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they are common people. if our path crosses we sure relate.

accept your mistakes, learn from the lessons and move ahead.

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yes you can!

that is eveil in the sight of God.

because they are not real men

women, better do your best to keep your men tight, cos they are cheaters by nature.

if he does not consent , pastoral consent will do.

children are gifts from God.We accept them regardless of their gender. Mind you in Christ Jesus there is no male, no female.

We all live life with something. some with little or no money, some with a divorce, a broken leg, a blind eye, the wrong partner, cancer, disobedient children, barrenness, poverty,loneliness,sadness,regrets, just to mention a few.You sure can live with HIV. the only thing you can't live without is God.
Go ahead and live your life without limits!

contract annd covenant refer to the same thing.
in both cases as along as the terms are not broken, marriage is valid.
if you want you marriage to work, see it as a choice. A choice to love someone for who they are, so that even when the vows are broken you will still choose to stay with your partner. if you decide to truely love then nothing can come against your marriage.

mazaje,

The "coming of the Son of Man" that Jesus talks about in Mt 16:27 is a different coming with the one in mt 16:28. In that verse Jesus is clearly talking about his return on Judgment Day. But in the next verse he does not mention coming in his Father's glory with his holy angels. He simply mentions "the Son of Man coming in his kingdom." This is not a reference to his return on Judgment Day.

you see, just because you do not understand does not prove that Jesus was a liar!

mazaje,
compare the following Quaranic verses;

1. So remind them (O Muhammad), you are only a one who reminds. You are not a dictator over them. S. 88:21-22

2. But if they turn away, thy duty is only to preach the clear Message. S. 16:82

with these ones:

1. O believers, fight the unbelievers who are near to you; and let them find in you a harshness; and know that God is with the godfearing. S. 9:123

2. O Prophet! Strive against the disbelievers and the hypocrites! Be harsh with them. Their ultimate abode is hell, a hapless journey's end. S. 9:73

can you see just one among so many contradictions in this book you claim to be superior to the bible?

are you sure you need our advice. you know what to do, just go ahead!

i have been in christ embassy and back then when i spiritually observe what was going on there, i knew false prophets must not necessarily look like babalawos.

my advice is the same Gamaliel of old gave in

Acts 5:36- 39 for before these days rose up Theudas, saying, that himself was some one, to whom a number of men did join themselves, as it were four hundred, who was slain, and all, as many as were obeying him, were scattered, and came to nought. ‘After this one rose up, Judas the Galilean, in the days of the enrollment, and drew away much people after him, and that one perished, and all, as many as were obeying him, were scattered; and now I say to you, Refrain from these men, and let them alone, because if this counsel or this work may be of men, it will be overthrown, and if it be of God, ye are not able to overthrow it, lest perhaps also ye be found fighting against God.’

she married because you are the best. forget all of her provocations. calm her down and both of you should work together and build up your marrige. marriage is committment and some hardwork. the sooner she realises that you are everything she needs in the man, the better for the both of you.
goodluck man.

mazaje,

Show me a book that is close to the authenticity of the Bible?

horus,
the bible was not dropped from heaven, it was not written by God either.
It was by men inspired by the spirit of God.

Moses, David, Paul, John,Luke, Mathew and a whole lot of them took part in this.

So never expect that the Bible is a book sent down from God. No.

Nevertheless, God gave the inspiration.

Matthew 16:28 states, "Verily I say unto you, There be some standing here, which shall not taste of death, till they see the Son of man coming in his kingdom." Parallel passages are found in Mark 9:1 and Luke 9:27.

The key is found in what immediately follows each of these verses. Jesus calls Peter, James, and John, takes them up to a high mountain and is transfigured before them while Moses and Elijah come down to discuss His coming death. Consider the things that point to this being the event Jesus referred to in Matthew 16:28.
Jesus "was transfigured before them: and his face did shine as the sun, and his raiment was white as the light" (Matthew 17:2). This matches the glorified appearance of Christ in Revelation 1:13-18 where "his countenance was as the sun shineth in his strength" (Revelation 1:16).
Of Moses and Elijah, the Bible says that they "appeared in glory" (Luke 9:31). They did not just appear in a natural way but "in glory." Colossians 3:4 states, "When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory." This points directly to the coming of Christ in glory (Matthew 24:30).
When the disciples awoke, they looked at Christ and "saw his glory" (Luke 9:32). This is a very powerful statement. They saw the glorified Christ. They saw Him as King of Kings.
A cloud overshadowed them and the Father said, "This is my beloved Son: hear him" (Luke 9:34-35). This too points to the presence and glory of God in fullness and power.
Jesus told them not to tell of the vision until He had risen from the dead (Matthew 17:9). Ths vision was not for the time that Jesus walked on the earth before His crucifixion. It was a glimpse of His coming kingdom.

Peter, James, and John received a vision of the future kingdom and glory of Christ. They saw Him coming in His kingdom. It was to this event that Peter referred when he said, "For we have not followed cunningly devised fables, when we made known unto you the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, but were eyewitnesses of his majesty. For he received from God the Father honour and glory, when there came such a voice to him from the excellent glory, This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased. And this voice which came from heaven we heard, when we were with him in the holy mount." (2 Peter 1:16-18). These three men were eyewitnesses of the majesty of "the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ." What a glorious opportunity they had! What a glorious testimony they give!

i was born may 2oth

my boys name is nathaniel, (nathan, nat, natty)

let her get a divorce.

You all guys should understand that we are not saying its ideal to be a single mother. The dream of every child is to be born into a matrimonial home. But you see, that's not the reality we face. And i strongly do not believe that just because you blew it up the first time, you do not deserve a second chance. If the gal is not married and you love her for her, and think she is matured enough to be your wife and that she has effectively accepted the reality of her past and is ready to move ahead, nothing stops you from going ahead. All you need to do is to address who takes responsibility for the innocent child.

all you need is maturity. physical, financial and psychological.

the key is try and get married.

tpia i love your comments. you have a sound mind.

the problem we often have is: "what will people say"

but there is absolutely nothing wrong with dating and marrying a single mother. she has shown responsibility by keeping her baby.

the only reason why any man would avoid it is either he is scared of what people will say, in which case he is still a boy. Or, he claims to be perfect and i can guarantee you there are no perfect gals out there for you.

tis same woman used to love you. sth must have gone wrong. try and see if you can beg her to come back. your major obstacle is her and not her parents. if she can come back to her senses, you guys can make it work again. i strongly believe in second chances in life. goodluck man.

does he go to a church, let him talk with his pastor. i think its either he is bewitched is he has been a big fool all this while.

a man without Christ is an endangered specie

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