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She'll find a job in naija. They will be more than happy to hire an 'oyibo'.

Ikomi:
LOL. He means Deserve = Qualified Enough,  cant u translate. 

Of course i knew what he meant. was just trying to get him to correct his mistake. You dont have to glare at me. 

@ OP
you sound very insecure.

what has qualification got to do with inheritance?

why all the name calling? You judge her so harshly because of all the news you glean from city rags?

4 Play:
@Ika a.ka. Pro bono Ini Edo spokesperson

That woman needs a serious make over. Chai, look at the avordupois infested body . . . . . . _{I would shag her though}

Of course you would.

so would half the guys talking smack about her.

The plot thicken.

**osisi:
I think some men find it invigorating to snatch other people's women
haven't you had men who knew you were married, hit on you?
even in naija parties with your husband a few feet away.
That's why there's a word called adultery

My sister. No be small thing. I fight my own battles everyday. Apparently the ring on my finger is not a deterent. Its worse with exes who think they have rekindling rights. so i know what mr sweetpain is talking about! When all else fails, there's always willpower sha .

@ sweetpain, your mind is made up. When you get there to that 'guesthouse', take a good look at her and in your mind's eye strip away her weave, fake lashes and nails and see if the jackdaw that surfaces is worth throwing away your marriage for.

married woman?
No be real bad market be that?
Im always puzzled why men will lay everything down for a woman who is spoken for when there are a billion planktons in the ocean who are free of all encumbrances just waiting to be had?

Okija_juju:
Listen if you believe that there is God, then believe that there is something as powerful if not more powerful than it.

Mr high priest, only in your dreams!

but how come the babablawos never get themselves some solid jobs? Why sit coated in dust with rings drawn around your eyes with chalk when you can be in an air conditioned office and chaffeur driven?

I'll tell you alright. . . . . . . . Just stop about your boyfriend. Any topic but him will do.
Thanks.

Are you sure you are not Leila reborn? All your petty issues on nairaland.

I highly encourage you to go on that first date with no holds barred!
Hopefully you will very quickly join the ranks of people who have successfully and foolishly jeorpadized a happy marriage because of one inconsequential indiscretion. Twenty year old has nothing to lose here. Some tips for you should you need them. Some ice cream , recharge vouchers and trips to the theatre should do it for the airhead. What a small price to pay for your marriage going up in smoke. goodluck dear.

What was he thinking? 

I dont think anyone should dictate a bereaved person's mourning period for them. Women however seem to be hesitant to go back into the dating game. Family and friends tend to be judgemental whereas they in some cases even give young girls to a widower to console him during mourning!
Once a person is dead, they are dead. You are free to continue your life.

beat lightly? Hehehe ehe ehe .

@ OP
He's extra romantic and opens car doors for you? 
Reads post again. I see. You are white. We (being nigerian women) usually do not get such gentlemanly gestures. We just watch them in movies or read about them. Apparently you are extra special. Enjoy!

muhsin:
Wish I was him. Lucky dude.

Try languishing in detention for a day.

I'm here thrashing Mr west when i have a boatland of school work to do. Una goodnight jare.

St.Funmi:
Now imagine why that hot girl married him in the first place. An ugly uneducated ex alaye soccer UN ambassador.

She wasnt doing anything new by gold digging on him. The battering just wasnt something she bargained for. Better to die of poverty  than to be pummelled to death.

Osisi abeg dont kill me. You are too funny. i dont know. The hard angles of his face na die. he is now a pastor. I saw him on Tv in an interview scratching all his orifices.

I give you taribo

St.Funmi:
Even when she was still working in the bank in lagos while taribo was in far away Germany. Did he beat her through the phone?. They never lived together.

Voltron, he had allegedly battered others before her. when you move in you get your share. I guess all that money is not worth your life. enough about Taribo. I dont like his horns.