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Afamsi:
Ignorant calling someone better than him ignorant. Since you dont know what makes him devilish your ignorance is choking. I advice you stay away from this topic

You sure don't know when to shush. You goofed with your ignorant comment yet i still helped your ignorant ministry by posting a link to a thread for you to read and comprehend yet you just want to continue displaying your ignorance.

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Iyaebe:
I don't blame her,it's unfortunate to date a Nigerian man especially boys within the age range of 18-35.

Wereh girl

Afamsi:
Meet a devilish Pastor who is a polygamist.... Try to separate them with the right adjective cos there are still Godly Pastors out there. This one doesn't even look like a Pastor to me

You are so ignorant to the extent that you dont even know the level of your ignorance so much that you have no issue displaying your stark ignorance to the whole world.

Please tell us..what makes him devilish?

Please read this thread i created few years back.

https://www.nairaland.com/4303658/dont-deceived-polygamy-not-sin

Pataricatering:
lol ' na im u people still full ground here,?

Each one of us will die when it is our time.

My advice for you is to embrace christ this moment when you still can.

Click on my signature to read and experience a transformation beyond your wildest dreams.

edgell:
the best is he should just avoid getting married

But it's not easy. He is only 65.

15ssDRIVE:
R.I.P
Tomorrow one maga go come tell me say, her cancer got cured after visiting MF.

GOD knows best and maybe it is her time to go.

See wheb it is time for each one of us to go, something must take is out whether through sickness, natural disaster, bullet and so on.

If it wasn't her time, that cancer will not take her life

A001:
Jesus has failed again.

You for tell am make e no allow anybody die so that all of us go kuku die at once from suffocation as a result of a congested earth space.

Pataricatering:
please what is good about this one ?

She has gone to rest.

If you know the type of life that awaits believers in christ on the other side, to die go dey hungry you.

Bola146:
Sometimes I ask this question is there God at all? Does he read answers prayers because I wonder he would have prayed for his wife not to die or he wouldn't have prayed I don't understand. Maybe that is why He is call Unquestionable

If GOD answers every prayer that bothers on people not dying I guess the world would have been saturated by now and there will be no more space for people to live.

See to us as humans, we cry and mourn when our loved ones die but to GOD death of this earthly body is not what he is concerned about... It is the real us, our souls that matters to GOD so whilst we cry here, to GOD it is home coming.

Death must happen in one way or the other so that there will be balance in the earthly ecosystem.

And mind you, 9 out of every 10 deaths are influenced by man either due to our actions or inactions.

Some nairalanders no get joy o...habba

Iyaebe:
Don't be deceived, there's still that cold war,competition and hidden envy between this women you see happily posing for pictures.Polygamy is competition and rivalry between the women and the smartest and wisest one takes the crown in the long run.In this case,I think wizkid mom has already won by just been the mother of wizkid but I'm sure she's not sleeping with two closed eyes over her son.

You have an evil mind.

As you grow you will get wiser and undrstand that polygamy is not always about warring or enimity.

Wait o... Are you even qualified to be the wife of another man?

Cos only virgins can be wives and a non virgin bride can only be a concubine.

Iyaebe:
Don't mind them, bring that spiliting and sharing bills before me and watch me apply it everywhere such that you will hate yourself.A man should just be good,do his best,give love and care and you won't ever need to sound it to your wife to be supportive. But you see those redpillers immediately asking for bills to be shared ehn,me sef will activate my other side and even the air we breath will be shared,down to the bedroom as you'll only release sperm when I want kid,other times I'm going to stop you at your peak because we have to divide the energy as well.rubbish

Local mindset. Just remain in Naija with your mindset.

Outside the country you either share bills or you pay your own bills as a single lady or single baby mama. No other choice

wunmi590:
As it stands the man is the head of the family, and when he says NO, the NO must stand...

I'm a male

You don't sound like a male cos you are not one by my reckoning.

wunmi590:


Alot of mentions, I'm sure aloy of people didn't read the heading before quoting me wrongly....

Marriage is not for everybody, if you know as a man, you can't take care of your responsibilities as the head of the house you always beat your cheat to be, kindly remain a bachelor till thy kingdom come......

I'm allergic to stupid mentions, I have said what I have to say, if you don't like it, jump and pass

Your post is full of ignorance sis cos you are just a female posing to be a male but then it is your opinion but a very myopic one.

wunmi590:
I'm writing based on the thread that grace the front page either this week or last, see below for the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6833377/type-relationship-desire

In my own opinion, I feel it is the full responsibilities of every man, to foot every bills in your home, you claim to be the head and as the head you should always be responsible and not shy away from your responsibilities..

It is only broke men that fight their wives to share mans responsibilities, if you are not capable to take up your sole responsibility, please remain single..

You can't see Dangote or Femi Otedola splitting bills at home with their wife..

Your woman can only support you at her own will without being told to do so....

Know this and have peace of mind

You are stark ignorant.

The person who made that statement does not live in Nigeria.

Your mentality is local. Travel out to developed country and get sense.

