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You can't let it out however you should be willing to face the consequences of his actions, all past, present and future actions. The wife is complicit. That rape is bigger than her marriage.

It is situations like this that encourages men and women to continue. Another man will do such, beg for forgiveness and expects to be forgiven.

izzou:
What about the shame?

The gossips.

The disgrace


I don't know how I'm going to handle it, but I can't let that secret out. I just can't

Now that he isn't going for third time, he is ready to tackle insecurity.

Thailand is not an organised society.

denitro:
He will not. Nigeria is not the center of the universe.
He is better off as a citizen of a better organised society.

Jewingle

Thailand is a developing country and a zoo like Nigeria.
Which means we have face many similar issues and the fact that he hasn't got a white skin will always stick out. For a developing country, he may not have much to protect him. With marriage and offsprings, I believe he should be able to leave it remain as he would like. If they have off permanent residency or something similar, he is better taking that instead.

He also had to consider that his wife is being cunny. She is trying to prevent him from retiring in Nigeria or even go back home. What happens if the marriage breaks down?

You add baking powder and you don't use as much milk, the mix must be very thick.

There are online recipes for American Pancakes.

blank:
How do I make that American style pancake? Is there a particular pancake mix to use?

How can read this news and think it is against children or working women? A child is not supposed to be in the chamber.

Yes, they allocate spending on behalf of the man's salary AND theirs too. I am talking about average income earners like civil servants and


[quote author=Iamgrey5 p[img][/img]ost=81007594] I grew up in Nigeria
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I have never seen a woman that will spend all her salary on the home. The ones I have seen will even calculate the salary of man and even allocate spending on behalf

Which part of Nigeria are you from?[/quote]

Go and ask your mother.

BetterPoison:
hello am Macbeth. Macbeth from Shakespeare what shall it profit a man to hide behind a lesser gender

You have missed road

This thread is for those who want to get married sometime.

babyfaceafrica:
.must we all marry?

are married people better than single people?..if yes how?

the things enjoyed in marriage. an be enjoyed in singleness?

how many ladies are ready to marry broke and hustling guys?

.why is it harder for girls but hard for men?

how is marriage better than cohabitating?


thanks

Where did you grow up?

A woman that does otherwise cannot be blamed either. Afterall, she a responsible or taking care of the house.

Iamgrey5:
I will love to see and marry a woman that will do this

You sound too sill.y to believe that a woman actually gave birth to you.

BetterPoison:
you sound too intelligent and articulate to be a female moniker

Which homes?

Are we talking about the ones where the woman who may or may not account for her salary but ends up spending every last kobo?

Iamgrey5:
Your use of the word average is wrong.

In most homes, the husband's money is usually the family's money, while the woman's money is usually her money.

That is what happens in most average homes. The ones I know. The women spend most of her money in the home too.

Iamgrey5:
What you just described is my perfect example of marriage.

If the man provides shelter, the wife should produce something else or they should have a joint account where they both contribute.

Those marriages with pressure ton the man to provide more doesn't exist in average homes. Both couple work, earn and spend all making their collective lives better..

Iamgrey5:
I like your open-mindedness, but it is easier said than done.

I believe both sexes (male and female) need to have a definite means of making money before venturing into marriage.

I believe the whole idea of putting more pressure on the man to bear Most of the financial burden within a marriage is obsolete.

Have you met single and searching men in their 30s and 30+?

Do you think getting married to a 20 year old second or third wife is the same as settling down for the first time?

Do you know how hard is it to actually find someone you could settle down with in your early years not to mention when you are in older?

This is about marriage not women you want to have a casual relationship or sex with. The stakes are higher, so many variables on compatibilities that is wise not to gamble because of money.

You also have to consider that there are men who may never get that desired comfort no matter how hard they try. Now you have a man who is old and broke. Do you really think an educated intelligent young woman would want to settle for such given the other alternatives she has got?

It is harder for women and it is hard for men too, but easy for a man who does not mind a loveless marriage. For a man, who wants a fulfilling relationship, it is damn hard to find that woman ticks most of that checklist. Marriage can be a blessing, it is left to you to decide what you want.

babyfaceafrica:
if u never make money, remain single,if u make money late..marry late!!..no late comer anywhere..a 60year old can marry 20 or 30 year old gal

What if you never make the money?

What if you make the money too late?

God hates divorce but God loves dysfunctional kids and unhappy and frustrated parents.

Nen1:
God hate divorce. on no account should a man or woman divorce his/her partner, accept on the basis of marital unfaithfulness. now going by her action, she is not allowed to married anyone since both of them are alive. If she do, she will be consider a fornicator. let's be careful with marriage. marriage is not a joke. it's a covenant. for better for worst. The true is, life is all about patience. sometimes compatibility means condescending as well. The problem
of 21st century now is feminism. Feminism is not bad but please women don't go extreme. Extremeism kills. Your husband is not your competitor, your role is to support him not to argue. Read books on Dr. Myles Munroe.

