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SUPOL:
Warris ogo abeg?

Extra forehead like Rihanna's.

Gboliwe:
She is the best among the other empty heads. They are all unintelligent by regular standards but amongst the others, she did well

Okay. Thnx for that.

Hyphee:
Anambra kwa? Prefer Ebonyi joor

She is short. She will have a hard time if they sent her to Miss World.

safarigirl:
Thank God Anambra.....she's so pretty and DARK, with OGO .....I have hope for Miss World

Yep! I noticed the ogo bit.

Gboliwe:
Anambra won? I am in shock! With that face?
I must join the pagent for grandparents next year. I would be hot!

I missed the part when they were speaking. Did anambra speak well?

A dark skinned queen. Amennnnnnnnnnnnnn

Miss anambra

Winner oooooooooooo!

silverr:
Hmmm, where do I start from,
While I was quite younger, my cousin married a bad woman who came in like a saint.

She always complain that she needs a maid to live with her. We started sourcing for a young relative whose parents needed help. So I stayed with her temporarily.

She made me scrub the rug with water, dettol and liquid fresher twice a day, mop the rest of the house everyday. I don't eat on the table but in the floor. I don't sit in the cushion but in the floor. Get shouted at every little thing and she asks me if my mum sent me to kill her. Accused me of being a spy. Everyday, I pray: God let them find someone fast.
I'm the kind of person that will endure you stepping on my legs till you balance before I ask you to shift as long as I'm not bleeding to death and so, I didn't even tell my cousin anything. I had a phone but didn't call any family, we attend church with our elder in the family yet I don't tell his family anything. She knew this was my weakness and exploited it fully.

Finally, I left, she brought a new girl, treated that one worse till the girl jumped out from the balcony of the 2 story they live in and ran away. She then came back to my mum and asked for my younger sister. (my sister is quiet like me).

She mistreated her till one day, my sister was forced to eat her tasteless food and rejected it. She kept beating her to eat, she ate and vomited, she then asked her to eat the vomit, my sis ate it and vomited it again then she started another round of beating till my cousin came home, she then shouted at her to clean up the mess.
She cut my sis 14inch hair out of pure jealousy. She has no hair and won't have cus of her wicked hrt.

Finally, years after, there was a guy I don't really like enough to marry but he was hot on me. She kinda knew his family, she ran there and was asking his mum to stop her son from having anything to do with my family.
She said I called her a witch and only visits her when I need money, I'm lazy and can't do any work, that she slaved for me while I wa at her place.
She said my sis is a thief an she stole her last kobo, she had to borrow her transport to my parents house.
She said my bro is a thief and went to steal and they caught him and were abt to Lynch him till she found out and intervened.
She said my mum is childless cus we aren't worth being called humans. She swore all these with a bible.

I cried when I heard it not cus of the man but cus I still loved her despite all, I just took it as human wickedness and moved on.

Nah, this is bull! Someone treats you like this and you keep quiet when she asks for your precious baby sister? Nah, somethings not right ere...

softandmoist:
That nothing lasts forever, and even the reign of terror will eventually end.

Pouring out these stuffs is an elixir.

I quite agree. Op ended the story quite abruptly and I didn't know what she wanted people to take out of it. One would have to read through this thread to make sense out of it or get the message she is trying to pass.

Hmm, dear op. It is well. You are a very pretty girl from your DP. Just keep shinning, God sees and knows all. Good thing you have forgiven the woman.

Kano is foine but I wish we could have a dark skinned queen this year

Ebonyi is not bad but she looks short

MissAssy:
There are some experiences you don't wanna keep to yourself. Mine is what i experienced when i lived with my aunt and her children who are all older than me in 2006.Am gonna make this story as short as possible.Am not much of a writer so please bear with me and share your experiences too.

