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DeclutterMarsh:
This is a lie from the pit of hell!!!!!!!!!! How do you guys come up with this hasty conclusions that are not only misleading but also very appalling….

How do you put “Virginity till marriage” and “urge to explore” together in our sentence Such a paradox!!! What she didn’t do as a single for several years, na now wey she don marry she go start? That’s some “Discipline”, “Self control” and “decency” mixed together. This is 2023 and chastity is very hard to find!!!!

Let’s start applauding people that chose to stand out by doing the right thing regardless!!!!

Don't mind them.
What do you expect of pigs?
Filth is very normal to them!

saasala:
I laugh at you in Swahili....

Talking about circles? I wouldn't want to talk much.

Brother, I probably have bigger circle than you, and I have them in different forms. I have circles just like yours; the ones you call trained and civil, and I have the ones you call untrained and loose, and these 'untrained' circle are some of the most wonderful people you will ever come across.

Me, unlike you, don't limit my experiences, my circles, and my reach. I like to explore. I mingle with people from all walks of life and I relate with everyone perfectly. This is why I have a better experience because I can see life from different angles. I am not redundant or stagnant. I am 100% flexible.

Come out of your shell man, dine and wine with the devil and angel and learn from all angles of life. This is important for your personal, financial and even marital life. You can always dodge a bullet before it is shot at you. Nuff said.

I am not doubting your experiences o
This is probably why I've never eaten maggots with my food: I am choosey with what I eat and where I eat. Hence, it is impossible for me to relate to you eating ALL manner of food from all manner of locations.

You will agree with me that if you flock with people who eat all manner of things from any kind of location, you would encounter strange things (which of course would be your norm) but strange to me.

You invited me to feast with you in the name of freeing my mind. Thank you!
I have never complained of what I eat and where I eat them.
What do you think would happen when a Pig invites a cat to feast.?

I asked you a question before you start judging virgins

Since we can only speak of what as a norm exists around us,
It would then be safe to say that you are not truely different from these adulterous women as this is your normal expectation : Is this view of mine correct?

gaskiyamagana:
The each of difference Bibles we have has different Christian organizations as author, with different names. Until you do this about different Qur'an, you are only deceiving yourself.

You said Allah dictated the Qur'an through Jibril to Mohammed.

You said the Qur'an of Mohammed is a copy of the Quran in heaven.

Did you not say there is only one Arabic Qur'an?

Tell me please:
Of the 30+ Arabic Qur'an, which one is the original Qur'an in heaven.

Is it Hafs Qur'an?
Is it Warsh Qur'an?
Is it....?

Which one?

saasala:
See you analyzing a woman like mathematics. If 1+1 = 2, then 2+2 should be = 4. Sadly, they are different from mathematics.

Women cheat for several reasons, and some of the reasons are not even in your list.

And the truth remains that there are women who married as a virgin and still cheat. So why did they do it?

The same way men claim they like varieties, so do some women. Some women also get bored of the same thing and as humans, we love to explore and seek new experiences.

Okay, I have a friend who slept with a married woman whose hubby disvirgined her. And she practically 'toasted' my friend. Her reason: "She felt left behind. She needed to taste another dick. She wanted to explore and see how another man tastes"

Virgins these days have high level of fantasies than the non virgins. They consume more porn than the non virgins and engage in other sexual acts aside penetration. These fantasies, they want to fulfil. It is only a matter of time before some of them (The ones who have olosho tendencies) go out and explore. Abu you don't know that some virgins have olosho tendencies?

I am not a kid in the game of women. I have deflowered three women, slept with four married women (Something I am not proud of and won't do again) and have two friends who have slept with married women who married as virgins.

Most of the ladies who stayed chaste from 16 to 24 as you claimed did so under some obligation, oath, churchy sh1t or whatever thing they believe in and not because they have some real values.

While I was in my early twenties, I was in the choir and was dating my pastor's 19 year old daughter who was a virgin. The only reason she stayed a virgin is because her Dad's biggest wish was to give his daughters hand in marriage as virgins, for his own pride and ego. But this girl will suck my d1ck, I will robb her cl1ts till she gets madly wets, gave me her bobbi to sock and all....And guess what, she still married as a virgin. But I know her too well, she was exposed to a lot of rubbish already and will likely cheat on her hubby to fulfil these fantasies.

There are a lot of ladies like this who are staying till wedding night to have sex just because of the pride, and so they can go around and say "I got married as a virgin" Make their parents proud and all that.....And after wedding, all hell can be let lose.

Bro, my body count is astronomically high, something I am not proud of tho, but thought me a lot of things about women, sex and life generally. I am most likely more experienced than you, so you listen to me. I have fvcked different kinds of women, from different age group, ethnicity, tribe, nationality and all. Married, single, engaged, name it, except olosho. I detest olosho. I have fvcked a woman a day to her wedding cos she needed to do send off for me. Three days after her wedding we continued

Life is not mathematics bro. No dey calculate am like that again.