To kill a mass murderer? How are they different from terrorists? Or should we emphatise with them because they were bullied, hated, ignored etc

tyup:
I don't know the Nigerian police syndrome had finally gotten to the US.....why not arrest him and run some psych test on him? must they shoot to kill like the Fools we have down here

Blame the government

By the time they arrest 20 of these silly bloggers and journalists, the rest will find sense wherever they kept it.

Shibaraba:
See shotgun levels.
Nigeria Don cast

By the way this forum na trash
Unverified news litter it's frontpage
For how can a picture of a door riddled with bullets validate the ops claim of a clash between Cultists and a vigilante group.
With this picture the headline could be anything like

Vigilante gun mistakenly goes off and spoils their door
Hunter aims at a rat,hits vigilante car door
Man celebrating man city's win, celebrates with gunshots
Mosquito dodges bullets, hits car door.
Just anything.

But Mr blogger knew the mod has fish brain and thus laid the bait by using keywords cultists and death and, the muntular bit it, and sent it to front page. Wise blogger.

In all say no to cultism
I talk am. This blogger na correct liar. Better go do shoemaker or go dey sell palmi no be by force to blog. Spreading lies everywhere. This singular act fit start crisis but your delusional brain no fit reason am. Ekuke

How do you flee to America in 2019?

You are a bigot as well as *****

DavidEsq:
Yes u are

You need a lesson in Sarcasm

eni4real:
Your moniker should be named "Stereotype"

No, I am not from UniAbuja nor do I have comprehension problem.

It is you that should be praying not to choke on your bigotry

DavidEsq:
U got it all wrong. Are u from UniAbuja, cos most of their graduates and undergraduates have comprehension problems.

It is a reply to that guy. Calm down!

tomdon:
Nonsense!
Is knacker a Muslim?
Idiot bigot

It is unfortunate we are still experiencing the same issues today.

We have youths that still think anyone from the South doesn't speak Yoruba is Igbo and everyone who speaks Hausa is a Hausa except if he looks like a Fulani.

Too much mistrust, I can't see an end to this.

Wow


You should have concluded that the sexual harassment and sex for marks happening in most Nigerian Universities is the fault of all Muslim lecturers, Muslim deans, Muslim vice chancellors, Muslim deputy vice chancellors, Muslim directors in education committees, Muslim commissioners for education Muslim ministers and Muslim presidents.

DavidEsq:
I can confidently name the lecturers in that school, one by one, who are involved in this practice. 99% of them are into it and it has become so bad that the female students no longer see reading as part of school activities. Those who wouldn't submit to it are either failed consistently until they are made to drop out or pay heavy sums of money. I know a colleague's husband (from Akwa-Ibom) who is a lecturer in that school whose nickname is "knacker". What makes it worse is that the Muslim lecturers take it as a duty to sexually victimise the Christian ladies while the female Muslim students are left alone. I say this without due respect to religion and without sentiment. A school wr lecturers do not have Masters in whatever discipline they profess, where they put their "boys" to mark examination scripts and these boys (mostly those dirty kogi state boys, with stupid accents) take it on themselves to prey freely on the hapless female students. I know a lecturer who has HIV Aids, who slept with half of banking and finance diploma students. The department of banking an finance in that university is a red light district and the university knows about this, the presidency knows about it, ICPC knows about it, the churches know about it but all play the ostrich. I know back in the days, the former VC's (Adelabu) girlfriend who was then in 200 level sometime in 2009 and ppl plead with her to help them get admission into the school. I know a young man who was failed in his courses in banking and finance becos a lecturer saw him speaking with a girl whom the lecturer was lusting after. If u are a boy, ur pocket should speak, if u are a girl ur body speaks but don't always trust ur money to take the place of ur body in that school. This issue would be swept under the carpet a th female student would by frustrated by the very panel set up to "investigate" this issue, cos they are all in it. Useless and dirty school . The most painful thing about this trauma was that this sex predatorship was at its peak under the nose of one Muslim female minister of education, who convened a visiting panel to the school, under Goodluck Jonathan's administration.

I don't think so

Doesn't Jerusalem excite you?

Bridget95:
Would the Turkish government have agreed to take him to Israel suppossing he was a Christian and have requested for it?
I know that the sound of MECCA and HAJJ excited them.

She is a woman and why in hell would he be thinking about other men? Is he gay?

Olalan:
So shameful for both the man and the lady.........the man should be disciplined adequately cause prostitution still remains illegal in Nigeria as at today.
BTW how men lay with prostitutes puzzles me knowing that several guys lay with them.

Some of these female celebrities have cotton for brains.

Well, it is not everyone that can be cured.

That was why I stated that she knew her options and she chose what was best for her. Unless she genuinely doesn't care about children, she wouldn't have taken such extreme step.

J3da:
I am not judging her, I am talking from experience. I had same diagnosis and was embolised. I guess this form of treatment wasn't available as at when she had hers. I only commented for others to learn.

Can or may?

Do you also know the severity of her issues?

I am sure she knew the options and made the best choice for herself. So let's not form judge over someone else's life?

J3da:
And to think that Adenomyosis can be cured without having to take out your womb and you would have still been able to conceive...

WTF?

Why can't they bring the school to her?