Romance › Re: HELP; my 12 yrs old Cousin Is Making Sexual Advances towards me by SirMichael1: 9:42am On Jun 03, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe: Believe op at your PeRil If I'm to believe every OP on NL, then I'm very sure I won't leave a coment here anymore. |
Romance › Re: How Some Ladies Encourage Rape By Saying No When They Mean Yes by SirMichael1: 9:40am On Jun 03, 2020 |
Axiel99: Rape is having sex with an individual without the person's consent, in other words taken by force, which in turn is an "attack" on the individual. Lol. It doesn't have to be forceful. Just a mere 'NO' from the lady and refusal of the guy to stop is rape. You don't have to tie her down and force it on her. Even if she's naked, spreads her legs and looks at you with sultry eys, if you approach and she says NO, and you start having sex and she doesn't protest violently, na rape. |
Romance › Re: HELP; my 12 yrs old Cousin Is Making Sexual Advances towards me by SirMichael1: 9:13am On Jun 03, 2020 |
Abrahamdgreat: [s]Bro no start with me abeg... I'm guessing and hoping your not a rapist, so how are you now so certain about the traits they would show when they are 12. Last I heard they don't target older and stronger people so tell me why ur calling a 12 year old such a vile name
From the way ur sounding, "Not my father, he would never do that to me, his son" I'm guessing u mean ur dad would have wipped u.
We are not talking about you here, hence we don't know who the boy's parents are so don't give a one sided advice
My advice I meant to account for all the possible scenerious (you'd see that if u took your time to properly read it). From ur statement I can tell ur not a father (neither am I) so don't speak with 100% certainty about how to train a child.
Last but not least, I started undergoing puberty at the age of 10 (possibly 9 sef) so his hormones are of the roof and the movies / internet is not helping, what he needs now is a little candid advice not your father's whip
He is still a kid and one thing kids respond to is fear, put that in him and then talk to him, trust me it's stick with them. The title didn't read 12yr old boy and 6 yr old girl else my advice would be another.
Finally as your reading this, read and don't mention me, as others have dropped their opinion so have I, and hopefully so would you. Nobody is here to say things that will please you, so please dude leave my Mention alone
[/s] You didn't buy my data, neither my phone and so i damn well know i can air my opinions over yours especially if it's hogwash. as i rightly said, a 12yrs is very oid enough to know the difference right and wrong, bad and good. Then again you said it is normal of him to explore an older lady because he is attaining puberty, then i assume you'd consider it normal if he plays with his mom or sisters that way, but he doesn't. If that doesn't tell you it isn't normal to him, then i don't know what will. 'he's a kid and one thing kids respond to is fear', yes, the fear of being beaten. 'spare the rod and spoil the child' you know, your stance on this matter shows how much of a father you'll be. If you as a father will shrug it off and allow a rapist to keep growing unchecked in your home, then maybe you should leave fathering children as you'll be unfit and the child taken into custody of the government. Know when to use your mouth and know the importance of the rod. Cases like this where it will cause permanent damage to the boy, use the rod, then again and again. Don't be a weak father! |
Romance › Re: HELP; my 12 yrs old Cousin Is Making Sexual Advances towards me by SirMichael1: 10:35pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Abrahamdgreat: I want to drop a very explanative story but I don't have the time or strength to type
First thing you ought to know is that he is a boy, so his parents (since he is a boy, it's dad's decision) will shrug it off (after warning him a bit) as normal (and it is normal).
