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Romance › Re: How My Friend Tried Raping Me After Initially Being Extremely Nice - Lady by Sterope(f): 8:41am On Apr 29, 2018
He didn't know you have a mind like this? shocked
Politics › Re: Senator Dino Melaye Tweets From Hospital Intensive Care Unit - Nigerians React by Sterope(f): 8:55am On Apr 26, 2018
I'm feeling good! grin grin
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Responds To Critics On Hillary Clinton’s Twitter Bio Question by Sterope(f): 11:20am On Apr 25, 2018
Who made the rules and requirements of marriage?

Did your ancestors ever had a surname?

Where is it written in the Bible and the Qur'an that a married woman must take her husband's surname?

It is a western culture. Have you so lost your way that you now worship a white man's marital culture? Isn't it hypocritical that one minute you are shouting our culture and the next you are eroding it? Do you know that once upon a time in the western world women did not take their husbands' names. It is an innovation. Put your hand where your mouth is, make your ancestors proud and say no to westernisation of African culture grin.

In my culture, a child is identified by her father not her husband or wife. You should be glad we are not asking the child to take her mother's name. That should be enough for you.







openmine:
I never made her but she decided to change her name out of her own volition..
..she knew what she was getting into hence she is required to abide by the rules and requirements of marriage... just like MRS Clinton did....
So why would she change her mind and start being addressed in her dad's surname all of a sudden?

Its a choice but I guess U won't understand because u r fixed on that tag called feminism....

Am a 100% sure this same moniker quoting me will surely jump at the offer of getting ur Hubby's surname esp if its that of a wealthy man like dangote...
but U are right here on this faceless forum forming feminism....

And please try to be straightforward and precise with ur indirect attacks in form of unnecessary questions aimed at me....its My life and my choice...not ur business...comprendo?
Celebrities › Re: Okiemute Ighorodje Blasts Her Benefactor After Winning MTN Project Fame by Sterope(f): 10:37am On Apr 25, 2018
Looks and sounds made up...it is made up!!! grin
Crime › Re: Lady Accused Of Killing Her New Baby In Delta, Paraded In Public. Photos by Sterope(f): 10:33am On Apr 25, 2018
Not a woman came to her defense? undecided
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Responds To Critics On Hillary Clinton’s Twitter Bio Question by Sterope(f): 10:30am On Apr 25, 2018
How can you? You made her, didn't you?

Insecure much? undecided

openmine:
I can't begin to imagine the look on my face if my future wife is asked to intro herself and she uses her own father's surname instead of mine....
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Responds To Critics On Hillary Clinton’s Twitter Bio Question by Sterope(f): 10:27am On Apr 25, 2018
Which Michelle Obama is this? shocked


CSTR1003:
Please tell me one thing Michelle Obama has accomplished aside from being the first black first lady. ?

A Nigerian without an American citizenship rose to a position of influence and opinion shaping without ever been in politics.

You think that is not more impressive than whatever Michelle Obama has accomplished?

When was the last Michelle Obama won an award in her field of study which is law?
Her highest achievement is first lady.
Don't ever insult chimamanda by making that comparison again.

Hilary Clinton on other hand is a highly accomplished Titan.
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Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Responds To Critics On Hillary Clinton’s Twitter Bio Question by Sterope(f): 10:22am On Apr 25, 2018
I am glad you agree with what I wrote but I don't agree with yours.

Hillary is a proud wife of an influential man. She is also an influential woman. Michelle Obama is also a proud wife of an ex president and likewise a successful woman. Both women independently of their husbands have achieved a lot in their personal and professional lives. Their husbands need not be influential for them to be proud wives.

