₦airaland Forum

Nice tributes. Feels so good to see a child show love to their father too. Fathers live matter! As long as you ain’t a deadbeat dad.

The red flags for me may not be for you. Every individual has different tolerance to these things. For me, below are the things I experienced but overlooked :
1. Her mum was an aggressive, possessive, once divorced drunk. She wasn’t any of those while we dated, so I felt I can’t judge her by her mum. I was wrong, she ended up making most of the same mistakes her mum made. If you want a snapshot of how your fiancée will turn out as a wife, check the mum. This is accurate 60-70% of the time. I didn’t believe it until it happened to me.
2. Never rush into marriage just because a woman got pregnant for you. She can keep the baby if you want, take care of the child, but never let it be a yardstick for marriage. Immediately she got pregnant, I rushed into marriage thinking that was the best response, it was not.
3. Watch her relationship with your family carefully & dispassionately. She always avoided my family while we dated, especially my mum & sisters. She ended up making them enemies throughout our marriage.
4. I never saw her being homely and domestic in their house, but she was like a cleaning machine in my house. All na wash! When we got married, I realized I married a lazy and dirty woman who expects a housemaid to do everything.
5. I always caught her with small lies while we dated. Those lies became huge unforgivable lies in marriage.
6. While I did everything to make her comfortable while dating, she NEVER spent a kobo on me. I was ok with that until I had financial challenges in marriage. She never worked & I was giving a pocket money from where she saved money that ran into over 200k. While I was crying on how to raise 50k for feeding the home she hid this savings from me until I found out. NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO IS NOT FINANCIALLY COMMITTED TO YOU.
7. She and her mum were always physically fighting her step siblings. She wanted to bring all that into our marriage. She even begged me to beat her up once saying it strengthens love, can you imagine? Any girl that got close to me then will get into a brawl with her behind my back. After two slaps from her in marriage & many other things she did that you can only see in nollywood movies, I divorced her ass before she made me a murderer.

ifeanyi10059:
Pls what are the signs you saw so that we can learn from your mistakes

I cannot laugh hard enough! Now tye chicken had come home to roost?!
When the South was shouting, the North kept quiet, now they want the pity & support of the South?! Isn’t it the Southern attacks that brought up Igboho that is being hunted by the Northern led security agencies today
Any Southerner who supports them is a bastard! Next time the North won’t be so tribalistic and biased when it comes to speaking out against evil.
To thy tenth o Israel! Every man for himself. Defend your territory, we will defend ours!

Terrorist sheik!

NBS has been coopted to give fake figures for this dubious government. It is a shame. What prices have dropped?!!!

None! They are the source of our current abysmal predicament! HOW CAN THE CREATOR OF A PROBLEM, BE THE SOLUTION

Buharifan:
1. Yemi Osinbajo
2. Bola Tinubu
3. Atiku Abubakar

I hope the pharmacist gave you anti tetanus injection too. Anti-biotics and anti-infammation drugs may not be sufficient o!!!

Who cares?! Isn't it this same North that told the South to shut up when armed Fulanis invaded our communities? They called us alarmists and tribalists wanting to destroy GMB.
The evil that humans do will always come back to haunt them. I hope I will be able to feel pity for this parasitic North one day. In the meantime, it is your problem, you created & fed it, so deal with it!!!

Aje a bugba je o!

This man's generation is so manipulative and selfish. When he omitted his incarceration by Buhari's junta in his rubbish book, I realized people like him NEVER repent of their scheming, manipulative and evil ways.
Lying old man with no shame. But, you have looted before abi?

All because of 2023 abi?! I hope Nigerians will be smarter to know you don’t mean well. You have spent so much in your quest to be president, I can imagine how you will milk the treasury dry if Nigerians ever allow you to be president!

Yes o! You wont believe the level of pretense, deceit and manipulation.

GrammarNazi1:
I trust at first she pretended she had changed?

Delusional drug addict!

F* you too. Woman wrapper, pussy ass low life. Where I live, she struggled to get auditions, idiot! She only came to Nigeria to decieve assholes like you. You are the broke ass that can never smell whorish p*ssies like hers. I don’t pray to get close to b*tches like her cos I know better. I deal with better women.
No wonder the entire Don Jazzy team smashed your idol. Sadly, her lowlife ex realized late too.

PrinceMajestic:
you are a very wicked soul. You cry over her pussy because you're pretty convinced you can never get a chance to sniff on it as much as you wish. F you man

I hope you have learnt your lesson. Everything isn’t a joke.

Marrying the wrong woman & birthing my kids through her. The signs were all there, but I thought people deserve a benefit of the doubt … now I know better.

What beauty?! With your p*ssy all over the internet for your son to see in future how his mum got smashed?
Shameless hag!

You still don't recognize a scam when you see one?!!!!

I pray it is not too late to rescue her! This is so sad. Her people must be traumatized right now.

Wow! Touching! May we not experience this hard type of life.

Women think they can bully ALL men into submission. Some of us still have our brains intact. We know God created us as the head and we are your lords in marriage. Even in heaven there is hierrachy.

When it comes to religion and hypocrisy, most Nigerians are hopelessly daft!

Evil people. They think they can bribe God with religiosity and not godliness. God must be amazed at how much Nigerians know nothing about Him. Keep worshipping your god of men and continue to think God is stupid.

Just like the one that said the West has science and technology while Africa has God. Like God is partial?!
Nigerians should continue following & worshiping these scammers while the Almighty God (whom they failed to truly worship) watches them rot away in corruption & underdevelopment!
Rubbish country mostly filled with rubbish people!

It is so unfair to deny a parent access to their children (unless the parent is a threat to the child).
In this case unstable FFK has not done well at all.
You cannot punish an ex using the child or children both of you made together.
Men and women do this the eachother when their relationship goes bad and it is not only selfish and wicked... it is pure evil!

They didn’t make so much noise whining while placing your sorry ass on their red list, why all these noise? JUST DO IT!

If na joke, stop am o. Osun needs a more serious revolutionary. That state is in dire straits financially!

You need to understand the theory of flight better. There is head wind & tail wind… even cross wind. These can aid, disrupt or even prevent take off.

WiszyFraud:
Did you know??


When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.

Happy weekend

ngwaIgbo223:
Kogi man

How do you slap someone by mistake? You had always wanted him to hit you. And you wished he had hit you after you slapped him. So, what you did was premeditated!
To start with, how do we even help you when you are alreadty lying to us, just as you are lying to yourself? Why lie that the slap you gave him was unintentional?
Anyway, that man is planning to hit you back in a way you will never forget. You better go on a BEGGING spree! In all your story, you never mentioned that you apologized for hitting him?!
I think you may need to involve elders to beg on your behalf, because by the time the looming storm starts, no umbrella will cover you o!

Beautiful aircraft! What Nigeria could not do, Brazil is doing with ease.
Nigeria was better than Brazil in the 60's , but Brazil has continued to develop its self-sufficient competence and capacity. It has a thriving aerospace industry.
Just look at the kind a aircraft Brazil is making. Ordinary good toothpick, the moronic 'giant' of Africa cannot make. They cannot even get their refineries to work?! Useless country populated by mostly useless people.

CHRISTIANITY IS IN TROUBLE!!!

OKRA!!!