It started when i went for a vacation at their house in aba. I was 11yrs then and that made it easy for them to brainwash me with fake love using bleach and iron sponge. Well one day like that, my aunt gave me nd my cousin some chores to do and left for market, after i finished mine my cousin tried to cajole me to do hers so i refused but when she tried to drag me inside to beat me or something, my eyes hit the key lock.i thought i ws going to go blind because blood started gushing out of my left eye as if that was not enough she asked me to lie on how i got the accident and that was during the period of my vacation,i thought that was an accident and that such thing wont happen again cos they asked me to live with them which i agreed meanwhile my mom disagreed cos she was maltreated by her aunt when she was little on the other hand my dad agreed cos that is his sister. As time went on,they showed me their true colour.i go to school only 3times in a week except when we have exams.i do all the hard work in the house and they're never satisfied, as an 11yr old girl i fetch water with 25liters of gallon i bet that's why all my siblings are taller than me ,i wake up around 5 every morning to wash the plates, fetch water meanwhile i fetch water every night and the most painful part is that she have sons that can fetch water and am always late for school and am always the last to pay school fees, everyone knows me in school then, most of the time i wont eat breakfast before going to school and i will stay hungry till 4 with nothing in my tummy.i cry myself to sleep every night and they don't care, i hardly smile or laugh when am with them.school is my escape route cos i have a best friend then who buys things like food for me then and help pay for my textbooks then cos am always the last to pay for everything.If i ask her to give me money for a textbook worth 150 she will say she doesn't have meanwhile she will bring money in bundles and count in my presence our school then is a mixed school so i gained alot from boys,at a time our sp stopped punishing me for coming late.Her daughter sends me out at night to buy things for her and if i refuse i will get a beating.whenever my mum or dad visits me, they start treating me well and calling me by my short name which us Muanya instead of Chimuanya they usually blurt out.whenever they cook a new soup i will b the one to eat the old one and by the time i finish it, the new one will b old.when i was in jss2, my lil sis who was around 6 then came for a holiday so one day it rained so hard,u know aba nau with bad road and everything After the rain my aunt asked me to go and buy pepper so i bought dry pepper which they usually use, when i came back she asked me to go and change it that she needs fresh pepper so i told her that we have fresh pepper and she asked me to bring it, when i brought it, it turns out that the pepper has decayed with maggot the next thing i knew she poured the on my face and i didn't even know what i did to deserve that.i thought my heart was going to break,i couldn't even cry but when i turned and saw my lil sis crying, i couldn't hold back my own tears with my heart aching after i washed off the pepper on my face she still asked me to go and change the pepper and it was already dark then.These are just half of the things they did to me and the only thing i regret till now is never running away cos i know they would have alot to answer to everyone if i did.

Lalasticlala please push this for me

Why are you telling this story now? What is the lesson for your readers?

Okay

90love:
U got it perfectly, we have sat down on many occasions about different things my first action is always good communication. He expresses his frustrations at his lack of achievement and constantly compares himself to his mum who built her first house by 30 and made her first billions by 25 she is a hard person to stand behind especially him being the only son the pressure for him to achieve greatness is depressing him. He continues to be haunted by his dad not being in his life but the funny thing is the reason for their split was that he used to swindle away all the mums money she would make from business and spend it entertaining friends, drinking, hosting lavishly. Today the dad is poor and rely on the mum for small upkeep though they are divorced and she re married 24 years ago.

Everyone has a wake up call if it wasn't for being pregnant maybe I would have continued supporting us blindly with hope of something better in the future. But his total lack of care was a huge slap in the face, he didn't insult me, he didn't beat me or any of that rather he would ignore my calls, take a day to reply my message, never check on me, never ever ask about my health or make attempt to visit me-all of that woke me up from my deep slumber.
I have contacted his elder sis who is waiting for me to call her and I have listed all my concerns about him I can't cope with him I need them to take some control because they will cry the hardest if something was to happen to him.

Quick question: is this guy British? I take it you guys reside in London by your profile. If your husband is not British, and you are, how are you not sure his interest in you was just for papers and papers alone?

Shine your eyes woman!

90love:
I've dated my husband for 5years but only traditionally married for 5 months. For most of our relationship we have had financial difficulty but always manage to keep our head above water.

I'm pregnant and have gestational diabetes meaning sometimes i get very weak so I've been unable to work properly, I am also a final year nursing student. The truth is 80% of the time it's me that bail us out of bad financial crises, my husband has not been able to keep a stable job for as long as I've known him and when he gets his fast money he lavishes it, he doesnt think of the home rather he thinks of clubbing, drinking etc. I never look into his pockets as i think its rude to count people's money but the minute he swindlea his money away he starts to count my money to fund his things such as petrol, club, hosting his family coming from nigeria.

And he has 5 sisters, his young ones are very ill mannered dont do house work or even say good morning. They all take turns throughout the year to come to my house and spend 2weeks to one month Including his mother though i can't complain about her because she's his mother even if she was the worst i can manage her.

