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1. Age ... Discuss your insecurities with her and at least get some reassurance from her that she will respect you despite being your senior

2. At least she is single by law..

3. This is the major area that may bring about great problems in the future if not managed with wisdom... Since you know she is a Christian, please respect her decision if she chooses not to participate/get involved in any ritual of yours... If you know you can't handle this , please cut of the relationship now because I have seen a friend gone through separation with his wife just because both parties insist that the other should leave their church not to talk of your case that is even about you being a disciple of African Tradition...

4. Well, I don't want to hold brief for her but in reality it's not as easy as you think except you have promised to be taking care of her needs and you have also stepped up your plans to get married to her, otherwise you either wait till she gets a job or you quit the relationship if you can't take the heat...

I believe that the chances are very slim that she could be pregnant

I don't think he is a scammer, it could be a possible case of a business that got sour, besides, he has agreed to pay back the cash and has made some payments already... Most scammers will hardly want to pay back instead they will prefer that the matter should be taken to court where it is a no man's land ...

vicfuntop:
Exactly. It's that bad, that even for a serious crime, I'll be checking which tribe committed the offence. Help me Lord

such is the current reality now due to power of supremacy amongst some nairalanders that belong to the major ethnic groups in Nigeria...

Ishilove:
Wonderful!!

Ishilove:
Mature advise on your tall tale? Thank goodness I missed that part of your fable.

Oya SweetToto, Ashawogirl, softwerk, b0rn2fuck, obowunmi, SmellingAnus, bushyvajina, IkpuMmadu, mamagee3, comman give this aunty your mature advise o

my advise will come in form of parables since i still dont know much about the Americana... 1. Everything that glitters is not gold... 2. A bird at hand in many cases is better than others in the Bush... 3. Look well before you leap.. 4... The grass is always greener on the other side... 5. When you chase two rabbits at the same time, you end up losing both....

vicfuntop:
Tribalism on this forum is quite funny. It has gotten to the point that I also come to check names . Smellinganus

hahahhah you are right dear.... Although I hardly do that but I noticed that sometimes consciously or subconsciously I also do check names...

VirginDiva:
Just blew you a kiss. No one like mum

Nice question that just got me emotional.... Well, I will spend mine with my mother... In the words of Tu Pac.... "ain't no woman alive that can take mama's place"...

At least I would never have missed maths class the way I did in secondary school

Nikkigel:
what weapons do i have can cause mass destruction? please i don't want a compliment

Lol...

Nikkigel:
tempted to do what?

please I already thought I had overcome... Kai... You and I know that you carry weapons of mass destruction (it's a compliment dear)...

Nikkigel:
yea

I stay in ph too... I am tempted but I jump and pass

Nikkigel:
yea they don't cheat

you actually stay in Port Harcourt?

Nikkigel:
In the first place my guy would never do that because i have whatever she has........but if he those it i swear to wherever i came from he will pay physically, spiritually, emotionally and mentally or pay with his life

Lol... Is that you on your dp... I doubt he would cheat on you

Bibi294:
If he's my fiancé, I can't ewlk in meeting him in such position because he would be aware I'm coming.... If it should be my husband, I would send the harlot away and talk to my husband.... If he's doing it for a reason.... We'll trash it out....

Marriage is for better for worse

may God make my wife to be have this type of mindset... Not that I am planning to cheat o... But some persons think divorce is the solution to many marital issues...

Although it a the first time I am coming across your moniker.... Happy birthday ... I wish you many more fruitful years...

A good display of words. Above all, the fact that your story is probably non-fictional makes it even more unique.. Nice one Op

vicfuntop:
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you can take it off now...

