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[quote author=McDuncan post=112383028][/quote]See?


You just confirmed my point.


There is a forever vacant spot for a woman in man's life.



A vacuum, you must fill, else you'll be restless.


If you like, change women everyday, but you are unfulfilled without a woman.




Go ahead and argue with your nose.

[quote author=McDuncan post=112383028][/quote]What empty conceit!





Everyone makes choices, everyone picks partners.




Continue making analogies while trying to patch your ego.




This is my observation, you males have placed your pride in the wrong things for centuries, now that the carpet is being pulled from under your feet, it's either you adjust and seek true wisdom, or you become redpillers, which is simply malformation of the evolution process.




Not my problem.

McDuncan:
It only becomes a cesspit when it accommodates different assortments of sperms.

Maybe we struggling with these definitions in the light of our own personal tragedy.

Perhaps you've been quite generous in acceptance of these liquified intruders.

Eh?

I maintain my point, only sewage goes through cesspits.





You shot your argument in the foot.




Admit that.

barrackozone:
I am a man that cannot kill a rat, let alone a chicken.

My wife [on her way to spread some clothes downstairs] saw this snake around 12:30pm yesterday and she started looking for a big stick to kill it.

I ran as fast as my legs could carry me but I still summoned the courage to be shouting instructions from afar.

In the end, my Odogwu � wife killed it but a lucid research into the snake's buccal cavity revealed it's one of the deadliest snakes on earth, the green mamba ���


Guys, be careful o

Na she be your husband.


A woman that can kill a snake does not really need a man.

McDuncan:
She needs to. Except the equality Train has derailed and suffered a major setback. A 2nd husband she must get. She must stand toe to toe with her husband.

The future is female

And oh, the smiling at another man; that's exactly where she gets replaced. Somewhere there's always a rounder and firmer pair of gravity-defying oranges, a warmer and narrower pot to fill the vacuum.

You just find it difficult to admit, you men are useless without women, either wife, baby mama, girlfriend, hookup, anything to have a woman!






With millenia of evidence backing this up.

cococandy:
Stop projecting.
If anyone had limited cognitive abilities, it’s you and those like you who can’t apply common sense to issues like this.

The worst part is that you believe your own lies that somehow if you’re sleeping around you’re better than a woman who’s doing the same.
Your almighty logic should tell you that for every man who’s moving from woman to woman, there’s a woman who’s accepting men after men. Unless you guys are sleeping with yourselves.

Once in a while, apply that small logic you claim to possess. Dump the testosterone laden hemotional thinking

He shot himself in the foot.



I can never value these low-vibrational semi-humanoid parading
hemi-demi-semi-intelligence all over social media.





Gosh, replying them is a waste of MB.

McDuncan:
Wisdom is simple when access to emotional interference to our cognitive functionality is denied.

Read again, this time put your emotions on hibernation. "Two or more sperms glide through her tube." The key word there is two or more

Phweeew! And they want equality with all this cognitive limitations.

Well, only sewage goes through cesspits.



Argue with your teeth.

shizzle1:
How is Yul worse please?

As per Moyo Thomas, her arrogance and treachery was one of a kind

She eloped with her lover and finally relocated abroad.

Which rubbing on the face reach these ones?

Both she and Yul were guilty of adultery!

She is a paternity fraudster, Yul isn't!

She killed her spouse, Yul din't!

Out of 3 offences, Yul is guilty of only 1

So what are you in about?

Like I said earlier, a lotta you women are all emotions and little logic

Continue touting logic with lists up and down.


Moyo did not make a social media post of her infidelity calling her sugar daddy husband.


She never flaunted the man.



Yul committed emotional fraud, and marital fraud pretending to be a monogamous man whereas he's an adulterer.


He hoodwinked May into marrying him creating a deceptive bubble of emotional security and burst it wickedly by blindsiding her to marry another woman,he didn't even have the decency to inform her.


He almost swindled Nigerians into voting for him claiming to have a perfect family.






No one is asking him not to be polygamous, but let the lady know upfront so she can make an informed decision.





Do you want me to go on?

JONNYSPUTE:
..... So she walked out of hers and went straight to break another woman's home?

I don't get it. Pls explain.

You can direct your question to Moyo

McDuncan:
Cursed is the vagina that swells in reception of two shafts serially visiting her harbour. It becomes a contaminated cesepit when sperms from two or more sources glide through her tube, interacting with the 'source code" of her spirituality and being. It is self destruction.

This is beyond Man Vs woman. This is where the pretence at equality takes a bow out.

