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UyaiIncomparabl:
NO. You always claim to know too much.

Narcissists have an inferiority complex with all people. In particular, narcissists are jealous of anyone and everyone, any time they see someone having something desirable. Because of their high sense of entitlement, they think that, regardless of what the thing is, it should be them that has the thing, not you.

This jealousy must be unconscious, because to consciously be jealous would be to acknowledge inferiority. Consciously a narcissist will not acknowledge inferiority. Part of their complex is a feeling of superiority, which is necessary for them to feel special.

I hate to say this but you're just going back and forth with words, lingering on an attribute and explaining it in the shallowest of ways.

Do you even know what inferiority and superiority complex means?? Persons with either of the two complexes know that they have them. It isn't a complex if it is 'unconscious' or whatever. The fact you term their jealousy -which you're also wrong at- as unconscious, that justifies my initial assertion about narcs having superiority complex. Besides, you meddled between 'sense of entitlement' and jealousy. Both are mutually exclusive.

You know, for a lady I admire, you go about trying to act 'not-brain-dead' but it often than not comes out the same way each time. You know nothing kid but I guess I'm stuck with you, offering to teach.

Maybe next time you should check and recheck whatever I say as I am not always incorrect.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Narcissistic people suffer from inferiority complex. Don't start with me.

You mean superiority complex??

Don't go about typing things you know little about, alright? Now if you'll stop being rash, I'll love to school you. Again.

UyaiIncomparabl:
But Victorian, why can't you do without being cocky and lying too much?

I mean, it's okay if you want to speak highly of yourself, but we know who you are and it's totally uncalled for. Don't brag too much that you'll have to lose an helper who has interests in you. I see all you do as suffering from 'Inferiority complex'. You have a great deal of low self esteem. It's too bad, my dear. I wish you could get help. You really need help.

This topic aptly defines your attitude.

Inferiority complex isn't same as having Narcissistic tendencies. Do not mix the whole thing up.

victorian:
Then if you don't care or have problems about my life , why bring up " I have a fashion place at Fadeyi ?

As if it's a bad thing? Or I don't even understand your motive in bringing up the location of one of my businesses. Who ask you?
Lemme tell you and everyone here , saying I'm a fashion designer or some saying tailor. I'm not ashamed of one of my professions , I'm not ashamed of my offices in Lagos .
I know how much it Cost me to put all these things in place .

If you can't deal with the heat , then stop announcing where and there where my businesses are .

Honestly its none of your business or anybody's buisness and I didn't contract you or anyone to announce it for me . But if you choose to make me more famous and popular with your own spare time ? Well I can't fault you for it . Its a kind gesture from your angle.

In fact u want to hear more ? Lemme fill your ears , eyes and brain up! Chill!
Listen carefully , come closer and take note on this new info.

I have a new office and show room in lekki . I hope that satisfies more of your curiosity about me .

Then my personal relationship with God is none of your concern . I can worship God , serve Him , adore Him , announce God online and everywhere I go . It's no concern of yours. If it pains you that much! Well go complain to your creator and get the fucvk off my mentions!

Its that easy!

Smhhhh.

You're just a fat lady with showoff proportionate with your body size.

thebosstrevor:
most nar are on NL.

because they got lot of likes on a comment or a post they believe they are speaking the gospel truth. Any opposition comment is like a personal attack on their self worth.

Some NL mod are in the same category.

I'm not sure you understand how English works but you can't say 'Most Narcs are on NL', instead 'Most NLers are narcs'.

I'm sure you understand better now.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Supporting Arsenal because Psg mamad my team Man utd

Please what's the next team you'd be supporting? Lemme know the next team to lose.

uncle005:
The baby in his mother’s womb, is insulting the baby on earth off illness, if it is easy come to the world and face the challenge on earth.

Today is your turn right！we are waiting.

Today isn't his turn oh.

Slynation:
It was coined from Fayose's speech (I'm in severe pains) when he alleged one of his hands was broken by securities...

But his pronunciation was "I'm in sifia pains"

Lmao. I remembered when. Just didn't watch the video to hear his accent.

Slynation:
This guy must be in sifia pains by now...

What's the meaning of this 'Sifia pains' I've been seeing for quite sometime now?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Son? I wouldn't be surprised to know you both are agemates.

All the aforewritten are true. You are right, son.

Really?? We could be?? I honestly thought he was the youngest one.


I guess there's no way I'm getting away with a demeaning reply against your friend. Lol. But just don't give me back my words, be creative baby girl. Anyways, this has run its course, lemme go look for something else to entertain me.

IamPlato:
why Not Marry Yourselves Then.

It will be catastrophic son. Two seemingly perfect enigmas trying to live under a roof does not really work out fine most times. There's be misunderstanding over little things because both of them feel they're always right. Since no one wants to claim the imperfect, there'll always be misunderstandings. It's best to find a Chol-Mel, San-Mel, Cho-phleg or a San-phleg but never a San-Chol or a Chol-San as you'll end up feeling frustrated and drained all day. Since they can shut it and you find strength from been alone, you'll always be drained. Constantly.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Same here. 60% Mel-Phleg too.