Best thing you can do is find another film for u both to watch then when he tries it, insult him and scare the shit out of him and threaten to report him. Then send him off
Next day continue playing with him as if nothing happened, it's best u record it (since we no sabi d kind pikin way d boy b)
Remember just shout at him, what he is doing is 100% normal, almost every guy had that cousin they were attracted to when they were little... He will grow out of it
P.S: No Nigerian parents would like to hear that u recorded their 12 yr old son doing something shameful, so don't let them know or hear it unless something goes wrong (else Na u sabi ooh) Which kind stupid normal you dey yarn? What the hell is normal in a 12years old trying to caress an older lady. Kids are smart, trust me. You see that resistance he gives himself due to fear when trying to move further? That's fear and his conscience telling him it's wrong. besides, why would you say a father will shrug it off because he's a boy? He's fvcking 12 for jove sake! Not my father, he'd never do that to me, his son. He'll never ruin my life because i'm a boy/a child. That point is where he should be beaten. These kids these days don't listen to calm approaaches anymore. That's how you'll be feeding a rapist until he becomes fullblown. Besides you're the type that would watch his kid rotten away and try to use the 'advice quip' to restore him. |
Romance › Re: HELP; my 12 yrs old Cousin Is Making Sexual Advances towards me by SirMichael1: 7:52pm On Jun 02, 2020*. Modified: 10:22pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
tellsblinks: telling the parents won't it bring more room for them asking her to leave?? why would they ask her to leave? Well, except if they're in total support of the brat. Since it's not her first time going there, she should talk to his parents, the strict one though. Then she can immediately start leaving fingerprints. No time abeg. Idiot! Na so them dey start to dey rape. |
Romance › Re: HELP; my 12 yrs old Cousin Is Making Sexual Advances towards me by SirMichael1: 7:43pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Call his parent attention to the boy's attrocities. Often than not, the family know of the boy's behaviour and have been trying to caution him. After you've reported him, the next time he tries such, take successive turn with your two palm on his face and make sure to leave fingerprints. |
Romance › Re: How Do Some Men Think? This Is Both Disappointing And Irritating. by SirMichael1: 7:08pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Rape is a very sensitive issue. I'd rather a guy never discuss it with a lady. There's bound to be emmotions going haywire. |
Food › Re: Learn How To Make White Lined Doughnuts, Doughnut Box And Churros by SirMichael1: 2:44pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
You should include a picture to give us a better idea of what to expect. |
Romance › Re: Have You Heard About Ghost Marriages by SirMichael1: 8:17am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Sounds like a nollywood movie where the man then turned to a ghost and begins to taunt her because she has his kids.
It is appointed for a man to die once and after that, stay dead. |
Education › Re: Pictures Of Bayero University, Kano by SirMichael1: 12:03am On Jun 02, 2020 |
This school is dope! |
Education › Re: Roof Shot Of The University Of Calabar by SirMichael1: 11:55pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
BOOOMNAIJA: U be mumu man.....I was waiting for u to mention the name of ur school....see ur mouth like wall gecko own.
Proudly OAU Boy, I didn't quote you and even if I did, I never insulted you. Therefore the next time you feel entitled to an opinion, make sure it is a sensible remark and always connect your fingers to your brain. |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by SirMichael1: 11:20pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
SOUTHPAW (2015) |
Education › Re: Roof Shot Of The University Of Calabar by SirMichael1: 10:45pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
micfoley: Which school? I'm not telling you. I don't want insults abeg.  |
Education › Re: Roof Shot Of The University Of Calabar by SirMichael1: 10:42pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
reyzo: Just wait for university of Jos, Bro na the best be that. Nothing to wait for in unijos except you want to have a look at the cute asses of their Ladies which by far is unprecedented. |
Education › Re: Roof Shot Of The University Of Calabar by SirMichael1: 10:36pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Epistasis: OAU will blow everyone's mind. Arguably the best campus in Nigeria! Lmao. Kiss your arguably goodbye.  OAU that is an exhibit for unkempt, full of long grasses, mosquitoes and snakes. Lol. My bro actually went there and was on about OAU being the best in beauty he's ever seen until he came to my school. I loved how the word 'dumbfounded' couldn't vividly explain his expression. |
Sports › Re: Marcus Rashford Congratulates Ighalo On Signing New Manchester United Loan Deal by SirMichael1: 10:24pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Enwhen: I understand that he was loaned as a back up, but with is preparation since the pandemic , if he starts banging goals than Martial Ole will have no option than to play him... Ighalo is not working for a backup , he is eyeing first team, an do wish him well. I wish him well to cause that's only what i can wish him. To bang goals in epl isn't that easy oh but well... He's in man u. |
Family › Re: My Brother's Wife Served Me With Just A Meat Instead Of Two Meats by SirMichael1: 10:20pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
dheolexaone: How did they push this to front page sef?
@mod that pushed this to FTC is definitely high I swear. High on a monday.  |
Family › Re: My Brother's Wife Served Me With Just A Meat Instead Of Two Meats by SirMichael1: 10:18pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
 Very anyhow post. The type that uyai would create just to seek recognition. The mods didn't even help ya matter, they pushed it to front page so people can insult you. Irrelevant topic. |
Sports › Re: Marcus Rashford Congratulates Ighalo On Signing New Manchester United Loan Deal by SirMichael1: 10:08pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Enwhen: Nothing can stop Ighalo when he starts banging the goals more than Martial and Rashford ...watchout , this is a die minutes dream come true to keep and finish well... Let's face it, that guy said the truth. He'll merely be a substitute for tired legs. At most he'll start in few FAs and start from the bench in Europa and Epl coming in as a late sub. |
Sports › Re: Marcus Rashford Congratulates Ighalo On Signing New Manchester United Loan Deal by SirMichael1: 10:04pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Angelfrost: He rejected nothing... Merely postponed it. Yes I know that already. |
Sports › Re: Marcus Rashford Congratulates Ighalo On Signing New Manchester United Loan Deal by SirMichael1: 10:00pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
MISTAICEY02288: Yes you're right but why can't Manchester United make him an offer he can't refuse.. Say something from 250k to 300k per week? I believe if he gets such offer, he'll be tempted to stay especially for the fact that he loves United and that has been his dream team since he was younger..
