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OneSentence:
there are situations where husband and wife end up living a part and the marriage isn't over or troubled you know...sometimes work or other circumstances happen

I know bro.

In your scenario here, such couples are still at "home".

Perhaps you're misunderstanding my "Mars & Jupiter" example. By it I mean that which is unnatural: nobody cohabitate in these places.

Whereas if say the husband is in UK and the wife in Nigeria, it still means they're sharing a common space: the earth; which houses their home irrespective of their destination at a given time.

Biglittlelois:
I can see you've taken it upon yourself to stress on what I mean by my previous comment, if it gives you comfort, then continue to decipher it, when you're tired, you'd move on.

I don't get tired when engaging in meaningful discussions.

Biglittlelois:
Me saying I'll do that soon doesn't mean it will be outside a home, cohabitation can be in different forms, get it.

Cohabitation has two possibly meanings: 1. Living together and having sexual relationship with one you're not married to 2. Sharing a common space with either human beings or other living creatures.

Also, it is obvious from Op's tone of this thread that the cohabitation he is talking about is that of the first meaning.

You don't say: "I'd cohabitate with my husband", since no one expects you to be in Mars whilst your husband is in Jupiter: you're expected to be at home; a common unit shared by spouses.

Let's be contextual in our discussions.

Biglittlelois:
Never did that, maybe cos of my type of school, had an opportunity to experience it during nysc but couldn't cos I really really cherish having my personal space and alone time but I'd love to do it, hopefully soon

I don't think this is the time to do it.

You missed the chance whilst in school, since that period of time constitutes a large churn of our 'playful' years.

When you're out of school, the focus is on more pressing issues like building a career and a home, not on frivolities like cohabitation.

However, if you still have the time to spare, you may as well suit yourself.

ABLEGUY24:
I have a lot of problem oo, I easily fall in love lust but before I could know it in will see mY self not loving the person again. Right now I know I need a woman but I can't even last a Month with one and I will start feeling like is better I stay alone[color=#990000][/color]

Infatuation doesn't last, so you can't remained in it for long.

It is like the grass that blossoms in the morning and when evening comes, it is cut down and withers away.

Be in LOVE and not LUST.

Says the rocket scientist who succeeded in providing 24 hours power supply for Nigerians within six months of assumption of office.

APC...

In Obasanjo's voice, the cattle rearer is sick "body, soul & spirit".

UyaiIncomparabl:
You're very sensible.

Sosongo uyai anwan.

Earthbound:
Would you buy a phone or tab for someone knowing fully well who their partner is?

It depends on what your motives are.

This phone or tab you want to buy for her, is it out of just genuine concern of helping one in need or to lay her?

If it's the former, then you've done excellently. But you must demonstrate convincingly that the motive was of a pure heart. And if the latter, then be bold enough to tell her to her face: so the GIFT can stand as some sort of a contractual term agreed by all for a desired result; and not as a Greek gift.

But let me tell you of a more honourable way. Go for the former.

spiceadole:
It pains me when people deal with their exes and get suspected..
In my case, I didn't even issue verbal threats. It's a wrong move.
I just locked up and pretended all was well.
But from that moment, I monitored him closely indirectly for 1 year plus.
Then struck him.
3 years now, he is yet to recover. And he will never recover.
I made sure I rendered his life completely useless.
That dick that gave him effontery to misbehave is now flaccid with no puci to penetrate.
I staged the whole thing like a robbery incident..
Nobody till date ever links it to the fury of a woman who was scorned.
Nonsense and ingredients

Now this is the height of it, and it's a shade of all wrong!

Such wickedness is totally unwarranted and unthinkable!

Are you now happy, really happy

Damn it!

spiceadole:
I could have murdered him. But death could have been too easy, too simple, too pleasant,too comfortable for him.
I wanted him to be alive and suffer.. Wishing for death.
And that is exactly what I did.
Death is not the worst.
There are situations that are worse than death.

You did what!? Someone you once professed undying love for?

I just can't figure out how you guys take these things too serious.

Jeeeeeeez!

funmisticqueen:
the art of treating someone's fuckup

Really?

But you see, the problem with "an eye for an eye" is that in the end, we all end up blind.

You that is applauding a gruesome art of treating someone's fuckup, are you first of all perfect?

funmisticqueen:
you are good.

What is good about that murderer?

Of course, she's right.

Cheating is not different from every other form of sins. If murderers and the rest can be forgiven and overlooked, why all the noise about digging a different preek/pussy?

Shuuuuu....

nuelsam:
There was this girl i met like a year ago, then we started and all that. So fast forward to some months,i decided to take our friendship to another level;more like a relationship.. So i asked her out and she accepted.. Shes cute,shes got a dope personalty and all dah but one thing i dont like about her is that she always pretend not to love me jst becos of her ego even tho i knw she does.. So i was like wtf! Then friendzoned her and move on.. So i met this pretty friend of hers,this girl shows me luv, gves me all the attention and i luv her personalty so much, then she asked me out and i accepted ... Some days later, i posted her pic on my whatsapp status which my ex now friend saw n she reacted wit a sad emoji and said all sorts of heartbreakn words.. Shii .. Frm that moment on,she cut ties wit that her friend and changed....making it luk like i jilted her.. Lol wtf...like was i wrong to dump her for her friend?