None of the above has really bothered me until i came to the realisation that im going to be a mother in less than 18 weeks and i have someone else to care for that is more important. I'm starting to think this man doesn't really love me because when i was terribly sick before finding out about my low iron and diabetes i couldnt get out of bed but he never checked on me instead he would spend all evening and night out with friends and all day sleeping, watching tv and looking for quick money.

I decided to return to my parents and have been here for 2+ months. I am properly looked after and it's only 20minutes away, my so called husband never calls to check on me, he has only initiated phone calls twice and he's asked me for money both times for one thing or another. He has never called my parents to greet them or thank them, it's like he abandoned his responsibility, he openly tells me not to come back because he can't cope with my illnesses.

He's very dissmissive and uncaring but he is also like that with his own family. He never calls them. They're always begging him to call them or i beg him to at least call his mum. I always blame his upbringing because he grew up very entitled with everything handed to him, he doesnt know the value of hard work.

Now we're in a major financial crises because he decided to leave his job. We can't pay the house rent and i have no way of bailing us out because i haven't been active at work due to sickness. I have been looking for a way out but he can't even hold a conversation with me about it. The minute i say something about our current finances, he starts threatening me to switch off the phone and raises his voice (i equally raise mine I'm not innocent because I've had enough) I'm so fed up of him and even the marriage. I don't see how he can ever grow up and i feel like im dragging a dead horse.

Whenever there's crises he becomes very mean and he can't cope, I'm always the strong one and have to find money just so he can be nice to me, which sounds pathetic. He comes from a very good home but blames all his emotional problems on not having his dad in his life but i am not excited to see the kind of dad he will be for his own child.

I feel like i made a mistake marrying him. I have been as supportive as i can be, i dont rub things in his face, i always try and maintain a happy home but I've had enough! How do you fix a situation where you don't respect your husband anymore? I don't believe he deserves my respect apart from him being a financial burden, he's also a serial womaniser i just got tired of doing csi so i turn the other way. I am so fed up and spiraling into deppression the disappointment to both of our families will be huge I've never imagined having a child in a broken home. If this is worth fixing i dont know where to start because my heart is resenting him. How do i explain to people that im leaving my husband of only 5 months?!!!

What were you doing during courtship? Kissing? You didn't notice all his bad behaviour then? Na you sabi!

ocee31:
really nice song you've got here...... but i couldn't help but notice the very strong H factor

Cos that's where he is from. Once that thing enter mouth, e nor dey gree comot oh!

Well done bro. Don't relent.

Sanchez01:
Perhaps one or two persons would relate to my ordeal after sharing.

I went to the Computer Village at Ikeja on Saturday, 17th Oct, to purchase a head phone I had longed to get for a while now. I had an example of what I wanted in mind and was not ready to compromise my stand on this.

I had also made up my mind not to go too deep for security reasons; computer village touts/area boys are more concentrated in the farther part of the market and being harassed unduly was not just it for me.

The first shop I visited just by the bridge didn't have what I wanted and the guy therein cajoled me into buying something else which was not just it. I wasted no time in trying out the next shop but I noticed I was being followed by 4 mean looking guys. I couldn't tell for how long I was stalked but it was pretty obvious something wasn't right.

Fortunately, I saw the "HD Monster Micro SD Player beats by dr. dre" in the next shop and wasted no time in bargaining. I paid, came out of the shop with the intent of moving towards the bridge, only to find out that my stalkers (now about 5 of them) had divided themselves like a pack of wolves who has their sights on a gazelle.

Seeing that it was becoming a nightmare by the minute, I moved towards some policemen who were around one of their vans under the bridge. One of the touts, supposedly their boss walked up to me while the others surrounded me in no time. Micro SD sellers turned spectators as well as passers' by. I could see the policemen looking at us from a distance. They were clearly unmoved by the scene, judging by the expression their faces.

One of the touts spoke up "a ti n so e lataaro" (we've been stalking you for a while). It didn't really come as a surprise but what I did wrong is what I couldn't picture.

"Oya, fun wa l'owo!" (Now, give us money!) Their supposed head retorted. It was a dream. How in the world would touts harass someone in the presence of policemen

Quite scared, I told him I didn't understand what I had done to warrant being "fined". At my words, the minions were ready to attack me but couldn't as their boss calmed them. Obviously angry at this point, he said "a n be a so lero, o fe gbo. O fe ka gba gbogbo t'owo e, abi?" (We have told you calmly, you don't want to listen. Do you want us to take everything on you?"

