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Neyova:
I already did jamb 3times and filled medicine, but I couldn't meet the cut off, I had 235 in the recent one I did on friday (yesterday) and am thinking its kinda low for medicine. So, I wanna change the course to another course in the medical field with the hope of crossing to medicine after having my bsc. Just wanna know if anatomy is a good course or you could pls suggest a better course in the medical field. Thanks

Choose physiotherapy instead.It depends on the cut-off mark.It's a professional course better than anatomy.
Make necessary enquiries and be sure of prospects of admission before doing the change of course.

If you plan to finish the course in Anatomy and then go on further to study medicine,it will be an advantage for you.
However,my advice to you is to collect another UTME form,fill Medicine and prepare well for the next exam.

Bizbee:
He really thinks and knows i can always stand in gap for him, but am human too with feelings. we had to move to another country because of his job, there i started biz. i was begging him to assist me with customers (his colleagues) for fast sales, he refused and asked me to go look for my costumers else where, in a place am just new to. Now he is making me to patronize his colleague wives in biz marketed by their husbands. i am just fed up he wants me to do things without his help. As for the house help he bluntly refused a stay in house help. when i opted for a housekeeper next, he said that will just be a waste of money since what i really need is a nanny or stay in house help but wont agree to that. just last week he brought a guy home to clean the house and said the guy will only be coming once a month.

Your hubby is your hubby but I'm not sure he is your friend.Why would a husband not help out a heavily pregnant wife with house chores?
I think your hubby is the traditional african man and the fact that he's the one handling all finances makes him not want to help out.
Have a talk with him when the mood is right and if after all these,he still wouldn't budge,just do the much you can do each time and you have the next day to do the rest.

icedbeatz:
I am a deranged imp, well nairaland is a forum where every dummy can place him or herself on any intellectual level they deem fit. My post displays how low my reasoning is.

icedbeatz

Fixed!

Renaj:
l removed it. l waited for almost a day for feedback but l got nothing. Maybe my post is not up to the kind where advice is given. Thanks by the way, Sir.

Do a repost or send a mail if you wish.

Renaj:
No advice for me? Alright

where's ur post?

icedbeatz:
WTF is wrong with u?!?!? what do you want them to do? while she was fking another guy did she inform them or give them a Lil some some?!? fk outta here with that shitty mentality dude. IF U CANT DO THE TIME THEN DON'T DO THE CRIME!!!!!!!!!!! and for u ladies that are going to cheat on your husband tomorrow, first if all check if ur ready to bear the consequences before u do and that goes for every decision we make in life be it fkin a LovePeddler, multiple dating, playing fkin without c0nd0m..... BE READY TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY OF UR ACTIONS

You're a liitle boy from the way you write.You've still got some growing up to do.
You will begin to see as a man then.
Till then..............

*Don't bother cos I won't exchange words with a boy.

urchbarbie:
My dear! I totally undestnd whr ure coming from. Am just sad dat tinx dat aint supposed to be naturally feared is now dat way cos of someones inability to be contended with wat they av. Some wld say variety is d spice of life. Others wld say they can't keep eating egusi soup all d days of dier lives while there r other delicacies. Sometimes dis tin scares me cos I knw I can stomach infidelity

You don't have to be fearful of going into a commitment.You just need to use the brain more than the heart to get it right.

You can eat rice and never get tired of it.You just need to be creative with it.It can be done as fried rice,jollof rice,plain rice,mixed with salad,mixed with ketchup,etc......I hope you get my drift.
It's about just settling with the right person.
Are u single?

papawemba:
Some Oloshos do up to 20 men in a day.

This one na girl inside her papa house.It can't be true.

Even if he indeed caught her cheating,the mumu spectators will watch him beat her to death.

urchbarbie:
Playing detectives! Tis is wat infidelity breeds. I still don't understnd y ppl cheat tho

Detective?This is someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with,you shouldn't do your homework?
It's not like you start checking his phone or trailing him about.You are just wise enough to pay attention to 'happenings' around him.

bukatyne:
What If he has a Good phone habit?

True Some ladies are blind but not Everyman looks marriaged.

Some I know married @23 and had about 3kids at 28.

If he removes his ring/doesn't wear one and toast a girl, she might not know.

I think it is easier to know for a middle aged man.

It is well

Yes, some men indeed have perfected their act.A lady just has to sharpen up just as the men do.Unfortunately,it's easy for ladies to easily get carried away and that is why the necessary work is not done.

bukatyne:
How do a lady know a guy is married If his family does not live around his family?

How does a man operate two families codely successfully?

How does a wife not know her husband is creeping?

It is not always straight forward

I wonder why a single lady will tangle with We are divorced, seperated, evil wife crew.

Once a man has attached himself to a woman, he should be off limits.

It is not always straight-forward as you said but one of the easiest ways is his phone habit.
Does he call at specific times?
Does he cut calls?Does he end conversations abruptly?
If you call late in the night,does he answer?e.t.c
Other signs are picked up when you are around him.A woman's instinct is strong so she needs to use it too.

