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Yeah right because I get paid by Buhari

saaron:
Your position could also be a conspiracy theory to give Buhari the perfect excuse to persecute Shia followers.

Conspiracy of not, I DON'T CONDONE RELIGIOUS PERSECUTION WHAT SO EVER.

Not everything is conspiracy theory

If you haven't been told this. IMN main objectives was to start a revolution, topple the government and create a state synonymous to the Iranian state. Which can be considered treasonable.

However, this is not in support of Buhari's attitude toward Shite. Therefore, this is not about Saudi Arabia. Unless you are shite, let's not start with the religious persecution conspiracy talk.

saaron:
What we are see is nothing but religious war and PERSECUTION against Shia in Nigeria. To sum it all up, Buhari's illegitimate govt is using state resources to carry out proxy religious war against Shia.
Now the question begging for answers is; Is Nigeria a Sunni-Islamic State? Who give Buhari the audacity to use state resources to stiffle Nigerian Shiites? Is Nigerian constitution a Sunni document?

If Nigeria decents into total anarchy, Buhari should be held responsible for allowing Saudi Arabia use his empty brain to fight a proxy religious war on Shiites.
The stupidity of this govt's persecution against shiites has made Nigeria appear like a Sunni Islamic country like Afghanistan before the International community when ever it is featured in the News.

NOTE; All these violence is a deliberate act by this demon led govt to proscribe IMN.

Meanwhile, fulani terrorist herders that slaughtered thousands of lives are being rewarded with Ruga and brand new Radio stations.
Useless govt.

Don't you think that is very subjective? What makes a marriage? Is it not the coming together of both families to bless the union? If that is the case, every thing else after is extra, it cannot remove or add to the traditional marriage.

shadeyinka:
If the traditional wedding is your final marriage rite, you are good to go. Other than that, it is just an ordinary ceremony that requires church validation for the real wedding to hold

What is the difference between traditional marriage and introduction? Either one is enough to fulfil marrige formalities.

Criticaltemp:
Traditional marriage is far na, immediately after the introduction ceremony.. Oga, na ur wife b DAT.. Whether u pay her BP or not.. Uve made ur intentions known so ure now her hubby..

Is the church marriage for validation or another extra on top?

shadeyinka:
The proper thing to do then is to leave the church out of your wedding. As long as you need the church to validate your wedding, then the earlier done traditional marriage is just a ceremony not a wedding.

This is not the first protest. This is not the first protest that turned violent. Every shite protests that preceded this protest have always turned violent. These are not the first set of victims of shite protests.

blank:
Hindsight has perfect vision.

Their protests be often tun violent. They should have known

blank:
It didn't start out that way. It was a protest that turned violent.

Buhari is to be blamed.

You are very silly. What's with the stu.pid usernames
?

You would rather your kids go hungry while some stranger uses your money to buy the latest range in town?

Did I say you were silly? Add foolish to that list too.

Nyamuriflathead:
Aunty, make ur money, open a secret account and hide it from your spouse. You will never see us open a useless thread on "how banks are cashing out on foolish wives". It only Reeks of entitlement mentality

Bola Tinubu can never the president of Nigeria especially with all what is going on now.

You think your eldest can be trusted with it.

ajl:
Banks are only keeping the funds. It will eventually return to the state coffer if not claimed by family members. But trust Nigerian banks to hide the funds from the government.

Whatever my spouse does not know about my finances my eldest child know.

Everyone making excuses for these men should remember there will be a special hello for these men.

Blame the mod and the poster.

Some people are not comfortable with the opposite sex. However it is not enough to walk the patient out of the hospital.

rentAcock:
This whole Timi Dakola vs COZA case has ignited a kind of "me too" movement where women all over Nogeria are standing up to rapists and men in high places who use their influence to molest women. While this is a commendable development and we should all encourage the expurgination of abusive men everywhere, we shouldn't do so at the detriment of good men.

