Afroconnect:
U got to ave character,brains for riches or you are a rich kid-cos ur beauty just average.5/10,except u got a body like JLo or mariah carey.

'Hmmm. . . I don't even know what to say, all I feel is a huge sadness for you. . .Hard to imagine that someone can have such a peanut sized brain! Don't worry I'll say a prayer for you.

free2ryhme:


I can understand if u lack comprehension of ordinary metaphor. BTW only shallow people comment this way and you for one speak from experience. Engaging you would be whinning in the mud with a pig and I am way mature for your cheap punches.

It takes a pig to know a pig right?

On the maturity point, you contradict yourself MR! You contradict yourself!

So men raise their hands during a roll call, and you actually also do?

As I suggested before, sweet heart hit the oxford dictionary! This time search for the meaning of a "Metaphor"

free2ryhme:



Babe clap for yourself for turning down three marriage proposals or do u expect us to throw a party for your recent achievement? And besides I wasn't for or against the generalization u are talking but rather took a particular note abt how u are taking the issue. The OP stated a psoition base on his experience and u went ballistic. Babe u need to calm down oooo life short ooo. So what is a beautiful chic like you doing unmarried with three turn down marriage proposal in your custody? Abi na award wey u hope to share with you squad

I went ballistic? I think someone needs to pick up his oxford dictionary or google the meaning of the word "BALLISTIC"

But I ain't surprised. Typical response from a shallow below average Nigerian man. I mean I wasn't expecting better.

Like I asked before, your opinion matters to because?

Is it a competition? Can't the wife's mother come first, then the husband's mother can follow. At the end of the day, they'll still both get to take care of their first grand child. Why does everything have to be such a hassle with we humans?

zicoraads: You are beautiful! Very very cute!!

Merci Mr. Zicoraads.

free2ryhme:


I don't get it with you at all. The way u just dey attack this topic as if say e dey hit you where e dey pain you. Babe confirm this post is speaking directly to you.

Really? And your personal opinion matters because?

Oh by the way it doesn't speak to me dear, I've turned down at least 3 marriage proposals in the past one year, some of us aren't just bothered, marriage is not top of our priority. Just saying, so you'all need to give the generalization a rest.

Funny generalization. And you came about this conclusion based on what study?

Have you ever wondered that some beautiful ladies could be single out of choice. The sooner some peeps get it into their heads that not every woman out there is so desperate for marriage or in a competition to get married then you peeps can focus on better things in life. Just saying.

Been here before. In my case dude was 15years older, divorced and no kids ( well that was what I was told.) According to him, it was his ex wife who caused the breakup, but I didn't allow likeness cloud my judgement.

As I got to know him, I actually found myself emphatizing with the ex wife and I just couldn't see myself dating him even though I liked him. So I walked.

Before you jump into anything, please keep love and feelings aside and apply some logic.

I do this often and it has nothing to do with arrogance or pride. Its just a way of keeping out that toxic energy from your life. I'm team cold turkey. If it ain't working out with either a relationship or friendship then please let it go.

I read too many stories like this, and I wonder is it worth getting married?

Dang! Men like this still exist?

The commentary part is soooo true! I just don't get it!

Atmmachine:

If you dare qoute me again i will ban you

Just did!

Atmmachine:

Smelly pucci..
I blame the owner of Nairaland for making everyone to be on the same level.

My daughter.
I'm not your mate.
Good bye

And you just proved my point!

Don't worry I'll keep you in prayers.

Atmmachine:

My daughter.
I'm sorry to say this :
H
You're a joke

Sorry dear, you cannot be my father, cus he is not such a disgrace!

Atmmachine:

They are jobless yet they have $1000 to pay for the iphone 6
You are not jobless but can you afford a 56 thousand naira phone

In your attempt to be sacarstic or funny, you just displayed your level of ignorance!

If you actually knew how the system works abroad, you'll understand that a lot of people live off their credit cards. So just because they use a $1000 phone doesn't mean they can afford it. Not saying they all jobless but most on that queue are!