Nice one fear... Following

Pitakwa Pikin

vicfuntop:
Maturity. Awwwwwwh, this is lovely. Thank you for this but why do you feel it has got something to do with my growing up? It would be a pleasure too.

well, there are some females with similar tendencies like yours that I got interested in their matter and I decided to get closer to them to find out why they behave the way they do especially to the male gender... From my different findings, some of them have been assaulted sexually (rape) while some have seen their mum being assaulted (beaten) by their dad while some others from polygamous homes that had frequent conflict grew up into a fighter... The effect of all those things mentioned above has even lead to some in their natural hatred for guys, runs, lesbianism etc... A particular case that really got me worried was of this particular girl that was even raped in her anu after being raped to unconsciousness in her puss , she regained consciousness to find out that she is being penetrated in her anu ... I tell you , it has turned her into a beautiful monster... I really can't go into the details of her current monstrous life style but maybe your case might not have been mentioned above but it will still be good to get close to you and hear from you... You can drop your bbm, or what's app number on your siggy... I will add you when I see it vicfuntop

vicfuntop:
You know the person that loves more is the weaker one. Well it did the first time but not the second time Apparently, I am a "fighter" on Nl. . The person that usually help calm me down deactivated. Honestly smellinganus, I didn't know it was that bad. I just realized that I have fought with over 30 guys here. The last one even threatened he will locate me and deal with me . But seriously I need to stop. Victornezzar, helps at times. Should I just turn a new life but I hate being bullied though sometimes I look for trouble but I always apologise. How are you? How was your weekend

my weekend was good, ... Wow... Honestly, I didn't even know you were probably a trouble maker or a fighter, but you look too beautiful for me to suspect that... Well, there are two things about smellinganus , smellinganus has never been banned before since he joined nairaland and secondly, smellinganus has never exchanged words with any female on nairaland... Well, I will not say you should allow yourself to be bullied, but as much as possible you could avoid the unnecessary fights... Maybe it has something to do with your growing up that's why you are a fighter, hopefully, someday it will be my pleasure to listen you...(your story)

ADEWUMIMichael:
15 WAYS TO MINISTER WITHOUT BLEMISH(How to be spiritual in ministration)



1) Pray before any ministration, if possible fast for your ministrations ministers and avoid sin.



2) Be addicted to the word of God. In fact memorize them.



3) Do not take any ministration with levity. All ministration in the church are VERY important to God.



4) Do not seek for human appreciation or glorification before or after your ministration. Only God can appreciate you if you have put in your very best.



5) Learn new songs, new ways of praising God. In fact learn an instrument or two.



6 ) Be creative with your songs and the way you play your instrument. The bible records David played skillfully in the bush.



7) Rehearse, Rehearse and do more rehearsals. David was always playing in the bush, that was his way of rehearsing.



Do not compete, competition leads to strife and hatred. It means you are ministering from the flesh. You are unique.



9) Do not be envious of other people. Only you cannot do the work of God. Remember the sky is wide enough for the bird to fly without touching one another.



10) Do not have the mind to "show" or impress people when ministering. If you do that, you already have your rewards.



11) Do not be discouraged or feel bad if you are not allowed to minister on a Sunday or special service. All ministrations, no matter the day, are the same before God.



12) Do not be discouraged about the few number of people under your ministration, God doesn't work with multitude.



13) Do not think you are the best when you have larger number of people under your ministration. Just pray that God moves during your ministration.



14) Develop yourself, personal development is the key. There is no limit to development, even if you have waxed a million album, there are still rooms for development.



15) Take advice from people, also take corrections. However everyone may not like you. Even it is not everybody that likes God.

are you Spiritual Son of Apostle Suleman? (i asked this cos I know he has a yearly programme known as "Minister without Blemish"

vicfuntop:
When I didn't hear from him for about a week? How about you, creamymoltenlar

maybe you were toying with his emotions and he decided to give you space and boom... It worked

It's not your fault that your heart is broken, just make sure not even your future wife will be able to break it again...

MissRaine69:
Inside the vagina. It's all one colour and it does the same thing.

some are sweeter than others dear...

Mark my words... "A time is coming when a girl will be sick because of you..."

pocohantas:
Like I always say, some of us done forget say we get nyash.
We use it for sitting, as cushion.

HML to them...


Engagement ring should be worn on the fourth finger. I see so many Nigerian ladies making that mistake.

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What exactly is he grooming the last nail for?
When I see guys with annoying long nails, I just wonder how they finga their women with it

Lol... I don't think he will use that particular finger to finger her... Or what do you think

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Davidgrey:
[color=#000050] Corrected* #Imaginative curiosity [/color]

Lol... True...

Booboo7:
Famopompy, Originalsly, SmellingAnus, ladiesmirror, etc can't wait to have u guys back sweeties

oh... I am so happy to have you back , I am sure some persons and I did miss you... Welcome back dear...