preshpraiz: It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.My whole world is crumbling. I have been a regular guest here for awhile now but had to register this morning, I need somewhere to pour out my heart, somewhere to dump my frustrations. I came from a good, not so rich home but my parents were so hardworking.I had a good moral upbringing, went to tertiary institution and graduated with good grades. While in school, I never had a boy friend though I had a lot of "chykers", never went clubbing, didn't socialize much. Few months to the end of my NYSC, I met my husband. We got talking and boom, I fell in love with him. He is my ideal man....he doesn't drink nor smoke, gentle and soft spoken. He wasn't earning much but it didn't bother me. I believe in working hard and growing with my man. Now my regrets... * The "angel" I married has refused to get a job after losing the last one during COVID 19. He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals. I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no. I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep. Now our rent is due, no money. I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all these. When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now. I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house. Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio
So what's the connection between virginity and your current predicament? Or you are in search of a pity party to encourage you to go and cheat?
Typically, when we have a problem, we need the best solution and not the best solution we can come up with.
Moving back to your parents is not a bad solution but do you think there could be better solutions you need to explore?
Dpatriotng: What is the real reason BUHARI used Emiefele to place ban on those 43 Items?
To discourage Higher demand on forex ? To encourage local production?
Or maybe part of an elaborate plan to make a select few rich since those items weren't totally banned from import but you just cannot access forex from cbn, hence you have to get FX from the black market.
Godoverevery: Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now. She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money. She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.
In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.
I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.
She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance. From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.
She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.
Stop investing in women and start investing in yourself.
This is your only hope of ever ending up with a high value woman.
The moment you give in to such, you begin to loose value in her eyes.
Earlier today, the presidential candidate of the Labour Party in the 2023 Presidential Election, Mr Peter Obi, held a surprise World Press Conference where he reacted to the outcome of Bola Tinubu’s certificate saga in Chicago State University.
Addressing the press, Obi charged Tinubu to personally reintroduce himself to the nation and tell Nigerians his real name, where he’s from, schools attended and certificates obtained.
Obi decried the fact that Tinubu’s certificate saga has in the US has caused the world to now see every Nigerian as either a forger, a fraudster or an identity thief.
For those who have been following Mr Peter Obi since he declared for the presidency in 2022, they would testify that this is the most direct he has come at a person as he constantly mentioned Tinubu’s name and challenged him to save Nigeria further embarrassment.
One thing that stood out is that he refused to address Tinubu as “president” throughout his address.
Safe to say that Peter Obi does not recognize Tinubu as president. But should anyone?
saasala: I have a way of targeting Americans who are in need of web design, app, graphics services. $300 here, $200 there, $250 over there. I don't have any problems whatsoever and the economy isn't affecting me since I'm earning in $$
tensazangetsu20: I think there was a thread about someone wanting to migrate at 40 and people commented that they even did it at 50 and they are okay. Probably find the thread and send DMS to those people.
I know a man that relocated after crossing 50, he had been dropped from work due to the worsening economic situations. People were laughing at him but less than 2 years after his wife and children joined him and they are all doing superbly now.
Edited: I think the op is one of those sponsored agents that keep discouraging young people from Japa. The main people behind this discouragement is what I don't actually know.
IfnobeGod20: The guy is correcting you guys and you people are forming bigmantism as if you know anything. WAEC is a body and not a result of certificate or exam. GCE or SSCE are exams and certificates. The guy is intelligent more than the two of you. Whynotthetruth, God bless you. You're wiser than them. Cc Majesty7 Whynotthetruth
You just joined the dull one. And you can't even point out where and how.
slivertongue: I corrected you on this "WAEC is for students who completed their secondary school, while GCE is for people who want the same WAEC certificate "O" levels even without attending secondary school".
You must be a teenager to think WAEC is an exam, and GCE was another. GCE and SSCE May/June is for school candidates and GCE and SSCE OCT/NOV is for non school candidates. West African Examination Council organized both.
DarkLover: I’m on this table too, the stress is just much. I’m happy with mine a bit tho. My babe just left to Norway & it’s been hell coping without her🥲
toxtimmy: Like I said the word die turns you on... the orgasms you get from the word die makes you either a zombie or a ritualist.
You will be exposed...actually keep exposing to yourself since you are running on auto expose
You still remain nothing but a demented and cowardly slowpoke having no one to advise you rightly.
The only things in your head is how to masturbate, insult people, commit grammatical blunders and die.