When you see bills beyond your salary nobody will teach you before you sit your wife down.

expertman:
For real nah waooo .


But 8years is kinda small for this man evil because the term will run concurrent why them no give him 50years nah

And to think that 8years prison years is actually 4 calender years.

Mariangeles:
What is okpeke?

Hot babe with sweet figure.

maybe they need an Okpeke that is super hot.

This reminds me of my very first thread to grace Nairaland front-page six years ago. Titled ''WHEN THE MAID BECOMES THE MADAM''

How time flies.

https://www.nairaland.com/2521393/when-maid-becomes-madam

In this case the lady is lucky that it was not her husband that the maid took so she should just accept the situation.

But wait o... why do ladies always use that stupid word ''stoop so low'' abeg is the nanny not a woman? Infact se is more woman than most arrogant useless so called high class ladies out there who think sophistication is what matters when it comes to settling with a man.

Clitocurrency can be very profitable.

Iyaebe:
Nice one,please will Soludo be asking his wife to share bills with him like this? I'm asking for friend.

The concept of bill sharing is aimed at building a home where the lady is productively engaged in the financial aspects of the family and it is not that sharing formula many people perceive it to be.

It might shock you to know that there was probably a time his wife was practically doing the whole spending perhaps when they were still dating or in their early marriage.

So stop looking at bill sharing like something the man and woman will sit and say OK you take certain percentage and I take a certain percentage but see it as a situation where both the man and woman are productively engaged financially.

Nah everything dem go dey spell out for una.

In other news... CONGRATS SOLUDO.. THE INCOMING.

Macsjebs:
CHILD MOTHER Harrowing story of youngest mum EVER who was just 5 & had to have a c-section as she was too small to give birth



Source: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/16552270/youngest-mum-ever-lina-medina-peru/

Nkan be.

Kayberg:
Baba B.A.T. is already aged.
What he needs now is rest, not Nigeria's burden.

Honestly.

He is a king maker and in yoruba land it is a serious taboo for a king maker to eye the post of a king cos he is above that position.

I don't know why he wants to belittle himself but then he hasn't said he wants to contest so let's see how it goes... As far as I'm concerned, these two are the next to try out of all the options we have...

Gbadebo19:
You know, a prophetic woman once told me in parables: "The scrotum of a ram dangles fiercely, but it never falls off".
She said without me having told her anything that even though you have said many unkind words to God, he will forgive you for he knows that you do not deserves this condition. Countless prophets and prophetess have told me or my parents that I am a person with good heart. And i swear on the name, names of whatever created me that strictly speaking objectively, i know this to be true. Some have even said that i am only suffering for what i know nothing about. Whether this latter statement is true or not, i do not know but i am able to know such things were said because i actually see things through dreams mostly before their occurence. About 4 months before i left OAU in 2015, i dreamt about the death of a girl that lived exactly opposite our house through a motor accident. Just about four months ago, the girl's mother was killed exactly by a motor accident. What is that? A swap of destiny or what?
Thus, I have come to conclude that it is either God lies or just plays pranks on people. My conviction is further strengthened by statements that I am sure are untrue by God's prophets or Satan's prophets.
Thus, how will a God who claims to love us allow unclean spirits to be able to visit us through dreams and prophetic pronouncement since these are most times his way of talking to us.
I really had a lift of heart when I read your comment but how long will it last when disaster is always lurking around the corner for me. I once narrated this story to a pastor student in OAU, he promised to pray over my matter and that God would do something. Two days later, could you believed that he called me and told me never to reach him again and described me as someone with a seared heart. Till today, I do not know the meaning of that word. Mind me telling you that I was born a Muslim, I accepted Christ when I was promised that "God would speak to me in a a way that I understood".
Having tried both ways, I became convinced that God just doesn't *********

I will still tell you to be strong.

I was so dejected, rejected and at a time I felt I was under a curse... That is how you feel when all the odds seem to be against you.

Even when I promised never to bow down to any other god, I went to several prayer houses and they were telling me tales by moonlight but one day I went to an Alfa cos it got to that point when I nearly went insane and I mean literarilly insane but GOD used the alfa to reset my brain.

After I told the alfa my seemingly hopeless story... He told me never to be in a hurry... That I must Never indulge in ritual or anything bad and most amazingly, he asked me to start reading the book of psalms an alfa asking me to read psalms...

I went home, asked GOD for forgiveness over and over again and with tears in my eyes I spoke out loud.

"JEHOVAH I WILL NEVER STOP PRAISING AND TRUSTING IN YOU EVEN IF I PERISH IN THIS CONDITION SO BE IT"

Today I look back and realise that GOD is so sweet, loving, trust worthy and super sensitive to our yearnings...

I now understand that when it seems GOD is silent over our situation... He 8s Infact working out something spectacular in the background but as humans we can never understand his ways cos according to him...

"his ways are not our ways and the best wisdom of man is foolishness to GOD"

GUY JUST TRUST AND OBEY AND IN DUE TIME, YOU WILL SEE HIS HANDS...