So again, let me reiterate: Marrying a virgin lady does not guarantee fidelity. Don't lose guard because you married a virgin. They can fvck your wife 6 months after your wedding.

I think I now fully understand your point of view. You have frolicked a lot with loose women because this is your circle and thus, this is the only life you know.

My own circle is unfortunately (different from yours) more civil and less wild.

Most of my circle and people I relate with are not the wild, undisciplined, untrained or loose individuals.


Since we can only speak of what as a norm exists around us,
It would then be safe to say that you are not truely different from these adulterous women as this is your normal expectation : Is this view of mine correct?

fidelmarshal199:
You just shot yourself in the neck. When you know the action is possible then why do you have to castigate the OP because he was trying to clear his doubt

I can see that you truely expect to marry a hoe when you are ready!

Is this a correct assumption?

fidelmarshal199:
You just shot yourself in the neck. When you know the action is possible then why do you have to castigate the OP because he was trying to clear his doubt

No sir.
What is the probability that you will commit murder?
Probably very low!

Does the probability exist?

Yes! You can commit murder!

This is the courageous woman who exposed the Islamic lie that their is ONLY one Arabic Qur'an. She alone fished out over 30 different Arabic Qur'ans.

She had been active on Speakers Corner UK before being stabbed as she preached to convince Muslims not to fanatically follow lies and deceptions of Islam thinking it will lead them to paradise.

Speak to your brothers who think they do Allah a beautiful service of Jihad by eliminating her.



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She was a Muslim before her eyes were opened to Jesus Christ!

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fidelmarshal199:
Read news, Be informed. Visit Instablog. You trust less when you see how Wives are betraying their partners on a daily basis

I still insist that
1. You are unmarried else you would have known that a married woman's libido does not increase in marriage but reduce.
2. You are in experienced else, you would have known the above.

If you heard anything in news, it is because it is strange and an aberration from the normal.

Change your circles
Change your associations
Change your friends

You probably are exactly like this, thus your close associates are expected to behave like this.

No one has claimed that a wife married as a virgin can NEVER commit adultery BUT, the probability is low.

saasala:
1. I am married
2. I am in my late 30s, experenced and very experienced
3. I know the power of values.

Maybe I got it wrong by tending to generalize, sorry about that.

But my claims are very true for some women. Some women might have olosho tendencies, yet kept their virginity for some reasons best known to them and will blow out after marriage.

The key is the power of values.

Most ladies who are married as virgins have some certain values that had kept them while they were between 16 years old to 24 years of age (this is when most girls lose their virginity).

What are their reasons?
1. Spiritual (they don't want to sin against their God).
Why would they now choose to sin against God when they are married?
2. Cultural (this is what they grew up to know as normal around them)
I don't know any Nigerian african culture that promotes promiscuity for married women: do you?
3. Personal resolve (a choice they made by themselves as a way of life)
What would make them change suddenly to the opposite?

Statistically, married women do not crave more sex than single women.
If truly you are married, you should know that a married woman's libido is on the average low. Why would they suddenly think that promiscuity would solve the problem.

Now even about you as a man: after you got married, did you suddenly lose control of your sexuality? Are you now more promiscuous than before marriage?
Why do you now expect that a virgin wife would be promiscuous after marriage?







If any married woman would be promiscuous after marriage, it is a woman who was married as a non-virgin!

Why?
1. She may discover that your gbola is the smallest amongst all the guys she has handled and thus crave for her best experience
2. You may be a two-three minute man and most of her exes can go for 45minuites straight while giving her multiple orgasms. Shouldn't she crave for this experience again while h you can't give?
3. You may be awkward in bed compared to some of her exes that she misses them instead of the boring you.


A virgin has only you as a reference for everything sexual, therefore she is most likely to accept you as you are. Except she is a witchand it is a ritual where her virginity is only to trap forever the guy she'd married, it usually never happens that a virgin wife would go outside marriage for sex.

fidelmarshal199:
A more knowledgeable fellow is trying to educate but you are proving stubborn. After 30 years in marriage you may end up finding out that your first child isn't yours biologically.

What knowledge?

I can guarantee that
1. You are not yet married
2. You are young and inexperienced
3. You don't know the power of values.

nairalanda1:
1.Can you give us links to the studies by the way?

2.You are also implying that your wife, mother and sisters all ran after other men after getting married as virgins.



You guys should stop hating women.

Don't mind him.
He is probably a 16 year old boy behind the keyboard.

saasala:
@TenQ


See this one.