Nothing in her post suggests that she was molested by the Male doctor. She didn't want the scan performed by a male doctor and a female doctor carried out the scan. So why would she still accuse the man of molesting her or having bad intentions? It doesn't make any sense. Maybe the man overreacted by asking her to leave a government hospital of which he is just an employee, but after being accused of such an embarrassing act probably in the presence of other patients and his staff, who wouldn't also overreact?

Everyone is looking for their own Dakola moment to shine but we should always apply common sense to separate the truth from falsehood.

Opinion that shields rapists.

Congratulations! You should be proud of yourself. Who knows Fatoyinbo next victim may well be your DNA

ugochukwufrenzy:
it was just my opinion.nairaland allows everyone air their ideas and opinions you nitwit

When you tell them not to go, they will tell you that their own case will be different. It is legit, they have covered all the bases.

Three police officers for that matter, it is very suspect.

BluntBoy:
What type of police comes in a plain bus to deliver an invitation in a country fraught with insecurity? What type of police sends armed men to deliver an invitation?

Have you ever been a battle with an influential man in Nigeria before? If the likes of Bola Ige can be murdered right in his house, why should Timi not be wary of strange men?

There is a saying If you see something, say something

In developed countries with less corrupt police force, the citizens are taught to say something as soon as they see something. Try and be walking up and down in front of a person's house in the USA and before you know it, the owner of the house would have called the police.

It is the same message being spread in turbulent Northern states like Borno. If you notice any strange movement, say something.

Security is a collective effort.

You mean they waited 5hrs to deliver a letter? Biko, do you know anyone who does this? Police business for that matter, wasting precious time and money on top tax payers money with 3 olive officers? Were they planning an arrest or something?

Was there no other way they could have delivered their letter when they refused?

Why on earth do they have to go to Abuja? What happened to our Lagos state police? Why has Fatoyinbo refused to reply to Dakolos' lawyers?

Finally, what is your going rate?

veeceesynergy:
Madam Oby, pls where and how was there flabberant abuse of office.
3 police officers came to ur house to deliver a letter, u refused coming down to acknowledge d letter for over 5hrs, rather u were busy taking pictures and posting fake info on Instagram.
I like d involvement of Aisha Buhari and co in dis matter, at d end it will bring an end to cases of false rape allegations in Nigeria.
So many men 're in prison today as a result of false rape allegation.
Let him simply honour d police invitation with his barrage of lawyers and not shouting Wolf wen dia is none.
He laid an allegation, d police is inviting him to aid in investigation and he's running to social media.

Who the hell are you to tell a woman what to do and whatnot?

ugochukwufrenzy:
in an issue like this,I normally advice people not to take sides of support a particular party until the truth is revealed...what was busola's intention of releasing the video??..why couldn't she let the whole issue die off...after how many years...even if the pastor I gulilty, she should have justforgotten about the whole thing...now has family is on the spotlight...may God give us hubbys who have sense and can give proper advices

Silly Id.iot

Sorry, I meant she is not really the PM. She has resigned and she is tying off loose ends. She will not be making any big decisions in this matter either.

Mikora:
The three of you are a bunch of ignoramuses. Go and get informed before you quote me again with your ignorant posts. Theresa May is still the British Prime minister

I know right. People make it seem like Iran is going not fall because of some sanctions.

I strongly believe this is not going to escalate to a war. Both leaders will regret it. I doubt other EU countries are going to sign off on it.

Trapping:
Iran lived under UN sanctions for over 10 years, (you know what that means? It means that the whole world sanctioned Iran) and they survived it. Why do you think the US sanctions will break them.

Normally, there citizens are way too patriotic and they understand the game the west is playing against them. In fact, citizens of most countries under US sanctioned almost always rally round there leadership and that's a way to show loyalty and patriotism.

Who is this one? Have you been living on Mars since 2000?

imam07:
Iran is not that type of country that can give US problem. Their leaders are only risking the life's of its Iranian citizens because they think like terrorists whose the life of his people do not mean anything to them. If Iranian leaders value the life's of their citizens, they will not be taking all these risk.

What about strong backlash from their citizens? People are not going to fall for this, everyone is tired of war and refugee crisis. Besides, who doesn't love Iranians.

