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Childbirth places women at a disadvantage, so why would you choose not to be selfish with your body despite all the options available? The least the man can be forced to do, is pay monthly child support.

pocohantas:
I guess the point is, while it is the responsibility of both to take pregnancies- one would suffer the effect of this irresponsibility, PHYSICALLY, PSYCHOLOGICALLY, FINANCIALLY and in whatever way we can think of.

Women need to learn to be “selfish”. Trust me, if men had wombs, humanity may have gone extinct. They are that selfish.

I hate blame games on things like this, so I am 100% selfish. The one I can do, I will do it. The one I can’t do, I will NEVER do it.

I would do the same for anyone that agrees with Reno; this tweet or others.

I read a blog that says that white pepper helps with the party taste. I should try that.

I don't have the patience to wait for the evaporation . I pour everything in and steam the hell out of it. It comes out nice but not as nice as party jollof rice. My mum manages to get the party taste with tomato passata, red bell peppers, onions and ata rodo. I don't know how.

Basmati can actually be really good especially the golden sella and supreme sella types of basmati rice. Have you tried cooking jollof in multicooker?

pocohantas:
Pic: Food is ready. I turned properly.

580k? Are you a produce?

Death is not the wages of sin but RIP

It looks good. Using leaves for the first time is a hassle.

pocohantas:
Thanks @ Dyt, Sterope, Cococandy and everyone.

We did this together. I struggled with the leaf at first and was obsessed with checking if it is spilling. Finally I noticed less spills and... I was happy.

Google has a definition. You should have read it and understood it before posting this trash.

'prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.'

Don't be an Uncle Tom. They are not going to love you more for being a good monkey.

Nbote:
Blacks kill blacks more in the US and even here in Africa.. While dey were busy protesting about black lives matter, a fellow black molested and probably killed her.. If a white man molests or kills a black man, it's termed racism. But when blacks keep murdering and ruining demselves, it is jus crime

Nah, I would kill you.

hammer3:
If u be my wife, and i tell u say i no dey mood, u want to tell me u wont suspect me?


U will make a very good wife, u know.

Use blender

Soak it in water. Pulse it for few seconds. Remove the peels like usual.

pocohantas:
Growing up I never washed beans. Whenever I am asked to do it, I will carry the beans on my head to the backyard. My bro will sneak out with me...

He did the washing, then I carry it back inside again. Sweating like I am the one that washed it.

25yrs later I wanna make moinmoin. I am not gonna regret not learning, I believe there is a way around this. A MODERN way...

Someone should give me the plug

Are you always in the mood for sex?

What does this topic have to do with the wife that actually neglects her duty?

What is moral about treating your wife with respect?

Do you enjoy disrespect?

DMerciful:
Why not divorce him if you dont like his approach to sex instead of all these moral stories? You wanna stay married without performing the required duty? You can't eat your cake and have it

Do you think alike because you are married? Would take responsiblities for crimes and sins because you are married?

Use your brain. You don't treat your wife like she is bottom trash because you are an untrained animal that doesn't understand 'no'.

hammer3:
F9!


It is one body not her body.

You don't rape your wife and call it marital right. It is not a right that you forcefully take. Her body still remains her body. You don't lose autonomy because you decided to marry a beastly, disrespectful wicked human being.

It is not marital rape but it is still assault.

Mayng01:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?
No! Marital right, not marital rape, the husband only took what is his marital rite by force because the wife is denying him of his rights. As far as l know about Nigeria, there is no such thing as marital rape. Thank you.

No, you don't make vows to submit your body for better or for worse. You could as well tell us she could be murdered too. What next, you can rape your children too because you own them. Many pervert parents use same arguments to rape their children.

techmo:
Legally Your Husband cant rape you if you read your marital vows and made the promise to submit your body to him for better for worse

It is still assault under our law. In other climes, once they can prove it. He should be ready to become a sex offender .

WOMEN ARE NOT PROPERTIES!

Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?

In Nigeria, you cant.

In saner climes, you can!

FYI, men use rape to punish their wives. If a woman you claim to love and respect says no, you don't go ahead to have sex with her knowing how painful the experience would be for her.

It is no different from saying no to other men and even a bf. Marriage doesn't mean a woman cannot say no. When you stop treating your women as properties and second class citizens, you would realise that she can bloody well say no when she doesn't want sex!

hammer3:
Legally u cant be raped by your husband.


If your husband can rape you, y are u married?


Wat any reasonable court of law should uphold is acts of physical or domestic violence, that falls under assault, battery, abh and gbh.


If u come before a court and say your husband hit you and then had sex with you forcefully, then we can bill him for the above.