Una don add to this story.5 guys in one day?
Idonbilivit.

He will go to prison for 6yrs and waste a good period of his life because he lacks self control.
Things some men do to themselves.

Make she dey spit they go.She can try some of the stuffs posters above have listed but sometimes they may not give a permanent solution.

She will only spit for about 9mths so no worries.

Nothing wrong with it but next time give her the money to buy them herself.

keppyy:
Dilemma of a Young Girl...


She had little symptoms of pregnancy....She saw a doctor and the doctor said they have to eliminate the possibility of pregnancy and she needs to do a test.

She is three days late on her menstraul flow...

She had sex with a guy two weeks ago and the guy wore a condom....


What's the possibility that she is pregnant and is it not too soon for symptoms to show?

Her supposed last encounter before the guy is about a year ago....

The guy is asking her to retrace her steps because he is extremely sure there was no spill...

She could be pregnant or not.The best way to confirm is to do a test.
Condoms are not 100% safe.Moreover,there could be a spill in the process of even removing the condom.
Two weeks is enough for pregnancy to be confirmed and if her period is three days late,she likely had sex around her ovulation period.
The only fool-proof way of preventing pregnancy is 'no near'.

armyofone:
Naija guys and chopulating from every corner is on another level. Girls should be wise. I think they take advantage of girls who are desperate for two things....marriage and money.

Many Naija men will always want to chop.It's left for the ladies to do their homework.
There's a saying that you can't do anything about a bird flying over your head but it's your fault if it builds a nest on your head.

stages:
Cheiiii we hav suffered. I am still seeking answers cincerning my cousin's situation. She dadated this guy, got pregnant and the guy came and did trado, paid her bride price. He came wit his people oh his sister broda an uncle and som5 friends. Some weeks later the guys wife found out about the relationship and trado. Brought all docs and pics to show he was maried for 10 years. My sistas we were shocked. And the guy kept on lying. Can u imagine we were trying to calm down his wife and make her understand her husband lied he was not married, the guy was bysy texting his wife saying he would explain everything that its not what she thinks and when my cousin called him he insisted the wife is lying that they are in the process of divorce.tdivorce.thank God the wife heard. I pitied both ladies, it was so hard on them.

A lot of young girls ought to be smarter.All that glitters is not gold.
When you meet a very matured guy and he says he's not married,do your homework well.
Some posters already mentioned the famous lines;
'We are in the process of divorce'
'We are separated'
'My wife does not give me peace at home'
'My wife does not make me happy,I'm lonely' bla bla bla.
Maybe because i'm a guy,i wonder how a girl can spend some time with a guy and not know he's married.I can tell after just three meetings.

@poster,your cousin should brace up for a life of a single mother.She can always remarry.

Babymama1:
I have a question,I will give my take on the issue later on but first I want to know what you folks ,especially the men on this thread think about a scenario where the wife makes more than the husband.

Would that bother you and why?

The most important thing is to know who you marry!The strength of character.
If my wife earns more money than me,it wouldn't bother me.It's more money for the family.
How you handle finances in each family will matter however.For those who pull resources together and then spend based on what they have collectively,it wouldn't matter who is contributing more.The expenses are met from what they have collectively.For those whose husbands handle major projects and the wife supplements,whatever the man can handle,he does and the woman having more takes care of what is left.

The most important thing is to have a wife who is submissive(abi una get another word) and a man who is not intimidated.

We are in the era of cutting or burning manhood now.
Okay o.

He needs Jesus.

blaizze:
I need advice on how to break up wit out problems I have tried everything I can but non see to working. I tried ignoring, tried discussing with him but he always gives a 'good' reason y we should continue the relationship.

I cant continue being with someone who is so petty. I initially thought that the problem was from me but now I know otherwise. He doesn't want me to have male friends, very controlling. I have tried sitting down to discuss things with him but it's not just working out.

Just this evening I stopped to greet a male customer and he just started shouting saying he will start keeping female friends too n whatever happens I should just take it like that and that it will only lead to break up. I tried to explain and calm him down to no avail so I allowed him to continue boiling, lol.

when he finished ranting, I went to him and told him that there's no need to be scared and that I will never do anything to hurt him. The dude just said "now that u are having male friends when u go for nysc u may start sleeping around". I just left him and didn't reply.

so when we were going back home (he was actually walking me back to my house) he was still talking about it n I told him that I don't have the strength to quarrel and if he doesn't want to let the matter slide he better start goin to his house. He left n I had a peaceful walk home. When i got home I called to find out if he hadn't gotten home and he told me not to call him again. I jejely ended d call, I don't have airtime to waste.

This is what happens Weneva he sees a guys nota me on my phone book or watsapp. even facebook messages sef he will still want to check. He it's always paranoid. God knows I have never cheated on him before. Once he told me that if I get pregnant he will go for a dnt test o cos he doesn't trust me.

