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Pkingman:
...so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

Wisdom is profitable to direct here.

To show off someone or something connotes a sense of arrogance which invariably turns people off.

Often time, in fact, most of the time, people's primary motive of showing off is to boast, spite and move others to jealousy. Is this really what you want in your marriage--to attract an "evil eye"?

Again, wisdom is profitable to direct.

Pkingman:
In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but.
..?

There's no but.

All I see is a woman who's mentally and emotionally matured. And without mincing words, she's a rare gem. I see no abnormally but a home maker, one who actively works to make her home 'whispers' ends in her bedroom. And just like you, of course I see a wonderful partner!

You may want to retrace your steps and thank goodness for your blessings. Yes, you may want to start counting your blessings one by one...

Ahem! The things infatuation can do...

Let’s look at it critically. What is infatuation? It comes from the French word “fatuus,” meaning fool—or foolishness! Webster’s Dictionary defines it as: “To make foolish; to affect with folly; to weaken the intellectual power of; or to deprive of sound judgment.”

Therefore, in one sense, people who have become infatuated might be considered fools! However, few would admit that the choices they make are foolish, and fewer still would ever consider themselves to be fools.

But, how do we know that one is infatuated—what are the signs? Let's look at just one of such signs:

HOW DO YOU SEE THE OTHER PERSON? The infatuated live in a one-person world. Their attraction is like the earth’s attraction to the sun—their whole universe revolves around the other person. Seemingly nothing else matters, and both are completely wrapped in each other’s orbit—and this almost invariably turns to being wrapped around each other’s genitals.

Again, what evidence is there that you're suffering from infatuation? Here...

TryingHard:
...Cos It really been hard on me and making my life miserable I can't spend an hour without thinking about this girl, This is a serious obsession.. I can't concentrate on my life well...

Unlike love, which is outgoing concerns for others, the infatuated "loves" just ONE, I.e, without this one person, his life is as good as over.

Now, what's the way out for you? Just ask for it one more time.

raphretle:
...she has been a good person to me, very kind and supportive.

Then what exactly are you looking for? Thought most people readily praised such women to the high heavens and called them "wife material"?

Perhaps goodness and kindness is not enough. Just perhaps being supportive counts for nothing in the scheme of things. But what do I even know?

raphretle:
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Ladies and Gentlemen Help a brother...

Okay.

Let it be known to you that, if you eventually breakup your relationship with this girl because you claimed you don't love her, then know for certainty that love will never be enough in any relationship.

Yes. What other virtues like goodness and kindness couldn't do, don't make the mistake of thinking love will do it.

Why is this Wike doing everything to give the lizard of Ubima BP all the time?

Just how can someone be this wicked?

Preshy561:
Good, when he gets home, make sure he cooks, clean, mobs, wash dishes and cloths.
That's his work for being a leech

What the said girl did was more of a challenge than a selfless act, at least according to the deceived man.

You know, relationship is serious business that requires effective marketing strategies, and the girl understands this much. Have you ever walked into a business premises and get a small gift for your patronage?

Though such gifts be like mustard seed yet it has the power to move mountains. What it does is to spurs you to buy more than you would ordinary do--to keep coming more, and this is the same triple effect on this praise singer.

Smart girl.

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However, there's no ruling out the fact that girls do spent on guys genuinely. But on this very one, my entrepreneurial spirit wouldn't just let me agree.

More correctly put: "EFCC Ends Its Propaganda Against Justice Walter Onnoghen".

Bunch of retrogressive clowns!

Guy man!

Baba don see sey... AAC no get future. Even Sowore don shrink back into his shell after his disgraceful outing on Feb.

Sowore be like: "Mbok I cannot coman compete with Naija politicians. Leme kuku go and look after my propaganda machine--SaharaReporters".

PDP outing this year in Lagos governorship was a total flop.

Agbaje is just politically useless as it stands. In fact, if it was someone like Gbadamosi that flew the PDP ticket, he would have done excellently!

One thing I know sha. Jimi is not flying that flag again. He can port to YPP and we wouldn't give a fvck.

A "good wife material" and "good husband material" are nothing but subjective phrases.

Who told you what you think in your head as an ideal wife is what I want?

Just what IF I told you that my wife must be a three!some enthusiast in order to satisfied my definition of a good wife?