The crowd had increased by this time and they watched helplessly while the policemen didn't move a nerve. It was at this point it dawned on me what I was up against. Without wasting time, I reached for my wallet which was carefully tucked away in my pant's back pocket and offered them #500 but he (their supposed boss) refused it, claiming my money is #2000!

I was baffled. I tucked my #500 away and gave them #1000 which they collected and started stumping a foot each on the ground as they sang my praise. I heaved a sigh of relief as I quickly proceeded to leave the scene. It was pretty embarrassing to say the least.

I shared my ordeal with a friend yesterday and he confirmed he had faced something similar. His case however was shocking. He claimed he resisted and the policemen "arrested" all of them while he "bailed" himself with #2000 without going to a police station.

Please be wary of these touts at Ikeja. Some officers of the NPF have no life.

Lalasticlala, please help raise this awareness.

I am sorry for what you went through but somehow, I don't really know why you guys keep going to that place. I'm really confused so maybe you can help me. Don't you read evil stuff about that place from Nairaland? Would you feign ignorance?
I have read so much about Computer Village from Nairaland and that is the last place I would visit to buy anything. I JUST CANT. WHY DO YOU GUYS KEEP GOING BACK THERE WITH SO MANY EVIL TALES? AKPU PHONE, SHORTCHANGING PEOPLE OF THEIR HARD EARNED FOREIGN CURRENCY, THEFT, ATM THEFT. SO MANY RUBBISH. [size=28pt]SO WHY DO YOU GUYS KEEP GOING BACK THERE?[/size]

FREEEMANAN:
This couple are redefining the concept and tradition of "YOU MAY KISS THE BRIDE"...





LALASTICLALA & FREEMANAN come see kiss

Greatttt!

vicdamm:
please help save a future rescue dog by liking our Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/vicdamkennel and also help up share Tuff's story which has now been uploaded to our Facebook page. by doing this you would be doing a lot more than you can imagine for us.
please help us reach out to the world.....Thanks!!!

Well done to you. This is great!

01emek:
Its was really unfair and disheartened for her to refuse my proposal because of my height.

Pls nairalander is height now a problem in relationship and for the records,am 5:1.

Don't worry. Make your money and they will chase you. Have you seen a picture of Oluch Orlandi and her husband? What of Julius Agu and his wife. Hissss. There dey nor begin dey hustle. If you hammer now, that girl will chew her own words.

orobs93:
Sweet
The case of jonathan was just a mis placed priority..
Now he can use his full potentials in his specified field

I agree; never seemed like a proper politician to me. This role best suits him. He has forged a good legacy for himself in this regard...

@redcard1 thank God for your life. Well sha na insider information via the bank or someone who knows that the customer was going to withdraw a large sum. Most likely insider info sha...

Lol

Skibofire:
To score free kicks on fifa is extremely difficult + she is a girl..they are things u just don't learn on your own

SMH to you and everyone who liked your comment. #inferioritycomplex

ChristyG:
are u minding d useless Ibo op,dey are plenty Ibo pple bleaching

This is why Nigeria will keep struggling; everything una go link to tribe. Such a light hearted thread una don carry link again.

In any case, you must admit THAT particular tribe holds the title record for bleaching women. It is a well known fact that the other tribe has loads of light skinned women.

ebbybest:
that remainds me of wen i meet my Rev father newly wen he was posted to our church. He saw me nd said i would soon follow d train of bleaching. I tried to convince him i hate bleaching but he did nt accept. He den gave me 2 years to knw if i would actually bleach or not. Now this is the fifth year no bleaching.
Well to all ladies and Guys who bleach keep it up. Una fyn pass the whole world. But no fyn pass me

Why would he think so lowly of you and what concerns him with your skin? Inappropriate gist...

Yungwizzzy:
Who cares

I do! Hater.com

saaedlee:
Were you adopted? Or do you plan on adopting since you CAN'T have biological child(ren)?

Why is adoption now a bad thing? This shows you are not exposed.

I said it, young doctor:

https://ng.linkedin.com/pub/dr-kevwe-ogidigben/17/71b/598

ChazB died last year. Dude graduated from medical school in 2011. How much could he have known/done in 3 years? Now google his name and it comes along wit Chaz B's death. Sucks for him...

Heartbreaking story. Dr Kevwe is obviously a young doctor. Most times, they leave the night work for young doctors while the consultants are at home sleeping. Very sad.

Professionals ought to be on stand by @ all times but of course not in naija!