He found it really difficult to introduce me to anybody in his family until last year when we had a serious problem.

He is not as bad person though. Some other chic may be able to endure all those things but not me. I cant be giving explanations about things that shouldn't be explained.

I have done everything within my power to make it work but it just isn't working out. We argue everything week and if St's really exhausting. I am really tired of the relationship. and want to know if there's anything else I can do.
And i want advice on how to make someone believe you actually want break up. am a soft hearted person and always ready to please people as long as it's within my power.

I believe you don't live together.It's not so hard to quit.Stop picking his calls and avoid seeing him.Tell him in clear terms that it is over.
This guy is no good for you.

CAPTIVATOR:
Thank you ! Descend as a DOVE , WOW! We are still sayin the same thing, Infact Luke 3:22 says 'descends in BODILY FORM, AS A DOVE' ! ... Even an illiterate person readin this knows we are talkin about a Dove's Bodily Appearance , WHY DOES it descend in a Dove Bodily Form AND NEVA as a person ??



Lol .. So ur god is everywhere, in the hole of crab, hole of ants, in the fictional hellfire too e.t.c


moreover, are u sayin holyspirit is God , SHOW me where the bible said " holyspirit is God Almighty" ?
Didnt U Say Its A Person? So who impregnate Mary ?

I thought you wanted to learn.I didn't know you are one of those clowns.

At 34yrs,he is old enough to be a father too.Where has the other man been since?

CAPTIVATOR:
RESEARCH more .... The greek word translated 'helper' in John 16:13 carries a masculine gender , thats why its perfectly normal for Jesus to personify the holyspirit with "he" while refferin to "helper" , the holyspirit itself was personified .

Its not uncommon to see such examples of things personified in the scriptures

FOOT speaks ( 1 cor 12: 15)

The EAR talks { 1 cor 12:16}

Trees are said to be rejoicing in psalm 96:11,12

Mountains sing ( Isa 55:12)

Trees Clap Their Hands ( Isa 55:12)

ALL ARE PERSONIFICATION.

BUT if u still insist according to your dogma that the holyspirit is a person, then answer this .

1) why does the holyspirit appear as a dove, and also as tongue BUT NEVER as a person ?


2) since the dogma says holyspirit is a person, and every so - called christian claimed to have it, so how many holyspirits exist since millions of people say that person lives within them ?


3) if the holyspirit is a person , arent u sayin it had sex with MARY ?

Awww,your question shows you're so much in the flesh and don't understand spiritual things.

1)The bible never said the Holy Spirit appears as a dove but descended as a dove.They don't mean the same thing and a lot of Christians have erroneously accepted that too.
2)God is awesome and omnipresent.He is everywhere and that is why He can be everywhere and in 'everything'-every person.
3)Holy Spirit had sex with Mary?I don't even know how to answer this your question.It's like a child asking baby questions.

neoapocalypse:
Same for AA as well , every child has a 25% probability of being AA , only AS has a 50% probability
Overall "good" outweighs "bad" AA/AS = 75% , SS = 25%

Hmmmm.You really don't want to know what that one child with SS means in terms of health challenges.I have lived with a family with one SS child who unfortunately is late now.

neoapocalypse:
It's actually a 25% chance of having an SS child for every birth

Do you know what that 25% means?It doesn't necessarily mean it will be one out of 4.It means it can actually be that 25% for every birth i.e that child could be that 25% for each birth.

babyosisi:
Nna na wa o
Now his smoking is an insignificant issue sef

Abi now.The smoking is even just a part.It's his integrity that is the bigger issue here.

Bonsue118,you say he doesn't womanise?Was that what he TOLD you?

bonsue1118:
Tnks 2 all 4 ur advice. Fine he could change his smoking habit. He lied 2 me wen he ws asking me out abt his job, he lied 2 me that he ws in a particular company as an account officer, I latter found out he ws a driver to d auditor. Although wen he ws working he gave me all I needed, infact he do beg me 2 make request, bt am nt use 2 dat, he gives me weekly allowance. Unfortunately his boss ws transferred 2 ghana den he stopped working. His worried ws cos of me because he believe I might start looking else in which I never did. Fortunately he 4 us, he got anoda job ds month(driving). He also lied 2 me abt his qualification dat his an HND holder in which I latter discovered, infact am nt sure he completed his ND. And as for me, I had my ND, nd currently running my degree program. Truly he cater for me, he doesn't womanise, his faithful. Should I stil continue wit him, or leave him nd move on.

He's not just a smoker but a liar too?How many other things is he lying about?
Giving up smoking takes the willingness of the smoker and a lot of self-discipline.He may quit or not.Are you okay with a driver?Are you willing to go into marriage with a driver?
If he meets your standard,then continue with him.

How old is your baby?If your wife is still bre astfeeding,that may be a reason.
Talk to her and let her tell you what her fears are.