Cyntie55: There is this guy, we dated for 2 years before he traveled abroad (Italy) 2019. Our relationship was going on well even when he traveled out, we were always calling each other on video calls everyday. I was so faithful to him.
Suddenly (last year March), he started avoiding me. He could go for months before he replies my calls or chats. Atleast no matter how busy you are, you can always spare 1 minutes of your time with the person you claim you love.
Please note, he's always online, We do video calls mostly on WhatsApp and anytime I try to reach him on video call or send him a message.... it always ring and deliver but he won't pick or reply.
Here are my reasons why I'm so confused whether to move on with my life or not.
1) Although before he started avoiding my calls, he told me he was busy... that he was working on something (but he never disclosed the particular "thing" to me)
2) We were supposed to get married as planned last year August. But this is May 2022 and absolutely nothing is in progress about it.
3)I discussed with his friend about it and he told me he's in a relationships over there. (I don't know if to believe him or not, because he didn't show me proof)
Now, it been a year I'm enduring his character. I feel like I'm stuck alone in this relationship. Heaven knows I haven't offended him in any way. I wish he could open up to me and tell me what I was doing wrong so that I could adjust. OR he should just tell me he's in a relationship so that I could move on.
I plan visiting his elder sister this weekend and explain to her the issue on ground but on a second thought I think I'm too forward. I'm jst confused and I feel hurt.
Age is no longer on your side hence all this. Sorry big sis However, I can help you detach yourself emotionally from him and forget he never existed in less than a week. The problem is how much are you willing to pay me
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Contango: I am not a dancer, but a huge fan of Michael Jackson. My favorite choreography has always been the dangerous dance and I had vowed to do it before I die!!!
Definitely far from MJ and other professional imitators but I am happy I was able to whip something up.
Show some love guys Video quality not good though
I vow to do smooth criminal if I get some encouragement
Hailleys: Help! I am about to finish my 300L stage in one of Nigeria state polytechnics but I am losing many opportunities due to my inability to speak fluently in English language. Although, I am good in typing/writing and I can compose my self in good English in my brain but it is very difficult whenever I open my mouth. Any suggestion for improvement are welcome. Thanks Nairalanders.
Talk to yourself in the mirror often. In less than a month you'll be good
TheOldGods: We have been dating for a while now. Been coming to my house and my parents knows her. Normally she visits and sleeps over and ofcourse because she is my guest ,I'll have to give her food etc.
So today I decided to be different. I told her I was hungry and if she was, ofcourse she hurried and said yes, dresses up and jumped in my lexus. I just smiled, and started the car and we drove to a restaurant.
Before we got down from the car, I told her that I don't want to spend more than 3k on the meal between the both of us, and I told her to handle it, which she said fine, and split the fees to 1500 each. She got her food and a huge chicken which everything was 1500 naira on her end, and I got swallow which was about 1050 naira on my end. And the total money was 2550 naira. Then suddenly my girlfriend told me she also wants plantain, that the money is not yet upto 3k. That it must reach 3k. I was shocked because, if we were married then she can't help me save money when I tell her let's cut down cost. I thought she would even be happy that she saved me money and now we didn't send upto that 3k. But wow.
The waiter wanted to take the food and add the plantation of 450, but I refused and told her to collect her payment as we were done ordering.
My so called girlfriend then got angry and decided to seat somewhere far away from me, and we didn't see each other till I was done eating, although she waited for me. To my surprise she didn't eat that food, she packaged it back in a takeaway bag, and kept it for me. I asked her why she didn't eat the food she ordered by herself which was already 1500, as we agreed, and she said she won't eat it, and I took the food back. I ate the food myself with the chicken.
Right now, I don't want to take this relationship serious. Did I do the wrong thing by not allowing her spend the remaining money and making it 3k? Which ofcourse was the remaining money from my own food.?
So before you wanted to take the relationship seriously? Lmao
Imagine about 99% were shocked. This explains that men have finally come to the realization that these zoogerian biitches got nothing to offer but stress and backwardness.
So getting a message like that from them is one of the wonders that should be included amongst the famous wonders of the earth
Janina: Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ... Am a 20 years old lady ,
my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off. so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart.. But has anyone have an experience like this
Contekbbc: Seriously, everyone is not perfect. If [b]she has genuinely left her old way,[/b]why can't you forget the past and love her perfectly well. Las Las,all those things won't matter when USA finally go offensive against RUSSIA.
How do yo know she's genuinely left her old ways. By her opening mouth to tell you? Lmfao
Officiallyme: Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since
So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.
She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.
I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.
Thanks
Fvcked someone last December and yu call it past? Lmfao
klassyguy: Thank you very much. The funny thing is i do not even allow them to watch anything until the weekend. They know they have their school work to do each time they get home.
One issue I figured is my son gets bored easily. He gets tired of things once he has done them more than twice or thrice. When I call and tell him we would work on his homeworks when I get home, more often than not he would have done them before I get home. He is the kind of kid who can't sit still in one place for long and gets distracted, which was how I was when I was his age. That's why I decided to enroll him into the U8 soccer team he is. He has been there for a few weeks now and i hope that helps him.
You have a potential legend. Man don't play with that kid
klassyguy: I came here for advice on how to tackle a problem, not for a lecture on whether I am doing a good job of raising my kids. I've raised my kids the best way I feel. Not everyone is perfect. Sometimes you need inputs of other parents. Most of the time when I flog him, he behaves. His teacher has told me on several occasions he behaves after I "talk" to him, but it is not all the time one should spank a kid when he misbehaves. Training kids is not only achieved at home. They also have to learn and be corrected in school where their parents are not present, and that's where teachers come in.
As for the test, if you read my initial post, I clearly mentioned I AM OPEN TO TAKING HIM FOR AN ADHD TEST. It's my wife that's against it. I can't do that without her input and support. How would you feel if your spouse goes behind your back to do something with both your kids without your support and knowledge?
The young man already said what's needed for you child. Or maybe try another forum if you not satisfied with the advice you get here
Flahyuq: I have tasted only two cans of carbonated drink this year so far,one can of Pepsi and one can of Malt......Both in January I went on a no Carbonated drinks in February and March so far i have struck to my promise
How many cans/bottles of carbonated drinks have you had so far this year?? Can you remember??
yinkeys: Another fat lie We have a lot of enlightened and competent people who understand global politics and the urgent need for Nigeria to reach its full potential
We just have a bunch of warlords in power now. The black race is actually looking up to Nigeria to develop There are technocrats at home and overseas that are in multiple folds competent, healthy and capable of the job.
Can’t believe a country with so much potential 75% younger than 40 is run by a man whose office is in London
Rulers & Warlords don’t know what it takes to lead. They truly don’t know what it takes to be leaders People in power today are the monsters and enemy of Nigerians today that have deliberately stalled the growth of the country They only know how to spread evil If you like keep editing my posts, continue acting like the evil men that sent you
From your first comment on this thread I have been following. I think you have valid points. Like that other guy suggested you can actually create a platform on Twitter and push this agenda. I believe it will work. It's something worth going for