Chimamanda's husband is not weak or less of a man because he is not influential and his wife is not bearing his surname. If we that were the case, I would ask you who the hell you are to criticise Arichie when you haven't achieved half of what she has achieved wven though you are a man But I beg to differ becausr these points simply do not matter. They are not addressing the issue.




eezeribe:
Chimamanda can dissect Hillary Clinton as much as she likes;but one thing remains certain,the likes of Hillary Clinton and Michelle Obama will forever remain more highly rated than Ngozi Adichie...
Hillary Clinton is a proud WIFE of former US president and one of the most influential men in the world,Bill Clinton;while Chimamanda remains the wife of a nobody,a man who is so weak that his wife can't even bear his surname.
I have nothing against TRUE FEMINISM,but there is a thin line between COMMON SENSE and NONSENSE.
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Responds To Critics On Hillary Clinton’s Twitter Bio Question by Sterope(f): 7:36am On Apr 25, 2018
Clinton is ambitious. No qualms about that. But she is dishonest, bitter calculative, rude and condescending. Clinton would call a goat her brother for political favours. If she had chosen to use wife and mother on her Twitter bio to change political opinions, she laid her bed so shall she lie on it. Perhaps if she had tried to be a good person, she would not have had to convince anyone. She is a politician. Most politicians try to change public opinion od themselves while contesting. America has had male politicians that tried to show that they uphold family values to please their electorate. I do not see you screaming sexism.

I agree that powerful and ambitious women face gender bias. I call out those gender biases. But these gender biases do not apply to Clinton. She is who she is. If pretence was what she needed, I am glad she got in line. She is like every politician. Let her be one!
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Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Responds To Critics On Hillary Clinton’s Twitter Bio Question by Sterope(f): 7:15am On Apr 25, 2018
If you are a fan of Clinton, your morality is questionable. undecided
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Crime › Re: Makurdi Youths Burn Vehicles & Tyres Over Killing By Fulani (Photos) by Sterope(f): 9:21pm On Apr 24, 2018
Fulani herdsmen vehicles?
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Upset About Hillary Clinton's "Wife" Bio On Twitter by Sterope(f): 4:47pm On Apr 23, 2018
Chimamanda is getting way out of hand.

I hate to say this but Barbara Bush was right.
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Crime › Re: Offa Robbery: Policemen Took N400,000 Bribe From Robbers Before Robbery-Vanguard by Sterope(f): 4:22pm On Apr 23, 2018
onegig
Celebrities › Re: Miracle May Dump Nina - Simi by Sterope(f): 9:10am On Apr 23, 2018
Miracle will dump Nina.

Well, if he knows what is best for him
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Ayomide Kasali AKA Ayohrkarz Nude Body Painting Of A Lady (Photos) by Sterope(f): 9:35pm On Apr 19, 2018
In our work. undecided
Talkingboy:
It should have been "Turn Down" and not turn up because olympus has since obeyed the law of gravity .

On a serious note ,

Women , Where is your dignity ?
Education › Re: Medicine And Surgery: Is It Worth The Attention It Gets? by Sterope(f): 7:11pm On Apr 19, 2018
@icewinz

When next you are sick, don't be a big hypocrite by visiting the GP.

Also, what did you study to begin with? undecided
Health › Re: Strike: "JOHESU is Selfish, They don't know what they want" must read!! by Sterope(f): 9:38pm On Apr 18, 2018
You are beginning to get ahead oof d yourself


You qupted a source of just one country and you consider it fact around the world? What are you on? FYI, there are countries who appoint doctors as CEOs or business administrators.





Mobsync:
I know what I wrote up there.

Everywhere, the role of a CEO is an oversight function. He coordinates other departments under him to achieve a goal.

In the case of foreign hospitals, the CEO coordinates other departments as you rightfully suggested. He is also the head of management and runs the hospital with the aid of the Chief Operating Officer.

The CMD has nothing to do with management. He is only in charge of the doctors in the hospital. And yes, he goes to the ward and surgery because he is considered a doctor and not an administrator.

Foreign hospitals have an executive management board headed by the CEO with the CMO/CMD (Chief Medical Officer) and CNO (Chief Nursing Officer) as members alongside other chiefs.

Here in Nigeria, the office of the CEO has been merged with that of the CMD just to satisfy the greed of doctors.

At the end of the day, the doctor can no longer perform his basic task since he has been bogged down by administrative duties he shouldn't have been doing in the first instance.