Studies have shown that when women keep themselves as virgin until marriage, after being deflowered they start to long for other d1cks to make up for the years they have been chaste while their friends are riding several priks. They suddenly have this urge to explore and see life from different angles.

Your virgins wife who might have olosho tendencies might only be keeping herself till after marriage because her parent or pastor or wheoever told her its the right thing to do. After marriage, her real colour can show.

Dey play my fans.

I can guarantee that
1. You are not yet married
2. You are young and inexperienced
3. You don't know the power of values.



A woman who remained faithful before marriage is most likely to remain faithful after marriage.

You married you wife as a virgin.
She is at least 22 years old and she kept herself.

You now think that within ONE year, she would suddenly turn rogue!?

You need to apologise to her after this DNA!

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Natural methods probability of failure is very high o. There are too many variables that can affect it.

Withdrawal is the worst method.

Which method did you use?

Dpharisee:
He who brings home ants infected firewood should not complain when lizards come visiting, Finland cannot invite America to station weapons on Russias border without repercussions.
The reality is if Russia decided to attack Finland NATO will not step in or they will get incinerated with nuclear weapons, Russia is not Libya or Iraq

I perfectly agree with you. the report I am hearing is that Kim Jon Un stole ALL the nuclear weapons of USA thereby making ONLY Russia the only country in the world with nuclear weapons.

I just pity USA: Russia is winning

All Russian's neighbours cannot sleep because of their bullying nature and Putin is surprised they are seeking protection with NATO!?



It is on recored that From 21 February 1808 to 17 September 1809, the Russian Empire waged the Finnish War against the Kingdom of Sweden, ostensibly to protect the Russian capital, Saint Petersburg. Eventually Russia conquered and annexed a huge part of Finland, and converted it into an autonomous buffer state.

bolabizzle:
Just got word from a friend about someone who made the move from being a bank manager in Nigeria to working as a skyscraper cleaner in the UK. 😕

Smart move or not?

Smart move.

Skyscraper cleaners earn very well.
You need to be trained and certified both medically and professionally to be fit before deployment.

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

Kill this thought immediately. It is infatuation and you will lose your job on top.

What you have is simply INFATUATION!

Iamsunday9898:
My mother gave birth to a male child which was her first but died, she also gave birth to other 3 girls which 2 died in an accident on different occasions and the 3rd one has nothing to show for in life, my mother got married to my father and had me as a boy and I literally grew up spending most of my life with her but there's something that has been occurring to me as I grow older, there was a time I was doing fine financially and able to strive for myself without a cause even while I was very younger (am 27 now) my dad died and we had to move out of the house, my mom wants me to do everything she says and wants, when we moved out I got a two bedroom and after some months I furnished it, there was a day we sat down in the parlour and my mom called all the furniture "panti" that if she has a chance to travel abroad she will leave behind all this panti, I was broken and since then I couldn't help my reaction towards her, I had a girl that cane to stay with me for about 2 months and my mom was always frowning and even came to sit-down watching me and this girl eat one day inside my room and then challenged her in front of me that why is she using the bottle directly and can't use cup I was embarrassed and chased her out of my room, I noticed also that whenever I give her money I'm always broke for a long time and whatever I tell her would not work out or whatever she know about me would die instantly, I thought it was just a mere coincidence not until my other siblings which happened to be my elder sisters children that are grown up started telling me the same thing that they always have a problem or go broke whenever they help her, I have been questioning myself alot if I'm not making a wrong preference, the same woman was sitting down from one shop to another when we got to this street and would tell me it's cause she doesn't want to be bored, I got tired of her bullshit and told her one day that I would like to go and rent my own place and we should live separately and since then, I haven't had that opportunity to make this move, my mother has ruined things for me to the extent that if I want to buy something in the house she would instigate I don't even by the irritating look she gives... I don't know what to do cause I have lost alot and whenever I go out to my friends place or my siblings telling them not to tell her where I was, I always get money miraculously and she won't stop calling everyone to find out where I am but when I come back home, it's from one problem to another, I'm at the verge of killing myself because of this cause I lost my peace and sanity already .

Don't fall under a self inflicted curse. your mother is NOT a witch.

You are f probably infected with some demons disturbing you and shifting your focus to your mother.
Go for deliverance and work hard thereafter

nlfpmod:
https://nairametrics.com/2023/12/13/removing-import-restrictions-will-lift-about-1-3-million-nigerians-out-of-poverty-world-bank/

World bank will never say:
Plant more rice so that the poor will get jobs and the rice would be affordable

Lukuluku69:
In Jesus Heaven perhaps their is no Marriage but Adam and Eve were what?

In Allah's Paradise we will be with our earthly family provided they were Righteous.

As for the Tight Pusses, Allah does what He wills

I hear you.
The God that tempts Muslims with tight vaginas: no wonder suicide bombing never would cease.