I know you are obviously pained but lack shame hence will never admit whenever you are wrong but rater resolve to insulting others and fuming from the mouth. After today you'll learn how to respect yourself if you cannot respect others.
toxtimmy: If you like self-service yourself inside out na your load of milk to carry... next time you want comment use pidgin english as you sound like fun sh out of water... honestly ritualist like you days are coming... you will be exposed.
You are nothing but a demented and cowardly slowpoke having no one to advise you rightly.
The only things in your head is how to masturbate, insult people, commit grammatical blunders and die.
toxtimmy: Since you get orgasm when you hear the word die then you might as well go self-service yourself in front of a cemetery or morgue.
Na people like you dey do human rituals for a quick kobo.... your days are numbered.
Just like your stupidly inspired monicker, continue to reek of bile hatred and toxicity. Shallow minded slowpoke that lacks the capacity to think deeply and can't even think for himself.
Read your comments, you are the only one masturbating and edging closer to death in morgues and cementry.
The topic of discussion is different but because you know you have nothing upstairs and happened to be the managing director of a headless mob, you keep shifting the point and attacking my person instead of the points.
Classic approach utiliséd by shameless and dull cowards who have absolutely nothing to offer.
toxtimmy: You should be walking on you head... I'll hold on to this comments of yours so when you jump of the bridge I can show the world why.
You can go and die when you are ready since you have decided not to use any of what you have in your skull.
Keep your bile and hatred to yourself if you find it difficult to hold a conversation just because everyone must hold your opinion or they are definitely wrong.
toxtimmy: How a human being go call you to talk about mental issues and all you do is to record am without the person knowledge...and save am for your phone as a trophy.
Wow...wow...wow...
If someone tells the world to hold you responsible for their death if they die, then call you to complain about suicidal thoughts you wouldn't contemplate keep records?
MTNnews: So you as a person is Ok with potholes littering every Lagos road ? How was Fashola able to build school n maintain both inner n highway road that this clown can even maintain the 3 major highways in Lagos ?
N3TRAL: I can tell that both of you are cowards. You've probably never killed a chicken in your life.
Your strength is dependent on the mob. No crowd, you will run back into your hole.
Since you've lived a life where you have achieved little and not stood out, you yearn for relevance by joining fellow mediocre characters like yourself to crucify an artiste who is down.
Do I give a Fvck about Naira Marley? Obviously no. But I can't stall a judicial process that involves investigation.
I'm calling you out because you sound uneducated and if an IQ test was the prerequisite to join Nairaland, we wouldn't be having this conversation in the first. I'd be quoting someone else.
I admire your strength in responding to such stupidity from humans.
I'll try and reciprocate such so we can rid the world of even more stupidity.
Honestly, i was very sad and worried about the Stinking Hypocrisy of the pastor. Kinda reminds me of Pharisees and Sadducees in Jesus time. How dare you? What makes you think you are more righteous than Mohbad? When Jesus said we should remove the log of wood in our eyes before removing the speck in someone else's eyes, you thought it was a joke?
Who the hell are you to judge? From the little I've heard about the life of Mohbad, honestly I find him more worthy of salvation than you, because he honestly loved God Soo much regardless of the fact that he was a "secular" musician? Oh you think because he "smoked or drank" that you are better than him, or more deserving of God's love than him? And I ask again, who the hell are you? and who even made you a pastor in the first place? You are nothing but a pulpit bandit with no reputation. What do you think made Mohbad leave marlian records?
Also, what's this Nonsense about his stage name "Mohbad" ? You think that's a justification? Or you just don't understand the real meaning? What about Imole (Light)?
What about his countless "secular" songs praising God? I listened to his song "Father Abraham" on his "Light" EP. And i was moved to tears by his deep Love of God and Jesus Christ.
So Mr Pulpit Bandit, save your sermon and continue your scamming ministry. But always remember that the day of reckoning is near.
And also Mohbad is a saint compared to you. So allow him rest in Peace and NEVER in your life mention him in such a condescending way again. Mr Righteous. Clown
The fact that you couldn't understand his point is why you should have shoved your opinion down your throat and ignored
PaigeTaylor: Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years.
He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night.
But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. Passwords his phone from me. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.
Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work.
Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him. LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.
The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.
She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know. And those internet searches are RECENT.
I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.
He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.
HOW WILL I HANDLE THIS?
Your husband has messed up. But what efforts are you putting in?
Are you reasonably in his business? There are things you do and ways you'd present yourself that makes it harder for him to be compromised.
Because of today's law's and religion, many women make little or no efforts towards maintaining their marriages.
Family › Re: Married As A Virgin, Married For Love Yet..... by sonofthunder: 4:32am On Oct 14, 2023