U cannot tell a court, your husband did not take permission before romancing u and that is rape.


I will throw the case out, it is all about how u present it.

Are you saying the husband is not forcing his wife or having sex with her body without her consent?

Heffalump:
You can't rape your wife

You cant and don't own another human being. Marriage doesn't mean women stop being humans that deserve respect. It doesn't mean people lose their individualities. It is not consent to raped or forced to do what they don't want to. It is abuse.

sheyitokz:
what if d man blonkos rises to an unmeasured lenght nd needs to enta a pothole to cool down nd d woman keeps denying him nd he forces in coz he owns dat place...WILL DAT ALSO BE CALLED RAPE

Rape =sex without consent

Disagreed sex = sex without consent

Redoil:
This days due to civilization many people cannot differentiate rape from disagreed sex

if a man is accused of raping his wife what Will then be the punishment
2 years jail term or castration
in the end the woman will suffer for whatever actions she takes
so there is nothing like marital rape

Your parents should have paid more for your education.

Davida33:
you hate the truth

What part of my statement showed support for any politician? Can you thieves and online beggars stay on track, please?

Davida33:
When will your politicians end in Jail? Another politician was released last week from jail and the Senate president even visited him. I am not into Fraud but I hate when will blame all our problem on Yahoo boys while we worship politicians.

Ole! Barawo! Armed robber! You will end up in jail, your time is coming.

Richieniit:
did he steal your relative money?
What matter at hand are you discussing?

To celebrate another man's downfall or the joy of seeing he's got issues?

I'm very sure na your type they go him igram to beg for money... yeye!

Guy hustle cos that salary of yours won't give your kids the best life they deserve. I'm not saying i support crime but you can't actually say you are better than him. YOU'RE ALSO A SINNER LIKE HIM SO PICK YOUR SIN RIGHTFULLY AND BLOOM LIKE ROSES

Support crime with your full chest . This isn't about politicians. Focus on the matter at hand.

Richieniit:
lol... hushy go dey pray make 9ja take over. E no go pass settlement 9ja operatives they find like they did with mompha and he bailed himself and sailing wide and back to his usual.

I no support crime o but i feel for huspy

Nigeria that didn't put in any work. Shameless people!

Don moen songs will affect only those who want Don Moen songs to affect them

itzmarvyx:
We were playing rough play and senses were already going, my earphone was in my ear just one ear but not playing anything, when I realised that in the next 5 minutes I may do something I regret, I just played one Man of God's message sharperly, it was Apostle Selman. Immediately I heard his voice, my senses came back and my body relaxed.

When the action wanted to progress further, I just halted it and stood up to take my leave. She stood up and just slapped the earpiece from my ear almost cutting it. She immediately became very surprised at her actions and apologised, said she didn't know what came over her. A gentle lady like her?? I just smiled, told her I understood and that was how I saved myself.

That thing that came over her was a spirit contrary to the Holy Spirit of God. They are all around us looking for bodies to inhabit.

Think I'm joking ?? The next time a guy or lady comes and sex wants to happen, just play one Don Moen's song and watch what will happen.

This life is not it at all.

I am surprised with how pagans don't fight back.

pocohantas:
Should he be given a chance? You are asking this because of his “religious” affiliation?

When did we start disenfranchising people for that? Considering you would have no problem with him and his kind voting for a christian/muslim aspirant.

She was born with hair that is easily matted or found difficult to comb. Foetus are amniotic liquid and sac so she couldn't have been born with dread.

majamajic:
I know her , she is just 21
Dread from birth (dada
Ajegunle brought up now living in asaba
My Facebook friend for long now, I tire for her matter

Yeah. That is quite interesting. Thanks

bukatyne:
There seems to be a lot of issues around them:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2020/02/27/kelly-mark-laita-videos/%3foutputType=amp

US gives its support to these regimes so far they don't misbehave. It sponsors terrosim tok. It is interesting you are supporting such world order.

I wish you many more of their sorrows but if only wishes were horses...

WaywardSon:
didn't say America is innocent God no! They're far from it. Its just I support their version of world peace and I find it relatable than living in jihadist Muslim order

If you think USA is misbehaving allow these communists and see what they do with the world. You'll be surprised that a lot of things you do in Nigeria will land you in Prison

Both countries are evil. The blood of Libyans, Iranians, Iraqis, Afghans, Syrians, Egyptians civilians are on US hands

Which ones have I left out?

WaywardSon:
the money was part of the deal lol. USA soldiers have been killed by groups backed by Tehran. Keep deceiving yourself that Country will not see progress for their evil.