Have a nice day

Neymar1095:
We are told in Genesis that the tree they eat from is the tree of the knowledge of good and evil and once Adam and Eve eat the fruit they have knowledge of good and evil. So how can eating the fruit be a sin if they had no knowledge that it was evil? You may say that God directly told them not to eat from the tree and by definition sin is rebelling against God but the Bible also tells us that we are judged on what we know and Adam and Eve had no knowledge that God was good or the serpent was evil?
If God truly judges us by what we know as stated in Romans 2:12 how could God judge Adam and Eve as sinful considering they had no knowledge of good and evil. All they knew was that they had been told if they ate the fruit they would die and told by another the fruit would give them wisdom.
Is there something I'm missing from the story or do I just not understand?

Knowledge of good and evil is a figurative expression to indicate independence from God with respect to their choices meaning that they henceforth will be the sole determinant of their good and evil thus becoming like God.

Unfortunately, man's definition of what is good and what is evil is most times at variance from God's own standard of good and evil.

Adam wasn't dumb o!
Note that he gave every animal its name!

Lukuluku69:
Romans 9:15-16 (KJV) For he saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion.
So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.

Why didn't Jehovah have Mercy on ALL?

Why being SELECTIVE?

This is on earth where opportunities for change to righteousness is given and NOT in hell fire AFTER judgment of evil nature has been done.

Did you note that Jesus opinion is vastly different from that of your prophet.

Mar 12:25:
"For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven."



Jesus came from Heaven, so he knows better.

The choice of Allah is based on some certain extremely important criteria :
Selection BY tight VAGINA

MightySparrow:
Yeah, I guessed so


Merry Christmas in advance.

Merry Christmas in advance to you too.
Shalom

MightySparrow:
Abi o

How are you my friend. I've been very busy lately!

God1000:
I want Hamas to release all the remaining hostages

Unfortunately, the ceasefire vote gave no such conditions. It just proposed immediate ceasefire!

Whondo you think the ceasefire will benefit Israel or Hamas?

God1000:
Another wrong move from the Biden administration.

This is why Israel doesn't respect calls from UN and other countries for a ceasefire because they have the full backing of USA.


You don't want civilians to be killed, but you don't want a ceasefire as well, I don't get it

And you want Hamas to keep her hostages isn't it?

Lukuluku69:
I gat no sugar coating words for man Made imbecilic Doctrines and any moronic drivel to explain them.

LOL!
.... wait for it!

Lukuluku69:
Olodo, violation of God Sovereignty ko, incapable ni.

If you like rest, if you like continue with your perpetual roaming. Ko kan aye

Too bad..!

Lukuluku69:
Paul fashioned that Bullcarp for Retardinhos.

Gravity ko, Isaac Newton ni

Neither you nor your prophet has a clue of the severity of the gravity of the violation of God's sovereignty!

To this, I rest my case!

Lukuluku69:
Why God have to Sacrifice Himself to appease Himself is for Retuar.ds

Allah is Ar-Gaffur. He Forgives.

Until you and Allah understand
the gravity of the violation of God's sovereignty!

It would be like casting a pearl unto pigs: a waste!

Obolor123454:
PREVIOUS THREAD https://www.nairaland.com/7931278/wife-travelling-without-consent/4#127349507
Hello,
I am writing to provide some clarifications following our earlier discussion under the mentioned headings. It has become necessary to address certain points for better understanding.

I've noticed some surprising comments, and I believe it might be attributed to cultural differences. I want to emphasize that I opened this account upon the request of a Nigerian friend who encouraged me to share my story.

My primary concern is the timing of the information about the occasion for which my spouse has been making preparations. The issue is not about mistrusting my brother; rather, it's about my spouse not sharing this information earlier.

The wedding she is attending is that of her old classmate's younger sister, a man whose name has been rarely mentioned in the ten years of our marriage. My surprise stems from the sudden revelation of her involvement in this event just a few days before the ceremony, despite the extensive preparations leading up to it. Like I said, I think she only mention the guy’s name just once when the guy had an accident. She just mentioned the accident and that was all.

Moreover, when she was even telling me of embarking on the journey, she just only said that she was attending a friend’s wedding without further details or explanation. She was merely informing me about it, because she already made all the arrangement to attend the wedding and has been discussing the issue with this same class mates for over 4 months without ever mentioning it to me, just only to inform me days to the occasion.

I hope these clarifications shed light on the specific points of concern. I appreciate your time.

The disease of your marriage is this:
Lack of Trust for each other.

When she's gone for the program, should you yourself be trusted?

Is you wife a LovePeddler?
If you think she's not, let her go.
However,
If you think your wife is a LovePeddler, you have every reason to be worried