So, by calling a vagina receiving different semen cesspit, then you agree that your semen is 'sewage', shit, poop, some disgusting, smelly, viscous, byproduct coming from the dredges of humanity?




Just asking for someone

shizzle1:
You mean a large billboard as big as this that will contain 3 people?

I'm not proud of what this woman did and I condemn all forms of infidelity from both genders, but on second thought, this woman is even better than Yul sef.



She had the grace to quietly walk away instead of rubbing her infidelity on her husband's face.






In the marriages I've seen in this country, men are simply worse.

naija4life247:
We did not ask your dad to leave your mum. So, don't transfer aggression to us

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha.

You think everyone you meet is from a broken home?




You people will just open your stinking mouths waaaaaaaaaa, and spew nonsense out of it, my parents are doing well to the Glory of God and we're celebrating their wedding anniversary in a few months time.


But my major point is that, after your parents have trained you, you are supposed to train yourselves which many people have refused to do.




So, your upbringing is only supposed to be the foundation.



Do you understand now?

Farfalla:
And when those smart ones do their thing they're tagged 'selfish', 'wicked', 'evil', 'entitled', 'manipulative', etc.

I no send anybody, if they like, let them list names as long as Third Mainland Bridge.



I will do whatever is best for me.

Klass99:
He has given us (women) a lot of food for thought. Me, I just can't get over the fact that he wasn't in love with May but had 4 kids with her. Why not stop after a boy and a girl?

The lack of a male child is not even the issue. If all his kids with May were female, I may reason that the quest for a male child drove his actions.

I know a woman who married as a virgin, at some point in her marriage she was treating herself for gonorrhea and she never cheated in that marriage. Her hubby cheated and infected her with it.

It's like our feelings and well being truly do not matter to Naija men once they marry you. Marriage to a Nigerian man is becoming less and less attractive, with the kind of stories you hear online and offline.

That is not to say men of other nationalities are any better, but kai our men are something else, extremely selfish and insensitive.

You need to put this your post on a large billboard and loud it very well so that the sufferhead 'virtuous women' with coconut head will see.


But no, they will chose to continue wasting themselves away over men who don't really give a flying toss about their future and well-being.



What matters most is our actions in real life though, not our noise on social media.

cococandy:
I guess the point is that no matter what you do as a woman, a man that will treat you bad will treat you bad and you as a woman will be blamed for it. There’s no way to be a good woman. Not for Nigerian guys anyway. The olosho gold diggers are happily married and the good wives are being doormats.
It doesn’t matter if you’re independent or dependent.

But it helps to be independent because you can walk away. Imagine if she’s dependent on him for food and clothing and he’s doing all this? Na for gutter she for dey now

In this marriage game, there is no winning for the average Nigerian woman as far as men are concerned.


No matter how we spin the story, women are on their own.


Only the smart ones will survive. Only the smart.

Kingozymandias:
Mensing you see marriage as nothing more than a means to an end, albeit domestic satisfaction or status box ticking ?

Nne morning should ever make you loose sight of or belief in the marriage institution to this extent.

There are good marriages , there are loyal and good men and women out there. There is true love ... I personally despite all the doom and gloom out there believe marriage is a beautiful thing.. it's spectacularly splendid indeed. Two people learning am growing together through life's journeys.both good and bad till the point they merge as one. What could be more beautiful?
I am privileged to have been raised by both parents who love detach othw runtil my.dad passed away in old age for half a century I never saw them fight over cheating or money... Yes they fought ove either things but loved each other so much that my dad's passing is the singular most devastating thing that could happen to my mum till date.

Don't loos sight of the beauty of marriage and settle of a mediocre experience. Hold out nne keep the faith

All will be fine at last. better late and get it right that's what I tell myself as I await my.soul.mate .. so we must all encourage each other

Cheers

Your long post met me at a wrong time so I didn't read it.

Maybe some other time.



Still, I don't mind marrying a flexible understanding person, and I don't mind spending extra for that.


On a normal day, women spend money in marriages, so why not?



Quit trying to convince me, will you.

UmuEri:
Book appointment with my wife Rita before you visit – Fidelis tells Genevieve Nnaji, Ini Edo, Uche Jombo

Nigerian publisher Fidelis Anosike, has sent out a message to his Newly-wedded wife, Rita Dominic’s colleagues, Genevieve Nnaji, Uche Jombo and Ini Edo.

