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It is still assault under our law. In other climes, once they can prove it. He should be ready to become a sex offender .

WOMEN ARE NOT PROPERTIES!

Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?

In Nigeria, you cant.

In saner climes, you can!

FYI, men use rape to punish their wives. If a woman you claim to love and respect says no, you don't go ahead to have sex with her knowing how painful the experience would be for her.

It is no different from saying no to other men and even a bf. Marriage doesn't mean a woman cannot say no. When you stop treating your women as properties and second class citizens, you would realise that she can bloody well say no when she doesn't want sex!

hammer3:
Legally u cant be raped by your husband.


If your husband can rape you, y are u married?


Wat any reasonable court of law should uphold is acts of physical or domestic violence, that falls under assault, battery, abh and gbh.


If u come before a court and say your husband hit you and then had sex with you forcefully, then we can bill him for the above.


U cannot tell a court, your husband did not take permission before romancing u and that is rape.


I will throw the case out, it is all about how u present it.

Are you saying the husband is not forcing his wife or having sex with her body without her consent?

Heffalump:
You can't rape your wife

You cant and don't own another human being. Marriage doesn't mean women stop being humans that deserve respect. It doesn't mean people lose their individualities. It is not consent to raped or forced to do what they don't want to. It is abuse.

sheyitokz:
what if d man blonkos rises to an unmeasured lenght nd needs to enta a pothole to cool down nd d woman keeps denying him nd he forces in coz he owns dat place...WILL DAT ALSO BE CALLED RAPE

Rape =sex without consent

Disagreed sex = sex without consent

Redoil:
This days due to civilization many people cannot differentiate rape from disagreed sex

if a man is accused of raping his wife what Will then be the punishment
2 years jail term or castration
in the end the woman will suffer for whatever actions she takes
so there is nothing like marital rape

Your parents should have paid more for your education.

Davida33:
you hate the truth

What part of my statement showed support for any politician? Can you thieves and online beggars stay on track, please?

Davida33:
When will your politicians end in Jail? Another politician was released last week from jail and the Senate president even visited him. I am not into Fraud but I hate when will blame all our problem on Yahoo boys while we worship politicians.

Ole! Barawo! Armed robber! You will end up in jail, your time is coming.

Richieniit:
did he steal your relative money?
What matter at hand are you discussing?

To celebrate another man's downfall or the joy of seeing he's got issues?

I'm very sure na your type they go him igram to beg for money... yeye!

Guy hustle cos that salary of yours won't give your kids the best life they deserve. I'm not saying i support crime but you can't actually say you are better than him. YOU'RE ALSO A SINNER LIKE HIM SO PICK YOUR SIN RIGHTFULLY AND BLOOM LIKE ROSES

Support crime with your full chest . This isn't about politicians. Focus on the matter at hand.

Richieniit:
lol... hushy go dey pray make 9ja take over. E no go pass settlement 9ja operatives they find like they did with mompha and he bailed himself and sailing wide and back to his usual.

I no support crime o but i feel for huspy

Nigeria that didn't put in any work. Shameless people!

Don moen songs will affect only those who want Don Moen songs to affect them

itzmarvyx:
We were playing rough play and senses were already going, my earphone was in my ear just one ear but not playing anything, when I realised that in the next 5 minutes I may do something I regret, I just played one Man of God's message sharperly, it was Apostle Selman. Immediately I heard his voice, my senses came back and my body relaxed.

When the action wanted to progress further, I just halted it and stood up to take my leave. She stood up and just slapped the earpiece from my ear almost cutting it. She immediately became very surprised at her actions and apologised, said she didn't know what came over her. A gentle lady like her?? I just smiled, told her I understood and that was how I saved myself.

That thing that came over her was a spirit contrary to the Holy Spirit of God. They are all around us looking for bodies to inhabit.

Think I'm joking ?? The next time a guy or lady comes and sex wants to happen, just play one Don Moen's song and watch what will happen.

This life is not it at all.