She did you. You did her. What did you both do to each other?

For a melancholy, you're kinda slow oh.

What else comes from or after a hug on a graduation day? Why do people find it too hard to understand what I write these days sef.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Go and read about Mel- Phleg and stop acting ignorant.

Those temperaments you mentioned are a mix of introversion and extroversion. I'm not outling. I'm not choleric because It's don't care about leading people and I'm very non challant. I'm also not a sanguine because I'm not a chatter-box and not outgoing.

Like I said earlier, go and get more knowledge on these things please.

I'm like 60-40 Mel-phleg respectively. Tim LaHaye (rest his soul) did a great book.


...and I still don't hug people. I did a lady recently during my graduation though. She actually did me.

delectablegyal:
he must marry her. why are you shagging her when you do not want to marry her? why are did you pour it inside when you do not intend to take her into marriage? you also have the option of a protection. you must marry her. irresponsible guys.

Lol. How old are you??

marvinsync:
don't BS me , if u weren't clear u weren't clear


like u said there are different meanings to a single context , I just chose a meaning while u meant another


if u say I need to improve my comprehensive skills then u need to improve ur writing skills

Lmao. Go away jhor.

marvinsync:
ah u should have been clear then

maybe she hid her number some obnoxious girls do it a lot

You should make it a thing to read to a wide extent, different meanings to a single context. You'd improve your comprehensive skills by so doing.

TDonald:
You see why i said its so hard for you to comprehend things
But instead you resorted to insults.

Lol. The dude is slow

marvinsync:
goodness ,u can't read ?

u didn't see where he said he gave her his number?

Bros... Understand the context of my post.

Dude said he was always asking fro her number but even after getting arrested, she didn't give it to him. Then I asked, which number did she used to call him? or maybe you might understand this better. "What phone did she used to call him? can't he get her number from his call logs??"

That dude is lying.

PolymathDave:
We Nigerians shouldn't be following all these bad trends.
As Christians/Muslims, our women "religiously" aren't supposed to dress in that manner, they are meant to dress "decently".

Morally speaking, I also encourage the fact that most Nigerian girls don't wear bikini.
Just because the Europeans and other people dress that way.

Doesn't make it a "MUST" for our women to follow in their footsteps.

All these religious stuff won't work. The Christianity you people always refer to was brought by the whites so, if you want to take on a culture, take everything that comes with it.

placeofallure:
How many will i count? ι ωαѕ νєяу вα∂ ∂υяιиg му ¢αмρυѕ ∂αуѕ. тнє тнιиg вє ѕαу мєи иσ ∂єу qυι¢к нєαя ωσя∂. σиє мαи тнєи мαяяιє∂, ωαитє∂ тσ '¢нσρ there' ι нαтє тσ ∂αтє тнєм then ¢σѕ тнє тнιиg ωσυℓ∂ ℓєα∂ иσωнєяє. αfтєя α ℓσт σf ∂ιѕтυявαи¢єѕ, ι αgяєє∂ тσ gσ σи α ∂αтє ωιтн нιм. му fяιєи∂ѕ ωнσ αℓѕσ ∂συвℓє∂ αѕ му яσσммαтєѕ ωєяє єανєѕ∂яσρριиg, and they inνιтє∂ тнємѕєℓνєѕ. ιи нιѕ ∂єѕρєяαтισи, нє αgяєє∂.
ωє ωєит συт. ωє ωєяє α gяσυρ σf fσυя gιяℓѕ αи∂ нє тσσк υѕ αℓℓ συт. ωє ραιитє∂ тнє тσωи яє∂. нє ¢συℓ∂ αffσя∂ ιт.ωє ωєит тσ αвσυт 3 ρℓα¢єѕ αℓℓ σf υѕ ʝυѕт тσ ιмρяєѕѕ мє. ωє ρα¢кє∂ тαкє αωαу , єиσυgн тσ gινє αℓℓ тнє вσуѕ ιи συя уαя∂. ωє αи∂ the boys joked about it. ωє ραятє∂ ωαуѕ ωιтн нιм ωιтн α ρяσмιѕє тσ ∂σ ιт αgαιи тнє fσℓℓσωιиg єνєиιиg.
тнє иєχт єνєиιиg, so we heard, тнєу ¢αмє ιи αи єиνσу σf fσυя ¢αяѕ. нє'ѕ вяσυgнт мαт¢нєѕ fσя му fяιєи∂s ωнєи нє ιѕ иσт συя fαтнєя σ. мєαиωнιℓє, му fяιєи∂ѕ αи∂ ι нα∂ ℓєfт fσя ℓαgσѕ єαяℓier ιи тнє мσяиιиg. тнαт ωαѕ нσω fσυя ι∂ισтѕ мα∂є α fσσℓ σf тнємѕєℓνєѕ.

ι иєνα мєαи яєα¢н, ωє fσя αяяαиgє мαкє вσуѕ σвтαιи тнєм ѕєf!