Trapping:
Bro forget story. Iran lived 40 years under UN sanctions and survived it, in fact in those years they developed an efficient missile program. What makes you think they wouldn't be able to survive the US sanctions.
Don't tell me you're listening to those 'misyarns' from British and american media.

America and Britain will do nothing, absolutely nothing. All trump will do is to mouth off. In fact the guy is not even mouthing off again against foreign adversaries since his bluff has been called over and over again.

Don't get me wrong, it is true that in an all out war American and Britain will defeat Iran, but the question is at what cost? I tell you US is scared to death to face Iran in any war scenario in the middle east - reason, america cannot fathom the costs of such war. So they can only sanction and sanction.

Yeah, like they did the last time ba.


You should really stick to what you know

imam07:
what is hard nut to break? U better don't say what u dont know. Do u realize d rate at which Iranian citizens are suffering because of d US sanctions. Very soon US will bring down the present government and install their choice.

It is not going to escalate to that point.

ednut1:
Iran is heading towards destruction. The combo of israel, uk , saudi and USA go deal with them wella. Nevertheless its about time someone stood up to these bullies

Theresa May is not timid. Theresa May is no longer the PM

Mikora:
Just watch as the timid Theresa may will fold like a chicken and do nothing

There is no democracy and there is no victory.

Cherrybae:
This is victory for democracy, kudos to our judiciary, the last hope of the common man.
God bless Buhari for upholding the rule of law. Nigeria shall be great again

Your ancestors said same when they banned killing of twins.

alphaNomega:
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[s]Clearly you don't understand shi.t and have refused to use your head. Maybe when you get older you will learn, maybe you will never. Only time can teach you something now.[/s]

Bye

This man doesn't understand shit.

Bayelsa may have equal representation with Kano, what about other States? Does he understand the reason that they have equal represention?

You pay attention

1) Bridal list and all other shit isn't my headache. I don't care of it. Funny enough, it is between men. I don't care for it. What I know is, you cannot bound an adult and you cannot sell a human be it a child or an adult. If we are talking about this matter, I care less for archaic opinions.

2) You keep forgetting that culture differs. My mum cannot claim anything from my dad's family. Every child knows his family. If she is claiming anything, it is against my dad. They can inherit each other. Yet they pay bride price but families don't go about kidnapping someone else's children with exceptions.

It is the reason we have the courts to enforce fairness and justice. I was made aware that in some parts of the Igbo culture, a married woman cannot inherit her father's. Guess what? That archaic silly irrational tradition is no longer binding. Thanks to the Court.


3) The names are given by the father. Like I told your friend, if anyone has an objection to what names a parent should give their child, you know where the father is. Take a trip.


Now pay attention and this time, use your brain.

Why should my child, the one I gave birth to, the one I carried for nine months deemed to belong to someone else? A child is always going to be a child to his mother and father. To everyone else, she is a grandchild, niece etc. If you ask this family to choose between the son that died and the baby, guess who they are going to choose? It won't even take a second. Give them a choice between the wife and their son? Let's try that test again with two of their sons? It is the only tough test.

In this scenario, the woman wants her child not some silly entitlement. If selling human being is your tradition or exchange of material things for people's rights and autonomy is your culture, may I ask how much did your mother cost your father? I mean no insult, afterall you buy and sell women and children.

alphaNomega:
Now pay attention

African traditional marriage brings a twist to the part I highlighted. I previously wrote here that our traditional wedding ceremonies is the same as "buying of wife". If it is not, why is the bride not given a list of rites to fulfill because she wants to marry a man?

After marriage, the woman is GIVEN OFF to the husband's family that is the truth your elders have not told you. Maybe they are waiting for you to realise it but thank your days for nairaland.com

Sure she can still identify with her family, it does not mean she should be alienated by them either.

THE CHILD BELONGS TO THE FATHER'S FAMILY. You that is talking, is your surname your father's family name or your mother's maiden/family name? Did you ever hear your father going to his wife's family to claim property or entitlements after he married her? But your mum is entitled to certain benefits in her husband's extended family and it varies among our cultures.

I hope you understand?