I am surprised with how pagans don't fight back.

pocohantas:
Should he be given a chance? You are asking this because of his “religious” affiliation?

When did we start disenfranchising people for that? Considering you would have no problem with him and his kind voting for a christian/muslim aspirant.

She was born with hair that is easily matted or found difficult to comb. Foetus are amniotic liquid and sac so she couldn't have been born with dread.

majamajic:
I know her , she is just 21
Dread from birth (dada
Ajegunle brought up now living in asaba
My Facebook friend for long now, I tire for her matter

Yeah. That is quite interesting. Thanks

bukatyne:
There seems to be a lot of issues around them:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2020/02/27/kelly-mark-laita-videos/%3foutputType=amp

US gives its support to these regimes so far they don't misbehave. It sponsors terrosim tok. It is interesting you are supporting such world order.

I wish you many more of their sorrows but if only wishes were horses...

WaywardSon:
didn't say America is innocent God no! They're far from it. Its just I support their version of world peace and I find it relatable than living in jihadist Muslim order

If you think USA is misbehaving allow these communists and see what they do with the world. You'll be surprised that a lot of things you do in Nigeria will land you in Prison

Both countries are evil. The blood of Libyans, Iranians, Iraqis, Afghans, Syrians, Egyptians civilians are on US hands

Which ones have I left out?

WaywardSon:
the money was part of the deal lol. USA soldiers have been killed by groups backed by Tehran. Keep deceiving yourself that Country will not see progress for their evil.

Obama didn't give them money for the deal. The money was for something else. It was for the damages for striking down an Iranian civilian plane years ago. It was due to Iran a ling time ago but US likes taking its time.

You are one of those liars that like spreading false news.

WaywardSon:
lol it's funny you guys think US allies are against the US. You don't have knowledge about the decades long alliance between America and Europe. Forget this talks in the end what Iran wants is Economic sanctions to be lifted and the weight of USA sanctions can NEVER be remedied even by a host of Nations like EU. They can keep buying arms from Russia and China lol by the time they hit economic rock bottom the people may revolt and enact regime change which is something the US is happy with.

what deal? You mean the worst deal of all time lol. Obama gave these guys hundreds of billions of dollars through executive privilege. No Congress. And after all that money and lifting of sanctions they weren't any guarantees that Iran wasn't gonna stop enriching uranium and also stop their sponsorships of chaos and militias in the middle east! These guys have been sponsoring Hezbollah and Houthi rebels in Yemen for decades now. Trump's impulsiveness is what made him order the killing of Soleimani who has been on Bush and Obama's watchlist since but it was only gonna take a man with guts to pull the trigger. Iran is not yet ready to breathe, its so fucccing easy, stop being a fucccing nuisance!!

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bukatyne:
@bold:

Why did you say so?

Do you know the meaning of hypersexual?

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If only you people will ask questions

Some get hypersexual after rape, some don't. Different personalities, different ways people process trauma.

The girl is lying though.

foleskay:
Shor0 niye So being raped at age 11 now is the excuse or justification of turning to a prostitute I really hate cheap clout ladies like this. Let's tell her that we also many successful career women that were also raped at tender age, they didn't go into prostitutution, so ain't get no sympathy for you, you became olosho willingly. Kosi danu

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Who told you that the government is not doing anything?

OKTolu:
ok today they're bandits tomorrow unknown gunmen


If these people are boko haram let's know instead of beating about the bush


In a sane country something would have been done to checkmate the activities of these bad element in the society but funny enough our government only cares about themselves and their pocket.


Nigeria there was a country.

It is not a big deal though. Some people like to be prepared.

Or i e ti gbale

foleskay:
Ori e baje for that statement

Aregbe of all people. That misogynist prick!

Most? They will come out then we will revisit this matter. Till then, keep being a rape apologist.

LINTUNE:
just shut the fuckup..we all know,most times u gals accuse guys falsely, just to get back at guys that dumpee y'all sorry asses...dont quote me again ok...i dont have time explaining myself to u, u are not worth it..if u cant see the good in his message then suit yourself..everyone is entitled to his or her opinion bye..

