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Entitled ass! The eight years is going to benefit his generations more than Oyo state. She wants a cookie because her husband did less than he was supposed to do.

Obviously!

It is the the same. We have different types of ewedu and the taste may be slightly different

feedthenation:
I think molokhia and ewedu are quite different. I made the the mistake of buying it once. The texture and taste after cooking wasn't the same

He was good in his first term but he became power intoxicated in his second.

The more reason we should say no to second term!

Kini big deal really. He will be fine.

How much did he defraud the Oyo state people? Karma doesn't exist though.

Where is her mother and father?

This is actually very true.

You can read, cant you? Or is your masculinity in doubt too?

OriOko88:
Some of you girls on nairaland are just too lousy and uncouth. What warrants you calling someone stupid because he aired his opinion. Onibaje oshii

Some of you are very stupid. What should he have done? Beat them up or was he aware of what they were going to do?

Everything is always masculinity competition with you.

olaarie:
U are a weak and dull man. Who dares take my kids out of my house? Is she and her family mad ni?

Eeyah . You should get your family involved

Why is your MIL living in though? Your wife's mental health might not be the best, you should look into that if she is willing.

It is what they say. Islam. A child is sinless until he starts puberty.

LordReed:
How can a baby have any conception of a god when it barely has a conception of its environment?

Besides which religions are you talking about because I have never heard of this before.

Are you saying that a baby will go to hell through no fault of his?

chubinwa:
If the baby is not baptized, he/she will go to hell because we were all born with the sin of Adam and Eve.

In Islam, a baby's fundamental faith is in the 'real' God until his parents or society misleads him.

Report to the police; withdraw all the money from the joint account, then sit back and watch

bukatyne:
Because we are the same as men and everyone MUST be FORCED to bear the choices of their actions.

FIRST OF ALL, we are saying men cannot be forced to take responsibilities so women should make better choices. How many responsible guys are out there? Are they going to experience significant changes to their body? Is their job/school going to suffer as much? Is finance everything there is to child-rearing?

Hathor5:
FIRST OF ALL, I have not argued against women taking responsibility so why are you telling me all this?

You are all quick to take irresponsible men as an example. What about responsible guys? What about those guys who get trapped by women with pregnancy? Didn't these girls tell them they were on birth control? An irresponsible guy will not give a damn but a responsible guy will suffer the consequences because he has a conscience.


And you can force a father to take financial responsibility for his child, many countries actually do because they have gone beyond useless discussions about "who will suffer greater consequences" and made the child's welfare top priority.

Exactly, the stakes are higher for us. Why should we insist on making poor choices?

bukatyne:
@bold:

Even a woman married in all forms bears the risk of pregnancy alone.

Carrys the baby alone, enters labour room alone, bears the pain alone, nurses the child alone, deals with bodily changes alone, works on weight loss/getting back to shape alone.

Do you know you can't control other people? You can't force caring on anyone? Even the law will not force 'caring' on any father. Community shaming will not work against these men in the 21st century. With supportive partners, women will still at a disadvantage with pregnancy, childbirth and childrearing.

How about we make better choices for ourselves since you can't fight against these realities.

Hathor5:
I know what the point is and I have never argued against women taking responsibility. I have argued in favor of everyone taking responsibility. There is no good reason why everyone should not. None.

No, we need to encourage women to choose better.

We lose more and we are more compelling to act as the parent. Unfortunately, it is a fact that cuts across marital status.

kneehighbootz:
Please, dear women. Let's learn to quickly perceive misogynistic and women shaming topics and not give them the attention they desperately seek.

If the op can hold one gender accountable while exonerating the other (a toddler knows it takes two people to make a baby), just know that he's not actually looking for a balanced discussion but an excuse to abuse and vilify women.

Pay him no mind. Have a good day, ladies

Childbirth places women at a disadvantage, so why would you choose not to be selfish with your body despite all the options available? The least the man can be forced to do, is pay monthly child support.

pocohantas:
I guess the point is, while it is the responsibility of both to take pregnancies- one would suffer the effect of this irresponsibility, PHYSICALLY, PSYCHOLOGICALLY, FINANCIALLY and in whatever way we can think of.

Women need to learn to be “selfish”. Trust me, if men had wombs, humanity may have gone extinct. They are that selfish.

I hate blame games on things like this, so I am 100% selfish. The one I can do, I will do it. The one I can’t do, I will NEVER do it.

I would do the same for anyone that agrees with Reno; this tweet or others.

I read a blog that says that white pepper helps with the party taste. I should try that.

I don't have the patience to wait for the evaporation . I pour everything in and steam the hell out of it. It comes out nice but not as nice as party jollof rice. My mum manages to get the party taste with tomato passata, red bell peppers, onions and ata rodo. I don't know how.

Basmati can actually be really good especially the golden sella and supreme sella types of basmati rice. Have you tried cooking jollof in multicooker?

pocohantas:
Pic: Food is ready. I turned properly.

580k? Are you a produce?

Death is not the wages of sin but RIP

It looks good. Using leaves for the first time is a hassle.

pocohantas:
Thanks @ Dyt, Sterope, Cococandy and everyone.

We did this together. I struggled with the leaf at first and was obsessed with checking if it is spilling. Finally I noticed less spills and... I was happy.

Google has a definition. You should have read it and understood it before posting this trash.

'prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.'

Don't be an Uncle Tom. They are not going to love you more for being a good monkey.

Nbote:
Blacks kill blacks more in the US and even here in Africa.. While dey were busy protesting about black lives matter, a fellow black molested and probably killed her.. If a white man molests or kills a black man, it's termed racism. But when blacks keep murdering and ruining demselves, it is jus crime

Nah, I would kill you.

hammer3:
If u be my wife, and i tell u say i no dey mood, u want to tell me u wont suspect me?


U will make a very good wife, u know.

Use blender

Soak it in water. Pulse it for few seconds. Remove the peels like usual.

pocohantas:
Growing up I never washed beans. Whenever I am asked to do it, I will carry the beans on my head to the backyard. My bro will sneak out with me...

He did the washing, then I carry it back inside again. Sweating like I am the one that washed it.

25yrs later I wanna make moinmoin. I am not gonna regret not learning, I believe there is a way around this. A MODERN way...

Someone should give me the plug

Are you always in the mood for sex?

What does this topic have to do with the wife that actually neglects her duty?

What is moral about treating your wife with respect?

Do you enjoy disrespect?

DMerciful:
Why not divorce him if you dont like his approach to sex instead of all these moral stories? You wanna stay married without performing the required duty? You can't eat your cake and have it

Do you think alike because you are married? Would take responsiblities for crimes and sins because you are married?

Use your brain. You don't treat your wife like she is bottom trash because you are an untrained animal that doesn't understand 'no'.

hammer3:
F9!


It is one body not her body.

You don't rape your wife and call it marital right. It is not a right that you forcefully take. Her body still remains her body. You don't lose autonomy because you decided to marry a beastly, disrespectful wicked human being.

It is not marital rape but it is still assault.

Mayng01:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?
No! Marital right, not marital rape, the husband only took what is his marital rite by force because the wife is denying him of his rights. As far as l know about Nigeria, there is no such thing as marital rape. Thank you.

No, you don't make vows to submit your body for better or for worse. You could as well tell us she could be murdered too. What next, you can rape your children too because you own them. Many pervert parents use same arguments to rape their children.

techmo:
Legally Your Husband cant rape you if you read your marital vows and made the promise to submit your body to him for better for worse