Just what IF...

crunchyg:
So what can you say about the holy spirit here in Genesis 1:2 that said the earth was without form and empty and darkness covered the deep waters . An the holy spirit of was hovering over the surface of the water?

"God is a Spirit..." (John 4:24). Here lies crucial understanding.

It's very simple to understand IF only you'll take it at face value. A Spirit is who God is--a totality of Him. He is not different--separated--detached from His Spirit, neither is His Spirit an independent supposed third Person of what is obviously ONE and the SAME.

Furthermore, the Bible talked of "a spirit in man" (Job 32:8 ). Now, since the flesh profits nothing, we must agree that it's the spirit in man that is the totality of man and not his physical being as flesh. Here's something to ponder on: Can you exist independent of your spirit? Are you 2in1?

So what you seek in Genesis 1:2 is this: Whenever you see "God" and the "Holy Spirit" in your Bible, make no mistake of thinking that the latter is the supposed "Third Person" of the former; but know that they're ONE and the SAME.

Mathematically, think of it as 0+0 or 0x0. It adds nothing and multiplies none.

Thank you.

crunchyg:
...if you don't agree, you can bring your point at the comment sections let's learn from each other. Thanks

Obviously, I don't agree. Not just for disagreeing sake but because even your Bible disagrees as well.

God is not 3in1, as coined by lustful pagans as the "Trinity". Biblically speaking, the Godhood is composed of two Beings called "God".

Firstly, let's establish that of a truth, the Godhood is made up of more than one Person before establishing the exact number that constitutes it:

"And God said, Let US make man in OUR image, after OUR likeness..." (Gen. 1:26). "God" in Old Testament Hebrew is Elohim, a collective noun that can be used in both singular and plural forms, such as with "sheep, deer, series, species" and other terms. It was Elohim who said, "Let US...". Note, the words "Us & Our" in this statement simply shows that at least two or more Persons were involved in the creation work.

But of course, we'll prove that they were not more than TWO. We've already proven that it is more than ONE. So let's see...

"In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God" (John 1:1-2). Before we tie it together, let's quickly see who's this "Word":

"And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us..." (John 1:14). This speaks of non other than the One we know today as Jesus Christ.

When tied together, we see that even before the settings of Genesis 1:1, TWO Beings existed, One called the "Word" and the other "God". Interestingly, both of them are GOD: One God--one divine family, or kingdom--comprised of TWO individual Members.

Furthermore, think of their relationship as the sign on U.S. President Donald Trump's desk: "The buck stops here". The Other--the Word (logos in Greek)--represented God, serving as divine "Spokesman" for God's kingdom, following, supporting and carrying out God's commands. One led; the other followed His lead. Yet they were both equally God, in character and power. Their relationship simply reflected an ideal government in action.

In conclusion, having gone all the way to the beginning to see how it all started, and indeed we've seen that there's no mentioned of a supposed "third person" like: "In the beginning was the Word, the Holy Spirit, and God. And the Word and the Holy Spirit was with God", we must summarily conclude that this so-called third person is simply an invention by enemies of the truth.

God is not a Trinity!

ahmedkoded95:
...Biriomoni continued “the order of the tribunal still subsist even when they go to the Court of Appeal except they set it aside. Until the Court of Appeal overrules the tribunal, the judgment subsist. Whether they file a notice or not, that does not take away the validity of the judgment until it is overruled by the appellant court, either the Court of Appeal or the Supreme Court.”

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Cc lalasticlala

Sweet news.

Goodbye to Oyetola and his goatee friend, AregbeRascal.

Plushdrana:
... And that my friend na were, hin no too get sense..

You dey yarn okpata. Shey na pesin wey no get sense fit yansh your woman laidat? That guy na baddo

Plushdrana:
Help needed..

The only epp wey remain for you na make you sef upgrade your own sense.

Raydans:
...But damn i am scared cos I am now vulnerable unlike what I stand against.

I am scared like shiit

You dey form hard man. "I be strong man! I dey dribble dem like Ronaldo and play dem like Messi!".

Las las antelope don enter trap. Na now you go know sey " Nemesis Was Here" tru tru.

Tough man! Nothing dey happen...

Lefulefu coman take your thing mbok. Or shulai send it to you?

Hmm. President Jerry Rawlings still looking strong and full of life, unlike a certain lifeless man.