It could be recalled that social media went abuzz on the 19th of April, 2022 as movie star, Rita Dominic got married to her lover, Fidelis Anosike, the founder of Folio Media Group, a multi-media company that owns Daily Times Nigeria (founded 1926), the country’s oldest newspaper.

The star studded and elaborate event took place at Dominic’s hometown in Imo state.

Alot of A-list actresses and actors like Ini Edo, Uche Jombo as well as other celebrities honoured the event except for some few highly-rated actresses like Omotola Jalade, Mercy Johnson, Genevieve Nnaji, Funke Akindele amongst others.

Fidelis Anosike who is still basking in his euphoria of his marriage took to his Instagram page to celebrate Rita Dominic’s Colleagues while letting them know they must set up an appointment before they can see his wife, Rita.

He wrote;

“Girls your friend is Taken Now! Visit her on appointments � @iniedo @genevievennaji #reeldeel22 #ritadominic”

https://lm.?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.withinnigeria.com%2Fentertainment%2F2022%2F04%2F27%2Fbook-appointment-with-my-wife-rita-before-you-visit-fidelis-tells-genevieve-nnaji-ini-edo-uche-jombo%2F&h=AT1weJKNCCqqiD_k8EqpMCbVeGbv1qEinGY6Cix29YkiBrhZ6OCRYz-IK6cTNNZFX5ISEeGg90c7ahE4AQV6NeRaJ1xs98DC10IoZ7F8S0C87U053qJdOB6RqXzRB8rdnXRU

Potential abuser spotted.



Abusers isolate their victims first.



We will keep watch on our Rita.



Nonsense.

brosom:
Op if na u the man dey caprisun with ur wife almost every time, just like u called ur mates with red Barret, you would've done worst.


Meanwhile, that's serves u right.

Avoid married women, more especially the ones that re still active in marriage.

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha



So, there is passive marriage?
Wonders shall never end.

Kingozymandias:
Nne no need to be hostile... I was merely asking about the definition. But why would you be seeking such? Isn't that an aberration? Or rather unafrican culturally?

It was a response, just go back and read through.


Now, it's not so bad if a woman pays a man's groom price naw, is it not happiness we are all looking for?


I don't think it matters if anyone has ever done it before.


So, I will gladly get a house husband if he fits my spec.

Kingozymandias:
What is a house band ? Or did you mean husband ?

House husband


A husband that I will pay his groom price, and he will accept my terms.


Don't quote me if you can't do it.

MarketForces:
Let feminists begin a campaign against payment of bride price. If a man can pay for one, he may certainly be able to pay another woman's bride price.

Everybody cheats but the difference for women is because they were paid for, they become more careful. Sometimes, they pass off another man's child or children to the MAN THAT PAID THEIR BRIDE PRICE.

YUL has both male and female children so the only reason for this act of his might be the cultural practices that 'PURCHASES A WOMAN FROM HER FAMILY INTO ANOTHER FAMILY'.

The man that purchased her might be able to purchase another. Let marriages in Africa be less patriarchal. Let a woman also be allowed to propose to a man, wear him an engagement ring and foot his bills without much drama.

Let those who ask for equality be objective

I've been searching for a househusband for a while now, I've not seen.

Do you have anyone?

efficiencie:
Mrs Nwachukwu number 2. You better run. Go back to your family. Marriage is not a family support program. Marriage is not a national feeding program. Go back to your parents, work for your money, take care of your child and marry properly...otherwise you will be repeating history.

Osinachi Nwachukwu was feeding her husband.

DON'T FORGET THAT.

souljay007:
Sorry I don't know the right thread to post this.

This Old Baba Was Found Around National Open University Road, Estate Junction Sango, Ilorin, Kwara State. All he could say was My Name is My Name is Kayode Adewoye and A Native of Omu Aran.

Please Help Push To Front Page And Repost Until It get to his Family.

Contact: 07065941589 if you know him

Have you tried Twitter?

Press the share button on your post here, mention frequent users on Nairaland, mention any Mod you know, I pray he finds his family soon.

FinnMann:
By now you might already know that Ariana Grande is one of the most popular celebrity in the whole world an that's why I'm thinking of revealing how I sent araina grande 2,000 messages on Instagram before we became friends on Instagram.

If you think I should reveal what I did on my YouTube channel let me know on my comment box.

Her managers would have blocked you since, and thank your stars you don't live in the US, you would have gone to jail for stalking.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi everyone, I regret leaving Nigeria for America

Ever since I came to this country, I have had lots of illnesses like chronic eczema and PTSD… Now, I can’t go back home because of the medications I am taking. I came here as a child with my mother.