If I may ask, with the exception of private hospitals, how many doctors here in Nigerian hospitals still go to the wards after becoming CMD?

None, I must say. They wouldn't even have the time if they wanted to.
Health › Re: Strike: "JOHESU is Selfish, They don't know what they want" must read!! by Sterope(f): 9:33pm On Apr 18, 2018
Health profesaionals cannot disrespect doctors. Why should either side disrespect one another?


I countered your ill-thought reason.


ultron12345:
but health professionals can disrespect doctors abi.
Health › Re: Strike: "JOHESU is Selfish, They don't know what they want" must read!! by Sterope(f): 9:21pm On Apr 18, 2018
Apologies!


But you do know that the goal of most doctors is to become chief physicians/consultants or have their own hospitals.



Mobsync:
How do Hospital CEOs get to where they are?

In studying this list of “20 New Hospital CEOs to Know”, it seems that most of the CEOs have a couple things in common:

They served as COOs of hospitals before. COO, the Chief Operating Officer, delegates day to day operations and reports to the CEO, who is usually too busy to review production quotas and operations daily.

They held a Masters in Healthcare Administration, Business Administration or Nursing from an accredited university.

They held previous positions in strategic management, business and executive leadership. (Meaning medical expertise isn’t all CEOs need to have!)
They had about 15 or more years of experience in healthcare before they became the CEOs of major hospitals. (Patience is a must.)
Health › Re: Strike: "JOHESU is Selfish, They don't know what they want" must read!! by Sterope(f): 9:15pm On Apr 18, 2018
@OP, it is better you ask questions than assume. Have you asked the health professionals what the roles and responsibilities of consultant nurses and the rest would be? I do not think they would include that of a doctor or a consultant doctor. That can never happen. Medical doctors do not need to get worked up.
Health › Re: Strike: "JOHESU is Selfish, They don't know what they want" must read!! by Sterope(f): 9:08pm On Apr 18, 2018
CEO is not usually the nurse. You should read your reference.


Mobsync:
That statement tells a lot about the kind of doctors we have in this country.

You do not want to be discriminated against yet you have no qualms with discriminating against other medical personnel. You do not want them to head your departments, yet you want to head their departments, the hospital and the entire medical sector.

The hospitals of the advanced nations you guys are always whining about fleeing to are headed by a CEO, who is usually a nurse or an administrator grin grin grin tongue tongue tongue The CEO is never a doctor.

Please educate yourself and stop being backward. Spending 8 years in school does not necessarily mean that you are enlightened. http://www.healthcareadministration.com/becoming-a-hospital-ceo/
Health › Re: Strike: "JOHESU is Selfish, They don't know what they want" must read!! by Sterope(f): 9:05pm On Apr 18, 2018
Doctors cannot disrespect other health professional. If you are in the medical profession because you want to continue to be a bully, I hope you get what you deserve. Arrogant prick!



OgaInnocent:
Point of correction. Doctors can disrespect other health professionals because they are not their rivals. But if there is disrespect by nigerian doctors to JOHESU, it is simply reactionary due to their (JOHESU) continued challenge of the doctors. Imagine a graduate of medical laboratory science hanging stethoscope on his neck and saying he is a diagnostic doctor. Can u imagine that? Does that happen in your civilized setting?

In Nigeria, every one working in the hospital is answering a doctor. Doctors can't just fold hand and watch them. So any action by the doctors is reactionary. Otherwise, what does a doctor gain by victimizing a nurse who has done him no wrong. But when a nurse starts claiming he /she can do what d doctors can do...I wonder!! My brother, just reason that.
Politics › Re: If You Were Ambode, What 2 Things Would You Do To Improve Traffic In Lagos? by Sterope(f): 1:19pm On Apr 17, 2018
There will always be traffic in Lagos. It is the curse of commercial and capital cities. It could be better if commercial transport sysyem is improved. There are way too many private cars.
Celebrities › Re: Beyonce Pays Tribute To Fela Kuti,performs His 1976 "Zombie" At Coachella(video) by Sterope(f): 8:21pm On Apr 16, 2018
If you are familiar with Beyonce's, you will know that Beyonce is behind Beyonce.


