are equally as bad but I'm just stating my concern as a woman after all I'm not going to walk down the alter with a woman by my side.
So that's all I need my Independence, stability and control, people are saying I will regret but I really think it's for the best for me, I feel like I have a lot of time to think as I plan on having children at 28 but I don't know if my opinion will change then.

I'm I stupid for not wanting marriage?

You're still young, focus on building skills first.


Marriage will either come or not but you won't lose at both ends.

Investorozay:
this hoe should rest na
bit.h azz hoees with attention are like bread and butter
you bleeped a fellow adult and so the world should not move on?

Don't mind the lazy girl.

She's very stupid, after collecting one million.



She is as wrong as he is.

Loveisnotenough:
And so? Didn't you collect your money?

It's like you've gone very mad for exposing a man of God after collecting your charges.

Imagine, she got one million!

That amount in 2015 is equivalent to about 3.5-4million today allowing for inflation.


A smart girl of her type will use the money for something valuable.




Them never tell you say fornication money na bad money?


Why will I say anything sef, very stupid somebody.

They both did it, so, I can't be moved.

Echoban:
That's what I'm saying, the man bleeped up truly, but sometimes after letting ur anger out, forgive and let peace reign not for ur enemy sake but for ur self/peace.. she has a home, a marriage, a children to raise, a companion at the end.. Abi will she remain single mother like that? Or she LL divorce and re marry with her 3 children without the new marriage having hiccups. Abi what's the stress for.. she literarily have to forgive him for her own self. Not that The man worth it but for herself.

Cheers.

Exactly the point I was trying to establish.



In this case, he is at a disadvantage.
Not worth it.



It doesn't mean he won't throw her under the bus anytime even after forgiveness. So, it's not worth it.

virginchaser:
We are not talking about abusive husband here. I have supported many sisters to walk out of abusive marriages in the past. Recently a junior friend was deceived by London boy to resign from a managerial job and marry him. She found out the boy was living in a shoe box like room in UK and could not stop hitting her at every little argument. She got her papers and walked out to channel a better cause.

As a lady you need to be wise to survive marriage. Identify the thin line in between. This case is not a life threatening one. Any how you interpret it we are African men, irrespective of women liberation. Back to bed my dear.

She can still be his wife and see him once a while, why take him along when he's not needed?

Echoban:
Oya now let her go and marry another man who LL make her have legal marriage certificate she can travel with, she should do that fast and move all her children asap. Hope she LL b alright with that

Shey una no get sense ni.

Bible says forgiveness gives u peace of mi d and save u from unnecessary wahala.. I'm not saying the man didn't fuckup but u do t need to avenge everything. Do d needful and see the man regretting, appreciating and loving her better this time with all sincerity of heart.

No b everything b gbas gbos abeg.

1. She doesn't owe him anything


2. The marriage documents are only meant to help the man to tag along.

3. She will live better, save more money and retire as a rich woman without him.



Forgiveness is a privilege in this case, only the woman can decide if he is worth it.

Oluwatobike:
“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up.

I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason.

My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions.

He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock.

My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a
multinational company and things started to turn around for me.

I could now take care of myself and secure a future.

Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me.

My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No”

My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also.

His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

What is your advice for this young mother of three?

I don't care if you copied this story.



If evil husbands can suffer Karma like this, then this world will be a better place.

virginchaser:
Shebi, Shell or Mobil will lay you off one day and family will be your comforter. Also, your palee (dad) will also kick bucket and go too. We men can be somehow atimes but it takes good women to mend fences. The issue ought not be an outside decision nor discussion. Be as it may, forgive and forget.

If i am your husband i would not bother myself over such. I will keep my pride.

Wee you keep kwayet?



If you as a husband refuses to marry a woman in court just to make her marriage to you insecure, then you deserve anything she does to you.


ANYTHING!


Go and eat your pride.


Can you imagine "we men are somehow" yen yen yen.


Na good woman dey suffer, that is why Osinachi Nwachukwu died.



Nonsense.

Divorcing him is a wrong move right now.


After all the investments.


She played herself sha.

maasoap:
My wife would tell me that we would have separate rooms when we got bigger apartment, that was when we were using single living and bed rooms. When we got apartment with three bedrooms, I simply told her that she and I die together, no separate rooms. Now, we have one room unoccupied.



I have the means but I still share room with madam. That's how it should be.
The funny thing is that kids still refer to the empty room as my room despite the fact that everyone has their cloths and shoes there. It is the master bedroom sef

Exactly.


Why separate rooms if he doesn't have a skeleton in his cupboard.

mohziz1:
Hi nairalands...

I received a call from my female friend whose wedding is just a year old, she was weeping on phone seriously.

I tried to percify her and asked what the problem is, she said her husband wants to sleep in a separate room and she told him she is not okay with it.

To cut the story short, the husband had succeeded in separating their room, she said she feels lonely at night and she has tried to talk to him but he wouldn't listen.

Pls what advise can I give to her, and is it okay for a newly wedded couple to sleep in a separate room

He has a side chick

WondaBeauty:
No. 8 really got me laughing hard.


OP, they are all noted but we would be waiting for the
20 KEY FACTS A HUSBAND MUST TAKE NOTE OF IN A FAMILY


Or that whole lecture up there is Null & Void.

Don't mind them

AsomArchitectNG:
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home – placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers – lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of “women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’ influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man’s aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defense is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and pap. You go to bed wearing grandmothers’ clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks – we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don’t be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, “not in the mood,” you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a “useless man”, is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband’s girlfriend in word and in deed?

13. When you rely on your beauty, cookings, character, connections and bedroom performance alone to keep your man and your home intact without putting God in the picture, you’ve missed it. Without GOD, it cannot be GOOD.

Put God first in your home.

If you read this and you think women are the only ones who need to work to make their marriages work, OYO is your case.



Who wants to kiss a smelly mouth, or hug a sweaty body.


Nobody wants to endure nonsense nowadays.