Please what do I do?[/color]

If you lack contentment, wherever you stay, you can never be satisfied.

Doveispure:
Goodmorning nairalanders .
I am new here,although I always read stories that made it to the front page. I am in a serious dilemma right now and please I will need honest answers to these questions.

I am a married mother of four. I have been having constant issues with my husband concerning his cheating nature and anytime I bring it before him it always ends up with a fight(not physical though,I mean quarrel)that I end up begging him later because I can't bare to see us quarrel.

But he seems to have taken advantage of this.
I complained to him again concerning this because I have been having series of STIs,this resulted in a quarrel.
He told me the following which makes me wonder if a man truly loves a woman of he will talk like this

1) He said he is addicted to sex(mind you I allow him have his way anytime he wants even when I'm heavily pregnant and I'm usually active during sex)so he cannot stop having other girls.

2)He said i should learn to leave with it
3)

A IndecentStar recently died from an STI.


Did you know some STIs are incurable?



Some are difficult and expensive to treat. The money you're supposed to spend on your progress and that of your children, you will be spending it on treatments because of a man without discipline and self control.



Don't tell me you're doing it for your kids because if you peme today, your children will survive just fine. And besides, you just want to use your married status to pepper single ladies so, just don't pretend.



The ball is in your court.
Dem no dey telli person.........

zeb04:
I and my husband separated for a period of 1 year( his decision. Also the marriage wasn’t really great at the time) during that time we both made friends with the opposite sex because we didn’t think we would ever come back. Atleast I didn’t.

However when we came back together( our decision after much conversation)i cut off all communication with the men i was talking to and even blocked them on my Whatsaap and Instagram. I wanted a new start, fresh beginning.

There was a female friend that was the go to person for my husband. She met him approximately 2 weeks to our separation, during an event i and my husband attended. She was always available to “cheer him up” and according to him, nothing romantic ever happened with this lady even though she seriously wanted it. She was always inviting him for movies and other hangouts.

For some reason, I Dislike this lady mainly because i think she is foolish to want to build a relationship with a man that is not even properly separated. Although to some extent, he probably told her he was.

It got so bad that I started having dreams about this lady and even seeing her around during the day( for example, i could be driving and look around and just see her. It was that bad.

Before I agreed to the reconciliation, I asked him several times, have you stopped talking to this lady and he said yes over and over again ( I believed). To be sincere, i would never ever have agreed to any reconciliation if he ever dated her, kissed her on even still talking to her. To me she is bad news i don’t want to ever here of her.


Of recent, i have had this gut feeling that they are still in communication. When i ask about it, he would say i am being insecure or my self esteem is low. And there are other behavioral changes I noticed in him that os making me suspect this (even though he is a very secretive person, i am still noticing some things).

Wives and mothers, how do i go about this?
Do you think my feelings might not be true, do you still I hate her so much and conjuring things in my head?


There is always a breaking point for every thing in life and for me, this particular one, I CANNOT accept it.

Also just to clarify, coming back in a way was our decision because we decided to work on the marriage and talked a lot about out faults.

Ps. I might or might not get a good advice here. But writing it out has lifted it off my chest.

Thank you everyone

See, you just got triangulated.

He's gaslighting you that you're hallucinating even when you know something is wrong.


He left you for one year and came back because he knew he can always come back to you. You have so little boundaries that anyone can walk all over you in the name of marriage.


You agreed to block out all suitors because of a cheating ex that can't stay in the past. Funny you.



Don't you have a better life you dream of?

Didn't you survive the full year you were dumped?


You were discarded madam, and the new girl is his new supply.



See, read up on narcissm because you married a narcissist. Arm yourself with knowledge and you will not become a doormat.



Hope you'll do something meaningful ASAP.

Classickj:
The father have nothing to do with this
Blame the mother and ubi franklin for this outburst

Very good.


The true facts will soon come out, that is what I'm waiting for.

Ohizman73:
nOBODY is spinning the issue to single mother matter,but poor parenting. Abi ah you a single mother....

This is my major concern, before spinning any sensational news, wait till real facts come out, there's a lot of information still hidden.


That is how everyone was screaming about Sylvester's case, see where it landed.


I hope you understand now.

You people are spinning this issue into single mother nonsense. She has both mother and father.




Even you that you were raised by two parents, what has become of you.

She's the most beautiful bride of 2022 presently.


That's all that matters to me right now.



The longevity of her marriage is up to them both. I say good luck.