My experience in life has made me embrace a life's slogan for myself which is "All things work together for the good of those who love GOD"

Guy I suffered in this life and I'm even holding back tears as I write this cos I don't ever wish what I passed tru for my enemy.

Gbadebo19:
Sincerely, I don't know why I decided to open this post. I have asked this question so much that I no longer believe in the existence of God. How much can one mention In this wicked world. From a 300 level student of the prestigious OAU back in 2011(studying a four year course) to a block maker. At the age of 28, me who was once looked upon as someone destined for something big is reproached even by parents. As an introvert to the core, I never knew minding ones business could make some people hate you and wish for your downfall. How much can i say When one gets to the point that one's parents no longer expect anything good from ones Jerusalem, one begins to know that it is OVER. In short, I don't regret my decision to stop believing in God but the challenges are just too overwhelming for someone of my age ( I became conscious of my life's spiritual problems as early as the age of 13) so much that I seriously know that God is either nonexistent or even if he exists, he is a wicked God. And even now, there doesn't seem to be an end in sight. I personally told my parents to stop worrying about me and consider me dead, not because of a mind to stay away from family but because of how much I felt for the troubles they were going through because of me. I reasoned that since I wasn't the only child, my siblings would provide succour for them rather than me, a source of constant sorrow.
You may choose to condemn me but remember Matthew 7:1 that judge not so that you be not judged.
I have been shaped by experience, not free will.

I understand you but what have you passed through in life that is making you talk this way?

Have you ever experienced a set back so much that from a Millionaire at the age of 26 back to zeronaire so much that you started selling your properties to feed?

Have you experienced a mishap so bad that you had an accident that affected a vital nerve in your body that could cause death in a matter of days but you managed to survive in abject poverty where you practically drink water morning afternoon and night?

There are many things I passed through that I can't write here cos if I do, every reader Must shed tears no matter how strong hearted you may be.

Many times I cried like a baby in my flat but I will never forget what I usually say anytime I weep... "JEHOVAH I WILL NEVER EVER STOP PRAISING YOU NO MATTER MY CONDITION"

Today I'm not where I used to be even when I'm not yet where I want to be. Today I can conviniently look back and say indeed there is a GOD.

GUY trust me, GOD never forgets anyone. He is working out something for you.

Tokskob2008:
I keep asking him same but it seems his ears are far off from me or he chose not just to listen so I'm going to leave him to do what he likes.

Exactly bro. Leave GOD to do as he pleases with your life. Just trust and obey.

Believe it or not... His plans towards you is amazing but initially everything will not make sense until. It finally starts making sense to you.

I am a living testimony.

Transporter20:
When you consider quantity before quality, this is what you get. Now nobody wants to take the blame.

Innocent lives have been lost for greedy and selfish individuals. May the soul of the departed rest

Check this out, life goes on


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_u45Umc6bs

You can't erect a building of that magnitude with inferior materials.

The guy has constructed many in the past in UK, America, South Africa so there is more to this I believe.

thesicilian:
Ladies should learn to be contented with their bodies.

I know somebody will pull this boring line.

Death happens. Nevertheless no lady should cope with a body she is not cool with.. Just make sure you don't do quacks.

Millions of people have done and living very healthy, hers is just an unfortunate situation.

Aufbauh:
Some people can be hopelessly sensational about anything or anyone they detest.

How do praying position of sitting for someone who's just recovering from a kneel surgery culminate to an outcry?
Even in churches if you're tired you can sit while praying.

That is not the issue abeg.

Sickness happens to anybody but when that sickness reaches a level where you can no longer do vital stuffs then it calls for concerns.

Furthermore of he is just a regular person then no wahala but not for someone eyeing the position of the CEO of a nation like Nigeria in just about a year from now. If he falls sick whilst in Power like Buhari then we might understand but not now that he is not even the president. He is simply unfit and should rest.

Let's be reasonable abeg.

Women always wanting to claim feminism where it suits them and then want a traditional setting in marriage cos it is convinient.

Two faced people.

Ruby458:
My hubby will have no issues whatsoever providing for his family, and I will appreciate him for that. It does not matter what happens in other countries, even if I relocate to another country, or even marry oyibo, he will derive joy in providing for me and our children

if I'm your husband, I will rather invest for you so that you can start making money and start making contributions towards the home-front.

It needs not be 50/50 but you must contribute.


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Ruby458:
You want a marriage where there is a sharing formula, all good and fine if that's what works for you.

I have a different mindset and belief, and it doesn't make me a bad woman. Why do you have issues with it? So a man providing for his family means he will die early?
Most men take pride in providing for their families as much as they can, it is a God-given responsibility, and they do it without complaining.

Ofcourse your choice cos it's not you that do the providing. Let the man choose what he wants.

If he wants you to contribute he will tell you and assist you set up a business or give you the chance to go look for a job.

See times have changed, country is hard so if you are still having this leechy mindset I wish you luck.

What am I even saying... I dare you to travel out of naija and still have this mindset if you will not remain single for life.

It is in naija that this mindset stays.