You know I exagerated because you have been raped before and you know how it feels. Well if you haven't, don't speak for the victims without educating yourself first.

You want to blame victims for the actions of their rapist too? Wow. Do you even care about them at all? If you are not willing to learn about how certain experience change some people, I cant help you. You can join Cubana priest in his brainstorming sessions on how to protect rapists by shaming and blaming victims.

LINTUNE:
u are just exaggerating this thing..look at what he said in another perspective, them u will understand...for christ sake , he rven mentioned how not reporting those rapist will endanger other gals over the years, thereby making more victims to be devoured by this rapist..u didnt see that one, all u saw his how he condemned some women using the rape accusations as a means of extorting or getting compensation from thier so called "rapist"..

Many of you have silly understanding of what constitutes rape. So yes, when your victim is ready, she will call you out! If you are guilty of more, others would too because you are a rapist.

LINTUNE:
why are u derailing the post. cubana is talking about to matured women that delay report rape cases till their supposed"rapist" is successful, and u are here sayimg another thing entirely..lets call a spade a spade..im sure when i become successful one of those babes i had fun with will come out and accuse of of raping her, thats what cubana is condemning....pukes!

I am going to break it down to you. Cubana juju priest is ignorant. Many forms of violence against persons are not like other crimes you outrightly condemn or give your two cent.

Waiting For A Rapist To Blow Or Get Rich Before Speaking Out Or Reporting To The Right Authorities Is An Act Of Gold Digging N Dragging,

This is very wrong. He is shaming victims. Victims have every right to choose when to speak up. Rape accusations that make the news are those that affect popular people. Popular people have a past like everyone of us, they are not immune from rape accusations because they become popular. He shouldn't be using wealth to shame victims. It would prevent others from coming out.

But then, he rolls with wealthy. I am not surprised he is shaming victims to protect his own.

Parents We Have To Teach Our Children How To Speak Up Immediately It Helps Authorities In Proper Investigation To Get Justice Served, Why Did It Take You So Much Time To Report What Caused You Severe Pain ?

Man is being ignorant and disrespectful again. I assume he use a phone and he can read. Then he would know this:

1. It is hard to get justice
2. Like most trauma, many don't come to terms with it until much later. The last thing you would want to do is relive it again and again. By many, male victims and children are included! You should get it now because it is beyond gender and age.

To Be A Rape Victim No Be Hustle Or Pay Back, I Wonder Why This Recent Calling Out No Dey Reach The Poor Or Don’t The Poor Rape, Lets Be Guided How Can You Wait For Someone Who Raped You When He/She Was Poor To Get Rich N Famous Before Calling Him/Her Out Or Reporting To The Right Authorities, The Chances Of Getting Justice Is Low Because This Person Now Has Money N Fame And Delay Helps Destroy Evidence, Your Silence Endangered The Lives Of So Many People When You Let A Rape Case Slide Or Waste Time, Rape Is Evil It’s Best Tackled As E Dey Hot !!!!

Go back to my first and second statements.

He was shaming victims and here he is telling us how they can't make money.

Funny though, how many people do you know in Nigeria that have gotten substantial financial wealth from rape settlement and even if they did, whose business is it?

#SayNoToRape Speak Out With No Shame There N Then Don’t Stress The Police, Judiciary N The Masses, Above All Don’t Risk Another Victim As You Wait, The Earlier The Better Rape Evidences Are Easily Determined By Physical Appearance Don’t Let That Heal Before You Speak

Again, he is blaming the victims and shaming them to silence. He must be so proud of himself.

LINTUNE:
why are u derailing the post. cubana is talking about to matured women that delay report rape cases till their supposed"rapist" is successful, and u are here sayimg another thing entirely..lets call a spade a spade..im sure when i become successful one of those babes i had fun with will come out and accuse of of raping her, thats what cubana is condemning....pukes!

I understand that many are stu_pid but one can be stupi_d and not be a rape apologist. Don't quote to regurgitate what he said. You can swallow your puke now.