As for using a 56,000 naira phone, so what? I got better priorities to focus on than buying a 165000 naira phone to impress a bunch of clowns!

Goes to show your level of maturity and where your priorities lie. Don't worry I give you some more years to grow up, hoping that it doesn't turn out to be a case of a f.o.o.l at 40.

yehmi01:

Please don't get this out of context madam.

Because one guy said No is not a solid reason to generalize all guys.

What if the guy we are talking about here is married. Do you want him to say yes.

Please your statement " blaa blaa blaa I would never be wooing a Nigerian guy! You can quote me" is so on called for.

If you like go and woo a Chinese man for all we care that's you kettle of fish.

Common Girls turn guys down every day and the world has not ended but because one guy turned down one girls naa for reasons best know to him all of us will not hear word again.

Please as I said go and woo Isis self naa you sabi.

Please some of us men are not after Beauty alone but ladies who are sound upstairs.

And you had to make your point twice? Why so burnt? OK now take a can of coke and run along.

bibiking7:

You ok oga?

bibiking7:

That won't stop us from wooing you.

tonardo: Join the queue if you are an
i_sheep
i_goat
OR
i_fan for Apple.

When I'm not jobless! Those peeps are obviously very jobless! Cus no busy person would be stupid enough to go queue for a phone you'll probably get in a couple of months time for a lesser price!

zube01: Thank goodness!! atleast u gals also try to woo us on social network and we do to u what u do to us!!!...

Typical of an average Nigerian guy! And this is the reason I would never be wooing a Nigerian guy! You can quote me!

I actually don't blame the guy. I blame the lady! She knew what she wanted from the onset, and still allowed the relationship linger for 4years! Who does that?

At the end of the first year, you need to know where the relationship is headed. If you both going different directions, then you need to get off that ship!

I think the issue with women is they're afraid to speak out cus they feel "I don't wanna be termed desperate."

But at the end of the day, isn't that what you want? So why you pretending and denying yourself of knowing the truth?

To thyself be true! And you will avoid putting yourself in situations like the girl did!

I do not even have words to define this situation!

bootstrap: All this grammar u guys are speaking and dodging the truth so u dnt cut across as shallow, God is watching oh

Who is a guy with potential?

A GUY WITH POTENTIAL IS THAT GUY THAT IS CURRENTLY FINANCIALLY STABLE WITH A HIGH TENDENCY TO INCREASE THAT FINANCE AS THE YEARS PROGRESSES.

In the current financial realities on ground, be earning, at the very least 150k (give or take), hv a job/buisness that can atleast double that revenue in say, every 5yrs ... oh, and I am refering to those under 30. The requirements change as the age increases.

Ladies and gents, that is potential for you.

God bless you! I don't know why peeps won't call a spade a spade!

Interesting. But I hope you know not every single woman spends her time thinking of the reason she is single. Some single women are single by choice just saying.

Houseofglam7: Money is damn important in a relationship.

Try shagging on a bare floor, I bet you'll appreciate the California king bed.

Try jumping on and off a Molue with your boyfriend, the way the conductor go shout for am sef go make you lose respect for am, then you'll appreciate an Aston Martin.

Try living in face me I slap you with your boyfriend and see your boyfriend queue to use the toilet for morning, then you'll appreciate banana Island.


Try smoking garri and groundnut till your vision gets impaired, then you'll appreciate continental meals.


Bottom line, Money is the 'In thing'
Don't watch him try to make it alone.
Help him.
Make money together.

Right on Point!

I hope she got paid well for this jobless and unsolicited analysis?

LMAO!

It simply means "Oga you and I know I'm not stupid and we both know where you are going with this. So save both our time and go straight to the point"

Men amuse me!

Man's inhumanity to man
Inferiority complex
wickedness
Jealousy

It goes on and its really sad! Especially women who treat their house helps so poorly!

They had better not try it!