тнαт'ѕ нσω αиσтнєя σиє ωιℓℓ αℓωαуѕ ∂ιѕтυяв мє ωιтн ¢αℓℓѕ αи∂ мєѕѕαgєѕ. ι'∂ вℓσ¢к нιм, нє'ℓℓ υѕє αиσтнєя иυмвєя. ѕσ ι ѕαι∂ иσ мσяє gєттιиg fяυѕтяαтє∂ σνєя нιѕ ¢αℓℓѕ. αиу тιмє нє ¢αℓℓѕ иσω, ι ʝυѕт ρяєѕѕ тнє gяєєи вυттσи αи∂ αℓℓσω нιѕ яєѕσυя¢єѕ тσ ωαѕтє. уσυ ∂σи ¢αℓℓ уσυя мαмα яєα¢н? иσвσ∂у тσℓ∂ нιм вєfσяє нє ѕтσρρє∂.

You're very rude and added to it, that's a sick font.

martyns303:
I was put in a cell because of her.

My first and only time in my entire life to have a police case. My ex had broken up with me leaving me vulnerable, met this drop dead gorgeous girl in my uncle's cafe I was working whenever I am on break from Uni. Helped her registered her jamb, begged for number, but instead she took mine and promised to call. Didn't call, that's not until one faithful morning.

She called and told me she's in my uni, she's looking for hall to write post jamb, I wasn't in school, but rushed down to school. located her and went as far as impersonating for her, long story short, I got arrested, when they found out I was a student of the school, I was slapped with an extra year. still, I didn't get number. Worst still, she avoided me like a plague like I was the bad guy.

Well! I wrote a letter of deferment to the school, zoomed off to SA to start another course, then off to the UK for another. Till date I haven't seen that girl again.

Dude, but why you lie so much na Which number did she used to call you?? Can't you get her number off your call logs

I'm more concerned with the writeup than the handwriting itself. Could you take photos of individual pages and upload them here? I'd love to read them

czarina:
There's nothing savage about that. Leo is a celebrity, the end game for him is better endorsement deals and all of that.

We can't say the same for people who just carry their full regalia and jump into the studio because them pass out. Then come and be disturbing everybody on Facebook with "Oluwa Taink you ooo".

Ogbeni, calm down madam. What is wrong with this mentality is that it embodies in itself the notion that you're all for money and your happiness matters little to you.

Photoshoots are a way reflect on your past and remember the hurdles you overcame during your service year and not a medium to make money via the shoot. Each time you see the photo, you're encompassed with an overwhelming happiness and therefore, everything isn't 'a chase for money'. Besides, you can't tell if Leo makes more money that some of those guys who take photos. Get the message of this thread and stop trying to sound smart while coming across as a sadistic individual.

Divay22:
Here i was thinking you're smart dude
I have just one moniker which is Divay22 and if it gets banned then am done with nairaland as a member.

If you have time to operate with several moniker not everyone has that time... You should have focused on what i said about him before spilling trash
Damn! I'm disappointed

I like that you're so free. I am not. I mean, you just went berserk with emojis on me. Well next time, should I offer a piece of advice and you're not totally cool with it, you shouldn't be rude about it okay? I didn't eat your cat girl. I just told you to not take this 'positive' thing seriously cause it seems like you already do. HIV isn't the end to life, AIDS is.

One can only be disappointed by someone who has a hold over them. I'm glad I could create such an effect.

Lastly, if you're gonna break your head over what you just read, can I ask that you do it on a marble and not a with a pillow? I really don't want you to get hurt.

Just a quick question though... 'Do I know you?' So just in case you might want to break your head, I would know what to put on your eulogy.

Divay22:
You ain't that hard as i thought..

Wow
Thanks though

Next time, make sure you're using your newly created monicker to reply any advise offered to you on your thread. You just threw your cover away.

Being positive isn't the end of life, in fact, it's a time to sit and set goals in your life. Take care of yourself.

MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak!

She's got no friends?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You flatter me sir. So much grammar for my humble soul... I only mentioned bride price, off course other padding are left to d discretion of d family ND kinsmen

I'm aware of that of course. The thread was about items for marriage introduction and when I came across your post, I thought the #50 encapsulated in entirety everything you need in nailing a woman from...?

Where would you happen to come from, my lady?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Bride price cost 50naira only where I'm from.

Should I say your comment got to me? or will it be proficient to say this comment was/is perfect?

I tried to understand why you're so not complex and yet your comments are apt for every thread. You're like that servant to a princess who keeps giving advice to the not-so-intelligent princess and yet, for some reason, you are not held in esteem. An adviser but not a friend.

There's this stereotype that goes thus; Most beautiful ladies are not intelligent and most 'not-so-stunning' ladies are intelligent. I would say you strike me like the first instant but then, you're the intelligent advisor.

Your attribute contravenes that stereotype and for that, you're rare. Therefore, I would never miss this golden opportunity for anything...

Please my love, can I bargain the #50?

Valchinon:
if Tottenham could make it out of a group that has Barcelona n inter I don’t think they will have much problem facing Dortmund

When they're mentioning big teams, do not mention Inter please. Save for the fact that Valverde rested player, Tottenham would have lost that match.