After all, United has this money. Imagine us paying Sanchez 300+ per week when he has actually done little or nothing for the club since he joined..
Well, i still believe Ighalo will still be made the offer as long as he continues to perform well throughout his loan spell. I am sure of that.. Lol. Ighalo is over 30 and a club like man u looking to build a good team in a long run would rather spend that amount of money signing two young stars with time on their side and potentials. That said, Alexis was doing extremely well for his previous club while still being younger (28/29 I think) and let's face it, c'mon! He was playing for arsenal, a big club. It's only fair to be signed by another club with bigger pay. And no, for no reason will man u pay him anything close to 300k/week even if he bangs in 5 goals/match. |
Poems For Review › Re: Poem Against Rape By Hashimyussufamao by SirMichael1: 9:51pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
This poem is really good. Rape has never solved anything, not even the predator's fantasy as he/she will move onto its next victim. |
Sports › Re: Marcus Rashford Congratulates Ighalo On Signing New Manchester United Loan Deal by SirMichael1: 9:37pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
MISTAICEY02288: Cool.. Looking forward to seeing combination of either of Rashford and Ighalo or Martial and Ighalo in that United Frontline as the EPL is about to kick start again this month..
How I wish this man can Pen down a permanent deal with United already and remain in the theatre of dreams after expiration of his loan spell. So far so good, I'm glad he has proven the doubters wrong with his splendid performance in the club... GGMU! Trust me, he'll be stupid to reject a 200mil/week offer from shanghai fc at his age. If he were younger, he could and that's because he could have more propect but baba don old. |
Sports › Re: 5 Most Handsome Young Footballers by SirMichael1: 7:50pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Mbappe is handsome and he's placed in the top spot? Is this just me or is it you trying to put a black so it doesn't look skewed? Try Pepe instead and PS, Rodrygo isn't handsome, at least not handsome enough to be in top five. |
Romance › Re: Genevieve And Her Feminists Comment About Men by SirMichael1: 1:18pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Ardar: She is not wrong, all men are rapists.
Women are not safe
Little girls are not safe
Cows are not safe
Goats are not safe
Chickens are not safe
Their fellow men are not safe
Even inanimate objects are not even safe.
Fear men!! Hahahaha 
Una inability to get sense for this place dey top notch. |
Food › Re: Covid19 Cure Found! by SirMichael1: 7:33pm On May 31, 2020 |
Lol. Where can I get this cure? |
Romance › Re: She Stole Her Mum's Money And Gave It To Me by SirMichael1: 4:00pm On May 31, 2020 |
Don't marry her. She might steal your destiny and give it to the highest bidder but you already know that.
Seems we're in the buisness of saying meaningless things today. |
Romance › Re: Please HELP! MY Girlfriend Told Me To Do Press Up Then This Happened by SirMichael1: 3:14pm On May 31, 2020 |
UndauntedYOCA: Nawao, na wetin dey disturb you and your gf be this? Don't you have other things that are way important. You both should stop acting like you've got chicken brain abeg. Lol. Stop getting all worked up. You should know a troll's post when you see one. |
Romance › Re: No Sex Before Marriage: See What My Girlfriend Told Me (screen Shot) by SirMichael1: 9:08am On May 31, 2020 |
W |
Romance › Re: Is It A Good Idea To Quit This Friendship? by SirMichael1: 8:34am On May 31, 2020 |
As you clearly stated, it seems she's only keeping communication because she wants a way into your job. She doesn't see you as someone she can date but just a means to get by. |
Romance › Re: How Will The World Be Without White People by SirMichael1: 2:25pm On May 30, 2020 |
1Sharon: Arab or berber Egyptian? Not a Berber but an Egyptian that speaks Arabic. |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo, Zainab Ahmed Writes AfDB, Says U.S Has Ridiculed The Governance System by SirMichael1: 4:04pm On May 29, 2020 |
SirMichael1: And to get credence, he needs the US to walk him through an investigation that had been carried out on him for 3 months, even if they'll have to break protocols? All I see is the US telling the bank's internal Investigators that they don't really know how to do their job. It has more to do with ethics than the claim to corruption. |