Good job Mr. Jerry.

Redwhiteandblue:
...She's a good lady, the type every man would want.

Seems she's not good enough for you.

Redwhiteandblue:
GF says she's willing to wait for 5 years max so I can figure my life out before marriage but she needs some form of "security", something to hold on to; either a court wedding or a baby.

Wow! 5 freaking years!? Babe is loyal.

Redwhiteandblue:
She's concerned about her biological clock and waiting in vain.

Genuine concerns. Obviously, she doesn't want to be a loafer.

Redwhiteandblue:
I, on the other hand, do not quite vibe with the idea. I think if we're waiting for each other, it should be because of love and not a "commitment" *I hope that was the right word*

But love is not complete without commitment. So love is commitment and vice versa.

Redwhiteandblue:
She says she's very much okay with a Long-Distance Relationship as long as communication is strong -- she has done it about twice. For me, honestly, I am not sure I can do it. I told her its something I'm willing to try for us but I'm not assuring her I can do it. I think "out of sight is out of mind" she thinks "absence makes the heart grow fonder"

I see two opposing views. Here, you guys are the very antithesis of another.

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My judgment:

Having taken everything into consideration, the opposing views both from your family and your own self, all the issues and side note you raised, I can comfortably say that you're not at all willing to make the relationship works. Rather, you're finding excuses.

So, I'd advise you to take a walk and also advise your woman to do same. This is for the greater good of all.

ngtimea16:
...Responding, Governor Gboyega Oyetola, who was represented by the Permanent Secretary, Ministry of Education, Festus Olajide, said the Oluwo had “not minced words in telling the truth.”

Here, the Governor acknowledged the truth. In other words, there's fire on the mountain.

But then, what now? What's the way forward? Here...

ngtimea16:
He said the quiz competition had brought out test and measurement in terms of performance of students in public schools.

He jumped to something else...

Right after acknowledging his failures, the Governor was like: "Fvck it! I can't deal with that sh!t the Oluwo has just said. In fact, I'm clueless".

No solution; no way forward.

I'm very much interested in this judgment.

hilario12:
Nope, a thank you and sign she is happy about it self could have been enough.

I'm highly disappointed.

You can't seat in your 2012 Corolla car and decide what is a "Thank You & Appreciation" for another person.

Sex has always been a mutual act and not what you 'think' in your head.

hilario12:
30k phone is something now. I did it for a start self. I got discouraged because she didn't appreciate the phone even though she wanted it ooo.

You mean the agreed form of appreciation was to fvck?

barbwire2:
Still on this Story. Am going to expose this girl and her Facebook contact and a few of the nudes. Coz am so vexed right now

That'd be outright foolishness and a violation. If you can't stomach the pains of cheating, please quietly take a walk.

Biglittlelois:
Madam, what exactly do you want to hear or what advice do you want exactly Do you need a video evidence to be convinced he is cheating or you want to physically see them in action

All she wants is the reassurance that her husband is not fvcking another. You know, like telling her what she saw was some sort of hallucination: a hoax.

Poor her. Obviously, she loves her husband. SMH

aristocrazzy:
Not that I'm not in support of honest, legal hustle. But his too old for this kinda job instead he should be supplier of donuts to sellers rather than be a hawker.

Thoughtful of you. But what if he has no wherewithal?

Well done.

Back then in the days, we'd be combing everywhere for green lights, interpreting even an innocent returned of greetings from a girl as a huge sign of 'Go ahead Baby'.

But now?

I'm not watching out for green lights anymore: I have the ability to turn even supposedly red lights into glowing green lights. Now, that's the difference.

Indeed, Obi is no longer a boy.

What's the excitement about?

AlphaPaul:
...my fear is that I might end up doing something really terrible to her

You're already in sifia pains. And now, do you want to make it worst?

Here's my judgment. Either of these two awaits you if you act foolishly:

1. Get your sorry arse thrown into jail. You wouldn't be sorry yet until those modafucker gays get hold of your yansh.

2. An eye for an eye and tooth for tooth.

But verily verily I say unto you. If thou shall allow a hoe to hoe in peace, indeed, great peace shall thou have.

Be wise and hearken unto me.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Mbok, no do again. I no want sef.

I wee not cry sha. I'm a great man of faith so I'd take it by faith...

What a perfect pay back!