martineverest:
the ppersons/behind that Beyonce's performance is something else...I kept wondering how long it took dem to prepare for the show


seriously,out artiste are stageworthy when it comes to live concert.....they start rehearsing a day before the show.thats if they rehearse at all.all they do is to tell DJ to play their CDs while they shout and talk inform of singing
Culture › Re: "We Support Oba Akanbi As The Emir Of Yorubaland" - Iwo People (Photos) by Sterope(f): 1:40pm On Apr 16, 2018
Of course, I didnt expect anything less from juju alfas. Iwo is so full of them.

Bunch of slaves suffering from cognitive dissonance.
Celebrities › Re: Bobrisky Wears Gown As A Bridesmaid At A Wedding (Photos) by Sterope(f): 11:16am On Apr 16, 2018
grin
kennygee:
How can one start a very spiritual journey like marriage by having someone like that on your bridal train?
Family › Re: Lady Allows Her Hubby To Marry 2nd Wife, Even Feeds Her On The Wedding Day(pics by Sterope(f): 1:04pm On Apr 15, 2018
I forgot to also use the word encourage.

Some women use it as a yardstick to filter guys. I usedused to know of one that wouldn't marry a guy that is not ready to marry more wives. She is married now with kids but her husband is yet to marry more wives. There is a female particular nairalander that wouldn't mind her husband doing same, this was her opinion before she got married and after. They were not stupid or lazy or suffer from low self-esteem . These are women that can hold their own. They will even teach their husbands' wives how to prepare his favourite meals.


Some women also see it as charity that is their own charity to single women. Some encourage it because of their careers, they want matital obligations to tie them down. Some encourage it because it allows them to live the single live while they also enjoy the benefits of being married.

You don't need to be close minded about it. Some women are growing to accept or encourage polygamy. You are not the same as the next person.

Personally, it is a no. But who knows after marriage I may love myself too much to care.


Biglittlelois:
You actually dont know much, you said the word "accept" which means she has no other choice but to live with it, infact all you said points to that fact, but this one is a whole new level, she fed her, hug or held her and she looks happy. No lady who has to "accept" cos there is no other choice would go through the trouble of doing that
Family › Re: Lady Allows Her Hubby To Marry 2nd Wife, Even Feeds Her On The Wedding Day(pics by Sterope(f): 12:40pm On Apr 15, 2018
You don't know much.


There are ladies that would accept their man marrying more wives. They are not lesbians. Some do it for freedom. Some for religion. Some do not care. They are ladies and not lesbians.


Biglittlelois:
All of you praising the first wife should chill, he married her lesbian partner, no lady will be that nice and happy for a 2nd wife, i know that cos i'm a lady
Family › Re: See Heartwarming Moment Father Consoles His Daughter During Her Wedding (photo) by Sterope(f): 4:26pm On Apr 14, 2018
Only a bastard would not know a norm. Yoruba call it ekun iyawo. For some cultures it is expected that the wife should cry on her wedding day.


If you haven't cursed your grandma to death, why don't you ask her about it?



skales67:
Anything for the camera!

I don't understand the stupidity of this nonsense most ladies do when getting married. It seem it is the trend now. To cry during your wedding and have your father wipe the tears.
B*tch, if you want to continue staying with your father, call off the damn wedding! Nansense!!
Crime › Re: Bitcoin Company Shocks Customers, Disappears With Millions by Sterope(f): 6:44am On Apr 14, 2018
Serves them right!
Celebrities › Re: Genevieve Nnaji Dances, Shows Her 'Shaku Shaku' Moves In New York (Photos Video) by Sterope(f): 12:57am On Apr 14, 2018
She made the raz music almost classy. smiley

I miss her on screen.
Family › Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by Sterope(f): 12:44am On Apr 14, 2018
You don't outgrow ADHD.

He needs to consult profeasionals!
ProfEinstein:
Your baby probably has attention deficit hyperactivity disorder ADHD, he will surely overgrow it nothing to be worried about .

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