You knew she loves you but couldn't express same feelings freely, yet you went ahead and called it quit?

You must understand that some people are not that free in a relationship, especially the girls. It has nothing to do with pretence. Sometimes it is just their own way of protecting their self worth. Need I tell you that overly showing love to someone can be a turn off?

If you ask me, I'd say you acted very immaturely.

What's her business with my password?

Seeking for one's password upandan to check his/her social media account reeks of insecurity and lack of trust.

WTF!

You have no business being in any relationship if you can't relax and trust your partner.

Ask for access to my account and I'd show you the door.

Thank goodness we'll soon have a President that understands the tech world: a leader in syn with digital governance.

Unlike one cattle rearer from Daura who only understands leadership from the prism of cow rearing.

Good job President Atiku.

olsome:
(4) Marry based on penis size instead of character. Whenever the right penis size suites you, accept proposal.

Of course.

What business does people like Cossy Orjiakor have to do with character and pencil preek?

These are nothing but kindergarten lines.

Last last NA HIV go be your portion in the midst of multiple pussies.

Now...

Ahem!

Actually, I have no problem with our girls for my mum's sake.

She's a Nigerian and the finest among women . So behold, though a Nigerian girl's sins be as red as crimson, yet for the sake of my mother's goodness and beauty, her sin shall be as white as snow.

If you no agree, mbok argue with your phone.

Necksonnel:
Lol. I hope the man of your dream won't dump you for the woman of his dream �

Sense wouldn't kill you, but you shall grow from common to uncommon sense.

To some extent, Op is right.

Most girls used such names to deceive the gullible. You wouldn't believe some simple ones reaches orgasm on hearing anything close to such names like 'dear' & 'honey'?

Yes, whilst it is true that the tool is mostly used for deceived, especially among the younger ones, it is also true that most times it is used sincerely.

Janosky:
Thanks for your comments....
pls ,my response will come later.
Peace,Bro

Greetings brother. I await your response.

Tell your cousin sister to report the threats to appropriate authorities like the police.

In Buhari's voice, "I don't know the technology used..." but I know the blackmailer can be track down.

Good luck.

Paxie55:
You knew you will be travelling abroad, yet you proposed love to her?

This is what some of you guys are always into, make some one head over heels in love with You, then dumb her like trash.

You didn't know it will hurt her right?
She will get herself but it will hard I know, but I pray she gets the comfort to move on cos your type is evil.

Michelle55:
you don't see a future with her yet you approached and professed love to her.. That singular act of yours is sheer wickedness. You knew you were traveling yet you played with her emotions? Or do you think she's a cyborg without an iota of feelings in her veins? If someone should mess with your sisters in such a crude manner, how would you feel?
Let your conscience be your judge dude.. I'm done advising the likes of you and I pray she muster enough courage to move on cos truly you don't deserve her!
Goodluck!

Calm down guys. We don't need to get so emotional here.

You see, professing love to someone is neither a binding agreement that can't be broken nor a covenant. If marriages can be annulled, then what is some child's play relationships often fueled by infatuation?

I see no act of wickedness here, neither am I here to judge. Op has made his intention known, which could be as a result of reasons best known to him.

Also of note is the fact that one can be in love now and then the next moment, the love is gone. Also, we don't love unconditionally. It therefore means that when what brought the love in the first place is no longer there, then the love too will find its way.

Valerie47:
Will that stop them from chasing fine girls? No.

A man once told me that he will rather marry a beautiful woman with bad character than an ugly woman with good character, that bad character can be changed with time(which is true), but beauty cannot be changed. This guy date only beautiful women .

Says who?

Have you not seen accident victims who were once very beautiful before their sad tragedy?

And of course, those afflicted and bruised by poverty.

Unchallenged?

Omobola121:
Buying of yams varies from the sizes of the yam to the market where you are buying from. For smaller sizes, you will see 25k, 30k, 35k. For medium sizes, you will see 45, 50, 55 to 60 k and for bigger sizes, you will see 65, 70, 80, 90, 100 to 120k etc. There is no fixed price when it comes to buying of yams, it depends on how far you can negotiate.

Like I said, 100k is okay if you are starting fresh.

Note: Never use all your savings for business.

Okay. Thanks

Thank you.

Please kindly give us the cost price of "one hand" and its selling price.

Also, what is the least estimate for a startup?

The question to ask is: What kind of relationship; romantic one?

Relationships must not be seen only from the prism of sex but on definition. I mean, it's only when the relationship is defined that one can talk about sex.

I personally see the idea of being in a romantic relationship, where smooching and the rest is allowed but not sex, as a height of stupidity.

Who are you deceiving? SMH.